Pakati pezvakanyanya kuvhiringidzika uye zvakaoma kutadza kutya izvo vanhu vangaona, pedophobia yakakodzera kutariswa - kutya kwevana vadiki. Pane kusagadzikana kwepfungwa kwakadaro, asi kunogona kuita zvakaipa kumhedzisiro yehupenyu hwevanhu.
Tsanangudzo
Pedophobia chirwere chepfungwa cherudzi rwekushamisa, icho chinonyanya kuoma kutsanangura zvine musoro kubva pane maonero ekuona pfungwa. Kutya munhu ane hutano ari kusangana neicho chinonyanya kudzivirira panjodzi, anotyora. Asi njodzii yaungave iri muvacheche, nekuti kunyange iyo yakasimba kwazvo isina kusimba pane munhu mukuru uye haigoni kuva nengozi?
Nekudaro, mukutya kweCaramazov, iyo inonzi pedophobia, kune yakasimba, uye dzimwe nguva kutya kutya pamberi pevana vadiki haina kuwanikwa kuyaruka. Phobia anotora mafomu akasiyana, dzimwe nguva anoratidzwa mukuramba kubereka vana vake. Iye anotambura varume nevakadzi vese.
Pedephobia inoonekwa seyakagadzirirwa phobia, chinhu chekutya ndechipi chimwe vana. Zvinofungidzirwa kuti Pedalobes anogona kurarama hupenyu hwavo hwese, asingatauri nezvevanachiremba, nekuti dzivisa kusangana nevana hazvina kuoma. Asi Pedofob inenge isingaiti kuti igadzire mhuri yayo yakazadzwa-siyana mazviri ichave nevana . Kunyangwe kana paine mumwe wako, tarisiro yekuzvarwa kwevana inoonekwa nemurume anotyisa, husiku. Naizvozvo, hukama nemudiwa kazhinji hunowanzoitika.
Nehama neshamwari, avo vanokurumidza kujairana nemhuri nevana, pedophibles vanomisa kutaura, vachiedza kusasangana. Mukuwedzera, kusagadzikana kunogona kuve nengozi zvakanyanya kune psyche psyche.
Asi mafomu akadai kana musangano nemwana uchikonzera kutyisa, kutya uye kusakwana maitiro, matanho ari ega. Kazhinji, pedophobia inoenderera zvakanyanya zvakadzikama, uye munhu wacho akakwana kuti arege kusangana nemwana Mushure, kungotendeuka kune rumwe rutivi rwemugwagwa kana kusimudzira nhanho kana vabereki vauya kuzosangana nengoro.
Asi bvisai zvachose kuti kutya kwevarwere havagone - vana vanowanikwa muzvitoro, mumugwagwa, vanoratidzwa neTV, uye nekukonzera kuwedzera uye zvakanyanya kuchinja kwepfungwa neWorld world. Hunhu Shanduko - Inova Inotsamwa, isina kudzivirirwa, inokurumidza-inokurumidza, munhu anofarira kushungurudzika pane chero chiitiko. Vana vanonzvera, uye kunyange kana nepakati pehwindo, pavanotamba muyadhi, vachiseka kana kuchema, iyo pedophobe inonzwa kunetseka, kunyepedzera. Zvinoratidzika kwaari kuti imwe nzvimbo pedyo nengozi. Kubva pakutya kweisina musoro, zvisina musoro, murwere iye asingagoni kutsanangura zvakajeka kusvika pamwe nekuziva, nei asingade uye kudzivirira vana, uye nokudaro anovharwa.
Vamwe, zvisinei, vanowana tsananguro yekuti ivo pachavo vanodzivirira pamusoro pekuda kutaurira chokwadi - vanotanga kuramba tsika dzemuwanano, ivo mhuri, kuti vapise pazvinhu zvese kana "vana". Kune zvakawanda zvemagariro emagariro aunogona 'kuvhiringidza "mamiriro echokwadi, zivai zvinonyadzisa chaizvo.
Zvinokonzeresa kuitika
Kazhinji, prerequisites yePedophobia anoonekwa muhudiki. Saka, mwana mukuru anogona kunyanyisa kurwadza kuberekwa kwemunun'una kana hanzvadzi. Godo kuvabereki vanongozvikoshesa mufananidzo wemwana nengozi, nekuti kurasikirwa nerudo rwevabereki kumwana ndiro chaicho chine njodzi chaiyo. Kutya kwevana vadiki kunogona kuoneka mushure mechiitiko - mwana akakuvara nemukana kana nemwoyo maune mwana mudiki, izvo zvakarangwa zvakanyanya.
Godo revana pane imwe nguva yehama kana hanzvadzi dzinowanzopfuura makore apfuura apo tsananguro inonzwisisika yezvose zvinoitika. Asi iwo mufananidzo wakasimba wemwana ane chekuita nekunzwa kwekutyisidzira kunogona kuchengetedzwa hupenyu. Uye munhu mukuru ane pedophobia chaicho pachayo pachayo haarangariri izvo zviitiko zvakashanda sehwaro hwekutya kwake.
Dzimwe nguva vangangove vedophiles vanova pedophies. Kana munhu mukuru achiziva nezvekukwezva kwake kwevana, anogona kudzivirira nemaune kutaurirana nevana, uye zvishoma nezvishoma kudzivisa kuchajairana, kuchinjika nekutya.
Chikonzero chekutya chinogona kuitirwa mumubereki kusvika pakurerwa. Kune mhuri umo kuberekwa kwevana kunoiswa munenge kwese kwakawanda, munhamba. Uye vana kubva pamakore madiki vanogadza kuti ivo pachavo vanofanira kuva vabereki kana nguva yasvika. Zvinoitika kana vaviri vabereki vachinamata zvakanyanya. Ivo havafarire, uye nezve chii, kazhinji, vana vanorota, pamwe vanobhururuka vachirota zvakanyanya kurota kwehupenyu hwese hwekushambidza kutsvedza? Uye kupokana kwemukati uko mwana akadaro anokura, kungave kuve kwehwaro hwekutya.
Vakuru vedophobia vanogona kumuka kubva kumashure kwezviitiko zvinosiririsa - rova mwana nemota, mukadzi akarasikirwa nemwana panguva yekuzvara mwana. Zvinokosha kuziva kuti nhasi rakakurumbira rakakurumbira (kubatana) kusununguka kunogona kuita kuti ubirirwe yePedophobia muvarume.
Dzinenge dzinogara dzinogara dzinotadzisa zvisizvo. Asi hazvishamise zvachose, iyo misodzi haina kufanana nevana chete. Ivo havadi vanhu vese seyakazara.
Zviratidzo
Vakadzi nevarume vane zviratidzo zvakasiyana zvePedophobia. Mukadzi anotambura nekutya pamberi pevana anotya nenhau kuti ine nhumbu, uye kunyange pakukurukura mukana wakadaro nemudiwa. Murume anogona kuuya kuzotyisa kwenhau kuti musikana wake akava nepamuviri. Iye anoomerera pakubvisa nhumbu, uye aine mukana wakawanda, achaedza kupukunyuka nekuvanda kubva kumukadzi kana akaramba kupanganisa nhumbu.
Kubva pane kumwe kushushikana kwe phobic, iyo pedophobia yakasiyana kwazvo - haina kurwiswa. Asi izvi hazvisi nyore kumurwere, senge alarm yakasimba haangasii, inoderedzwa nguva nenguva uye ichiwedzera. Saka, vese varume, uye vakadzi vanoshingairira, uye dzimwe nguva uye vanodzivirira nemaune kusangana nevana.
Kana mumwe wako akaenderera mberi achiramba achienderera, uye achiri kufuratira vana kuti vatange vana, murwere anoregedza kudzora vana, zvichidzikisira, pakupedzisira mwana anogona kunge asingambove muchivande - Iyo pedophobe haifanirwe kusiiwa kwaari. Uye zvakanaka, kana paine ambuya, sekuru, avo vanopihwa nemwana akadaro kurerutsa kusvika pazera renguva pfupi. Kana pasina hama dzakadai, mhedzisiro yemwana inogona kunge isingaenzaniswi.
Nyanzvi dzinowanzo kutenda kuti pathology inongoonekwa seyakawanzoonekwa, nekuti zviri pamutemo kuti ibatsirwe yePodophes haawanzo. Muchokwadi, mumhuri yega yega yechitatu, uko vana vanokura nasekuru nevabereki vapenyu, pane mukana wekuti mumwe wevabereki vePeophobe, uye wechipiri - zvinongoenderana nazvo.
Maitiro Ekubvisa Kutya?
Nehurombo, hazvigoneke kuzviita kuzviita iwe pachako. Hatizobatsire mafoni kuti titore iwe paruoko, uye zvakanyanya saka usayedze kuitirwa nenzira kubva kune yakatarisana - kubereka vana vanonzi kutya kwavo. Hapana chakanaka hachizosvika pachiri.
Chekutanga pane zvese, iwe haufanirwe kutya kuziva kuvapo kwechinetso chakadaro. Naizvozvo, wopindura mibvunzo yako, iwe une mafaro here, bvumidza mifananidzo yekirapiti yepink kana kuti hauna kufadza kuti uzvidzikise? Iwe unoda here vana? Iwe unokonzera kutsamwa nekutsamwa kuvana vavavakidzani, vaunoshanda navo vaiziva?
Uye hazvina kukosha kuti chii chaizvo chauchazopindura, zvakakosha kuti unzwe sei panguva imwe chete. Kusagadzikana paunofunga nezve dingindira revana, kunetseka uye kusagadzikana - iyo yekutanga "inodaidza", iyo inofanira kukuita kuti urege kugashira psychotherapist.
Ndihwo hunyanzvi hunogona, hunoziva uye hunofanira kubatsira. Chekutanga pane zvese, zvichabatsira kutsvaga izvo zvinokonzeresa kutya, kunyangwe kana vakabva vechidiki vekutanga, zviitiko zvaro zvakatodzima zvishoma kubva mundangariro. Nzira yekuziva-tsika yekuziva inobatsira kuchinja iyo yekuisa iyo fananidzo yevana nengozi, pane zvakanaka, uye munhu wacho anotanga kuvanza vana zvakanyanya neimwe nzira. Hypnotherapy uye nlp inogona kushandiswa kurapwa.
Iko kudikanwa kwemishonga kunoonekwa chete mumhando dzakakura, uye takaona kuti havana kuroora uye pane kusarudzika. Mune ino kesi, tranquilizer, antidepressants, asi mumatongerwo makuru, tariro huru inopihwa kune vepfungwa makirasi ekuderedza iyo alarm.
Panguva imwe chete nekosi yekurapa, inokurudzirwa kuti iite zvekufema gymnastics, fungisisa. Sezvo zvigadziko zvinoshanduka nemvumo yokurapa, iwe unofanirwa kutanga kutaura zvishoma nezvishoma nevana - nevana veshamwari dzavo, hama dzavo, shamwari, tauriranai kuti vabvunze uye vabvunze mibvunzo. Vanaamai vechidiki nanababa vachafara kugoverana kwavo ruzivo uye kuuraya kuti vana mufaro, kunyangwe zvakaoma.
