Ntawm cov feem ntau tsis meej pem thiab intricate tsawg ntshai hais tias cov neeg yuav muaj kev, pedophobia tsim nyog cais xim - ntshai ntawm cov me nyuam me. Muaj xws li ib tug kev puas hlwb tsis meej ncaw, tab sis nws yuav muaj ib tug es puas rau tib neeg lub neej zoo.
Kev piav txog
Pedophobia yog ib tug puas siab puas ntsws tsis meej ntawm ib tug alarming yam, uas yog heev yooj yim mus tubntxhais piav los ntawm tus taw tes ntawm view ntawm logic. Ntshai noj qab nyob zoo tus neeg yog muaj raws li ib tug tiv thaiv mechanism ntawm ib tug txaus ntshai, nws yeej hawv ua phem. Tab sis dab tsi txaus ntshai yuav ua tau nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam, vim hais tias txawm tus muaj zog tshaj ntawm lawv yog tsis muaj zog tshaj ib tug neeg laus thiab tsis tau yuav txaus ntshai?
Txawm li cas los, nyob rau hauv txoj kev ntshai ntawm carapazov, uas yog hu ua ib tug pedophobia, muaj ib tug muaj zog, thiab tej zaum kuj ntshai ntshai ntawm qhov pom ntawm cov me nyuam yaus tsis tiav tiav hluas. Phobia yuav siv sij hawm ntau yam ntaub ntawv, tej zaum qhia nyob rau hauv tsis kam mus yug me nyuam rau nws tus kheej offspring. Nws suffers txiv neej thiab cov poj niam.
Pedophobia yog suav tias yog ib tug raug rho tawm phobia, tus kwv uas ntshai uas yog ib tug me nyuam. Nws yog ntseeg hais tias pedalophobes yuav nyob tag nrho lawv lub neej, tsis xa mus rau cov kws kho mob, vim hais tias tsis txhob tiv tauj nrog cov me nyuam tsis yog li ntawd tsis yooj yim. Tiamsis Pedofob yog yuav luag tsis yooj yim sua kom tsim nws tus kheej tag nrho-fledged tsev neeg nyob rau hauv uas yuav muaj cov me nyuam Cov. Txawm yog hais tias muaj yog ib tug khub, lub zeem muag ntawm cov me nyuam yug ntawm cov me nyuam yog pom los ntawm tus txiv neej ntawm txaus ntshai, nightmarish. Yog li ntawd, cov kev sib raug zoo nrog cov tus khub yog feem ntau khov lawm.
Nrog cov txheeb ze thiab cov phooj ywg, leej twg ua ntej los yog tom qab ua me ntsis txog cov tsev neeg thiab cov me nyuam, pedophobes ntseeg nkaws tsis txhob sib txuas lus, ua tsis tau sib ntsib. Nyob rau hauv loj heev, lub teeb meem yuav ua tau heev txaus ntshai rau lub psyche.
Tab sis xws li ntaub ntawv thaum lub rooj sib tham nrog tus me nyuam ua rau ntshai heev, ntshai thiab tsis txaus tus cwj pwm, yog cais tus neeg mob. Ntau zaus, lub pedophobia hais ntau calmly, thiab tus neeg uas yog heev txaus tsis txhob rooj sib tham nrog tus me nyuam Tom qab, cia li tig rau sab tod los ntawm txoj kev los yog leeb ib kauj ruam thaum cov niam txiv tuaj mus ntsib nrog ib tug carriage.
Tab sis tshem tawm tsis tus kwv uas ntshai ntawm lub neej cov neeg mob yuav tsis - cov me nyuam yog pom nyob rau hauv khw muag khoom, nyob rau hauv txoj kev, nyob rau hauv pharmacies, lawv muaj nyob rau ntawm TV, thiab yog li ntawd ntxhov siab vim maj nce, ua ntau thiab ntau loj hloov nyob rau hauv lub psyche thiab tib neeg worldview. Ximxoo hloov - nws yuav chim siab, unrestrained, ceev-tempered, tus neeg yog inclined mus rau kev nyuaj siab rau tej ntees. Cov me nyuam annoy, thiab txawm hais tias los ntawm lub qhov rais hnov, raws li lawv ua si nyob rau hauv lub vaj, luag los yog quaj, lub pedophobe pom tau tias kev txhawj xeeb, ceev faj. Nws nkawd rau nws hais tias qhov chaw nyob ze ntawm lub txaus ntshai. Txij li thaum lub ntshai irrational, illogical, tus neeg mob nws tus kheej tsis muaj peev xwm kom meej meej piav qhia kom kaw thiab paub, yog vim li cas nws tsis zoo li thiab tsis txhob cov me nyuam, thiab yog li ntawd yuav raug kaw.
Ib txhia, txawm li cas los, nrhiav ib tug piav qhia hais tias lawv lawv tus kheej tiv thaiv qhov yuav tsum tau qhia qhov tseeb - lawv pib tsis muab lub qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib yuav, cov tsev neeg, mus hais lus cam uas lawv hlawv nyob rau hauv txhua yam los yog cia li "Childfries". Muaj yog ib tug ntau ntawm kev piav qhia hais tias koj muaj peev xwm "paub" tseeb tshwm sim, paub nyob rau hauv uas yog heev txaj muag.
Ua rau muaj tshwm sim
Feem ntau, cov mus nkag tau cov pedophobia tshwm sim nyob rau hauv thaum yau. Yog li ntawd, cov txwj laus tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm heev painfully perceive yug ib tug kwv yau los yog tus muam. Xam khib rau cov niam txiv yeej koom cov duab ntawm ib tug me nyuam nrog cov kev phom sij, vim hais tias cov tsis tau niam txiv txoj kev hlub rau ib tug me nyuam yog tus tiag tiag tiag tiag txaus ntshai. Tus ntshai ntawm me nyuam me me tej zaum yuav tshwm sim tom qab qhov teeb meem - tus me nyuam raug mob los ntawm lub caij los yog txhob txwm tshaj tawm tus yau tus me nyuam, rau cov uas nws twb xav txim.
Cov me nyuam lub siab khib rau lub sij hawm ntawm tus kwv tij los yog viv ncaus feem ntau kis tau ntau lub xyoo thaum ib tug muaj kuab piav qhia txog txhua yam uas tshwm sim nkaus li. Tab sis tus tsim muaj zog cov duab ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv kev twb kev txuas nrog cov kev xav ntawm cov kev hem thawj yuav tsum fwm rau lub neej. Thiab ib tug neeg laus nrog ib tug pedophobia ua tau nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv feem ntau tus neeg mob tsis nco qab uas cov txheej xwm tau txais kev pab raws li lub hauv paus rau nws ntshai.
Tej zaum tej zaum pedophiles ua pedophies. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg laus paub txog nws lub cev attraction rau cov me nyuam, nws yuav txhob txwm tsis txhob sib txuas lus nrog cov me nyuam, thiab maj mam tsis txhob yuav paub, transforming nyob rau hauv kev ntshai.
Qhov ua rau ntawm kev ntshai yuav tsum tau muaj nyob rau hauv niam txiv mus kom ze rau upbringing. Muaj cov tsev neeg nyob rau hauv uas cov me nyuam yug ntawm cov me nyuam yog tsa nyob rau hauv yuav luag tag nrho, nyob rau hauv lub cult. Thiab cov me nyuam los ntawm cov me me xyoos teem hais tias lawv lawv tus kheej yuav tsum ua niam ua txiv thaum lub sij hawm los. Nws tshwm sim yog tias leej niam leej txiv yog heev kev cai dab qhuas. Lawv tsis xav, thiab hais txog dab tsi, nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, cov me nyuam ua npau suav, tej zaum ya mus rau hauv qhov chaw rau lawv ib tug ntau nqi npau suav dua lub zeem muag ntawm tag nrho lub neej los ntxuav lub slider? Thiab lub internal teeb meem nyob rau hauv uas xws li ib tug me nyuam loj hlob, tej zaum nws yuav zoo yuav lub hauv paus ntawm kev ntshai.
Adult pedophobia zaum yuav tshwm sim tiv thaiv lub keeb kwm ntawm tragic cov txheej xwm - ntaus tus me nyuam los ntawm lub tsheb, tus poj niam poob ib tug me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm yog tau me nyuam. Nws yog noteworthy tias niaj hnub no tus nrov ob leeg (kev sib koom tes) ua hauj lwm rau yuav ua rau txoj kev loj hlob ntawm pedophobia nyob rau hauv cov txiv neej.
Yuav luag ib txwm pedophobes yog misanthrops. Tab sis nws yog kiag li tsis ceeb, lub misanthropes yog tsis tsuas zoo li cov me nyuam. Lawv tsis nyiam tag nrho cov tib neeg raws li ib tug tag nrho.
Tsos mob
Cov poj niam thiab cov txiv neej muaj ntau cov tsos mob ntawm pedophobia. Ib tug poj niam uas suffers los ntawm pathological kev ntshai nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm cov me nyuam yog ntshai ntawm cov xov xwm hais tias nws yog cev xeeb tub, thiab txawm tias thaum tham txog tej lub sij hawm nrog ib tug khub. Ib tug txiv neej yuav tuaj mus rau qhov ntshai heev ntawm cov xov xwm hais tias nws tus hluas nkauj tau xeeb tub. Nws yuav hais rau rho menyuam, thiab nrog ib tug ntau ntawm qhov muaj tseeb, yuav ua tiag khiav thiab nkaum deb ntawm ib tug poj niam yog hais tias nws tsis kam mus interrupt cev xeeb tub.
Los ntawm lwm yam phobic mob, lub pedophobia yog sib txawv heev - nws tsis muaj ntshai sib cem. Tab sis qhov no yog tsis yooj yim rau tus neeg mob, raws li ib tug muaj zog lub tswb yuav luag tsis tawm nws, nws yog txo los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm thiab nce. Yog li ntawd, txiv neej, thiab poj niam rau siab ntso, thiab tej zaum thiab txhob txwm tshaj tawm tsis txhob tiv tauj nrog cov me nyuam.
Yog hais tias tus khub hloov tawm mus rau yuav pheej, thiab tseem persuades lub pedophoba yuav pib cov me nyuam, qhov kawg yuav ua tau tu siab heev - tus neeg mob tsis kam ua upbringing, yuav tsis calmly hloov cov me nyuam quaj, hysterics, thaum kawg tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav tsis txawm yuav nyob rau lub vaj tse - lub pedophobe yuav tsum tsis txhob tso tseg ntawm nws. Thiab zoo, yog hais tias muaj yog ib tug niam pog, ib tug yawm txiv, uas yog muab los ntawm xws li ib tug me nyuam rau upbringing mus txog rau lub hnub nyoog ntawm tsawg kawg. Yog hais tias muaj yog tsis muaj xws cov txheeb ze, txoj hmoo ntawm tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav unenviable.
Kws txawj yuav ntseeg tau hais tias pathology yog tsuas xam tau tias yog tsis tshua muaj, vim hais tias officially rau kev pab los ntawm pedophobes tsis tshua muaj. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, nyob rau hauv txhua txhua peb tsev neeg, qhov chaw uas cov me nyuam loj hlob nrog grandmothers nrog nyob cov niam cov txiv, muaj ib tug tau hais tias ib tug ntawm cov Pedophobe niam thiab txiv, thiab lub thib ob - cia li nyob ntawm nws.
Yuav ua li cas kom tshem tau ntawm kev ntshai?
Tu siab, nws yog suab tsis yooj yim sua kom ua li nws tus kheej. Peb yuav tsis pab hu xov tooj rau noj rau koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv tes, thiab txawm ntau li ntawd tsis txhob sim yuav tsum tau kho los ntawm txoj kev los ntawm cov lus rov - mus muab yug rau cov me nyuam hu ua lawv ntshai. Tsis muaj dab tsi zoo yuav tsis yog los ntawm nws.
Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai mus paub txog lub xub ntiag ntawm xws li ib tug teeb meem. Yog li ntawd, honestly teb koj cov lus nug, ua koj nyiam, pom zoo cov duab liab carappow los yog koj yog tsis kaj siab mus xav txog lawv? Koj puas xav kom cov me nyuam? Koj ua npau taws thiab voos rau cov me nyuam ntawm cov neeg nyob ze, lug txhawb cov miv paub?
Thiab nws tsis yog li ntawd ib qho tseem ceeb dab tsi raws nraim koj yuav teb tias, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb yuav ua li cas koj yuav xav tias nyob rau tib lub sij hawm. Tsis xis nyob thaum koj muaj kev cuam tshuam rau hauv lub ntsiab ntawm cov me nyuam, ntxhov siab vim thiab kev ntxhov siab vim - tus thawj "hu", uas yuav tsum ua rau koj pov tseg qhov cuav txaj muag thiab mus rau lub txais tos rau lub psychotherapist.
Nws yog tus kws tshaj lij uas tuaj yeem, paub thiab yuav tsum tau pab. Ua ntej tshaj plaws, nws yuav pab nrhiav kom pom cov laj thawj ntawm kev ntshai, txawm hais tias lawv yog los ntawm thaum yau, uas nws cov xwm txheej twb tau ua tiav los ntawm kev nco. Txoj kev ntawm kev coj ua kev puas siab zoo-yuav pab hloov cov kev txhim kho uas muaj kev phom sij, thiab tus neeg yuav pib paub cov menyuam yaus tsis muaj lwm tus. Hypnotherapy thiab NLP tuaj yeem siv rau kev kho mob.
Qhov kev xav tau ntawm cov tshuaj tshwm tsuas yog nyob rau hauv cov ntawv loj, thiab peb pom tias lawv yog ib leeg thiab es yog qhov kev zam. Hauv qhov no, cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, tshuaj tiv thaiv kev tawm tsam, tab sis thaum muaj mob loj, kev cia siab yog muab rau cov chav kawm hlwb kom txo lub tswb.
Ib txhij nrog txoj kev kho mob, nws raug pom zoo kom koom nrog ua pa ua pa, xav tau. Raws li kev hloov pauv pauv nrog kev tso cai ntawm tus kws kho mob, koj yuav tsum tau pib ua lawv cov menyuam, cov txheeb ze, sib tham nrog lawv niam lawv txiv, tsis tau hais kom nug thiab nug cov lus. Cov niam txiv hluas yuav zoo siab qhia lawv kev paub thiab tua cov menyuam yaus yog kev zoo siab, txawm tias qhov nyuaj heev.
