Zvakanaka kutaura nemunhu akangwara. Mazuva ano, kutaurirana kwekugara kunova pachena, uye vanhu vanokoshesa vanyori vakanaka. Kunyangwe hurukuro yekushayikwa ichave inonakidza kana iwe uchiziva maitiro ekuzvibata nenzira kwayo, maitiro ekutumira kurudyi.
Kubudirira kwako mukukurukurirana zvakananga kunoenderana netsika yekutaurirana. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti ndeapi maitiro achave akakodzera izvozvi, uye chii chisingagamuchiriki. Mitemo yekutanga yekuvaka hurukuro haina kuoma. Kuti uwedzere kushanda zvakanaka mukukurukurirana, shandisa iyi memo.
Toni hurukuro
Munguva yekukurukurirana, inogara yakakodzera kutarisa kwezwi rayo, kuratidzika uye toni. Slang, nyanzvi yejargonisms, kashoma kushandisa mazwi kwete nguva dzose kwete kwese kwakakodzera. Mutsara mumwe chete ungangodaro unonzwika wakasiyana zvachose zvichienderana nekuti iyo toni yaakataura nayo. Kunyangwe kana iwe wakatsamwa, haufanire kuzviratidza kutenderedza . Dzakadzikama, kuremekedza, chivimbo, mamiriro ezvinhu ndeaya akanyanya kuwanda mukuitisa dialogue inovaka.
Nezviparadzi, zvakakodzera kuti utaure nezvezvakavimbika
Kukurukurirana mukuvimba nekuvimbika kunofanira kuenderera zvishoma uye zviri nani kana yekutanga iyo yekutanga (yakakosha, chimiro) Interlocutor.
Usakanganwa nezvekunyemwerera. Zvakawanda zvinofadza kutarisa kumeso kwekunyemwerera kupfuura "beku", uye saizvozvo iwe uchaita subconsciously kushamwaridzana neVisavi nemanzwiro akanaka.
Musoro wekukurukurirana
Kukurukurirana kunozorora kana misoro yekukurukurirana ichisarudzwa pamwe chete uye bhizinesi, kana imwe nyaya ichitarisirwa. Kukurukurirana kwebhizinesi kunoda kudzidziswa uye kurongeka, iwe unofanirwa kuve unokwanisa kuita nyaya. Kana bhizinesi rekukurukurirana racho harifanire kukanganiswa nekukurukurwa kwezvimwe matambudziko.
Kukurukurirana kwakasununguka kunoda kuti vateresi veunyanzvi hwakawanda hwekutaura kwezvirevo zvekutaura. Mutemo mukuru haufanire kuudza kupindirana izvo ivo pachavo havadi kunzwa.
Kune mimwe mitemo:
- Usataure nezvezvinhu izvo, imwe nzira kana imwe, inogona kukuvadza iyo inopindirana - hapana munhu anofarira kukurukura nyaya dzisingafadzi;
- Mubvunzo wauri kukurukura unofanirwa kuve unonakidza kune mumwe wako mukutaura, chimwe chinhu chakasarudzika, chesainzi hachisi chisarudzo chakanakisa;
- Kuzvininipisa kwemunhu kunoshatirisa: Usazvirumbidza nekukwidziridza wako wega, hazvibviri kuti zvinogona kufarira iyo Interlocutor - zviito zvake zvinotaura nezvevanhu zvakanyanya kupfuura mazwi;
- Kukurukurirana kweimwe yechitatu bato risipo panguva yekukurukurirana hakusati kwakakodzera: kuita uye kuyamwa - nekuda kwekutaura uku kwenyika, iyi mimhanzi;
- Iro joke rakanaka kushongedzwa kwekutaura, asi chete kana zvakakodzera.
- Kana gakava rikamuka, haufanirwe kuishandura kuita svar, zviri nyore kuita izvo zvaungaite kuti uremekedze iyo interlocutor: Usanyanye kuremerwa, kwete "enda kune hunhu", usaite Kunakidzwa kweatorwa maonero, uye zvakare usamanikidza yako;
- Nhanho yekupedzwa kwehurukuro yakakosha: Kukurukurirana hakuna kudiwa kuti uwedzere kuratidzira - iwe unogona kukanda zvinokatyamadza, zvakanyanya kushanda zvakanaka pamusoro pako, zvine hungwaru kutaura zvakanaka.
Kuteerera Unyanzvi
Ndihwo hunyanzvi uhu ndiyo nzira yezanga yevanhu. Vanhu vanofarira kutaura nezvavo, uye iwe, kuteerera, kunogona kuita kuti kurongeka kwekupindirana. Teerera nokungwarira uye nod. Ichi chiitiko chisingambobvumire mvumo, asi zvakare inoratidza kufarira kwako.
Ratidza kufarira Chete kufarira uku kunofanirwa kuve kwechokwadi. "Kusanganisira" mukukurukurirana uye kusavapo kwenhema zvichakuita kuti ugare uchigamuchirwa muenzi wokugamuchira. Kubvumirwa kwakanakisa kuchengetedza kutaura - kujekesa mibvunzo. Kuumbwa kwavo kungave kwakafanana neizvi: "Unoreva here kuti ...?", "Iwe unoda kuti ...?"
Nezve izvo zvekukanganisa zvakashata, munhu wese anoziva kubva paudiki, asi mukupisa kwemakakatanwa avanenge vanowanzo kanganwa nezvazvo. Usakanganise, ipa munhu kuratidza nharo dzako kusvika kumagumo, usagogodza pasi kubva mukufunga. Kupfuura zvese, iwe unogona kuita mhedziso dzakakodzera, mushure mekuteerera.
Nyaradzo Dzimba
Munguva yekukurukurirana, iwe unofanirwa kuve wakasununguka. Zvese zviri zviviri zvepfungwa uye hwemuviri mazinga. Zvikasadaro, iwe uchave wakanyanya kuoma kunzwa kufarira kwemukati, uko kunoita kuti iwe unakidze partercutor. Hapana chinofanira kukuvhiringidza.
Kuve wakasununguka iwe pachako, unogona kuita nyore nyore kugadzirisa. Iyi nlp yekugamuchira, iyo yakakosha iyo ndeyekuti iwe utore iwo mamiriro akafanana, pamwe nemubvunzo, shandisa zviga zvakafanana.
Kuitisa kugamuchira uku kunofanirwa kusanzwisisika, neimwe nzira kugadzirisa kunogona kutorwa sekasiridzo uye hakuzoende kundofadza.
Nezve nzira yekutungamira hurukuro, ona iyo inotevera vhidhiyo.