Isithombe somuntu wesimanje ophumelele sifaka imininingwane eminingi. Enye yazo amandla okuhlala emphakathini futhi ilandele imithetho yokuziphatha etafuleni. Ngakho-ke uyaziveza njengento ekhulisiwe futhi ekhaliphile.
Yini?
Umlando wezimilo mude kakhulu. Abanye babantu bamhumeni babazi ukuthi bangaziphatha kanjani kahle futhi bazama ukufundisa abanye kulokhu. Imikhuba ye-Eriexette yasungulwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi isikhathi ngasinye sathuthukiswa. Manje le sayensi isifundisa ukuziphatha okufanele etafuleni.
Imininingwane emincane ngokushesha ukushesha futhi ikwazi ukwehla umbono wokuqala womuntu, ngakho-ke kuzoba wusizo ukuvuselela imithetho esevele eyaziwayo ye-Etiquette noma ifunde okusha. Ochwepheshe batusa ukufundisa izingane ngamakhono okuphatha amakhono okuphatha futhi zisebenzela itafula eminyakeni yokuqala, ikakhulukazi njengoba abakhiqizi besimanje banikeza ukukhethwa okuningi okuphephile, okukhanyayo futhi okuhle. Kukholakala ukuthi leli khono kufanele lisebenze hhayi ekuhambeleni noma ekudlela, kodwa nasekhaya.
Izimilo kufanele zibe khona ekudleni ngakunye. Ngakho-ke ukugaya kangcono izisekelo zakhe, imigomo nemiyalelo.
Cabanga ngemithetho eyisisekelo engokwencwadi yokusebenza kwetafula kanye nokuziphatha kwamasiko etafuleni.
Ungaziphatha kanjani etafuleni?
Isidlo singenye yalezo zinqubo eziyisisekelo ezihambisana nani kubantu kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo. Ngesikhathi sasemini sebhizinisi, ozakwethu beza esivumelwaneni futhi basayine izinkontileka ezibalulekile. Azikho izindleko zemicimbi yemikhosi ngaphandle kwe-buffet noma idili elikhulu. Etafuleni umndeni uzizwa ubumbano oluqine kakhulu Njengoba ipuleti lokudla lingaxoxwa ngazo zonke izinkinga futhi zijabule empumelelweni yemizi. Ukudla okuhlangene noma ukudla kwasemini kuletha abantu kubantu futhi kuthuthukise ikhwalithi yokuxhumana.
Kuhle kakhulu ukubhekana nomuntu ohambisana nemithetho yokuziphatha okuhle, akubangeli ukuphazamiseka kwabanye, kudla buthule nangobuhle. Akukephuzi kakhulu ukulungisa amaphutha ekuziphatheni kwakho futhi ube ngumuntu amasiko amaningi.
Imithetho Yokuziphatha
Cabanga ngemininingwane eminingi yokuziphatha kwamasiko ngesikhathi sokudla.
Okokuqala, kufanele unake iMana ukuze uhlale esihlalweni. Ukuma kwale ndoda akusho nje kuphela ngekhono lokuzigcina emphakathini, kodwa futhi nangemikhuba nangomlingiswa. Indoda Eqinisekile ihlala ihlala ngomhlane oqondile futhi ihlala iningi lendawo yokuhlala I-pose yakhe iphumule futhi ivuseleleke. Yisikhundla somzimba esifanele kakhulu etafuleni.
Lapho ibhulashi litholakala etafuleni, lifakwa emaphethelweni etafula, futhi ama-elbows acindezelwe kancane emzimbeni. Ukuthunyelwa okuncane kuyavunyelwa ukuze kube lula ukudla.
Kukhona iqhinga elincane, ukuthi ungafunda kanjani ukufika kwesokudla etafuleni. Kulokhu, ongoti abakhulu be-Etiquette batusa ukucindezela umzimba ngelbows izincwadi ezimbili ezincane. Lo msebenzi olula uzosiza ukukhumbula indawo efanele yomzimba nezandla ngesikhathi sokudla.
Lapho uthola ukudla, kuyadingeka ukuthi uziphathe buthule nangobuhle. I-cutlery akufanele isuswe ebusweni. Umuntu kufanele adle ngokuthula futhi kancane, ahlafuna ngokuphelele zonke iziqephu zokudla ngomlomo ovaliwe. Kwenqatshelwe ukuhlanganisa, ukubulawa, ukujaha noma ukushicilela eminye imisindo. Futhi ngokuqinisekile akufanele kwamukelwe ngomlomo ogcwele, njengoba kubukeka kubi kakhulu.
Uma isidlo sishisa kakhulu, kufanelekile ukulinda kuze kupholile. Awudingi ukushisa kakhulu esitsheni noma ngesipuni, ngaphandle kwalokho kungakhombisa ukungabonakali komuntu. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kumantombazane nezingane zesikole.
Kunemithetho eminingana elula, engafunda ukuziphatha kahle ngesikhathi sokudla:
- Ibanga elisuka emzimbeni liye emaphethelweni etafula kufanele kube njalo ukuthi ukuhlala kungazizwa kuphazamiseka.
- Etafuleni ngeke abeke ama-elbows, kanye nezinto zomuntu siqu, njenge-wallet, okhiye noma isikhwama sezimonyo. Lokhu kubhekwa njengezwi elibi.
- Ungeluleki ukudla kulo lonke itafula. Vele ubuze umuntu oseduze, ngikunikeze ipuleti oyifunayo noma utshani olithandayo, ngemuva kwalokho ngiyabonga ngenhlonipho ngosizo oluhunyushwe.
- Ukuze ugcine izingubo ngefomu elihlanzekile, ungasebenzisa i-napkin ekhethekile yendwangu, efakwa emadolweni akho ngaphambi kokuqala kokudla. Izingane ezincane zivunyelwe ukugcwalisa i-napkin ngekhola.
- Imikhiqizo enezitsha ezijwayelekile kufanele ithathwe ihloselwe lokhu. Okuhlukile ushukela kuphela, amakhukhi nezithelo.
Imvamisa isidlo sasemini noma isidlo sakusihlwa senzeka endaweni yokudlela. Ngecala elinjalo, kunezincomo ezikhethekile ze-Etiquette:
- Umuntu uphuthelwa ngumngane kuqala. Kufanele avule umnyango, athathe izingubo eziphezulu, ahambisa uSihlalo. Uma inkampani iqukethe bobabili abesifazane nabesilisa, umhlangano uthatha imvelo ehlelekile.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi abantu abaningana bazohlala belinde imizuzu engaphezu kwe-15. Okulandelayo, isidlo siqala noma ngabe, ngabe labo abagqugquzelwa noma cha. Yena ngokwakhe obabambezele uxolisa kubo bonke ababambiqhaza besidlo sakusihlwa futhi ujoyina ukudla. Ngasikhathi sinye, akudingekile ukuheha ukunakwa kwabo bonke abahleli etafuleni bese bezama ukuchaza isizathu sokufika sekwedlule isikhathi.
- Ngokuzibandakanya kwezidlo zabantu basemadobesile nabesifazane, ukukhetha kwemenyu kanye nokuhleleka kwezitsha kuvame ukuwela emahlombe esitezi esinamandla. Anganikeza umlingani wayo izitsha ezithile futhi azihlelele uma ethola imvume.
- Kubhekwa njengethoni enhle okufanele iqale kuphela lapho izitsha zilethwa kubo bonke abakhona etafuleni. Ngasikhathi sinye, ukulinda kunganikeza okusele ukuqala isidlo ngisho nalapho izitsha zazo zingakakulungeli.
- Ungabukeki ngokungcola futhi ujabule izitsha, ubheke ngokucophelela isithako ngasinye bese ubeka amazwana ekwakhekeni. Kubukeka kuhlanzekile.
- Amathambo kufanele ahlanzeke kahle kwipulaki noma isipuni bese ubeka emaphethelweni amapuleti.
Akekho ovikelwe umshuwalense ezimweni ezingezinhle. Isibonelo, uma amadivaysi ewela phansi, ungacela isikhonzi ukuletha isethi ehlanzekile. Uma into ethile iphahlazeka ngephutha, akufanele ukhuphuke. Imvamisa ezimweni ezinjalo izindleko zempahla eyonakele zengezwa ku-akhawunti.
I-Etiquette yenqabela izinto ezilandelayo endaweni yokudlela:
- Yenza izinqubo zokuhlanzeka zihleli etafuleni. Ukuhlanganisa izinwele zakho, qondisa ukwakheka, Sula ubuso bakho noma intamo ngama-napkins egumbini lokugqoka. Ayemukelwa futhi ukushiya iminonjana yezimonyo ezitsheni. Kungcono ngaphambi kokuqala kokudla ukungena ezindebeni nge-napkin ukugwema ukubonakala kwezindebe ezingilazini.
- Unesifiso esinomsindo esitsheni noma esiphuzweni. Kunconywa ukulinda ukupholisa, bese selivele liqale ukudla.
- Ukubiza kakhulu abasebenzi benkonzo, kungqongqoza ngengilazi noma ngokuchofoza iminwe yakho. Kubukeka kungaziwa kakhulu.
- Thatha ukudla ngepuleti elijwayelekile elinamadivayisi okudlela. Kulokhu kusebenza okujwayelekile kokusebenzela imfoloko kanye nezinkezo.
Ukufakwa ekupakisheni kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukwazi konke okuyisisekelo kwayo okuyisisekelo, ungenza umbono omuhle kwabanye.
Imithetho yokuziphatha kwezingane etafuleni
Njengoba kuphawuliwe ngaphambili, izingane kufanele zifundise inhlonipho kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala. Izingane zisheshe zihlanganisa imininingwane emisha, futhi inqubo yokufunda kulula ukuyiguqula kumdlalo. Okokuqala, ingane idinga ukufundisa izandla zakho ukugeza izandla ngaphambi kokudla ngakunye. Okokuqala, abazali uqobo basebenzisa isibonelo futhi basize ingane, khona-ke lesi senzo sizokwamukela emshinini.
Beka ingane ilandela itafula elabiwe nabo bonke abantu abadala ukujwayela inkampani. Kunezihlalo eziphakeme eziphakeme ezizovumela ingane ukuthi ihlale ezingeni elifanayo nabantu abadala futhi bazizwe njengelungu eligcwele lomndeni. Ngesikhathi sasemini, akunconywa ukuthi kufakwe i-TV ezokuphazamisa inqubo yokutholwa.
Ngemuva kwekhola ungagcwalisa i-teatile napkin. Kuzovimbela izingcezu zokudla neziphuzo ezingutsheni. Ezinganeni ezisencane, izimfoloko nezimfoloko ezikhethekile zepulasitiki ziyasungulwa. Abanawo ama-blades abukhali namazinyo, ngakho-ke ingane ngeke ibangele ukulimala, nemibala ekhanyayo izoheha inzalo.
Etafuleni kufanele kube ukuhlala kahle, awukwazi ukushelela esihlalweni uphazamise omunye uhleli etafuleni. Ukukhala okungamukeleki kanye nezingxoxo ezinkulu.
Iphuzu elibalulekile enqubweni yokufunda ingane enenhlangano enhle etafuleni ingukuvinjelwa kwemidlalo ngokudla. Kuyadingeka ukuchaza izingane ukuthi lokho kuziphatha akwamukeleki, futhi akunakwenzeka ukunyakaza ukudla etafuleni.
Ngemuva kokudla, udinga ukubonga umninikhaya isidlo sasemini esimnandi futhi ubuze imvume yokuphuma etafuleni. Enye indlela yokufundisa ingane ekusebenzeni kahle ukuheha kwinqubo yokumboza itafula. Vumela ingane isize ukudalula amapuleti bese ibeka ukusika.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubekezela hhayi ukukhulisa izwi. Mhlawumbe ingane ayiyiqondi ngokushesha imithetho engajwayelekile, kepha akufanele ungazinaki izandla zakho nokwethuka. Isibonelo samanye amalungu omndeni sizosiza ingane ukuba ivumelane nezimo ngokushesha futhi uziphathe kahle.
Izici emazweni ahlukene
Imithetho yokuziphatha etafuleni emazweni ahlukene omhlaba ahlukile kwejwayelekile. Ezinye izikhathi zingahle zibe zingajwayelekile futhi zivelele eRussia. Sifunda ukuthi yini okufanele sinake izivakashi ukugwema izimo ezingathandeki:
- EJapan naseKorea, Njengoba wazi, yidla ngezinduku ezikhethekile. Ngesikhathi sokudla, kufanele zifakwe ngokufana onqenqemeni lwetafula noma ezimisweni ezikhethekile. Kepha izinduku ezinamathela kulesi sibalo azinconywa ngokwezigaba, ngoba lokhu kuwuphawu lomngcwabo.
- Phezulu kwetafula Ezikhungweni zaseBrazil Ukudla Komphakathi kuyithokheni ekhethekile, ependwe ngemibala eluhlaza okotshani kanye nezinhlangothi zombili izinhlangothi. Uhlangothi oluhlaza lubonisa ukuthi isivakashi sifuna ukulethwa kimi. Futhi kaningi kwenzeka ukuthi umlindi alethe izitsha ezintsha aze angaphuli. Ukuze unciphise umoya wokungenisa izihambi kwabasebenzi benkonzo, kuyadingeka ukuguqula ithani lobuso obubomvu.
- Isiphepho edume ngewayini layo. Akumangazi ukuthi lesi siphuzo sihambisana cishe nakho konke ukudla. Izivakashi kufanele zikhunjulwe ukuthi ngesikhathi somkhosi kuyisiko ukuphuza iwayini ngokuphelele ngemuva kokukhulunywa ngakunye.
- E-India naseNgilandi Akunconywa ukuthi udle ngesandla sakho sobunxele, kusukela enkolweni yendabuko yamaNdiya, lena ibhekwa njengengcolile. Lo mthetho futhi usebenza ekuphanjululweni kwesandla kanye nokudluliselwa kwemibhalo.
- Abathandi bekhofi kufanele baqaphele e-Italy, Kusukela kuleli lizwe akulona ngokwesiko ukuphuza i-cappuccino ngemuva kwemini. Abantu bendawo bakholelwa ukuthi kungenzeka kungathinti ukugaya. Elinye Iqiniso Elijabulisayo: I-Parmesan ePizza noma i-Pasta ayingezi e-Italy. I-French Etiquette iyinto efana ne-Italian.
- Izivakashi ezihamba EChina Izindawo zokudlela zazivame uku-oda izinhlanzi. Ngokukhetha okunjalo kwesitsha, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuguqula ingxenye. Lokhu kungukuvuma okubi okusho ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kube nokuphahlazeka kwesikebhe komdobi. Ngemuva kwengxenye engenhla yesabelo, kuzoba ngcono ukuqala ukukhipha i-ridge kusuka enhlanzini futhi kuphela lapho uqhubeka nokudla.
Ngaphambi kokuhambela kunoma yiliphi izwe, okokuqala, ukuze uzijwayeze nezinqumo eziphambili ezithathwe yimithetho. Kuyadingeka ukuhlonipha isiko lomunye umuntu bese uzama ukugwema izimo ezingathandeki ezingahle zithuke abahlali bendawo.
Ukuhlelwa kwetafula
Ithebula kumele lihlale likhonzwa kahle noma ngabe kungukudla kwasemini noma isidlo sakusihlwa somndeni. Ifundisa isiko futhi linginikeza isimo esiqinile. Lapho ebona amapuleti ahlukaniswe kahle kanye nokusika okunenhlanzeko, banamathela ezincomeni zokuziphatha etafuleni zilula kakhulu.
Kunenombolo enkulu yezindlela zokusetha kwetafula ezincike esikhathini sosuku, uhlobo lomcimbi nezinye izinto eziningi.
Ukuhlelwa kwetafula lasendulo, elizobe lilungele noma yimuphi umcimbi, ungasebenzisa imithetho elandelayo:
- Etafuleni kumele kube khona etafuleni lendwangu. Izonikeza ngisho nokudla okujwayelekile okujwayelekile nokudabukisayo. Kungcono uma iTabbothloth ingumthunzi okhanyayo. I-Tableware ku-canvas enjalo izobukeka isitayela. Ngokusho kwemithetho, indwangu yetafula kufanele ilenga emaphethelweni etafula kungabi ngaphezu kwama-30 cm.
- Izihlalo kufanele zibekwe ngesikhawu esithile phakathi kwazo ukuze isidlo sakusihlwa kulula ukuhlala futhi ungalimazi ama-elbows omakhelwane.
- Ekude cishe ngo-2-3 cm kusuka emaphethelweni, ipuleti elisebenzayo libekwe, elisebenza njengendawo yokuphumula. Kusuka phezulu faka izitsha ezijulile. Amapuleti ngesinkwa namaphayi atholakala ngakwesokunxele. Amasobho kanye nemidwebi kunikezwa epuletini elikhethekile sesobho noma endishini.
- I-cutlery ifakwa kuma-napkins enziwe ku-cellulose. Zikhethiwe ethoni leTabrecloth. I-Fissure Napkins yokuvikelwa kwezingubo ibekwa epuletini ngendlela egoqiwe.
- Ngakwesokudla kwepuleti kukhona lawo madivayisi abamba, ngokulandelana, ngakwesokunene. Isipuni sibekwa ukuze uhlangothi lwe-convex lungezansi. Ummese kufanele uqambe amanga ohlangothini lokusika lubheke epuletini. Ama-Teeth plugs kufanele abheke phezulu. Amapuleti aphezulu afakwa njengesipuni se-dessert.
- Abanye abantu bakhetha ukuphuza amanzi ngenkathi bedla, ngakho-ke ngeke kulimaze ukubeka ingilazi ngamanzi okuphuza ahlanzekile phambi kommese. Ngaphezu kwamanzi, ingilazi ingaba nejusi, i-compote noma ezinye iziphuzo ezingezona zotshwala.
- Amapuleti anezitsha zomphakathi afakwa enkabeni yetafula. Kucatshangelwa ukuthi ku-cutlery ngokusetshenziswa okujwayelekile.
- Iziphuzo ezishisayo zikhonzwa ebhodweni elikhethekile lekhofi, futhi izinkomishi zifakwa ngokushesha etafuleni. Ngaphansi kwenkomishi kufanele ibeke isoso elincane, bese liseduze kwesipuni.
- Ushukela ugcwele ushukela. Kanye nayo isebenza isipuni esikhonzayo. Njengamanje, izitsha zoshukela zivame ukusetshenziswa.
- Zonke izitsha kufanele zihlanzeke ngokuphelele, ngaphandle kokuphupha kanye nemifantu.
Ama-Vases anezimbali ezintsha ezinikezwe maphakathi nethebula futhi ebukeka muhle kakhulu. Bazoba ngumhlobiso owengeziwe futhi banikeze itafula ukubukeka kwemikhosi.
Ungayisebenzisa kanjani imishini?
Umuntu owafika endaweni yokudlela okokuqala, angadideka enanini elikhulu lokusika okuhlukile. Zizwe ngokuqiniseka kuzovumela lo mthetho olandelayo: amadivaysi alele ngakwesobunxele kwepuleti agcinwa kuphela ngakwesobunxele. Imvamisa lezi yizifo ezinobukhulu obuhlukile. Umthetho ofanayo uyasebenza kokusikwa ngakwesokunene - kungaba yizinkezo kanye nemimese yokusika.
Njengokungafani, ungathatha ipulaki ngesandla sokudla, uma ibha elixegayo lilele epuletini: ilayisi, i-buckwheat, amazambane amazambane. Kwezinye izimo, ukukhetha ukudla kupulaki kungasiza ummese wethebula.
Kwesinye isikhathi ukukhonza kufaka amafomu ambalwa ngesikhathi kanye nangemimese. Ukuze ungadideki, kancane kancane ungabeka esikhundleni sokusika ngesikhathi sokushintsha kwezitsha, uqale ngokude nepuleti nasekupheleni komakhelwane bakho.
Emacaleni anzima ikakhulukazi, kunconywa ukubona ukuthi amanye amasayithi ahleli kanjani etafuleni azosebenzisana futhi athathe isibonelo esivela kubo.
Ungakhumbula inhlanganisela elandelayo yezitsha ne-cutlery ehloselwe yona:
- I-dessert idliwa ngetiye noma isipuni esikhethekile se-dessert;
- wezipuni zenzelwe amasobho nomhluzi;
- Ipulaki ngokuhlanganiswa nommese wethebula isetshenziselwa izitsha zenyama ezishisayo;
- Kwenhlanzi kunommese okhethekile wezinhlanzi;
- Ukudla okulula okubandayo kuvame ukudliwa yimfoloko nezimpawu zokudla okulula;
- Izithelo zivunyelwe ukudla izandla noma ukusikeka okukhethekile.
Imithetho ye-ETIQUETTE ibuye inqume ukugcina cutlery ngesandla:
- Isipuni kufanele sibekwe esandleni ukuze isithupha siphele esiqongweni sesibambo. Umhluzi kufanele adonswe ekuzithobeni ukuze aqede amathuba amaconsi ezingutsheni. Uma kunesobho sesobho etafuleni, khona-ke okokuqala kufanele kudle umhluzi owuketshezi, bese kuhlukaniswa nenyama nge-cutlery.
- Kunconywa ipulaki ukugcina iminwe iphinde iqale kusuka esisekelweni. Ngasikhathi sinye, kungenzeka ukugcina amazinyo phansi kuya phezulu. Kuya ngohlobo lwesitsha esisetshenzisiwe.
- Lapho usebenzisa ummese wethebula, imfoloko ibamba ngokuqinile ngakwesobunxele, futhi ummese ulungile. Ngasikhathi sinye, kungenzeka ukuzisiza ngeminwe ebonakalayo, baqondisa ingcindezi yensimbi.
- Ummese ungasetshenziselwa ukukhafulela uwoyela noma upake esiqeshini sesinkwa. Kwenqatshelwe ukuthatha izingcezu zokudla ngommese noma ukukhotha i-blade.
- Lapho usebenzisa ummese wenyama, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi akufanele usike yonke ingxenye ngasikhathi sinye. Udinga kancane kancane unqume izingcezu ezincane bese uwadla.
Isitsha esine-spaghetti singadala ubunzima lapho bezama ukukudla ngobumnene. Kepha eqinisweni kulula ukukwenza. Kuyadingeka ukubeka ipulaki maphakathi nengxenye, ukuhlukanisa inani elincane le-spaghetti, liwukhulise ku-cutlery bese uletha ngokushesha emlonyeni. Le ndlela ibukeka kahle futhi yinhle.
Isibonakaliso sethoni embi sithathwa njengokuhlola ubumsulwa be-cutlery futhi badonse ukunakwa kwabo bonke abakhona kulokhu. Uma kunesidingo, ungacela ngenhlonipho isikhonzi ukuthi sithathe indawo ethile noma isipuni.
Ekupheleni kwesidlo sasemini noma isidlo sakusihlwa, ukusikwa kufanele kufakwe epuletini ngokuhambisana nalo, nge-knats knobs namaforothi kufanele aqondiswe ezinkombeni ezihlukile. Njengomthetho, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esiqedile ngesidlo sakusihlwa noma isidlo sakusihlwa, futhi isikhonzi singathwala izinto zokwenziwa. Akufanele wenze isidlo kusuka kithina, udinga ukushiya konke okusezindaweni zethu.
Kufanele futhi kuphawulwe ukuthi ngesikhathi sokudla, ipulaki nommese ngeke kushiywe etafuleni. Kuyadingeka ukubabeka ngokuqinile epuletini ngisho nangemva kokudla.
Amathiphu nezincomo
Imithetho ye-ETIQUTTTTE IQHAZA OKUFANELEKILE kuphela ukukhonza kanye nekhono lokudla kahle nge-cutlery, kodwa futhi nokuziphatha uqobo ngesikhathi somkhosi. Noma ngabe ukudla kwenzeka kuphi, ephathini noma endaweni yokudlela ebizayo, kunenqwaba yemithetho e-Unklasy:
- Ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nokudla, isivakashi sivame ukulinda kuze kube yilapho ukudla kuletha wonke umuntu etafuleni;
- Awudingi ukuvula uphuzo oludakayo ngokwakho - lokhu kufanele kwenze umlindi noma umnikazi wasekhaya;
- Ungakhulumi etafuleni ngezwi elikhulu, ngoba lingavimbela ezinye izivakashi zijabulele izitsha futhi ziphumule;
- Uma isidlo sakusihlwa noma isidlo sakusihlwa senzeka endaweni yokudlela, kunconywa ukuba uthule njengobethuli ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze ungalethi ukuphazamiseka kwabanye abavakashi.
Imithetho yokusika ekunciphiseni ifaka i-Manera ukuze axoxisane. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe abancomi ukuxoxa ngezinkinga ezihlobene nezifo, ezezimali, izehlakalo zezepolitiki kanye nenkolo. Lapho ekhuluma nomunye walabo abahleli etafuleni, kufanele uhlangane naye ngokubukeka, ulalele ngokucophelela futhi ungaphazamisi.
Uma ezinye izihloko zingathandeki, ungazama ukuhumushela ingxoxo kwesinye isiteshi noma wenqabe ngenhlonipho ukuze uxoxe ngalolu daba. Uma kwenzeka ingxabano enkulu, kungcono ukukhipha isimo ngehlaya elihlekisayo noma ihlaya elifanele.
Akufanele akhulume ngaso sonke isikhathi nomuntu oyedwa, futhi nangaphezulu, ahlebeze kanye naye. Kungcono ukubandakanya wonke amalungu elungu engxoxweni.
Umuntu amasiko kufanele futhi alalele izeluleko eziningi eziwusizo:
- Ngesikhathi sokudumazeka kwethoyizi, abanye babahlanganyeli kwasemini kufanele bame lapho balalelisise. Izingxoxo noma ezinye izenzo eziphazamisayo ezikhuluma ngenkulumo azamukeleki.
- Ukuhlafuna kufanele kusongelwe ku-napkin kusuka ephepheni bese ubeka ngobumnene eduze kwamapuleti.
- Lapho usebenzisa amazinyo, udinga ukumboza umlomo wakho. Ungaphuli i-toothpick futhi usakaze.
- Isinkwa esivela epuletini esivamile singathathwa ngesandla. Akufanele ulume ucezu olukhulu ngasikhathi sinye. Kunconywa ukwehlisa ucezu oluncane bese kulapho kubeka khona emlonyeni.
- Akunakwenzeka ukudla inyama yenkukhu ngezandla, nangemva kokuphonsa amathambo kuye. Izenzo ezinjalo zibukeka zihlanzekile.
- I-cutlery imvamisa idluliswa yi-batter phambili, futhi uyithathe - maphakathi.
- Ngemuva kwasemini, i-napkin yamadolo kufanele ibekwe eduze kwepuleti.
- Ingilazi yewayini kufanele igcinwe ngemuva komlenze ukuze ingangenzi ingilazi, bese ugcine isiphuzo esibandayo.
Imithetho yethoni enhle isho ukuthi ungaboni amaphutha abanye akhona. Akunasidingo sokwenza ukuphawula kuzwile kakhulu ngisho nasezinganeni. Akufanele ubeke amazwana kokuqukethwe kwamapuleti amanye amasayithi ahleli etafuleni, kanye nenani lotshwala ezingilazini zabo.
Le mithetho elula izovumela ngesikhathi esifushane sokukhulisa ukufundwa kwamasiko namasiko aphelele, futhi zibonise ohlangothini oluhle kakhulu ngesikhathi sebhizinisi noma isidlo sasemini esinobungane.
Mayelana nemithetho ye-etiquette etafuleni, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.