Nsuku zonke sibhekene nomuntu ohlukile. Ezokuthutha, emsebenzini, esitolo, endleleni esikutholayo ehlangana nabantu abaningi baphuthumisa ezindabeni zabo. Ukuhambisana nemithetho yokuziphatha kugwema izimo ezimbi oFakazi BakaJehova kwesinye isikhathi. Akukho ukungafani kokuhambisa noma ekuxabaneni esitolo. Umuntu olethwe ngumuntu uyazi ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani kahle futhi ngokuqinisekile uzozigwema ezinjalo.
Kungani udinga imithetho?
Kusukela ekuqaleni ubuntwana, izingane zithi ungaziphatha kahle kanjani. Kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala, abantu abadala kufanele basize ingane ukuba ibe ngumuntu amasiko, ikwazi ukuhlangana nezinye izingane ekhaya lezintandane nasesikoleni. Ukhule, wonke umuntu kufanele akhumbule le mithetho futhi enze. -Njalo Amazinga akhona okusiza noma yimuphi umuntu agweme amacala amahloni Ongagcini kuphela isimomo somoya, kodwa futhi ushiye umbono ongathandeki isikhathi eside. Ukusuka ekutheni umuntu uqhamuka kanjani esimweni esingesihle kuncike, kuze kube lapho ejwayelene nomqondo onjalo njengenhlonipho.
Kuya ngokunemba kwezenzo zethu, njengoba bebona abantu abaseduze. Umphakathi uqala ukuhlola umuntu kanye nazo zonke izenzo zakhe.
Ukuziphatha okufanele kuzosiza ekusunguleni ukuxhumana nabantu abajwayelene naye, kufinyelelwe ukuqondana, dala inhlabathi enhle yokusebenzisana okwengeziwe.
Inhloso yemithetho yokuziphatha ukudala indawo ethokomele yelungu ngalinye lomphakathi, ukungavumeli ubudlova, ubudlova, ukungahloniphi ubuntu obuthile. Kumuntu ngamunye, emandleni akhe okuziphatha kahle futhi enze izinkambiso ezamukelekayo, kuya ngokuthi yimuphi umphakathi esidala.
Yize kusukela ebuntwaneni kusenesikhathi, sifundiswa yimithetho yethoni enhle kanye nekhono lokuziphatha kwamanye amazwe endaweni yomphakathi, ukwahlulela ngezingxabano ezivame ukwenziwa, eminye imithetho yokuziphatha okuthile ayibhekwanga ngabantu ngamunye. I-Ethics uhlobo lokuziphatha okuthenjwayo, uhlelo lwemithetho owamukelwa emphakathini.
Izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yansuku zonke kufanele kube: ukubusa kwemikhuba emihle, umusa kwabanye nokunaka ngokukhethekile.
Izinkambiso zokuziphatha kwengane
Ingane evela ekuzalweni ibhekana nenani elincane labantu - laba bangabazali nezihlobo, odokotela, omakhelwane. Ukuthola enkulisa, uzizwa angavikelekile uma abazali behluleka ukugxilisa imithetho yokuziphatha okuhle okufanele babonwe ezikhungweni ezinjalo.
Umuntu ngamunye osendaweni entsha uzizwa engavikelekile, futhi ingane inesimo esinjalo nakancane kungadala ingcindezi. Kancane kancane fundise ingane ngenani elikhulu labantu, litshele ngemithetho yokuziphatha. Chaza ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezingemukeleki ezinganeni.
Mkhulu, ingane izovele inemithetho ethile emithwalweni, iyazi futhi izama ukwenza.
Sivame emgwaqweni noma esitolo siyabona ukuthi ingane iqala kanjani kabi, ihlela ama-hysterics. Izingane ezincane zikha amathoyizi namaswidi kubazali. Ngokuqondene nentsha, bangakwazi umsindo kakhulu, bafunga, babhema, baziphathe ngokungafanele. Ukuziphatha okunjalo akufanele kungamukeleki kubantwana.
Abaningi babo bayazi ukuthi kunezindlela ezidinga ukunamathela, kepha hhayi zonke ezenziwayo. Intsha kufanele iqonde ukuthi abazali bangajezisa ukuhambisana kwabo. Kusukela eminyakeni eyi-14, bona ngokwabo bazokwazi ukuphendula ekwephule kokuthula kwezenhlalo.
Amakhono amasiko kufanele abe yisisekelo sempilo, ngoba umuntu okhuliswe kahle kulula ukusungula ubudlelwano nempilo ezungezile
Kunemithetho ethile okufanele ilandelwe yi:
- Akunconywa ukumemeza kakhulu endaweni yomphakathi.
- Akunakwenzeka ukulahla udoti hhayi kuma-urns, awunandaba, wephula izihlahla nezihlahla.
- Kuyadingeka ukulandela imithetho yomgwaqo, dlula umgwaqo ezindlini ezibekiwe.
- Awukwazi ukwenza izenzo ezimbi, kufanele uzixwayise kontanga babo.
- Izingane akufanele zihlekise futhi zinciphise abanye abantu, futhi zithuke, zonakalisa impahla noma izingubo zontanga.
- Akunakwenzeka ukucasula okuncane.
- Kuyadingeka ukuhlonipha asebekhulile.
Lezi yizidingo eziyisisekelo zabafundi. Izingane zesikole ziyazi ukuthi zivinjelwe:
- Ukuphuza utshwala.
- Dlala ukugembula.
- Funga ngamagama angcolile.
- Gibela emasekeni, ophahleni.
- Yenza isenzo se-Hooligan, ngokwesibonelo, sigijimela ngamatshe.
Ukwahlulela ngeqiniso lokuthi izenzo ezinjalo zingatholakala kaningi, lezi zingane azizange zifundise lezi zingane ukuthi zingaziphatha kanjani endaweni yomphakathi.
Abantu abadala baphoqelekile ukuqeqesha ingane, ukwenza kanjani ezindaweni Lapho kunabantu abaningi ukuze bangaphazamisi ukuzola. Kuyadingeka ukunikeza ukuqonda ingane kangangokuba abantu abakhuphuleyo ngeke bamemeze nomsindo, baphonsa amaphepha kusuka kuswidi phansi, khwela kukhale.
Lapho ingane ingena endaweni entsha, kufanele aqonde ukuthi angaziphatha kanjani kahle nokuthi yini engingayenza. Isibonelo, tshela ingane ukuthi ku-zoo awukwazi ukugcona izilwane, ugijime ngamatshe, ukhwele emathangeni, umemeze kakhulu bese ufafaza. Ngakho-ke, isivakashi esincane asisabi izilwane kuphela, kodwa sivikele labo abeza e-zoo, baziveze ingozi.
Ukuvakashela isekethe noma i-movie, ingane kufanele ihambisane nemikhuba efanele. Chaza ukuthi kungani ngesikhathi sokusebenza ungadli, kanti ama-popcorn alethwa kwisekisi ngeziphuzo. Ukuvakashela imnyuziyamu, izingane kufanele zilalelisise, ezitshela umhlahlandlela, futhi futhi zingabi nakuzabalaza imibukiso kanye namafasitela okuthenga.
Ikakhulu kuyadingeka ukudonsela ukunaka kwezingane ekuziphatheni kwabo ezokuthutha. Chazela ingane ukuthi:
- Abesifazane kanye nabantu asebekhulile bangena kokuqala, khona-ke izingane ziyafika.
- Ukudlula ekhabethe, ama-elbows kumele acindezelwe, awukwazi ukusunduza abagibeli nabo.
- Udinga ukukhokhela ukuhamba ngesikhathi.
- Umculo omningi uphazamisa, ngakho-ke kuyacasha noma kucishiwe.
- Awukwazi ukwenza okubhaliwe ezihlalweni, konakalisa impahla, alahle udoti.
- Akunakwenzeka ukwenza umsindo, ukumemeza, kanye nokuphazamisa umshayeli ngenkathi ithrafikhi
- Uma ingane ingadlanga inja eshisayo ethengwayo noma i-pie, kufanele ibekwe kwiphakheji bese idla ngemuva kokuhlehla ezokuthutha, uma kungenjalo ungaphuza abagibeli. Sebenzisa ama-napkin ngenkathi udla, yidla kahle, hhayi ushoko.
- Ingane kufanele ihlale inendulela naye futhi iyisebenzise njengoba kudingeka. Ukuhlehla noma ukukhwehlela, udinga njalo ukuvala umlomo wakho, sebenzisa ama-napkins noma isikhafu.
- Futhi chaza ingane ukuthi udinga ukulandela ukubukeka kwakho nokuthi uphuma emgwaqweni, umsulwa futhi ucocekile, ucocekile.
Kusukela ekuqaleni ubuntwana, izingane ziqala ukuqeqesha ngenhlonipho. Isibonelo sakho sansuku zonke silungele ukuqeqeshwa okunjalo. Ungakhohlwa ukubiza amagama anenhlonipho ekhaya, lapho abazali noma izihlobo bahlala besebenzisa amagama athi "Ngiyabonga", "ngicela", "ubusuku obuhle", "Kuhle umntwana uqobo. Ukubiza futhi ufunde kuqala imithetho yokuhlonipha.
Ungakhohlwa ukufundisa ingane ebalulekile yokuziphatha:
- Ukuvula iminyango, kufanele ungqongqoze.
- Ungaphazamisi ingxoxo yabadala.
- Unganaki, shiya noma ufulathele.
Ingane idinga ukugxilisa ukuziphatha kwamasiko etafuleni. Izingane zikopisha abazali bazo. Uma kubantu abadala bemindeni bengaziphathi kahle kahle, imindeni emisha iqala ukuphinda izenzo zabo. Thatha ingane, njengoba udinga ukuziphatha etafuleni ungitshele ukuthi awukwazi ukukwenza ngesikhathi sokudla.
Ukuze ingane icace (futhi ngomphumela omkhulu), ilenga ngaphezulu kwesithombe setafula le-Dining, njengoba udinga ukudla, okungenakwenziwa. Ngakho-ke, kwifomu lemidlalo kuzoba lula ukufundisa ingane ngemithetho ebalulekile yokuziphatha kanye nenhlonipho etafuleni.
Ingane kumele yazi ukuthi:
- Ngaphambi kokudla, kufanele ugeze izandla zakho ngensipho.
- Udinga ukukwazi ukusula ngamaphepha ama-napkins.
- Udinga ukuthatha inani elanele lokudla.
- Ukwazi ukusebenzisa kahle izinsimbi.
- Ngemuva kokudla ngaso sonke isikhathi ngiyabonga.
Ngasikhathi sinye, ingane kufanele ichaze ukuthi yini okungafanele yenziwe ngesikhathi sokudla:
- Slayida umlomo ogcwele kokudla, ukukhuluma ngasikhathi sinye.
- Ukukhafuza ukudla.
- Ukungena, ukuphotha, ukufulathela, kuyathandeka.
Ingane kufanele yazi ukuthi ihlale kahle futhi kwesokudla etafuleni. Yibeke esihlalweni esihle ukuze adle ngokwawo, ngaphandle kokuthulula izingubo zakhe ezingutsheni zakhe.
Ikakhulu ngithanda ukudonsela ukunaka kwabazali ukuthi ingane kufanele yamukelwe hhayi ku-chaktie etafuleni Lokho kwesinye isikhathi kwenza abadala bobabili. Qala ukukhulisa ingane nawe. Ingane ibukeka sengathi abazali bayo baziphatha kabi emphakathini. Uma ebona ukuthi bafunga kakhulu, bakhalela ama-urns, baphonsa amaphepha futhi banenkani esitolo, akusona isibonelo esifanele sokulingisa.
IPodral, ingane yakho ingena phakathi kontanga abazoba nethonya elithile kulo. Mtshengise lokho kuziphatha okubi kubukeka kukubi ngakubo, futhi kuchaze nokuthi kungani isenzo esibi silahla abanye abantu, nokuthi singakuthinta kanjani ikusasa labo.
I-oda elisungulwe kubantu abadala
Abantu abadala kufanele futhi babambelele emithethweni yokuziphatha hhayi kuphela emgwaqweni, kodwa nasemndenini. Ukusuka ekutheni abantu abadala bakwazile baziphatha kahle kanjani ezindaweni zomphakathi, kuncike kakhulu. Usebenzisa imithetho yokuxhumana kwamasiko, ungafaka oxhumana nabo abasha emsebenzini nasempilweni yansuku zonke.Ngembaba
Ukuphuma endlini, sibhekene nabantu abaningi. Emgwaqweni, ezokuThutha, izitolo zabantu abadala kufanele aziphathe ngendlela yokuthi ungahambi kahle abanye futhi zinamathele ezimfunekweni ezithile:
- Nakekela kusengaphambili ngezingubo ezihlanzekile nezintofontofo zokuhamba ngezinyawo. Izinwele kumele zihlanzeke, zibekwe ngobunono.
- Ukujika ngaphesheya komgwaqo, bheka ngokucophelela ezinhlangothini noma udlule ukukhanya kwethrafikhi. Ungalokothi uwele phambi kwemishini noma ezindaweni ezingaziwa. Futhi ngeke uhambe otshanini.
- Lapho uhamba, ungashintshi izandla zakho, akufanele ugcine izandla zakho emaphaketheni akho, ungangqongqozi, ubheke phambili, kepha ungakhohlwa ukubheka izinyawo zakho. Uma ufuna ukuba nokudla okulula, ungathenga isixha noma uphaya, ungethe eceleni bese udla ukudla. Musa ukuhlafuna usohambeni - kubi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungazisonga izingubo zethu kuwe futhi eduze kwabantu abazayo.
- Musa ukulahla udoti, ama-napkins nogwayi endleleni. Uma kungekho i-URN eduzane, faka udoti okwesikhashana ephaketheni lakho. Ngokubhema abantu, kukhona amakona lapho angabhema khona. Ezindaweni zomphakathi, ukubhema akuvunyelwe.
Ngenkathi ukuhamba bekungafanele kugxekwa ngabantu, kanye nokuhamba, ukulima ama-elbows. Bypass bese udlula kwabadlulayo kufanele kube okulungile.
Uma kunabantu abaningana eceleni kwendlela, kunemithetho ethile:
- Ungayi esixukwini emgwaqweni, uvimbele abadlulayo. Kuvunyelwe abantu abathathu abahamba eduzane.
- Uma umuntu eza nowesifazane, le ntokazi kufanele iqhubeke ngakwesokudla. Okuhlukile yizempi - kufanele zinikezwe udumo.
- Uma amadoda amabili eza nowesifazane, le ntokazi iya phakathi.
- Uma kunamantombazane amabili nendoda, kunowesifazane osekhulile oseduze kwakhe, khona-ke mncane ngeminyaka.
- Uma izintokazi zesikhathi esifanayo, amaCavalier ayahamba phakathi kwawo.
Ezokuthutha
Uhambo lokuhamba komphakathi ludinga ukwenziwa kwemithetho ethile:
- Ngokufaka izithuthi zomphakathi, susa izikhwama ezi-bulky kanye nezikhwama zasemuva, ukuze ungashayi abanye abagibeli.
- Ungathathi ngaphezu kwendawo eyodwa kwezokuthutha, ukhombise imilenze ububanzi.
- Uma ukubuza umbuzo, kufanele ulalele ngokucophelela futhi uwuphendule.
- Ungakhohlwa amagama omlingo: "Ngiyabonga", "ngicela" - ube nobungane. Uma umgibeli ngephutha ngokuziqhenya, kufanele uxolise ngokushesha. Imvamisa ezokuThutha ungabona izimo ezinjalo lapho othile angena ngezinyawo noma acindezelwe. Akumnandi kakhulu lapho kuqala ihlazo, futhi ngemuva kwakho konke kwakwanele ukuze nje kuxolise ngenhlonipho.
- Uma udla nezingane ezincane, ungazibuki ku-Noise, ungaphazamisi omakhelwane, akazange amemeze. Benze baphawula ngokuthula, futhi ekhaya baxoxa nabo ngalo mbuzo nabo.
- Qiniseka ukuthi ukhokhela le ndima, beka uhambo noma eminye imibhalo ngaphandle kwentukuthelo, ngoba isilawuli senza umsebenzi waso.
- Ukuphuma ezokuthutha, umuntu wokuqala uyaphuma, unikeza intokazi yakhe. Intsha inikeza usizo kubantu asebekhulile abangaziwa, abakhubazekile.
- Ehlela izitebhisi, indoda kufanele ihambe kuqala, futhi ikhuphuke - ngowesifazane.
- Uma usendaweni engaziwa noma ngezinyathelo akukho ukukhanya, indoda kufanele ihambe kuqala.
- Uma uvuka ilifti ngaphandle kwendoda, cindezela inkinobho ngokwakho, uma umuntu engumsebenzi wakhe.
Isiko lokuziphatha endaweni yomphakathi
Ukuya esitolo, ngaphambi kokuba umnyango kufanele uphuthelwe ngabantu abavelayo, bese uwafaka. Yiba necala nabathengisi, pheka imali ngesikhathi, ungaphazamisi i-cashier.
Uma ubuthana ku-movie noma eshashalazini, imithetho yokuziphatha okuhle izosiza lapha:
- Woza ngesikhathi ekuqaleni kweseshini noma ukusebenza.
- Iya endaweni yakhe, phendukela ebusweni babukeli.
- Ungaphenduki, ungaguquki ngezindlela ezihlukile.
- Ungakhulumi, ungahlebeki.
- Nqamula izingcingo eziphathwayo
Ukwephulwa kwe-memo
Ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani emgwaqweni noma kwezokuhamba, abaningi bayazi. Kodwa hhayi njalo abantu abazi ukuthi bangenza kanjani, ukuza emnyuziyamu, yaseshashalazini, i-cinema. Kulokhu, kunemithetho ejwayelekile yokuziphatha:
- Ngesikhathi sokusebenza, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ukhulume ocingweni noma nomakhelwane, ungqongqoza phansi, uthepha iminwe yakho, ukuhlebeza noma ukumemeza imishwana noma amagama aphezulu.
- Ungathembeli emhlane wesihlalo esingaphambili ngezandla noma imilenze. Ungafiki emcimbini ngokushisa, ikhala eligijimayo. Ngeke nje uphazamise kuphela nalabo abakhona, kepha futhi bangazithethelela.
- Eshashalazini, ungabheki izithameli nge-binoculars, ungazihloli ngesikhathi sokungena. Uma indoda ifika enkundleni yemidlalo yeshashalazi nentokazi, akufanele ishiywe yedwa. Mnakekele, ulethe esiphuzweni se-buffet namaswidi (ezifisweni).
- Uma ungawuthandi umbono, buthule (ngaphandle kwengxoxo) hlala uqede. Ungashiyi ihholo kuze kube sekupheleni kokusebenza, futhi kungcono ukulinda ukungena ngemvume. Uma sekuphelile, linda kuze kufike ikhethini, bese lihamba kancane.
Imininingwane eminingi yokuthi ungaziphatha kanjani enkundleni yemidlalo yeshashalazi, i-cinema noma enye indawo yokuhlala izotshela le vidiyo elandelayo.