Umbhangqwana ngamunye oshadile ungowokugujwa kwesikhumbuzo somshado. Omunye ukhohlwa ngokuhalalisela ekubhuleni kwezinsuku zansuku zonke, futhi eminye imibhangqwana ilungiselela izimangaliso zabakhumbuzo ezingenakulibaleka nezipho ezibizayo. Ukwenza usuku lwakho lokukhumbula olungalibaleki, kufanelekile ukujwayelana nophawu oluxhumeke ngalo. Mayelana nezinsuku zomshado eziyindilinga zaziwa yiwo wonke umuntu, kepha akuyena wonke umuntu akhanyiswe ngesikhumbuzo esiphakathi. Isibonelo, mayelana nokugubha iminyaka engu-16 yeminyaka yokuphila ehlanganayo.
Ubani igama lesikhumbuzo?
Ngesiko, iminyaka engu-16 yomshado ibizwa ngeTopazova ukuhlonipha itshe eliyigugu le-topaz. Ngamaminerali avela emndenini wamakristalu asobala aqhathanisa ubuhlobo ngalesi sikhathi. Imvamisa, izingane emndenini sezikhulile, uthando phakathi kwabashade zilala phansi, ukucacisa ubudlelwano kuthuthelwe ngemuva. Indlu ibusa ukuqonda, induduzo nokuvumelana. Amagobolondo amancane esakhiweni samaminerali esobala akhunjuzwa ngobunzima obudala empilweni yomshado. Kepha ngaphandle kwabo ngeke wakhe inyunyana eyodwa eqinile.
I-Topaz - iqhawe lomndeni, kusukela osukwini lomshado lwalo lwathunyelwa iminyaka engu-16. Endulo, abantu babegqoka i-amulet nge-topazi ukuphakamisa imizwa. Kukholakala ukuthi leli tshe lalinemithunzi eminingi, futhi bekuyimpukane ngokunemba kufanekisela ubumnene nobumsulwa.
Umshado weTopAzovaya akayona ekwazi igama elinjalo. Yandulela isigaba esisha sobudlelwano bemindeni, lapho uhlangothi lusasebenza nje, futhi kuyadingeka nokuphefumula.
Yini ongayinika?
Kuyadingeka ukwenza isipho esihle komunye nomunye ngosuku lokugubha iminyaka engu-16 yebutho lezomthetho. Vele, kukhona ngababili lapho kungenjalo ngokwesiko ukwenza izipho hhayi ngezinsuku eziyindilinga. Kepha iningi lemindeni liyathanda ukuhlela amaholide futhi lihloniphe amasiko omndeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nesikhumbuzo esingokomfanekiso singashiya imizwa emangalisa kakhulu futhi ethinta inhliziyo eshawini. Njengoba kunikezwe ukuthi uluhlobo luni lomshado olubizwa kanjalo, kanye nophawu lwayo - iTopaz, ungenza izipho ezihlukile.
Okomlingani othandekayo
Ubucwebe buhlala buhola phakathi kokususwa kwezintokazi zenhliziyo ngezinsuku eziqinile. Umhlobiso ngeTopaz uzoba isethulo esifanelekile futhi esihle kunazo zonke esivela kumuntu onothando. Amatshe amahle abukeka ngokumangalisayo abheka amacici nakwisongo, ekukhanyiseni okuhle okumele izinto ezinhle kakhulu zibanda.
Kungcono ukwenqaba isipho samagugu ezitshali zasekhishini. Lokhu kungenziwa ngosuku lwesonto, nangomgubho kunezinto ezikhethekile.
Umfazi owuthandayo uzokwazisa ngokusobala okuyinkimbinkimbi yezinqubo ze-spa ku-salon yesimanje noma enjabulweni uzoya ekhenyweni isitifiketi sokuthengwa kwezinto ukuvuselela ikhabethe. Ukucula kuzodala amathikithi ekhonsathi weqembu noma umculi owuthandayo. Futhi-ke, amakha amakha ngenye yezindawo eziholayo ekulinganisweni kwezipho. Iphunga eliyintandokazi yedwa futhi eyingqayizivele yindlela enhle yokukhombisa ukunakwa nothando.
Njengendlela yesipho, ungabheka i-Silk Peignoir yomlingani wakho noma ngaphansi kwezingubo zokubiza. Uma ubhekana ngokuzimela ngokuzikhethela kosayizi oyifunayo kubukeka sengathi kuyinselele, umeluleki esitolo uzosiza ukukwenza ngokushesha futhi kube lula. Futhi lowo oshade naye uzosazisa kuphela isipho sakho esinecala kakhulu lo mgubho. Futhi uzwe amazwi okubonga okufanelekile ebusuku besikhathi esilindelwe isikhathi eside.
Okomlingani othandekayo
Lapho uhalalisela indoda enezinto ezizithandayo, khetha isipho akuyona inselele. Kepha kuphela uma uzwa ubunzima bokuzilibazisa kwakhe. Ngoba ayikwazi ukukhetha izingwegwe zokudoba nokubhekana nabesifazane abaningi. Njengokukhetha izesekeli zezimoto noma imibukiso eqoqweni.
Ungathenga umdobi weFisherman futhi wenze okuqoshwe kuyo ukuhlonipha usuku olukhumbulekayo lweminyaka engu-16 emshadweni. Lesi sithandwa somkhankaso sizothanda isibani sendawo yonke noma uhlelo lokugoqa imimese enomoya ovulekile kanye nezikulufa. Umlingani wezomnotho uzokwazisa ithuluzi elibi kakhulu lekhwalithi ephezulu noma ibhokisi lokugcina lokulungiswa nokwakha. I-drill enhle izoba usizo kunoma iyiphi indlu, futhi uma umyeni engekho kahle kakhulu, kusukela kuma-jigsaw nawasesaboni kuzofanela ayeke. Vukela ukuthi uzobazi nini ukuthi basondele kubo, nokuthi ngabe kufanelekile ukwenza lokhu nhlobo.
Isahluko esimnandi kakhulu somndeni sisuka kumfazi wakhe one-cologne, uthayi onesitayela nama-cufflinks (uma ugqoka amasudi). I-clamp nayo icabanga ukugqoka izibopho nezimbotshana zomlomo wesibeletho. Lapha inzuzo yomuntu ngamunye. Umshini wekhwalithi ephezulu kagesi noma umshini wokushefa ungaba wusizo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umyeni ufuna ukubona indoda elungiselelwe kahle eduze kwakhe, ayikwazi kodwa ikhuthaze ukuba ikhuthaze inyunyana yomshado.
Izipho ezivela kubavakashi
Njengoba sesithole isimemo edilini noma isidlo sakusihlwa ukuhlonipha iminyaka engu-16 yomshado kubangane noma izihlobo, wonke umuntu uyazibuza ukuthi yini okufanele uyinikele. Kumenyiwe izivakashi zenkululeko ukuba zikhethe okwamanje ngokuya ngokubona kwazo. Akufanelekile ukunqanda, kepha futhi nokuzihlupha hhayi wonke umuntu ongakwazi. Ngakho-ke, isipho sikhethwa yisigaba esiphakathi futhi esinenzuzo noma esikhumbuzayo:
- IStatuette;
- i-vase yezimbali;
- embozwe egumbini lokulala;
- isethi yetiye;
- amapuleti (ashaye injabulo);
- izibuko zewayini;
- ama-bouquets;
- Izinkondlo ukuhlonipha usuku lokuzalwa.
Akunakwenzeka ukonga eqophelweni lokugcina. Vele unikeze isipho buthule, ngaphandle kokusho isifiso esisodwa esimnandi sombhangqwana oshadile. Iminyaka eminingi emshadweni kufanele ifanelwe inkulumo yokuvuselelwa nokujabulisa imibhangqwana enolwazi oluncane lokuhlala ndawonye. Khombisa izici zomkhosi ukuthi ziyisibonelo sesitokisi somndeni esifanele. Bayeke bathokoze futhi bajabule ngalolu suku. Imibhalo eseduze ingazwakala emavesini.
Inketho 1
Ngihalalisela nina bafo
Ngeqiniso lokuthi iminyaka engu-16
Empilweni usondele
Ukunikezana Ukukhanya Kwenjabulo!
Ake, njengeTopazi, lizokwenza obala
Amaphupho akho ahlanganyelwe.
Futhi imiphefumulo ikholelwa inhliziyo, uthando
Kuzo zonke izici eziyigugu!
Inketho 2.
Usuvele unezingane kanye nokubizela okujwayelekile.
Yazisa le minyaka yonke nayo yonke imizamo yakho.
Vumela isifiso sifezeke kungekudala, kodwa ngokushesha.
Futhi zonke izinkumbulo zizofudumeza empilweni.
Inketho 3.
Izingane zikhula zize zijabule
Uthando lwalungeyona iphupho.
Kuhle kangakanani emhlabeni
Ubudlelwano obunjalo, ngokweqiniso!
Sifuna ukulingana nawe
Futhi futhi wagoqwa ndawonye ukuze uphile.
Uyakuhalalisela ngosuku lokuzalwa
Nikeza uNkulunkulu amabutho futhi ukuthandwa!
Inketho 4.
Izinhliziyo ezixhunyiwe
Eminyakeni eyishumi nesithupha edlule.
Kudlule umbani
Abathandi
Futhi inkanuko ebilisiwe emithanjeni,
Ayiphumi kuze kube manje.
Sikhonze njengesibonelo
Iminyaka kusengaphambili.
Amagama weprose futhi amukelekile futhi elula ukuthumela i-SMS noma imeyili Uma kungenzeki ukuhalalisela umbhangqwana ngokuvakasha komuntu.
- I-Topaz akuyona ubucwebe obukhulu kunabo bonke, kepha idonsela amehlo akhe ngobumsulwa bayo nobuhle. Umshado wakho ubiza kakhulu kuneTopaz futhi uhlanzekile futhi muhle! Phila ngobumbano futhi uphumelele!
- Inyunyana yakho ayinakuqhathaniswa netshe eliyigugu le-Semi, yize lihle kakhulu njengeTopaz. Uyingcebo oyimiswe ndawonye. Yisuse kubantu ongabazi namehlo, qinisani futhi umaka usuku lokuzalwa kaningi!
Ungahlela ukuhalalisela kwami ngeposikhadi bese ulinamathisela esiqwini. Funda mathupha noma ushiye lo msebenzi wombhangqwana oshadile owakumema. Zombili lezi zinketho zimnandi futhi zithinta, khumbula usizi kanye nendlela engajwayelekile ukuhalalisela.
Musa ukuphuma imizwa yabantu abahle. Vumela okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kokuhlala ndawonye kanye nokuhlakanipha komndeni kukukhuthaze ukuba udlule ngendlela efanayo yokuhambisa ingxenye yakho.
Ukugubha ukugubha ukugubha
Cabanga ukuthi uneminyaka engu-16 ubudala ushade umbhangqwana, wahlobisa ukwenza usuku lomkhosi. Uma uhlobisa indlu, kungcono ukukwenza emathoni aphuzi aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Kwi-cafe kungasiza ukuphuma kwabahlobisi noma othile abavela kubangane. Bhuka amabhola ayishumi nambili ngokuchichima kweparele - lokhu kusho ukuthi amanothi emikhosi asevele alethwe emkhathini.
Izimbali akufanele ziphuzi, ukuze zingatholakali imicabango yezinkolelo-ze mayelana nokuhlukanisa kanye nomoya we-melanchoc. Kungcono ukukhetha ama-castel ama-pastel noma ama-tulips. Izimbali ezibukhoma ezimavishini asobala ezibekwe etafuleni ledili zibukeka kahle.
Gubha iminyaka eyishumi nesithupha yomshado futhi ngaphandle kwephampu, ndawonye Ngokuhlela isidlo sothando endaweni yokudlela encane noma ekhaya. Kepha inketho yokugcina, kuyinto efiselekayo futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uthumela ekuvakasheni kwabangane noma ogogo. Ukuze ungavimbi ukuthi abashadikazi bavakashele izinkumbulo ezimnene futhi baphuphe ikusasa elihlangene.
Ngokuzithandela, kuyadingeka ukwenza i-tet-a-tet ngemibala ethile bese ugcwalisa izimpawu. Kwanele ukuthi umyeni abe abe eseduze, umfazi okhalweni lwamakhandlela amalambu. Lesi isizathu esilungile kunazo zonke sokushintshana ngezinhliziyo ezibizayo ngezipho, zisho izifungo zakho nokuqashelwa kwakho, zincomena ngasikhathi sinye.
Kuqashelwe ekuqaleni ukuthi usuku lombhangqwana lungaba khona kuleyo cafe lapho usuku lwabo lokuqala lidlula. Ukhathazekile ngaphambi kwe- "Tom of the 'Ithebula kanye nokuhambisana nomculo okufanele, abashadikazi bazothola imizwa engafinyeleleki. Uthando luzobuyela emuva emehlweni akhe futhi luhleli nyatwa.
Uma kusenziwa umlingani owamukelekayo, bese unakekela isimemo, indawo yokuhlala kanye nemenyu yemikhosi izowela ephathini emenzweni. Awekho amasiko akhethekile ezitsheni. Into esemqoka ukuthi konke bekufunwa yilabo abenzi bokubi. I-Blue Tablecloths noma ama-Candes ezihlalweni azokwanela ukudala isimo osifunayo. Esicelweni, izivakashi zinganikeza ikhodi yokugqoka - izingubo noma izesekeli ezikhaleni eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Imvamisa kumenywa ujabule kuphela ngalezi ziphakamiso futhi usekele uhla lwezimbali lwezehlakalo ngokuhlobisa nezingubo zokugqoka.
Ingxenye emnandi yomkhosi, okungukuthi ikhekhe, ihlala iyisihluthulelo kunoma yimuphi umcimbi onesizotha. Akunandaba, abantu abangu-10 kuklanyelwe noma 50. I-Dessert kumele igcizelele umongo weholide ngokuqanjwa kwayo. Unga-oda umbhalo ekhekhe ukuhlonipha iminyaka engu-16 emshadweni womshado, bhala ukuhalalisela kwabalingani. Okunye kuncike emcabangweni wamakhasimende. Umbala wekhilimu ungabulala ama-topaz, ama-roses akhilimu kanye namasongo ku-tier ephezulu yamukelekile! Izibalo zothando zomyeni wakhe nenkosikazi yakhe eMarzipan noma i-Mastic - I-Charm uqobo uqobo! Sisika ubumnandi obunjalo nonkosikazi wakhe futhi baphathane ngezandla - isikhathi esingena ezinkumbulweni zentsha nosuku lomshado. Lokhu kuyisihluthulelo sokuqhubeka nokuphila okumnandi kanye namafreyimu amaningi ahlekisayo okukhumbula ku-albhamu yomndeni.
Maka izinsuku zakho hhayi ngethempulethi nezinye izigaba, kodwa ekhelini lenhliziyo nangomphefumulo. Tshala inhloso yakho ekhethekile eholidini futhi uphile ngenenjabulo okungenani kabili!
Okuningi mayelana nesikhumbuzo seminyaka engu-16 ubudala, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.