O, lo mshado, umshado ... Ngemuva komkhosi obalulekile nowabaphathi abasanda kushada, ngezinsuku zempilo yomndeni ziqala. Umbhangqwana ngamunye uhlukile ngezindlela ezihlukile. Iminyaka iya, isimo sengqondo ngokushintshana ngomunye nomunye, kuvela izingane. Futhi uma abashadikazi bekwazile ukuhlakanipha ukuhlala amashumi eminyaka, kusho ukuthi imizwa yabo yayingokoqobo.
Ubani igama lesikhumbuzo?
Iminyaka engama-37 yabalingani - Lesi yisikhathi lapho kwacaca ukuthi ama-halves amabili ahlangana emhlabeni futhi akwazi ukumelana nawo wonke ama-peripetics wekusasa. Lolu suku oluhle lunegama laso elingajwayelekile - umshado wesilisa. Kungani lolu suku lunegama elithandekayo? Imvamisa, imishado yamakhorali kanye ne-ruby kuphela egujwa phakathi kwesikhumbuzo seminyaka engama-35 nengu-40 yempilo yokuzalwa. Kepha iminyaka engama-37 - nalokhu futhi yisizathu sokugubha usuku, makube kungathandeki kusuka endaweni yokubukwa kwabanye. Angisona indlela, lesi yinkathi efanelekile lapho umyeni nomkayo sebevele benzile umndeni kanye namasiko alo, bakhulisa izingane futhi baze bajabulise abanye usuku endleleni yabo yokuphila ehlanganayo?
I-Muslin ihlala isikhathi eside, yize yangaphandle indwangu emncane kakhulu. Ezikhathini zasendulo, ubiza imali enkulu, njengoba yayidinga isikhathi esikhulu somzamo nomzamo wokukhiqizwa kwawo. Ungathengela kuphela abantu bomhlaba, ngakho-ke kwaziswa kakhulu, futhi abanikazi bezingubo kule Canvase bahlobana ngokucophelela nemikhiqizo yamaSulumane. Ukuthakazelisa okuthokozisayo kwesilika, ukotini noma imicu yoboya kuqinisekiswe amandla athembekile ezicubu - ngokunembile ngoba igama elithi "umshado wamaSulumane" lingumuntu othandana naye, okuyisici sabalingani abahlala ndawonye 37 selokhu kwashada.
Indwangu enjalo inzima kakhulu ukungenela izifinyezo, futhi ngenxa yokwenziwa kwayo kwakudingeka ukuthi ilinganise ngokucophelela futhi ilinganise isentimitha ngalinye lentambo - yilokhu ngqo lapho kwakhiwa khona ubudlelwano obuvumelanayo. Ukusola, ukungabethembi kanye nezicelo sekuvele emuva, imikhuba sekuyisikhathi eside ifundwe, kubulawa ama-whims. Phambili - vumela okungenakugwemeka, kodwa futhi nokuguga okuhlangene okuhlangene.
Izimpawu namasiko
Zonke izinsuku zomshado zokugubha usuku, njengomkhosi womshado uqobo unamasiko amaningi nezimpawu eRussia. Ngeshwa, ngosuku lokuphila okungu-37 lwempilo yemicikilisho ekhethekile, okhokho bethu abanakucatshangwa, noma kunjalo, lokhu akusho ukuthi usuku olunjalo luzohlala lungaziwa. Akube yi-Grand Trumpph enezicishamlilo kanye nokwenziwa kwezinkanyezi ze-POP, kepha ukuhlangana nokuvalwa kakhulu etafuleni elimbozayo.
Uyini umshado kanokusho ngaphandle komkhiqizo ovela endwangu, ukuhlonipha lolu suku ogama? Ithebula lamaholide elimbozwe yile ndwangu lizovela kusengaphambili imicimbi. Izivakashi zinganikeza nezicubu zezicubu ezivela kuma-muslin, mabazame ukuthinta ngendwangu emincane kakhulu futhi ehlala isikhathi eside, ukuqiniseka ukuthi impilo yabalingani iyahlala isikhathi eside futhi ithembekile.
Umkhosi kufanele usebenze njengesinye isizathu sobunye bamalungu omndeni - Ngemuva kwetafula elivulekile, abazali bangahlanganyela izindlela zokupheka zomndeni zenjabulo, khuluma ngamasiko emindeni, mayelana nokuthi bakwazi kanjani ukusinda ebunzimeni futhi bangaweli ngokomoya, banikeze izeluleko ezibalulekile ezinganeni nabazukulu. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuthi kulokhu kusihlwa endlini yabusa imvelo yangempela yomndeni - ngamahlaya, ukuhleka, izingoma, kungadansa.
Ungawugubha kanjani umgubho?
Bukela umgubho uzosiza inganekwane yakho kanye nesifiso sokwenza iholide langempela. Okokuqala, cabanga ngomklamo - isimo kufanele sibe ngumndeni, ngaphandle kwe-Pathos nezinkulumo ezisemthethweni. Amagama aqotho okuhalalisela futhi izifiso zizoba yinothi elikhulu emgubhweni. I-Meld ngalolu suku amakhethini ama-muslin emafasiteleni - mababe ngombala othandekayo wabashadikazi. Musa ukuthenga ama-bouquets abizayo - kungcono ukubuza inkosikazi yendlu, yiziphi izimbali abazithandayo. Ama-Vases nawo angahlelwa kulo lonke igumbi. Izimbali zokupompa zingathathelwa indawo ngamahlumela wokuhlobisa umhlobiso.
Odongeni kunconyelwa ukukhulisa izithombe ezithandekayo zenhliziyo: Umshado, nezingane, nabangane. Dlulisa amehlo kwi-albhamu yomndeni kusengaphambili, cishe uzothola lokho wena nabathandekayo. Kwesinye isikhathi izingane zabalingani zifuna ukugubha usuku oluhle kangaka hhayi ekhaya, kodwa ukunikeza abazali endaweni yokudlela. Lapho-ke kuzodingeka ukuthi uzilungiselele kakhulu - ukuhlobisa ihholo ngesihloko esifanele.
Umqondo omuhle kakhulu ngalolu suku uzoba yi-Photo Bhalongo labalingiswa abaphambili ngemuva kwemvelo, kungenzeka ukumane uhlele ukuhamba ngezindawo eziyizintandokazi nezikhumbuzo, lapho abashadikazi bazokhumbula khona izikhathi ezinhle zempilo ephilayo. Uma izivakashi zizomenyelwa emkhosini wakho, cabanga ngokucophelela ukwakheka kwesimemo. Thatha basebenzise izinombolo ezimbili ezithandekayo esithombeni - 37, khetha imibala emnene yamakhadi okuposa - makube ngamathunzi apinki noma egolide.
Isimo seholide kufanele sicatshangwe ngemininingwane emincane kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukujabulisa futhi ithakazelise izivakashi okufanele uzikhumbule isikhathi eside.
- Ngesikhathi somkhosi, kunohambo oluyinkimbinkimbi "uhambo lokuya esikhathini esidlule" phakathi kweziqu eziqotho. Uma kune-projektha ngaphakathi, khona-ke le yindlela ephelele. Khombisa noma yisiphi isithombe songobo yomlando nezivakashi ezisheshayo ukuqagela ukuthi ngubani okhonjiswe kukho, uyini umcimbi nalapho kwenzeka.
- Njengezifiso nemikhandlu ehlakaniphile, ukuthi ungamgcina kanjani umkhaya iminyaka eminingi ukusuka ku- "NewlyWeds", unganikeza izimvilophu namakhadi kuzo. Kuwo wonke kubo, abenzi bokubi bawo bagubha bangabhala okuthiwa banguFarewell izingane nabangane. Isibonelo: Ungawabona kanjani umuzwa wakho wecala futhi ucele intethelelo, ukuthi ungakugwema kanjani ukuxabana lapho kufanele uhambe khona ukuze uphumule ekuphileni okusindayo kwansuku zonke. Amakhadi anjalo wenhliziyo angashiywa ezivakashi ezinjengesikhumbuzo somcimbi omuhle kangaka.
Ngokuqondene nengxenye yokuhalalisela kusihlwa, lapha hhayi kuphela amagama awina kuphela wokuhalalisela kuzoba yinguqulo ye-win-win, kodwa futhi nokwethulwa kokuzithoba okuthobekile: "Ukubekezela nokukhuthazela kweminyaka engama-37 noma" iminyaka engama-37 Ukuhlala ndawonye, kugcwele injabulo, ukucindezela nokuzwana. " Konke kuncike emqondweni wakho wokuhlekisa nokumisa.
- Imibuzo mini quizzes idume impela kuyo yonke imikhosi. Ngosuku lwesikhumbuzo seminyaka engama-37 sokuhlala ndawonye, kungenzeka ukunikela abashadikazi ukufakazela abanye njengoba befunda imikhuba nokunambitha omunye komunye, noma ukuthi bananaka kangakanani. Isibonelo, oshade naye kufanele akhumbule ukuthi imiphi imimoya esedlule yanikezwa yona ngengxenye yazo. Yimuphi umculi othanda kakhulu owakwakhe ngokweqile. Futhi, unkosikazi unesibopho sokukhumbula, lapho iqembu lakhe ligula ngalo njalonjalo. Njengomklomelo, kunconywa ukwethula umklomelo wokuqala kubo bobabili abenzi bokubi bemgubho: umcamelo omiswe ngenhliziyo noma amathikithi aseshashalazini.
- Imibuzo efanayo ingenziwa kubo bonke abanye abamenyiwe. Isibonelo, izingane zabephula umthetho wezomkhosi zingathi "ziphenywe" ngesihloko, okuyinkondlo eyaba ngakuqala ngabo kanye nabazali bayo, okuyinto yokudlala eyintandokazi yethulwe ngosuku lokuqala, njll.
- Uma umcimbi onesizotha ubanjelwa ekhaya, abashadikazi bakho abathandayo bangahanjiswa etafuleni. Kuliqiniso, asikho isidingo sokuhlukumeza izitsha ezinamafutha nezekhalori. Kwesinye isikhathi amasemishi ahlotshiswe kahle. Kodwa-ke, akufanele ukhohlwe ngamaswidi - lapha bayoba ngaphezu kokufanele. Iwayini elimnandi, uswidi kanye noshokoledi kungaba ngumuntu onothando - inkanuko futhi inqabane, kanye nezinkumbulo ezimnandi.
- Isiphetho sokugujwa komndeni kufanele kube ikhekhe, elihlotshiswe ngezinombolo ezivele zaziwa - 37. Kuvunyelwe ukusebenzisa amagama abashadikazi, izinto zokuhlobisa ezivela kuma-mastic: izinhliziyo, izimbali. Abanye abaqeqeshiwe abaqeqeshiwe bangakunikeza ikhekhe elingajwayelekile, elihlotshiswe ngesithombe sabaphikisi bomgubho. Kuyadingeka impela - kwenziwe ngosizo lokudla kokudla kanye nephrinta yokudla. Uma ufisa, ubuciko obuhle obunjalo be-confectionery Art bungahlotshiswa nge-collage kusuka esithombeni.
-Okukhona manje
Yebo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukunquma ukuthi yini ukwethula abashadikazi ngosuku lomgubho womshado wamaSulumane. Igama lakhe uqobo libandakanya uhlobo lwezipho. Imikhiqizo evela ezindwangu izoba yindlela: amakhethini ama-muslin nama-tableccoths, iqoqo lama-napkin anjalo okudlela. Kuliqiniso, indwangu enjalo manje ayivamisile ukutholakala, ngakho-ke okukhona manje kungaba okungokomfanekiso:
- Muslin noma isethi yelineni eliphakeme kakhulu;
- I-plaid, isethi yamathawula noma imicamelo;
- Izingane zingavimba abazali ama-T-shirts afanayo noma amathoni we-pastel anokuphrinta kwezithombe (izithombe zabalingani noma izithombe zomndeni jikelele);
- Isipho esihle kakhulu esizoba umdwebo womndeni kwi-canvas yangempela eyenziwe ngopende;
- Njengoba kunikezwe iminyaka ye- "NewlyWeds", ungabanika isando sokuzijabulisa noma ngezihlalo ezinamafutha;
- I-Soft, Ikhwalithi ephezulu yeTerry Bathrobes yombala ofanayo izojabulisa abashadikazi isikhathi eside ngemuva kosuku lomgubho.
Uma uthatha isinqumo sokungazinikezeli izipho zendabuko, kodwa zisebenziseka kakhulu, bese uvimba ukukhetha kwakho kwimishini yobungcweti, izitsha zasekhishini, ngokwesibonelo, iqoqo le-saucepan enhle.
Inketho yesipho esiphelele nguhambo lwabavakashi ogwini noma eSanatorium. Uma lesi yisiphakamiso esibize kakhulu, ungahamba uhambo lwangempelasonto kunoma iyiphi indawo engokomlando.
Kwenzeka ukuthi izivakashi ezisendlini yabalingani ziye emkhosini, futhi ngemuva kokushayela zizungeze, bese ekhaya ziba nesizungu futhi zidabuke. Kulokhu, nikeza "abasanda kushada" isilwane ikati noma inja efuyayo engavamile.
Qiniseka ukuthi zonke izinsuku ezilandelayo abashadikazi bazohlala, ngeke baphuthelwe. Indlela umcimbi onesizotha emndenini wakho ozobanjwa ngayo, kuya ngesimo sakho kuphela nesifiso sokwenza okumnandi. Yize kunjalo, labo abaphila ndawonye iminyaka engama-37 bayakufanele.
Yini enye okufanele unikeze umbhangqwana oshadile owaphila iminyaka engama-37 ndawonye, ungafunda kuvidiyo engezansi.