Umshado ungenye yezehlakalo ezibaluleke kakhulu futhi ezithokozisayo empilweni yanoma yimuphi umuntu. Ngakho-ke, abazali bomakoti noMlobokazi banemibuzo eminingi maqondana nenhlangano yalomgubho. Iphuzu elijabulisayo ikakhulukazi ukukhetha kwesipho. Kulesi sihloko sizobheka izinketho zezipho ezivela kubazali ziye endodaneni yakho futhi zinikeze imibono ehlukahlukene yasekuqaleni.
Imali
Hhayi okwangempela, kepha isipho esisebenza kakhulu kuzoba yimali. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi esikhathini esizayo, abasanda kushada bazodinga ukuchitha imali bahlomise izindlu zabo, benze ukulungiswa. Ikakhulu efanelekile isipho esinjalo sombhangqwana, esibonisa maduze ukuthola izibulo. Futhi, uma abasanda kushada bengenalo ithuba lokukhokhela izindleko zomshado, abazali bakamakoti kanye noMlobokazi bangazithatha ngokwabo.
Ungavimbela imali ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene. Imali ingafakwa ebhokisini noma emvilophini, kuyilapho ngeke ibe khona ama-unmasses ngesifiso sokuqala noma ukucela umsebenzi othile ohlekisayo. Esinye isipho sendodana kungaba izinkinobho zendlu noma emotweni. Kuliqiniso, akubona bonke abazali abanethuba lokumangala emshadweni emntwaneni wabo.
Isitifiketi sezipho
Njengamanje, izitolo eziningi zinikeza ithuba lokuthenga nokunikeza izitifiketi zokuthengwa kwanoma iyiphi inqubo noma ifenisha. Uma ungazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi hlobo luni lwemishini noma ifenisha oludingekayo, thatha isitifiketi esitolo ngenani elithile, futhi abasanda kushada bazokwazi ukuthenga konke okudingayo.
Isenzakalo esingasoze samangala ngokuphila ezinganeni ngemuva komshado kungaba uhambo noma uhambo lokuhamba ngezinyawo amahora amabili nanye amazwe athile. Uhambo oluya olwandle lungafaka futhi nomkhosi womshado onezifungo ezisesimweni sothando. I-honeymoon enjalo izoletha imizwa eminingi emihle kanye nemibono emibini enomdlavuzi, futhi izogcwalisa nezinkumbulo ezifudumele nenjabulo ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu zokuhlala ndawonye.
Usenganikeza isitifiketi sokuphumula kwi-sanatorium noma i-spa yokuqeqeshwa kokubili, ukufukula, gxuma i-parachute, ibhaluni ukundiza, uhambo oluya ezintabeni, ohambweni emfuleni. Ukuzijabulisa okuhlukahlukene okuhlukahlukene kufanelekile uma kushadewe ama-Newlywed isikhathi sokuchitha isikhathi. Kepha njengomthetho, izitifiketi ezinjalo kufanele zisebenze njengokungezwa okuhle kwesipho esiyinhloko.
Ukuhalalisela ngakunye
Kuyavunyelwa, ngaphezu kwesipho jikelele, i-Young, yenza isimangalo somuntu wakhe. Unganikeza ama-cufflink, namasongo, amaketanga enziwe ngezinsimbi eziyigugu, amagugu omndeni adluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane, izinto ezahlukahlukene ezikhumbulekayo, kanye namaphethelo wetafula. Ungagxila futhi kokuzilibazisa nokuzilibazisa kwendodana futhi uthole lokho ayephupha ngakho, ngokwesibonelo, ikhamera ekhokhelwayo, insimbi yomculo, amasethishi wezemidlalo, i-gadget yesimanje, njll.
Isipho emshadweni wendodana singanikelwa ngokwahlukana kusuka kumama futhi ngokwahlukana nobaba. Uma othile evela kubazali enamathalenta, khona-ke kuyadingeka ukucubungula nokuhlela ukuhalalisela okunjalo okunjalo. Isibonelo, kungaba isethulo somculo esivela kubaba noma ufunde inkondlo ye-eseyi yayo kanye nokwenza iculo elivela kumama.
Into esemqoka ukukhumbula ukuthi uthando nezifiso eziqotho ngosuku lomshado kuzoba zibaluleke kakhulu kunoma yiziphi izipho ezibonakalayo.
Izipho ezimbili
Izipho, ezifanekisela ubudlelwano babathandi, ezibizwa ngokuthi ngababili. Izipho ezinjalo zifiseleka ukuvikela ama-Young emshadweni. Yize kunjalo, abazali bazokwazi ukukhombisa isimo sabo esihle ngomcimbi obaluleke kangaka empilweni yengane yabo, noma ngabe bengenamali enkulu.
Izipho ezinjalo zifaka ukuthengwa kwensizakalo ebizayo, iqoqo lezitsha nezinye izinto zasekhishini, ilineni lokulala elivela endwangu ephezulu. Lokhu kungaba yizikhumbuzo ezibalulekile neminye imikhiqizo yezandla, isithombe noma incwadi yezithombe enesithombe sabathandi, uku-oda umkhonzo wamakhosi, umthwebuli wezithombe kanye nerekhodi levidiyo, ukuhlela ukuhlela umshado, njll.
Umbono othokozisayo wokuhalalisela uzobona kuvidiyo elandelayo.