Umshado uyiholide hhayi kuphela kwabasanda kushada, kodwa futhi nabazali babo. Umakoti omakoti nomama umakoti kufanele anake ngokukhethekile. Nikeza isikhathi emkhosini futhi uveze uthando lwakho nokubonga kubo - isifiso semvelo sezingane esifanele inhlonipho.
Ungakulungiselela kanjani?
Ukubonga okuhle kakhulu kumama emshadweni kuzoba amagama amahle aqotho akhulume ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Lo mzuzu ujabulisa kakhulu. Ngisho nezikhulumi ezinolwazi ezijwayele imizwa yokuthwebula umphakathi, futhi kuvela kukhubazekile. Isipho sokuthuthuka singashiyekile singashiya umzuzu onomthwalo wemfanelo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukulungiselela kusengaphambili.
Thola isikhathi esincane sokuthatha umhlalaphansi futhi ube sodwa nawe nangemizwa yakho umama. Khumbula amacala ahlekisayo kusukela ebuntwaneni, isimo lapho ngithola izeluleko noma usizo lukamama. Hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi konke kubushelelezi ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Ngalolu suku, akufanele ukhumbule ukucasuka nezikhalazo.
Sketch umbhalo ephepheni. Ungabathatha njengesisekelo sezikhala ezenziwe ngomumo, kepha kungcono ukwenza ngaphandle kwezifanekiso. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi libizwa ngenani elikhulu lezivakashi, ngokuyinhloko lihloselwe umama. Ukusuka kuma-pompous, amabinzana anozwela kufanele ashiywe ngokukhetha amagama afudumele alula kakhulu nezithombe eziqondakalayo ngakho.
Khetha ukuphatha umama wamagama athambile kakhulu: umuhle, othandekayo, othandekayo, othandekayo, wegolide. Masizwisise ukuthi kuyisihlobo noma umama osondele kakhulu akusikho kuwe ekukhanyeni komuntu.
Umbhalo osulungiselelwe Funda ngenhliziyo, uphinde usebenze kaningana. Uma kunjalo, pheka ishidi lokukopela ngokubonga eposini lamaholide. Izinkondlo ezinhle zizoba ukwengeza okuhle kakhulu. Futhi ingoma eyenziwe izoba umhlobiso okhanyayo futhi othinta inhliziyo womgubho.
Umqondo omuhle - khombisa ama-slides ngezithombe zezingane ezivela ku-albhamu yomndeni.
Kusuka endodakazini
Ukubonisa ukubonga, indodakazi ingatshela izivakashi ngezimfanelo ezinhle kanye nemizwa kanina, ukubiza izici zesimo somlingiswa, amakhono atholakalayo namakhono, ngiyabonga ngothando lwazo kubo bonke usizi nezimpawu. Ngokuthamba nobumnene ohlangothini olulodwa, nobunzima futhi bufuna - kwenye. Umsebenzi womama nomzamo, ukungalali ebusuku, izifiso ezinhle nezibusiso kwakungelona ize. Konke ukuqomisana manje sekuzokwambulwa empilweni yomndeni. Futhi ukuholelwa okuhle kakhulu kumama ngempilo eyethulwe, ubuntwana obujabulisayo kanye nentsha ekhanyayo kuzoba yindodana yendodakazi ezoletha lelo thuba ukwenza okufanayo ezinganeni zayo.
Umama uzoba muhle ukuzwa ukuthi yize ayenezinkinga ezingapheli emsebenzini wasendlini, emsebenzini, abanakekele abathandekayo, muhle futhi unethalente, ingabe imodeli yokulingisa umakoti omakoti wakhe.
Qiniseka ukuthi ugcizelela ukuthi yize kuneqiniso lokuthi indoda nomkhaya omusha bavele babhekane nendodakazi endala, umamatha, ukuhlakanipha, isipiliyoni sempilo kubaluleke kakhulu kulesi sigaba sempilo yakhe kungaphansi kwalesi sigaba sakhe.
Ozithobayo "Ngiyabonga" kufanele ngabe usho umama ngokubamba iqhaza ezinkingeni zangaphambi kwamaholide kanye nokulungiselela umakoti ukuzogubha, izipho nosizo lwezinto ezibonakalayo.
Ngosuku lomshado, umakoti uthola umama wesibili - umkhwekazi. Umkhwenyana omnandi kakhulu umama uvela kuMlobokazi okwazisa ngegama lokukhuliswa kweNdodana. Ekhuluma ngezinzuzo zendoda yakhe nokubona okufanelekile kulokhu, umama wakhe, umakoti akubonisi nje inhlonipho, kodwa futhi ufunda ukwakha ubuhlobo nezihlobo zesikhathi esizayo.
Kusuka endodaneni.
Amadoda avame kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukubhekana nenjabulo, hhayi ukungqongqoza futhi ube ngokwakho, ngokucacile nangokucacile imicabango yakho, khombisa imizwa eqotho: inhlonipho, ukuqashelwa nothando.
Indodana ngiyabonga umama ngobumnene, ukunakekelwa, ukuqonda, ukubekezela nokucashunwe, izifundo eziwusizo nezeluleko. Ukuze iqiniso lokuthi ezikhathini ezinzima zokukhulisa umama eziduduza, kusho amagama amhlophe, wazama ukusetshenziselwa, futhi wakwenza. Ngeqiniso lokuthi kwesinye isikhathi izidingo nezintshisekelo zengane eziphakamise zona. Ukuze iqiniso lokuthi umvikeli nomondli bamlethela futhi bamholela eqinisweni lokuthi manje wayesengaba nesibopho somndeni wakhe omusha futhi anakekele umfazi osemusha.
Ungacela intethelelo ngenxa yokuvukela nokungabaza ukulalela. Okwahlukanga kuphela ebuntwaneni futhi ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi 'sobudala obunzima.' Ukuzizwa amandla akho, efuna ukuqeda ukugcinwa, imvamisa abafana bamazwi abo abukhali balimaze omama, abawulaphi.
Enhliziyweni yakhe, omunye umfazi ubusa manje - unkosikazi. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uthando lukaMama luselukhulu futhi iNdodana isekela futhi isivikelo ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Lokhu kunjalo lapho kufanele ungabizi imizwa yakho futhi unikezwe imizwa.
Umakoti kaMama kamakoti nawo ngeke asho nje amazwi okwazisa. Yize kunjalo, kusukela manje, uhlakaniphile wakhe nobuhle bungena komunye umndeni. Umkhwenyana kubalulekile ukukwenza kucace ukuthi ngaphansi kokuphakama kwakhe, unkosikazi osemusha uzojabula, aphile ngokuchuma nangobuningi. Azikho izizathu zokukhathazeka nokukhathazeka. Ungabonga ubuhle nokukhanya komakoti. Futhi ukuthandana nokubuka okugcwele kokudunyiswa, kuphonswe efenisha osemusha, kuzobe kungamagama athile.
Imiphefumulo yolwandle izinyembezi, gcwalisa isiko kungaba ngumnsalo ovela kumakoti nomkhwenyana noma ukuvalwa okufudumele.
Isibonelo samazwi okubonga umama endodakazini yami emshadweni, bheka ividiyo engezansi.