Ngobusuku bomcimbi obaluleke kangaka, njengomshado, abantu abaningi bahlela iqembu leBachelor. Lesi sihloko sizokhuluma ngokuthi ngubani okufanele ahlele umcimbi futhi akhokhe zonke izindleko, njengoba iqembu le-bachelor livame ukubanjwa, futhi yini enikezwa umkhwenyana.
Yini?
Ngaphambi komshado, kufanele ube nesoka - bafana abaningi banamuhla banamathela kulo mbono. Ukuhlela iphathi ukuhlonipha umkhwenyana - Lolu uhlobo lwesiko oluye lwadlula kudala emazweni amaningi omhlaba. Njengomthetho, umcimbi onjalo ujabule kakhulu. Inkampani yabangane eholwa nguMyeni iyahamba, futhi wonke umuntu egubha izinsuku zokugcina zempilo yeBachelor yomngani wazo.
Imvamisa iqembu le-bachelor lenziwa ukuze umkhwenyana kamuva, nabo bonke abanye abangane, kwakuyinto okufanele bayikhumbule. Konke ukuthokozela kwempilo enomdlandla, umkhwenyana osemncane kufanele azizwe kuleli qembu ahlela ukuhlonishwa kwakhe.
Kune-stereotype enjalo yokuthi iqembu leBachelor kumele liphakamise umfula utshwala obuhlukahlukene, kufanele kube nesixuku sabadansi abalungele konke, njalonjalo. Imvamisa, lo mbono ulandelwa omakoti, ohlale ephikisana nabantu abanjalo. Kepha kaningi, ama-bacher enzeka nhlobo njengoba kubonakala emantombazaneni. Umcimbi ungathakazelisa, ujabule futhi ulungele izingxenyana zokuhlonishwa. Cabanga ngeminye imibono yokuthi ungahlela kanjani iphathi ye-bachelor enjalo. Kepha ngakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ngubani ohlela futhi akhokhe?
Kwisiko elisunguliwe lokuhlelela umcimbi onjalo, njengeqembu le-bachelor, lo Fakazi uthathwa nguFakazi.
Imvamisa, njengofakazi womshado, abafana bamema abahle kakhulu nezihlobo zabo noma othile ezihlotsheni eziseduze. Ngakho-ke, kungubufakazi bokuthi konke ukunambitheka nokuncamelayo komyeni kufanele bazi, kungahlela iqembu elingalibaleki kuye.
Imvamisa, zonke izindleko zezimali zazo zithatha ubufakazi bomkhwenyana. Kepha kungenzeka kakhulu ukuhlanganisa imizamo nalabo abazoya ephathini. Kulokhu, wonke ama-voup ahlukaniswe ngokulinganayo phakathi kwabo bonke ababambiqhaza bomfana. Kwenzeka futhi ukuthi i-feance uqobo iphinde itshalwe ephathini yesikhathi esizayo. Imibuzo ebucayi enjalo ixazululwa kusengaphambili, kanyekanye phakathi kwabangane kanye nabangane abazobe bekhona emfana.
Kuyafaneleka ukukuqaphela lokho Imvamisa, abangane abaholwa nguFakazi bahlela ngasese emcimbini ofanayo womkhwenyana futhi bahlele ukumangala okukhulu kuye. Futhi umbuzo wezezimali uzoxazululwa kanjani, futhi ubani ozokhokhela umcimbi, vele ancike kumakhono omuntu ngamunye.
Kwenziwa nini?
Njengomthetho, ngemuva kokuzibandakanya futhi kuze kube lusuku lomshado, abantu abasha bahlala okungenani inyanga. Ngakho-ke, iphathi ye-bachelor kungaba lula ukuhlela noma yiluphi usuku ngaphambi komgubho. Vele, kungcono ukungahleli izehlakalo ezifanayo nangosuku noma ezimbili emshadweni uqobo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, isonto eledlule ngaphambi kokuba umcimbi obaluleke kangaka uhlala ushubile, futhi kusekhona izinto eziningi okufanele zenziwe ukuze zenziwe ngaphambi komshado. Ngakho-ke, isikhathi esifanele sokubamba isoka ukuwuhlela amasonto amabili ngaphambi komshado.
Uma isikhathi sihlala sincane kakhulu, ungahlela iphathi yomkhwenyana okungenani izinsuku ezinhlanu ngaphambi komshado. Okwamanje kulokhu kwanele ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bonke ababambe iqhaza esokani beza ngokwabo ngemuva kweqembu futhi baye emshadweni bezempilo ngokugcwele.
Ungahlela kanjani?
Kungenzeka ukuthi uhambe inkampani enkulu futhi enomsindo emugqeni oseduze, futhi lapho kumnandi ukuchitha isikhathi. Kepha nakanjani wonke umuntu ufuna iqembu elinjalo ukuba lihambe ngandlela thile lingajwayelekile futhi ngakhumbula umkhwenyana nabangane bakhe isikhathi eside. Kunemibono eminingana ezokusebenzisa bonke labo abahlela ukuhlela iqembu leBachelor esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Vuma ukuthi wonke umuntu uthanda kakhulu futhi ijubane. Ngakho-ke, ungahlela abafana endaweni ethile engajwayelekile, ngokwesibonelo, ukuhlela umjaho wangempela eKarting. Bonke abafana bathanda ukushayela imishini, futhi i-karting iyindlela engcono kakhulu.
Lapho, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuhlela i-buffet encane, khona-ke ukugubha ukunqoba komunye wabangane ndawonye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungahlelela kuqala ama-diploma asekuqaleni futhi akhumbuleke kulowo nalowo obambe iqhaza walo mncintiswano othuthukisiwe. Vele, idiploma elikhulu kufanele lithole umkhwenyana.
Uma umkhwenyana engawathandi amakhadi, kepha uthanda ijubane, kungenzeka ukuthi udlulele ngalé komuzi ukuze kube nokusuka enhliziyweni ibhayisekili le-quad. Futhi uma isikhathi sesiqale, kungenzeka kuma-snowmobile. Ukuba semvelweni, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuhlela uhlobo lokufuna. Ungahlela konke kusengaphambili, futhi uzosizwa ukwenza amakhadi anemisebenzi ethokozisayo. Kuzoba mnandi ukushayela uzungeze imvelo, dlula ngezingqinamba ezahlukahlukene, futhi ekugcineni uthole umklomelo oyinhloko. Ekupheleni kwesifiso esinjalo, ungaletha umkhwenyana ngaphambi kwesipho esilungiselelwe, noma ukuhlela iqembu endlini yehlathi. Isoka elinjalo lizothanda lo mfo.
I-Bachelor Party iyiphathi yomkhwenyana. Futhi ngenxa yalokho kuzoba yinto enengqondo impela uma iphupho lakhe lokuma isikhathi eside ligcwaliseka emcimbini onjalo. Isibonelo, uma wazi kahle ukuthi umkhwenyana kade waphupha nge-Aerotrub noma nge-parachute gxuma, pho kungani wonke umuntu engeke afeze iphupho elide lomkhosi. Futhi ngemuva kokuqala okunjalo kwesoka, kungenzeka ukuthi uye ku-nightclub yasebusuku noma bar, futhi sekuvele lapho ukuze uqhubeke nobumnandi.
Esimweni lapho umgubho uhlelelwe ngenkathi ebusika, kungcono ukuya ezintabeni. Lapho ungasusa i-cottage ethokomele ngalo mcimbi omnandi. Ukwenza sikwazi ukugibela ntambama, ungagibela amabhodi eqhwa noma i-skis. Ngemuva kwezokuzijabulisa ezinjalo, kuzokujabulisa kakhulu ukuqhubeka kusihlwa kwi-cottage efudumele futhi ethokomele, ukufudumala nendawo yomlilo ngengilazi yewayini elibunjiwe, nangemva kokuhlela iqembu elinomsindo ngokudansa.
Nomaphi lapho uhlela khona isoka, ukuze ajabule futhi angalibaleki, kuyadingeka ukulungiselela imincintiswano ehlukahlukene ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ukwenza isibonelo, isifuba somkhwenyana azenzela ukungakhohlwa abangane futhi sihlangane nabo okungenani kanye ngenyanga, sesivele sibe yingxenye yendabuko neyokuhlanganisa ye-Bachelor Party.
Buka Okuningi.
Yini Okufanele?
Njengoba isoka liyisigamu esifanayo esibalulekile empilweni yomuntu, njengomshado, khona-ke abangane bavame ukunika umkhwenyana ezifundeni ze-bachelor Party yasekuqaleni nezenkumbulo. Kuyiqiniso, inhlangano yomcimbi ngokwayo iyisipho, kodwa ngihlala ngifuna ukwethula okuthile okuzokhumbuza umkhwenyana ngalokhu kuhanjiswa kusihlwa.
Okwamanje akumele kubize, ngoba usazonikeza izipho zomshado. Futhi njengesipho ukuhlonipha i-Bachelor Party, isethulo esincane esikhumbulekayo futhi esinamahlaya kufanelekile impela.
Isibonelo, unganikeza umkhwenyana indawo yokugeza ngokunethezeka enombhalo wokuqala, othile ihlaya, owaziyo kuphela. Futhi njengesipho, i-T-shirt enomyalo wokukhunjulwa mayelana nesoka esedlule kufanelekile impela.
Indoda ngayinye izokujabulela ukunikeza isipho esinjengebhodlela lesiphuzo esidakayo esithandekayo. Ngendlela, lesi sikhona singahambisana nekhadi leposi lamahlaya, nangemva kokuthatha isifungo nomkhwenyana ukuthi sonke sizophula, ngokwesibonelo, ngonyaka olandelayo.
Uma wazi ngokuqinisekile ngezinto zokuzilibazisa nokuzilibazisa okwenziwe umkhosi, ungakunika izesekeli noma amagajethi azoqiniseka nakanjani. Isibonelo, kungahle kube nokuphetha nge-amateur yokudoba, uhlamvu lwemali oluhlanganayo lokuzwana, okulula okulula kwabathandi baka-cigars, isigqoko esisha sangezithuthuthu ze-amateur nokunye. Lesi sipho kumkhwenyana nakanjani sizojabula.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka umnikeze isipho esinjalo, ukuze sisebenzise anakho noshade naye osemncane. Isibonelo, leli ithikithi lezinsuku ezimbalwa endlini yezwe yokugibela, isitifiketi sokugxuma ngeparachute ama-parachute amabili, ukubamba ihlumela lesithombe, ngokugibela amahhashi nokunye. Ukunakwa okunjalo okuvela kubangani ngeke kuqabule hhayi kuphela umfelamu uqobo, kodwa noMlobokazi wakhe omncane. Intombazane ngokushesha izoqonda ukuthi abangane bakhe abahle futhi abakhathalelayo banabangani abanendaba futhi abakhathalelayo, futhi bayokujabulela ukumvumela ukuba aye emihlanganweni nabangane.
