Wonke amazwe angcwele kunamasiko namasiko abokhokho babo emikhakheni eminingi yempilo. Intshisekelo ethile kulokhu kulokhu ngumcimbi womshado, okuyizwe ngalinye elinezici zalo zesimo. I-Azerbaijan, lapho ukudalwa komndeni kusondela khona ngokwedlulele, akufani. Umshado we-Azerbaijani wandulelwa ngukulungiselela okukhulu, kufaka phakathi izenzo eziningi zesiko.
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Izithombe
Izici zokukhetha umakoti
Umkhosi womshado e-Azerbaijan uqukethe amasiko ahlukahlukene emkhosini, amasiko amadala, aphethwe ngaphambi komshado, nangemva kwalo. Ngokuya komshado, umshado kuleli lizwe ubonakaliswa ngobubanzi nakuPomp. Njengakwenye indawo, e-Azerbaijan, isidoda sibeka izici zokuziphatha ezitholwe mahhala.
Kepha amasiko adinga ukuthi i-Azerbaijenic esencane yehluka ngesizotha sokuziphatha. Amantombazane avame ukuxhumana kakhulu nezintombi kuphela, agweme umphakathi wentsha.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ekukhetheni umakoti wesikhathi esizayo kungokwendoda. Kepha umbono wabazali ubhekwa ngokuqinile, umkhwenyana wesikhathi esizayo kufanele athole imvume yawo ekubunjweni nentombazane ekhethwe nguYe. Intsha ilandela umbono wabazali bayo futhi ingakaze ibe nayo. Ukungavunyelwa ngabazali kuvame ukuguqula amapulani we-Guy.
Ukubukeka nokukhanga kwentombazane kuhlala kudlala indima enkulu. Le nsizwa ikhombisa le ntombazane kubazali bayo, emva kwalokho umndeni wakhe ubuza ngentombazane nomndeni wakhe. Uma kwenzeka abazali bakaGuy bathola okuthile abangayenele, bamemezela ngokushesha ngakho. Uma intombazane yanelisekile nabazali kukho konke, khona-ke enye yezihlobo ikhokhiswa imininingwane eningilizayo. Njengokubhukuda, udadewethu omdala womkhwenyana, umalume wakhe, ugogo.
Ukuqoqa imininingwane, ukunakwa okuningi kwe-Swaha kukhokhela isimo sezinto ezibonakalayo zomndeni wentombazane Ukuthola ukuthi umyeni wesikhathi esizayo uzokwazi ukuhlinzeka ngezimo zomkakhe zempilo yomndeni. Isimo senhlalo futhi sibaluleke kakhulu emphakathini womndeni wakhe, noma ngabe siyayihlonipha negunya. Izimfanelo zomuntu siqu zomakoti ziyabhekwa. Imfundo yendabuko yase-Azerbaijani idinga intombazane ukuba ifunde abazali nazo zonke izihlobo, isimo sokukhathalela maqondana namalungu omndeni omncane.
Izimfanelo ezilandelayo zomakoti wekusasa ziyatholakala:
- ukuthobeka nokuziphatha emphakathini;
- amakhono ezomnotho;
- Amakhono E-Culinary;
- isimo sempilo yakhe;
- izinga lemfundo.
Iminyaka yentombazane ayimeleli ukubaluleka okuningi. Amasiko e-Azerbaijan akuvumela ukuba ushade nentombazane ngemuva kokufinyelela iminyaka engu-14.
Kunezikhathi ezithile ezivinjelwe:
- AmaSulumane akakwazi ukushada nomuntu wangaphakathi, kanti indoda yamaSulumane ingashada nomKristu noJoyse;
- Imishado engamukeleki ngegazi enegazi ezihlotsheni eziqondile.
Ngemuva kokuhambisana nazo zonke izikhathi nokwamukelwa ngabazali emndenini, amantombazane athumela esinye isihlobo sokuthola umbono wabazali bakhe. NguYise wakhe okufanele avume le nyunyana. Ngemuva kokuthola imvume kaYise, umcimbi womenzi womdlalo uyaqhubeka.
Unjani?
E-Azerbaijan, wabikwa nakho kunemininingwane yawo: Kuqukethe izigaba ezimbili - uthando luncane futhi lukhulu. Udonga oluncane luqala ngengxoxo kayise wale nsizwa nomndeni wakhe wonke. Wonke umuntu uveza umbono wakhe ayelalele kuwo. Futhi kuphela emva kwalokho, umdlalo wathunyelwa emndenini womakoti.
Njengomthetho, umama kanye nezihlobo ezintathu zomkhwenyana (odade abadala, umalume, ugogo) ababambe iqhaza kuMdlalo omncane. Ngemuva kokwenza izixazululo ezihlanganyelwe kwabesifazane bazo zombili imindeni, obaba bemindeni bahlangana ngokuqhubeka komdlalo. Ubaba kaYunoi kumele ahambisane nabesilisa abathathu: noma izihlobo, noma abantu, bonke abahlonishwayo. Ubaba uveza uyise wesifiso sowesifazane osemusha wokushada nendodana yakhe.
Ngemuva kwesiko, uYise womakoti wenqaba kuqala, abhekise eqinisweni lokuthi kubalulekile ukwazi umbono wendodakazi uqobo. Ngokuvumelana, intombazane ithule. Ngalesi siphetho sokwehla kwezinkomba, futhi abenzi bokubhala bathi kuhle.
Isigaba sesibili ngumdlalo omkhulu - uqala ngengxoxo yomndeni womshado we-Azerbaijan womakoti. Abesifazane abavela emndenini womkhwenyana baya entombazaneni ukuthola izifiso zakhe ngokuqondene nomshado wesikhathi esizayo. Emva kwalokho, kuqokwe usuku lokuhambela umenzi womdlalo.
Ukwabiwa okuphindaphindiwe kudlula ngokuqinile nangokudumazeka ebukhoneni babavakashi. Isitshalo somdlalo endaweni ehlonishwayo kakhulu futhi siphatha ngesandla esivulekile ngezitsha ezahlukahlukene ze-azerbaijani cuisine.
Ukuya kuMlobokazi omkhulu odongeni akukwazi, kungekho lapho umama, emyisa ezintombini zakhe. Umama wentombazane obuyisiwe ngesikhathi sokuloba ulonda ukuthula, ngaleyo ndlela aveze ukukhathalela kwakhe ngekusasa lendodakazi yakhe.
Izihlobo zentombazane ziyizingxoxo ezivuzayo nabadlali bemidlalo. Lo mcimbi ubanjelwe esimweni esifudumele futhi kuxoxwa okokuqala izihloko zangaphandle: imicimbi yasemadolobheni noma yasemakhaya, izindaba, isimo sezulu. Futhi kuphela emva kwalokho, umbuzo oyinhloko wokuvumelana komshado uyabuzwa. Ubaba ka-Azerbaijani ubusisa abasebasha, futhi omunye wodadewethu egijimisana nokwazisa izindaba ezijabulisayo zomakoti, ongabuya ekhaya kuphela ngemuva kokusebenzela umdlalo.
Abazali bahalalisela indodakazi okufanele bakhale ngesiko - ifanekisela impilo yomndeni ejabulisayo.
Bese wenza isiko lokuzibandakanya, futhi kabili. Ukusetshenziswa kokuzibandakanya okuncane endlini ngomakoti. Umkhwenyana omethembayo ubeka indandatho yomakoti omunwe, nasekhanda lakhe - induku. Ngemuva kokudla okunengxenye yokudla okumnandi, okuseleyo kuhlobene nesomiso.
Ngemuva kokusuka kwezithunywa zomyeni, umakoti wanelisekile nge-Bachelorette Party: amboze itafula ngazo zonke izinhlobo zezitsha ezimnandi, ezifanekisela impilo ejabulisayo nokuchuma emndenini.
Ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, ukuganwa kwesibili kudlula. Kuphawuleka kabanzi ngesimemo saye hhayi kuphela izihlobo, kodwa futhi nabangane, omakhelwane. URodin Groom uletha izipho zomakoti. Ngemuva kwayo womabili imindeni ikhuluma ngenani lokuhlenga kabusha kanye nemigomo yenkontileka lapho inani lesinxephezelo semali lixoxiswana ngalo nesehlukaniso esingenzeka.
Impilo yanamuhla ngashintsha izidingo zemithetho yokudala umndeni. ERussia, njengamanje, ama-Union asemsamweni wamazwe omhlaba, kufaka phakathi i-Azerbaijanis nesiRussia, sekuyiqiniso elijwayelekile. Umshado onjalo kungenzeka uma izihlobo zomkhwenyana zingaphiki emshadweni waseRussia - Azerbaijani.
Uma, ngemuva komshado, umndeni onjalo uya ezwe lomyeni wakhe, khona-ke umka-Russian unkosikazi waseRussia kuzodingeka ajwayele futhi athathe wonke amasiko e-Azerbaijan.
Amasiko omcimbi womshado
Ukusuka ekubandakanyeni kuze kube umshado kufanele uvame ukuhambisa izinyanga ezimbalwa ezidingekayo ukuze uzilungiselele. Kunamasiko okufanele awenze ngalesi sikhathi neminye imikhakha ethokozisayo engatheni. Kudala ngaphambi komshado, indoda emindenini emibili inikezela ngosuku lokugubha umshado futhi inqume izikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu njengemenyu, ukuhambisana komculo, inani labamenyiwe.
Ngesikhathi sokulungiselela umshado, umndeni womkhwenyana unikeza umakoti izipho ezahlukahlukene: Indwangu enhle, izingubo ezihlotshiswe ngokuhlotshiswe ngokuhlotshiswa, izikhafu zemibala ehlukahlukene, imihlobiso.
Ngobusuku bomgubho wokugubha endlini kuya kumyeni, i-Dowry iyahanjiswa. Kwenza noma ngubani isihlobo sakhe emadodeni (umfowethu, umalume), lowo umama womkhwenyana asinikeza isipho.
Ukuqala komshado we-Azerbaijani kwenzeka endlini kamakoti. Umculo ozwakalayo ozwakalayo umemezela ukuqala kweholide. Kancane kancane, indlu igcwele izivakashi ezinikeza izipho, futhi ngaphambi kokuhlala phansi ithebula ukuba liphathwe, ngamunye wezivakashi kufanele akhokhe, wehlise imali eKazan.
Emini, izingoma zomshado kazwelonke nomsindo womculo. Isihlobo somdanso womkhwenyana kuphela noMlobokazi. Iholide lihlala isikhathi eside, futhi kusihlwa umndeni womkhwenyana uhambe ekhaya ukulungiselela umkhosi ekhaya lakhe.
Umkhwenyana uhambele umakoti. Lapho efika umkhwenyana, isiko lamaphilisi omakoti senziwa. Ababelethi ekushintsheni izipho banikezwa abamele ukhiye womkhwenyana egumbini, lapho uMlobokazi enjalo. Ngokubusisa le ndodakazi, abazali bamboza ikhanda lakhe ngeveli, iribhoni elibomvu liyiteyipu futhi lisuswe endlini.
I-bonfire isivele isehlukanisile eduze kwendlu, lapho umakoti eshayela khona, ukuze ukukhanya nokukhanya kuhlale kuhambisana nomyeni wakhe endlini. Yenza ezinye izenzo zesiko:
- Endlini yakhe kwakunezindonga ezithembekile, uphonswa ngamatshe amatshe;
- Ukuze abantu abasha bengakunqobi ukudabuka nokulangazelela, amanzi athululelwa phansi kwezinyawo zakhe;
- Ukuze amazibulo emndenini abe yindodana, intombazane inikezwa ukubamba izandla zomfana;
Igazi leWundlu elinamaphuzu lisetshenziselwa ukugqoka futhi lifakwe ebunzini lakhe kuMlobokazi, ukuze kube lula ukuthi angene emndenini omusha asungule ubuhlobo obuhle;
Ukuze impilo ibe isicebi, irayisi, uswidi, amaswidi amancane ekhanda loMlobokazi.
Emva kwalemisiko, umakoti uholela kumkhwenyana ukuba aye endlini yakhe, nezintombi kanye nezivakashi zivimbela, zifuna ukuhlengwa.
Ngokusondela kwendlela yomshado endlini yomakoti, umakoti ususa ama-shill akhe. Ngakho-ke uxwayisa ngokufika kwakhe. Embundwini wendlu yomkhwenyana, wephula ipuleti elele lapho.
Umamezala kufanele agweme uMlobokazi ekhanda ukuze avuse. Umgubho uyaqhubeka emkhwenyana endlini.
Izingubo
Umbhangqwana ngamunye osemusha ufuna ukubheka ngosuku lomshado wakhe omuhle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, banaka kakhulu izingubo zabo ezigqoka kahle futhi zikhethe ngokucophelela.
Umyeni
Ezinsukwini zakudala, inkinga yokuzikhethela, ukuthi yini okufanele igqoke umshado, angizange ngime phambi komkhwenyana. Kwakuhlala kungukugqoka komshado kazwelonke. Njengamanje, abantu abasha bakhetha izingubo zesitayela saseYurophu - imvamisa le yingubo kathathu.
Imvunulo ingaba zombili ngokwesiko amathoni amnyama futhi akhanyayo.
Ukubukeka okunomsindo okunikeza "uvemvane" esikhundleni sethayi ne-boutonniere ku-loop. Kwesinye isikhathi umkhwenyana ubeka kwi-tubette.
Umlobokazi
Abashadikazi baseAzerbaijani futhi manje bangagqoke ingubo ebomvu kazwelonke noma bakhethe ukugqoka kwanoma yimuphi omunye umbala. Ingubo kufanele ibukeke ngesizotha, kepha yinhle futhi ibe lula. Ithunga izicubu ezibizayo nezesiko, ezihlotshiswe nge-embroidery, i-lace kanye nezinye izinto zokuhlobisa.
Kunezici eziningi ezilandelayo lapho ukhetha ingubo:
Kufanele kunqunywe ngesizotha, kube nemikhono emide namabele avaliwe;
Engubo, umakoti kufanele abe yinoma yini ebomvu.
Umhlobiso womshado kamakoti ubonakala ngokukhanya kwengubo kanye nokwenza izimonyo, izinwele zezinwele ezi-lush. Into eyisibopho ngumthengisi we-lace, imvamisa umakoti egqokwa njengomhlobiso womqhele, amacici, ukumiswa.
Njengamanje, i-Azerbaijani iyanda kakhulu izingubo zanamuhla zomshado ezimhlophe. Ihlotshiswe ngamatshe, imicu yegolide. Lapho enikeza isiko lesiko, ingubo emhlophe empeleni izamazama ngebhande elibomvu noma iribhoni.
Ngaphambi komshado, umakoti ahlobisa izandla zamaphethini ayinkimbinkimbi afakwe yi-henna.
Izivakashi
Njengoba umshado unezihlobo eziseduze nezide kakhulu zemindeni emibili, khona-ke wonke umuntu uzama ukubukeka ngangokunokwenzeka futhi okuhle. Amadoda ezizukulwane ezindala avame ukulandelana nezingubo ezinzima. Intsha ingakwazi ukukhokhela isitayela sentando yeningi nesentando yeningi.
Abesifazane bazama ukugqoka kahle futhi amahle kakhulu, futhi amantombazane ancamela izingubo ezikhanyayo. Kepha wonke umuntu kufanele ahambisane nomthetho omkhulu: akunakwenzeka ukudlula ingubo yomshado kamakoti.
Yini esetshenziswa etafuleni lamaholide?
Umshado we-Azerbaijani ugujwa ngobubanzi, futhi amatafula okulindisa aphulwe ekuphatheni okunganambitheki kuphela, kodwa futhi ahlotshiswe ngobuhle.
Imenyu ihlukaniswa yizinhlobonhlobo zenyama yenyama yenyama, izinyoni ezahlukahlukene, kodwa zinikwa iwundlu: uKyufta-Bozbane, uDolma, uLulle-Kebab, uShaurma, kanye, uKebab.
Isitsha sendabuko esigunyaziwe yi-pilaf, izindlela zokupheka okukhona okuningi.
Into ehlanganisiwe yesitsha ngasinye yimifino enoshukela futhi enamakha imifino ngobuningi.
Ukusika imifino ehlukahlukene kanye nokhande kungabingela isifiso sokudla, kepha futhi kumelela uhlobo lomhlobiso wetafula.
Kunezithelo eziningi nezitsha ezimnandi zikazwelonke eziseThebhulethi: I-Pakhava, Claviers, Schecker Bura.
Iziphuzo eziningi ezithambile - I-Shcherbet, i-Doshab, kusukela ekukhetheni utshwala kunikezwa amawayini eCaucasian, uBrandy kanye nesiphuzo sikazwelonke - uTutovoy Brandy.
Yini oyinikezayo ngomkhosi?
Njengoba kunikezwe izipho e-Azerbaijan ezamukeleke kakade kusukela wadonga.
Kuvame ukugqoka, imihlobiso, izindwangu, izinto zokulungiswa kwempilo.
Emkhosini womshado, imali yenziwa ukunikeza imali. Ngaphambi kokungena endlini noma egumbini lapho umshado udlula khona, babeka ibhokisi noma ibhokisi elihlotshiswe ngokukhethekile, lapho izivakashi zinciphisa inani lemali ethile. Kungahluka, kepha kungaphansi kwama-50 manat akwamukelwa. Ngaphezu kwemali, umkhwenyana womndeni unikeza isethi yobucwebecwebe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinto zasekhaya zokuhlelwa komhlobiso kanye nomhlobiso wekhaya nazo zingapha.
Izipho ezinkulu zigoqwa esifubeni eziboshwe ngama-ribbons abomvu, futhi ezincane kumathreyi wokuhlobisa.
Uzofunda kabanzi ngamasiko namasiko omshado we-Azerbaijani, ubona ividiyo elandelayo.