Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izipho zimnandi kakhulu njengokuzithola. Ukukhetha isipho esisesikhathini esithile, sivame ukugxila ezintweni ezahlukahlukene ukuthiphansi kungabonakala ngazo, iminyaka yomuntu, izinto zokuzilibazisa, indlela yokuzijabulisa, indlela yokuphila nokunambitheka. Kwabaningi bethu, lo ngumsebenzi omnandi futhi othokozisayo, lapho isimo semoya sithuthuka, kanye nokulindela injabulo yokwethulwa kwalesi sivumelwano esikhona kanye nopende.
Ngendlela yomuntu ngamunye ekukhetheni kwesipho, amathuba okuba isipho sakho esizokwenza nomnikazi waso, kukhuphuka kakhulu. Ungasikhetha Kanjani Isipho okufanele ukwenze uma ungazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyinike lokho izipho okudingeka zithathwe kulokho okuqashelwe, sizocubungula imininingwane eminingi kule ndatshana.
Inqubo esemqoka
Indawo yaphansi endlini
Phansi kungenye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokukhetha isipho. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kulula ukukhetha izipho kunamadoda, kepha akunjalo. Ngenxa yemikhiqizo ehlukahlukene, ungakhetha isipho esifanele futhi esidingekayo kubo bobabili abamele ingxenye eqinile yesintu nangamantombazane amahle. Amadoda anganikeza ezinye izinto zokugqoka ezingokoqobo uma wazi usayizi nokuthandwayo kwalo ohlelweni lombala kanye nesitayela esiphelele. Abesifazane bathanda garder enhle nezinto ezingaphakathi, zinhle futhi zinesitayela, zimnene futhi ziyinkimbinkimbi.
Kuyiqiniso, kukhona nezigaba ezinjalo zezimpahla, phakathi kwazo ungazikhetha kalula isipho sabo bobabili abesilisa nowesifazane. Lokhu kungabikwa ngemikhiqizo yezimonyo, ikhofi, itiye, amakha, izinto zangaphakathi, i-haberdashery. Omunye umbuzo ukuthi ukwakheka nokubukeka kuzokwehluka kakhulu kummeleli wesitezi ngasinye. Izimpahla zabesilisa zivame ukuvame ukuthola imibala ye-laconic futhi ethule kanye nombala we-monophonic, ngaphandle kwendlela ekhanyayo futhi ekhalayo, ngaphandle kokuthi, vele, umuntu akayona umuntu fan of ukunambitheka okwedlulele.
Izimpahla zabesifazane zingaqhakaza, ubukhazikhazi obumnandi, zimnene, ngobucwebecwebe, ama-rhinestones kanye nama-appliqués.
Kukhona nabamele abanjalo ubulili obuhle kunazo zonke, okufana nemibala yabesilisa, ezolile nenhle. Kulolu daba, konke kungumuntu ngamunye futhi kuncike ezimfanelweni zomuntu siqu zomuntu ngamunye.
Iminyaka
Ubudala buyindlela ebalulekile lapho ukhetha isipho. Yini ethanda intombazane eneminyaka engu-16 ngeke ivumelane nowesifazane ovuthiwe ngo-60. Kubalulekile ukuthi ucabangele njalo isigaba seminyaka yomnikazi wesipho. Abafo namantombazane amancane banganikwa amagajethi ahlukahlukene anamuhla njengezipho zamanje, futhi ezisebenzayo futhi eziwusizo zizohambelana nabamele abadala, ngokwesibonelo, izinto zezokwelapha zokwenza ngcono ifomu lezempilo nelomzimba, ama-massager ahlukahlukene, amadivayisi wokucwaninga.
Abamele izigaba zobudala ezijwayelekile zinganikezwa izipho ezahlukahlukene ezizokwakhiwa ngamanye imikhondo nendlela yabo yokuphila nokuzilibazisa.
Uhlobo lwentambo
Uhlobo lomuntu nohlobo lwalo lokuvelela luthinta nokukhethwa kwesipho. Abantu abanempilo abanempilo abathanda indlela yokuphila esebenzayo, bazothanda isipho nge-sports bias, ngokwesibonelo, okubhaliselwe ukuvakashela i-yoga, Pilates noma isikhungo sokuqina. Abantu abengeziwe abavalekile nabazolile abathanda indlela yokuphila eyenziwe ekhaya ethule, unganikeza incwadi ethokozisayo noma isethi yokuqamba noma ubuciko obuhlobisa futhi obusetshenzisiwe. Ngokuya ngezinto zokuzilibazisa nokuzilibazisa komuntu, ungahlulela izipho ezifanele kakhulu.
Noma yimiphi imishini yezemidlalo nezakhi ezisetshenziswa ekuzilisheni kwayo, njenge-boxing pearl, amagilavu, ibhola lebhola, noma i-tennis racket kuzofanelekile njengesipho emsubana. Intombazane ethanda ukuqina izojabulela imvunulo entsha yamakilasi ejimini.
Umsebenzi ofundelwe
Umsebenzi uhlala ushiya umlolo wendlela yokuphila komuntu. Abameli, ezomnotho, othisha, odokotela, ezempi - izipho zabamele bonke lobu buchwepheshe zingaxhunyaniswa nomkhakha wemisebenzi yabo. Kungahle kube yimikhiqizo ehlukahlukene yezinsolo nezipho ezisebenzayo ezizosetshenziswa kwisisebenzi sazo.
Abasebenzi basehhovisi abachitha isikhathi esiningi ekhompyutheni, unganikeza isalisi esihlalo sekhompyutha, izinto zokubhala noma imishini yehhovisi elincane.
Cabanga ngomcimbi nezindikimba
Ukuzikhethela kwesipho kuncike kakhulu eholidini elitholwe ngalo: Ngosuku lokuzalwa noma usuku lokuzalwa, umshado noma uChristoning, unyaka omusha noma ngoKhisimusi, ngo-Mashi 8 noma ngoFebhuwari 23. Kanye nesici esibalulekile yilowo odinga ukunikezwa isipho: othandekayo noma uzakwabo, umlingani webhizinisi noma umlingani webhizinisi. Kuwo wonke la macala, kunemithetho ethile okufanele ilandelwe.
Abantu osebenzisana nabo noma banezixhumanisi ezikude ezihlobene, unganikeza izipho ezihlelekile ngokwengeziwe, kanye nezihlobo eziseduze nabangane kuzolunga ukwethula isipho esithile.
Isibonelo, udade noma intombazane yakho ethandekayo ayikwazi ukwesaba ukwethula isethi yezingubo zangaphansi ezinhle, futhi uzakwabo ungumhleli wezinto zokubhala noma isibambo kwiphakheji elihle. Indoda ethandekayo noma ubaba angathatha amakha, futhi umphathi wesitshalo esikhulu sokuhlobisa ihhovisi.
Lapho ukhetha isipho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ubheke ukubekelwa phansi ukuze ugweme i-moview noma izimo ezinelukuluku. Abesifazane, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ngokwesiko ukunikeza izimbali. Isipho esinjalo singabhekwa njengendawo yonke, ngoba sizolunga cishe kunoma yiliphi iholide.
Awukho umcimbi onjalo obengeke uhlobise i-Olwale yama-rose amahle amakha.
Kuthiwani uma ungazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyinike?
Uma ungakwazanga ukukhetha isipho, ungasebenzisa amathiphu amaningi awusizo. Isibonelo, ungacela umuntu ngqo ukuthi angathanda ukuthola njengesipho seholide elithile. Kepha kwenzeka ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ophendulayo ngokweqiniso embuzweni obhaliselwe noma athi akadingi lutho noma yena akazi ukuthi ufunani. Kulokhu, angethulwa njengesitifiketi sezipho njengesipho senani elithile.
Isitifiketi singathengwa ngezinhlobonhlobo zezimpahla nezinsizakalo, ngokwesibonelo, ukuvakashela i-Spa, indawo yokuzivocavoca, ukuthengwa kwezicathulo, okokugqoka, imikhiqizo yezimonyo, ubucwebe, ubucwebe, ubucwebe kanye nokunye okuningi.
Isipho esinjalo sihlukaniswa ngokuguquguquka kwaso, njengoba umuntu ezokwazi ukuthola izimpahla abazidingayo, ezigxile ekuthandeni kwakhe ukunambitheka. Kuyinto elula futhi ukuthi isitifiketi singakhethwa kunoma yiliphi inani, ngokuya ngamakhono ezezimali kanye nezinga lengcebo.
Uma uthatha isinqumo sokwethula imali njengesipho, ungaba ngandlela thile ngokuhle nangokwengeziwe ukwenza isipho semali sizwe isimo sengqondo sakho. Kulokhu, inqubo ye-Origami ifika ekusindisweni, ngenxa yokuthi ekuqaleni izikweletu ezigoqele ekuqaleni, usebenzisa amacebo athile we-origami kusuka ngemali - i-mangami.
Hlobo luni lwezipho okufanele lunakekelwe?
Kunezipho umuntu angabona ngazo noma ukungaqondi, okungukuthi:
- Unganikezi izikali zokulinganisa isisindo somzimba kumuntu ngamakhilogremu angeziwe; Angafihla icala ngokuthola isipho esinjalo;
- Okungalungile kuzoba yisipho ngesitifiketi sezipho se-parachute jump, owesaba ukuphakama noma akuyona fan yezemidlalo esebenzayo neyeqisayo; Uyomane wenqabe isiphakamiso esinjalo noma asinike omunye umuntu;
- Okubhaliselwe egumbini lokuqina noma i-yoga kungaba yisipho esihle, kepha abanye abantu bangabona isipho esinjalo njengombono wokunganakwa kwakho ngokubonakala kwawo; Isipho esinjalo singadinga ukunikezwa labo bantu abathi baveze isifiso sabo sokuya emidlalweni ejwayelekile, noma ngokwesivumelwano sokuqala ngesimo esithambile nesibucayi, ukuze singacasuli umuntu;
- Ukunakwa okuhlukile kufanele kukhokhwe kwizipho zamahlaya nge-whiskers; Izimanga kanye nezipho zalolu hlobo kufanelekile kuphela uma usuvele unabo ubudlelwano obuthembekile nobusondelene nomuntu, futhi uhlanganyela nomuzwa wakho wokuhlekisa.
Lapho ukhetha isipho, into esemqoka ukukhumbula ukuthi iqiniso lokunaka kwakho libalulekile kumuntu, hhayi inani olisebenzisile ekuthengeni okukhona.
Yenza lezimanga ezimnandi eziseduze, zinakekele kuwe, futhi nakanjani zizokwazisa ukunakekelwa kwakho, isimo sengqondo sokuhlonipha futhi ngokuqinisekile sizophendula ukubuyisana.
Ividiyo engezansi ingatholwa eminye imibono yokukhethwa kwezipho.