Kungani iningi lethu izehlakalo ezimbi ezimbi zikhumbula kangcono kunokuhle? Kungani abanye besaba ubumnyama, abanye - amanzi, okwesithathu - umlilo? Omunye ulungele ukusiza kunoma yimuphi umzuzu, kanti othile uzodlula ngokufaka i-engisa? Inhloso ebalulekile ukuthi sizizwa noma singazizwa, sinenkumbulo engokomzwelo.
-Yisimilo
Inkumbulo Engokomzwelo Isiza Ukugcina Engqondweni Yomuntu Konke Ayenzele Esimweni Esithile. Kamuva, lolu lwazi luba yisibonakaliso sokuphindaphinda futhi uma imizwa, ihlolwe kulesi sengesikhathi esedlule, yayinesenzo esedlule, sabahle noma siyenzele okufanayo, sathola okufanayo .
UPavel Petrovich Bologna - uthisha ovelele nofilosofi ngekhulu leminyaka, efunda i-psychology, wafika esiphethweni sokuthi Umuntu ubona izenzakalo ezenzeka lapha futhi manje. Kepha namanje, ukushaya isimo esekwenze phambilini, ngokushesha uthola isibonakaliso kwangesikhathi esedlule, okwenza kube yima noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, qhubeka uqhubeke ngezibonelo zesikhathi esedlule. Shilika Ngokusobala ikakhulukazi ingqondo imidwebo enjalo imizwa enjalo ukumangala, ukuhlupheka, ukwesaba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu akusebenzi kuphela kubantu, kodwa nezilwane.
Futhi yilona ikhono lobuchopho elibasiza ukuthi bahlakulele umuzwa wokuzilondolozela.
Isebenza kanjani?
Njengesibonelo, ungaletha inja etholwe ngaphansi kwemoto. Ngemuva kwesimo esibuhlungu, akasoze avela eduze komgwaqo. Into efanayo yenzeka nabantu, kuphela ngokungafani nezilwane Ukwesaba okunjalo kungakuholeli ekuqapheni okuphezulu nokuqapha, kepha ngisho nokuphina. Uma umuntu osebuntwaneni wayevame ukuthola imizwa engemihle, futhi ikakhulukazi - esesaba, lapho-ke, uzoba umuntu osaba futhi omangalisayo.
Ngakho-ke, inkumbulo engokomzwelo ithinta ngqo indlela umuntu azogculisa ngayo impilo yakhe, futhi eyomuntu wonke.
Kuvela lokho Isimo sememori engokomzwelo sifana nenkomba yamakhono ethu hhayi ukulondolozwa, kodwa futhi nokuzwelana, kanye nozwela . Yize imizwa engemihle kungenzeka ingathathele imiphumela eyethukile. Isibonelo, indoda ebuntwana yandliwa yi-Duck Bone, abazali bayo babethukile kakhulu kangangokuba umfana waphuthunyiswa esibhedlela. Konke kwenziwa, kepha manje indoda endala ayikubekezeleli ukwanda noma izindlu.
Imiphumela ingaba yinto enkulu kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, abantu abasindile ebudloveni noma ekuxhashazweni ebuntwaneni, bavame ukukhawulela ukuxhumana kwabo, ngeke bafezeke empilweni, abakwazi ukuzwa umuzwa wokuhawukela abanye.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa amandla okuzalwa komuntu okuphendula noma okungokomzwelo.
Izindlela Zokuthuthuka
Inkumbulo Engokomzwelo Ilula. Kubalulekile ukwenza lokhu kusukela ebuntwaneni, ukwakha ukubheka okuhle emhlabeni wonke, ngoba ngeke abe nomusa kuphela, kodwa yena ngokwakhe uyozizwa eqiniseka ngokwengeziwe. Khumbula, lapho umuntu enenkumbulo ezinhle, okunamandla kuyimpilo yakhe.
Nalu uhlu oluncane lwezeluleko oluzosiza ingane yakho ngokuzayo.
- Yiba nothando nengane, futhi hhayi kuphela lapho kukhona, ukuthi uzomdumisa, kodwa njalo . Noma ngabe uhamba nje. Naka izinto ezinhle, utshele ngemvelo, izinyoni, izilwane kukhiye omuhle kuphela. Ngikholwe uma uqala ukuthuthumela ngokubonakala kwenja bese usho ukuthi kubi, ingane yakho kungenzeka ukuthi yesabe, hhayi izingcezu zezinwele kuphela, kodwa nezinye izilwane.
- Kaningi ingane ebabayo ngokwanga, "iHuves", yenza okungenani izipho ezincane ezimnandi. Khumbula ukuthi kukhunjulwe kahle, okusho ukuthi ukusiza ukugcwalisa inkumbulo engokomzwelo ngezinkumbulo ezinhle ongazidingi ikhwalithi, kodwa ngenani.
- Uma ingane icasukile ngokuthile, zama ukulahla noma ukusula lo muzwa kwimemori yakhe . Woza nendlela yokuyiphazamisa. Iya kubuqili. Isibonelo, yenza ingane ikholelwe ukuthi ukwehluleka kwakhe kumane kuyingxenye yephepha elingadingekile okulula ukuliphonsa. Ngasikhathi sinye, qiniseka ukumbonisa le ngxenye yephepha, uqhume ndawonye bese uphonsa. Ngendlela, ukugxila okunjalo kusebenza nabantu abadala.
- Enye indlela efanayo yokuqeda okungekuhle . Humusha okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho noma okuhlangenwe nakho kwengane kwenye yezihloko ezingenasidingo noma izinto ezimbalwa, zisonge noma ziboshwe esikhwameni esingadingekile bese zingena emgqonyeni kadoti.
- Swayipha umdlalo ngebhola. Ukhumbuza abadumile "ed. Ababambiqhaza embuthanweni baphonsa ibhola ngalinye. Lowo owambamba naye kufanele atshele noma yimuphi umcimbi owamlethela injabulo. Ngakho-ke, yena ngokwakhe "uhlanza" inkumbulo yakhe engokomzwelo uqobo, nokunye ukuhlela ngegagasi elihle.
- Kepha uma kusebuntwaneni usekubekile imizwa emihle, bese ugcwalisa ikhanda lakho ngokwakho. Ukuzindla kuyindlela evivinywe emakhulwini eminyaka. Lapho uzwa sengathi "izwe kuwe", vala amehlo akho futhi ukhumbule isikhashana empilweni yakho. Ukuqabula okokuqala, ngokwesibonelo.
- Enye indlela yokuzindla: Vala amehlo akho bese udlulisela kusuka ekwindla elimpunga uye olwandle olufudumele, noma ngabe aluzange lube khona isikhathi eside futhi ngeke sikuhambe isikhathi eside. Khumbula noma uze uze nephunga nombala wamagagasi, wena ngokwakho ngeke uqaphele ukuthi uzokuzwa kanjani umoya ophole kolwandle.
Funda kabanzi. Egxilwe endabeni yomunye umuntu, noma ngabe kuyindaba yomlingiswa oqanjiwe noma ubuntu obudumile, ukhohlwa ngokuzithandela ngezinto ezikhathazayo nobunzima bakho.
Futhi mhlawumbe uzothola encwadini nezimpendulo zemibuzo yakho.
