Kukhona abantu abajabule abangomunye nje bobukhona babo abaphakamisa abanye. Bayayithanda ilanga, bakhanyise yonke indawo bazungeza. Ungaba kanjani umuntu onjalo?
Imithetho eyisisekelo
Wonke umuntu angaba ngumuntu ojabulayo, kudingeka nje enze eminye imizamo yokugcwalisa impilo yabo nenjabulo. I-Psychology ichaza eminye imithetho.
- Okokuqala, udinga ukushintsha indlela yakho yokucabanga. Imicabango emihle ishaja amandla amahle. Ukuguqula amaphutha akho ngesithunzi.
- Udinga ukuthuthukisa ukubukeka kwakho . Qala ukudlala ezemidlalo, uvikeleni ngokudla okulungile, hlukana nemikhuba emibi, ugqoke ngokunambitha. Abantu abakhangayo bazizwa bezethemba futhi bejabule.
- Funda ukuhlala embusweni owufakile . Yenza uhlelo nsuku zonke, faka okuhlosiwe kokhonkolo. Musa ukuguqula umthwalo kwabanye, ungasoli izimo ekwephuleni kwakho. Dala impilo yakho ngokwakho.
- Qala ekuseni ngokubonga njalo ngonyaka uhlala, ihora, umzuzu, isikhashana . Yazisa wonke umzuzu, ungachithi isikhathi uchithekile. Lapho umuntu ezwa ukuthi izimpilo zempilo akusizi ngalutho, khona-ke injabulo nenjabulo kugcwalisa umphefumulo wakhe.
- Kuyadingeka ukuzungeza nabantu abajabule, Ekhipha ukukhanya kwangaphakathi bese ugcwalisa wonke amandla amahle.
- Uthango ngokwamininingwane engemihle, Ukufaka umuzwa wakho wokudumazeka nosizi. Thatha imininingwane efanele esiza ukuthola ulwazi olusha.
- Ukumamatheka kaningi . Ukumamatheka okuqotho kusiza ukukhulula ukungezwani kwabo futhi kuthokozise abantu abaseduze.
Kugcwalisa imizwa emihle yabadlulayo, futhi ukubheka okunobungane Ukubheka wena icala elihle. Futhi-ke umphefumulo wakho uboshwe ngokuthokoza nenjabulo.
Izinyathelo Zokuthokoza
Ube ngowesifazane ojabulayo futhi onamileyo ongakwenza Kuphela ngaphansi kwesimo sokuthola ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuzithatha, thola induku yakho yangaphakathi, uvumelane nendlela enhle. Ukubhubhisa zonke izitshalo zakho ukuze ubukhali, okubi, ama-egoism. Lezi zimfanelo ziqala uhlelo lokuzibhubhisa zibonakaliswe kumahlazo, ama-boosters kanye nezifo. Ngomzwelo empilweni, kuyadingeka ukwenza isimo sengqondo ngokwengqondo, ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.
Zama njalo ukujabulela impilo, thola okuhle kunoma yisiphi isimo. Intokazi enethemba kulula kakhulu ukuthola ijabule nempumelelo, ngoba igxile emandleni ayo, hhayi ngemikhawulo. Intombazane enjalo ayivumeli ukwesaba ukuthonya impilo yakhe. Ngenxa yefomu elihle lomzimba, liyathokoza futhi linamandla. Ukunakekelwa kwenjabulo ngenxa yokwakhiwa kokuzwa komndeni, umamazela, izinto zokuzilibazisa, imisebenzi yobungcweti, ukuxhumana nezintombi nezihlobo. Khombisa ukunakekelwa kwabathandekayo, umangaze okhethwe ngukhetho lwakho ngezimanga ezimnandi. Intokazi enobuntu izohlala ithola indlela yokufuna okuhle kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Amantombazane amaningi akholelwa ukuthi injabulo nenjabulo angathengwa kuphela ebudlelwaneni nomuntu othandekayo. Ngeshwa, ezinye izinqumo ziguqula impilo yomngane wazo ziye esihogweni. Futhi-ke ngeke anqume isikhathi eside isikhathi eside. Ukuze uzenze uphile ngemuva kobudlelwano obungaphumeleli, kudingeka ube yintombazane elula futhi ejabule futhi.
Okokuqala kufanele ukwehlise, uhlole okukhondla kwakho esibukweni, uthuthukise ukubukeka kwakho. Ngemuva kwalokho ungahambisa ezinyathelweni ezilandelayo.
Thola isifundo eshawini
Injabulo enkulu kumuntu kuletha izinto ezijabulisayo. Nikela isikhathi esiningi samahhala Amakilasi owathandayo. Umuntu uletha injabulo enkulu ukudala izinto ngezandla zakho. Bathanda ukugoqa, ukuthunga, ukufezeka, imicu yezinkuni. Abanye bakhetha ukubheka umhlaba ngelensi yekhamera. Bayakuthanda ukuthwebula ubuhle bezwe elizungezile. Okwesithathu thola ukwaneliseka okukhulu kwezemidlalo. Okwesine kunikelwe isikhathi esiningi ukufunda inganekwane, ukufunda izilimi zakwamanye amazwe noma ukukhula ngokomoya.Ungavali amehlo akho ezinkingeni
Izinkinga ezingalungiswa zinomthwalo osindayo olengiswe emphefumulweni. Musa ukuhlehlisa ikhambi labo. Umsebenzi ongathandwanga kufanele uguqulwe. Ubudlelwano bomndeni kumele buthuthukiswe, izingxabano ziyaxazululwa. Ukuqeda ubunzima bezimali okukufanele ukufuna imali eyengeziwe. Abantu abakhuluphele ngokweqile kufanele balinganiswe ngokudla kwaso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele benze ukuzivocavoca nsuku zonke.
Funa injabulo ekusebenzelaneni nabangane
Injabulo enkulu iletha umuntu ukuxhumana nabantu abathandekayo. Ukuhambela okuhlangene kumidlalo yeshashalazi, iminyuziyamu, imibukiso yethula upende omusha ngezinsuku zesonto ezimpunga . Ngisho nasekuhlelweni komsebenzi ogcwele kakhulu ungathola uhhafu wehora ukuhlangana nabangane. Kungaba kuhle ukuhlala nabo kwi-cafe noma epaki ebhentshini. Ukuxhumana nabangane kuphakamisa imizwa, kuqeda ukungacasuki, imizwa yesizungu nokudangala.
Kepha ungalethi abantu abazenzisayo nabacindezelekile. Yethula impilo yakho eqotho nabantu abalungile.
Yilwa nengcindezi
Akunakwenzeka ukonga imizwa engemihle eshawini, eyavela ngenxa yokuxabana nesimo esiseduze noma esingqubuzanayo emsebenzini. Amabutho amaningi avela kulowo muntu athatha izingcindezi aqongelelwa iminyaka eminingana. Isimo esinjalo asinikezi ubuntu ukuze uthole ibhalansi yengqondo. Kwakha ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi futhi kubhubhise inhlala-kahle, ngoba umuntu uncishwa lelo thuba ukuvumelanisa ngendlela enhle. Ezimweni ezicindezelayo kuyadingeka ukuphuma ngokushesha okukhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuze kube manje, ungathenga isilwane, ukuqala idayari noma uthele umphefumulo womngane omkhulu. Abanye kahle basiza ukubuka amahlaya, ukuvunyelwa kokugeza okunamakha, ukulala kosuku noma umculo ozolile. Esimweni esibi kakhulu, ungenza isikhathi sokubonana nodokotela wezengqondo.Thola "Mina" Yakho
Funda ukuvikela umbono wakho, wenze izinqumo ngokwakho. Umlilo ovela ekukhohlisweni nasezinhlekeleleni. Ungavumeli Abanye Ukukhohlisa . Iba izahlulelo zakho, izimiso nezisekelo zokuziphatha. Lindela njalo amandla akho. Ukuncika osizweni lwezihlobo ezicebile noma abanye abantu akukufanele. Sebenza inkululeko yakho. Ungazilethi uncike emhlabeni ngemigomo ebonakalayo nengokomoya. Musa ukufaka abantu, chitha isikhathi kuphela nalabo ababazisayo nawe.
Cabanga okuhlu
Ngaphansi kwezimo, ungaweli ekudayisweni, ungazehli izandla zakho. Uhlale unethemba lokuthola umphumela omuhle. Lola ukunaka kwakho ngezikhathi ezinhle. Umqondo ungokwenyama, ngakho-ke ungesabi ukuphupha. Gcina umkhondo wokukhombisa kwakho. Ukukhanyiselwa okungokomoya kunika amabhentshi athile ukuze asiza ukungena endleleni yokuthola ukuthokoza nenjabulo. Yazisa impilo yakho nakho konke okwenzeka kuwo. Ubuntu obuhle bokucabanga buvame kakhulu ukubazwa abantu abajabule.
Amabinzana amahle amahle
Inhlangano yokuthokoza, injabulo kanye nomkhwenyana kusiza ukuqinisekiswa:
- Ngihlala ekubhekeni okuphelele nokuthula;
- Impilo yami igcwele;
- Ngimi ngokuqinile emhlabeni;
- Ngivumela yonke intungelo yami futhi ngesibindi ukuqhubekisela phambili;
- Ngijabule ngomsebenzi wami obalulekile;
- Ngiletha abantu injabulo;
- Izenzo zami zihlose ukuletha injabulo kwabanye;
- Ngihlala ngikhanyisa ngomusa nothando;
- Impilo yami igcwele injabulo nenjabulo;
- Ngiyakwazi ukuqhathanisa zonke izinto eziphilayo;
- Eduze kwami umhlaba omangalisayo;
- Ngiheha uthando, impumelelo kanye nenhlanhla empilweni yami.
Amathiphu we-Psychologist
- Havo ku-oda lakho lokuphila. Gxila enjabulweni yangaphakathi. Thola amakilasi akulethela injabulo nempilo. Kholwa ngamandla akho, izinhloso nokuhlakanipha kwakho.
- Susa ukungezwani ngokomzimba nangokomoya. Inenjabulo yangaphakathi ingathola umuntu kuphela, engqondweni nomzimba ongashubile. Lokhu kugqugquzelwa ukukhululwa ngenxa yokwesaba, izingcindezi, ulaka nanoma yikuphi ukudilizwa.
- Faka indlela yokuphila esebenzayo. Yenza ukuhamba nsuku zonke, uphefumule umoya omusha, ukuzivocavoca. Sawubona ukujabulela impilo.
- Zivame ukumamatheka. Ungalokothi uphendule ubudlova bohlamvu lwemali olufanayo. Ungenzi icala.
- Ochwepheshe batusa ukuthuthukisa amahlaya. Akudingekile kakhulu ngeminye yemicimbi. Kwezinye izikhathi, udinga ukukwazi ukuhlekisa. Funda ukuqonda amahlaya namahlaya. Bahleke phezu kwabo. Vakashela amakhonsathi amahlaya, bheka i-cinema.
- Khetha ukubuka kuzinhlelo ze-TV kuphela nezinhlelo namafilimu. Cabanga ngenjongo yempilo.
- Shiya izinkinga zakho zomsebenzi emsebenzini, futhi izinkathazo zomndeni zisekhaya . Phonsa ukuzindla okungadingekile ekhanda.
- Funda ukugcina ukulingana komsebenzi nokuthula. Ukuphumula kusiza ukubheka umhlaba ngento enhle. Bheka iphuzu lakho lokulinganisa, thola iGolden Middle, khetha inketho engcono kakhulu.
- Yenza izenzo ezinhle, wenze abanye abahle. Akukona ngengozi ukuthi ukuhlakanipha kwabantu kusho ukuthi ukunikeza okuhle kakhulu kunokuthatha.
Ngiyabonga uNkulunkulu ngakho konke onakho.
