I-Psychology inquma i-psychotype emibili eyinhloko yabantu: introvert futhi extressvert. Ngemuva kokuqhuba inhlolovo ehlukahlukene, ukubonwa kanye nokuhlolwa, ukubuka kuye kwathuthuka ukuthi iningi labantu beplanethi yethu liyi-extrovert.
Kepha kule ndatshana asikhulumi ngabo, ngokuphambene nalokho, sizokhuluma ngokungabiziwe, sizosebenzelana nalabo abangabantu - abangenacala. Sizofunda ukubabona, sizofunda umlingiswa, indlela yokuziphatha, sizoqonda ukuthi siyiphi indlela okufanele siyikhethe, futhi siqiniseke ukuthi ufunda lokho abakuthandayo.
Jwayelekile
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthola ukuthi ngubani ongumnikazi we-introvert, kusuka endaweni yokubuka kwe-psychology. Lo ngumuntu ogxile ezweni lawo angaphakathi futhi athuthelwe ngokuphelele kuwo. Nge-Introvert, imicabango kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kubalulekile, akuvamile ukuba baphume endaweni yokunethezeka, bathembele abantu okuncane futhi bakhetha isizungu esiziqhenyayo.
I-Introvert inezici ezilandelayo zomlingiswa:
- Zonke izenzo zalo zicabanga ngokuningiliziwe;
- Ukuxhumana kuyaqabukela kuzenzeke, kungenzeka, yena, yena axoshe umgomo othile, ngakho-ke ingxoxo nayo ingahle ibonakale inamandla;
- ayidingi ukuxhumana njalo;
- Isimo esingesihle sishiya umzila omkhulu osesimweni esingokomzwelo futhi isikhathi eside akavumeli imicabango yakhe;
- Inganekwane ikhule kahle;
- ubuntu obunenjongo kakhulu;
- Ihlala ilawula imizwa yayo njalo, futhi akubakhombise;
- Isiguli, saphawula, sithambekele ekuhlaziyeni konke okwenzekile.
Ingqikithi yobudlelwano phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane kufanelekile emhlabeni wonke. Sivame ukuxabana ngokuthi sihlukile kangakanani futhi singahambisani nezinhlamvu ukuthi ziba imbangela yobudlelwano kanye nezimo ezahlukahlukene ezibuhlungu. Kulungile lapho owesifazane azi ukuthi hlobo luni lwendoda elungele - i-introvert noma extress, lokho nje ukukwazi ukukubona esixukwini, ukuze ungachithi sikhathi emuva!
Izimpawu ze-Men-Introvert:
- uthanda isikhathi sokuthula nokuthula;
- okubonakalayo ngokubukwa nasezahlukweni;
- Amadoda amaningi angaphakathi athanda izincwadi futhi azibheke njengesipho esihle kunazo zonke;
- Ukwazisa kwakhe kuvezwa ngezenzo, amagama abo asho lutho;
- I-Entrovert Myeni - konke okungafisa kuphela, abanakulingana empilweni yomshado;
- thanda ukukhombisa futhi ukhulume ngezihloko ezijulile;
- Izingxoxo ezingenalutho azizona zona, engxoxweni kafushane futhi emfushane;
- Kusho ukubonakaliswa kwemizwelo.
Ungayakha Kanjani Ukuxhumana?
Uhlobo lobuntu olunjalo luvaliwe kakhulu ngokwalo, lufihliwe, luhlala ezweni lakubo, futhi luthanda ukungabi namuntu lapho. Lapho uxhumana nale ndoda, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ukwazi ukumxosha futhi udide, ngoba uyazethemba kuye nasezindinganisweni zakhe.
Zonke lezi zici zingase zisabise ngowesifazane. Lapho uhlangana ne-Introvert, udinga ukwenza kahle futhi wazi imithetho eminingana eyisisekelo ezosiza ukuhlangana futhi iqale ukuxhumana.
- Ama-introverts awathandi amanga futhi abizi. Yiba uFrank onamandla amakhulu futhi uqotho.
- Qiniseka ukuthi ulalela le ndoda, bayayithanda.
- Akuthinti lapho uxoxa lezo ezingakhumbuza i-introvert mayelana nokwehluleka kwazo.
- Asize futhi asekele kanjalo. I-Male-Introvert Lokhu kuzokwazisa.
- Ungabi nokuqiniseka kakhulu. I-Introvert udinga isikhathi sokwazi wena futhi uhlole izimfanelo zakho ezinhle.
- Khohlwa ngengcindezi yokuziphatha. Ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle. Khombisa ukuthamba kanye nenhlonipho, khona-ke uzokuphendula okufanayo. Futhi ungaphoqeleli umbono wakho. Ungambonisa, kepha uma efuna ukuhlala ezakhe, yize kunjalo.
Namathela le mithetho, futhi kungenzeka, enye ingxoxo izolandela.
Izici zobudlelwano
Sesivele sihlele ukuthi le psychotyty yamadoda inzima impela. Okufanayo abasebudlelwaneni, futhi othandweni. Imvamisa, imfihlo yayo nokungabi nalusizo kungabahlanya futhi kuvuse imicabango emnandi kakhulu.
Uma i-satellite yakho ibhekisa kuhlobo olunjalo, zilungiselele ukuziphatha okuthile ebudlelwaneni, futhi ufunde ukuthi ungasithatha kanjani buthule yini. Ake sihlale ezicini eziyinhloko, kanye nezinkinga zobudlelwano.
- Unganaki ucingo lwakho. Abazithandi izingxoxo zocingo. Le ndoda izothola izizathu eziningi zokungaphenduli. QAPHELA - Bhala umyalezo.
- Sebenza futhi usebenza kuphela. Kwesinye isikhathi kuvela umbono wokuthi kusendaweni yokuqala kubo. Lokhu akunjalo, uma nje okuthile kuqala ukukwenza, khona-ke kufanele ulethe kuze kube sekupheleni. Ungacabangi nokukwenza ukhethe phakathi komsebenzi nawe. Qonda futhi wamukele isimo. Lokhu, ngokungangabazeki, kuzovuzwa.
- Enomthwalo wemfanelo ngamagama amabili. Ayizithandi izingxoxo ezinde futhi ezingenangqondo, kafushane kakhulu engxoxweni.
- Ulahlekelwe ezinkampanini ezinomsindo. Inkampani yabafokazi, amaqembu - hhayi ukungabodwa. Wayethanda isizungu. Msize adlule.
- Ayisebenzi ezinkingeni zayo. Unquma izinkinga zakhe futhi uzicabangisise. Akasoze akutshela ngabo. Uma ubona ukuthi indoda yakho isidabukile futhi iqonde, ungazami ukukhipha imininingwane kuyo. Vele ubuze uma kubabaza ukuthi kudingekile, uzozitshela.
- Ithanda kakhulu izilwane. Futhi uma uvakashele, futhi indoda yakho yayithanda ukudlala nenja, kunalokho hlala wonke umuntu etafuleni, ungamthumbi, Myeke adlale.
- Ukunganaki. Ungahlela umcimbi omude isikhathi eside, futhi ngomzuzu wokugcina ufuna ukukhansela konke futhi aqambe amanga kusofa. Qaphela. Nikeza ukudlulisa konke kolunye usuku.
- Slowniss. Kubuhlungu kakhulu ekwenzeni izinqumo, ukwenza isenzo. Uzodinga ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi uthathe isinyathelo kuqala. Kepha ungakhohlwa ukubuza umbono wakhe.
- Ukwesaba ukugxekwa. Ungalokothi ugxeke amadoda akho-introvert futhi ungakuqhathanisi nabanye. Ukhubekile kakhulu, kepha ukwenza okunzima nomuntu onjalo.
Qaphela, ngoba noma yisiphi isinyathelo sokuqhuma noma igama elisheshayo lingacindezela isoka lakho futhi limenze ukungabaza wena.
Ngisemathandweni
Sonke kuhle ukwazi nokuzwa abasithandayo. Uzame isikhathi eside ukuthandana nomuntu ongenamuntu, futhi konke kubonakala kulungile, kodwa indlela yokuqonda, uyathandana noma cha? Ngobuhle bezimpawu zobuntu nobubi ekubonisweni kwemizwelo, kunzima kakhulu ukubona isimo sengqondo sokungena.
Ake sibheke ukuthi abasebenza ngokungahlali baziphatha kanjani.
- Uma ukuze uchithe isikhathi nawe, i-introvert ishiya indawo yayo yokududuza, kusho okuthile ngqo. Angaya ekilabhini, ephathini, epikinikini kuwe, okungenani ngaphambili kwakungewona umsekeli wokuzijabulisa.
- Uthule ngaso sonke isikhathi, akaphenduli imibuzo, futhi uqala ukucabanga ukuthi akanandaba. Akufani nalokho. I-Introvert iyathanda futhi inhlonipho, futhi nguwe owaba nguye owaphumelela ilungelo lokulihlukanisa naye.
- Ama-introverts anomqondo omuhle kakhulu wokuhlekisa, kepha akubona bonke ababonisa lokho. Esikhundleni salokho, kunalokho, bancamela ukubonakala okuqinile. Futhi uma ehlekisa nawe, ehleka, khona-ke awuseyena owaziwayo.
- Uma usuvele ubudlelwano ne-introvert, awunalutho oluzokhathazeka ngalo. Ngaphambi kokuvuma ubuhlobo obungathi sína, i-introvert izocabanga isikhathi eside, ngicabanga, ukuhlola lesi simo uqobo, okuzoba yingxenye yezwe lakhe.
Into engathandeki kakhulu ongayiqapheli ngokuthi imizwa iyakhazimula futhi konke akufani ngaphambili. I-Introvert ayikaze ithi futhi ayisebenzi ukuthi alukho uthando, luzonyamalala. Futhi uzohamba ahambe, futhi angabuyiswa.
Buka Okuningi.