Kuyo yonke impilo, sigubha izikhumbuzo eziningi: uchwepheshe, uqobo noma umndeni. Ngayinye yazo ikhethekile futhi ihlukile ngendlela yayo, ngoba isho uphawu lwempilo. Akuwona wonke umuntu onqume ukuzogubha usuku lokugubha ngesilinganiso, ngoba lo mcimbi unzima kakhulu futhi uyabiza. Kepha ingabe kubaluleke kakhulu ukucabanga ngakho uma usuku olukhumbulekayo kanye njalo njalo eminyakeni emi-5? Ngakho-ke, ukuqina kweholide kufanele kube khona noma ngabe iJubele inqume ukuzogubha usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe esimweni esingahlelekile.
Ungakulungiselela kanjani?
Konke usuku lokuzalwa kuhlukile ngezindlela ezihlukile: umuntu ubheke phambili kukho, abanye sebevele besaba. Kepha yibuphi esaba lapho singakhuluma ngakho lapho siphenduka 30, 35, ngisho neminyaka engama-45? Lokhu kungunyaka omuhle lapho ufuna ukuphefumula amabele futhi ujabulele ubukhona bakho nsuku zonke.
Vele, ngosuku olubalulekile kangaka, uJubile ufuna abantu bomdabu kakhulu nabantu abasondelene naye. Futhi lokhu kufanele kulungiselelwe lokhu. Inhlangano yokugujwa kwesikhumbuzo iqukethe izigaba eziningi.
- Okokuqala udinga ukwenza uhlu lwezivakashi ezizobe zikhona emkhosini. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza lokhu uma kuhlelwa umkhosi omkhulu ngenani elikhulu labamenyiwe.
- Isivakashi ngasinye sidingekile ngokwehlukile ukwazisa ngomcimbi. Lokhu kungenziwa mathupha, kusetshenziswa ucingo lwefoni, i-SMS noma ikhadi lokumenywa.
- Indima ebalulekile kulolu hlu idlala indawo. Impikiswano yokulungiselela iholide. Yonke iJubili ixazulula mathupha: Abanye bafuna ukuthi babukeke ama-pathos futhi bahloniphe, abanye bahlonipha ukuthobeka nokulula.
- Imenyu yemikhosi kanye nomhlobiso wethebula. Lesi simo senzeka emcimbini wokuthi umcimbi uzokwenzeka ekhaya noma endaweni yokudlela. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi kunengqondo ukudala ubuciko obusezingeni eliphezulu, uma amacebo okugubha usuku lokuzalwa, ngokwesibonelo, ngokwemvelo noma kwenye indawo engahlelekile.
- Amabhilidi wemincintiswano futhi adonse. Njalo jubili ifuna iholide lakhe ukuba lijabule, isiboshwa nasesikhathini esifanayo. Kubalulekile ukukhetha ukuzijabulisa ngendlela yokuthi ayahlekisa, kepha hhayi izivakashi.
- Kuyadingeka ukunakekela umthwebuli wezithombe kanye nokuhambisana nomculo. Ngokwesilungiselelo esingahlelekile, akudingekile ukuqasha ochwepheshe - Amagajethi anamuhla akuvumela ukuba wenze izithombe ezisezingeni eliphakeme lapho noma yimiphi imizwa engathunjwa khona.
Ukukhetha indawo
Ukukhethwa kwendawo yokugubha ngqo kuya ngezifiso zosuku lokuzalwa ngokwalo nezinhlelo zalo zalolu suku. Abafana namantombazane aneminyaka engu-25 ubudala abafuna ukuyisebenzisa endaweni yokudlela noma ekhaya. Ubudala busathatha okwakhe: bafuna amandla nokunyakaza. Isizukulwane esidala kwesinye isikhathi sivame ukuyeka ukukhetha kwaso emkhosini onesizotha.
Ekhaya
Iholide lomndeni elifudumele lihlala lihle. Kepha Endabeni yokugubha usuku lokuzalwa emahlombe okuzalwa, ama-hasle amaningi awela: Kudingeka abe yiJubili, umgqugquzeli, umphathi, oholayo, umpheki, ohlanzekile. Futhi yonke le misebenzi ihambisana nenjabulo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho. Ngakho-ke, ukwahlulela ngomthamo womsebenzi, kumnandi ekugcineni komkhosi kungenzeka ukuthi angasala. Kepha uma inani lezivakashi lincane, kepha indlu yeJubili, khona-ke umgubho ekhaya uzoba mfudumalo futhi emnandi kuye.
Njengokukhethwa kweholide lasekhaya, ungacabanga ngesikhumbuzo sezwe. Umzuzu wakhe omuhle ngukuthi, njengomthetho, kunecebo lomndeni eliseduze kokupha ngakunye, lapho izivakashi zingahamba khona, ziphefumula umoya omusha, ukuhlela ipikniki emgwaqweni - ngokuvamile, ukuze uziphathe ngendlela yemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuthi amakamelo engxenye iningi akhiwe kude nedolobha, ngakho-ke abamenyiwe bazokwazi ukuphumula kahle futhi baphumule kusuka engcupheni yedolobha, futhi umnikazi ngokwakhe uzozizwa ekhululekile kakhulu.
Ngaphandle ekhaya
Izinketho zombumbulu wesingeniso wesikhumbuzo seqembu leminyaka kusuka eminyakeni engama-25 kuye kwengama-35 kuningi. Konke kuncike ngosuku lokuzalwa, inganekwane yakhe nemvelo. Emaphathini anjalo, njengomthetho, cela abantu abasondele kakhulu kuJubilee uzizwa kalula futhi ngokwengqondo.
Izindawo ezahlukahlukene zesikhumbuzo zingabhekwa njengezinketho.
- Imvelo. Ukuhamba emvelweni kuzokhokha noma iyiphi insizwa, futhi akunandaba, ngasiphi isizathu esenzeka. Ukuphumula, izimpahla zamahhala zibekwe ekuxhumaneni okuqotho. Lolu hlobo lweholide lungabikwa kwisabelomali, ngoba izindleko zalo, uma kuqhathaniswa nenketho yokudlela, ezincane. Njengokuphatha, izivakashi zizothokozela bonke abazilungiselele emlilweni ovulekile. Into esemqoka ukukhetha indawo efanele, futhi ulungiselele kahle izimo zensimu. Ukuma komhlaba omuhle emanzini kuzonikeza ithuba lokubamba izikhathi ezingalibaleki kwikhamera. Isikhumbuzo esichithwa esithangamini semvelo singabizwa njengezinto zokuphumula zomzimba kuphela, kodwa futhi umphefumulo, ngokungangabazeki ezizokhumbula zonke izivakashi.
- I-WorkaGolics ingagubha ngokuphepha usuku lokuzalwa emsebenzini, ikakhulukazi uma beluke bedwa empilweni yomndeni ngaphambi kwalesosikhathi. Ozakwabo ababeka esikhundleni sabantu babo bomdabu futhi sekuyisikhathi eside besondela futhi esibaluleke kakhulu, ngentokozo izofakwa kwinqubo. Inketho ekahle, lapho iningi lokuhlupheka enhlanganweni yeholide, lizothatha, okuzokwaziswa yindoda yokuzalwa.
- Ukugeza kweRussia. Le nketho idala impela, ingeyokuqala futhi ayijwayelekile, kepha iphelele kuleli cala lapho "umphefumulo ungaguga." Njengomthetho, imikhosi enjalo ibanjwa ngesitayela sephathi ye-bachelor noma iphathi ye-bachelorette. Kepha kaningi kunezivakashi ezahlukahlukene, ezaziwayo isikhathi eside futhi azinamahloni. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhohlwa ukuthi iqembu ngesitayela se- "bani ngesiRussia" ngeke kube mnandi futhi kube mnandi, kodwa futhi nendlela enhle yokuthinta impilo.
Imibono yeholide
Isikhumbuzo ngasinye singedwa futhi saphawula kanye empilweni, ngakho-ke udinga ukukugubha ukuze ukhunjulwe isikhathi eside. Imibono, indlela yokusebenzisa lokhu kuwumkhosi obalulekile, kuningi, futhi minyaka yonke iba yihluka ngokwengeziwe. Ukuhlela iholidi elingalibaleki, umuntu wokuzalwa angakwazi ngokuzimela, asuse kude nezifiso nezifiso zakhe, futhi angafaka isicelo sosizo kwi-ejensi esebenza ngokukhethekile kulokhu.
Ungaqokomisa eminye yemibono ethakazelisa kakhulu.
- I-Pub Croole. Umnyombo wayo ukuthi isikhathi esithile, ukudlula izikhungo eziningi zokuzijabulisa ngangokunokwenzeka, ngamunye weqa i-cocktail noma ingilazi. Okuvelayo kuzoba yi-kaleidoscopic, kepha ungakhohlwa ngamathethe.
- Iphathi ebhishi. Ngisho nasendaweni lapho kungekho khona ulwandle, kukhona ichibi noma umfula, eduze kwawo ama-arbors noma izindlu zihlonyelwe irenti. Zingasetshenziselwa ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa esimweni sothando noma sobungane. Ukushona kwelanga, ukuhlebeza okuthule kwamagagasi asogwini kanye nabantu abaseduze (umuntu) oseduze - yini engaba yinhle ngokwengeziwe? Mhlawumbe yithikithi elethuli kuphela kuma-maldives anomsebenzi "wonke afakiwe".
- I-Bowling Club. Ijabule, ama-bowling wezemidlalo kanye ne-dynamic ake wathandwa ngayo yonke imikhakha yeminyaka yonke. Izikhungo ezinjalo zinikeza uhlelo olukhethekile lwabesifazane bokuzalwa kanye nezivakashi zabo. Kungaba nekamelo leholide noma vakashela i-Cozy Cafeteria lapho iziphatha zemikhosi zizobe zilindile.
- Ubuciko bezobuciko. Usuku lokuzalwa lunentshisekelo kulolu hlelo? Igama legama - isizathu esihle sokuqoqa wonke umuntu esifundweni sokupenda kawoyela. Isigaba esingezo esikhulu sezivakashi sizosiza ukudala umkhathi wokudala, ongenandaba nokuthi akekho ozosala.
- Paintball. Emdlalweni we-geabble akusona isiphetho sokudlala izintokazi ezihlonishwayo. I-adrenaline, ngenkathi ikhiqizwa, yenza kube nokwenzeka ukukhombisa amakhono anjalo wezobuchwepheshe abathi awazange asole.
- Uhambo oluya epulazini. Izakhamizi zasemadolobheni bezilokhu zinentshisekelo yokuthi zikhona edolobhaneni noma epulazini. Kuze kube manje, amapulazi amaningi emfuyo asebenzisa ngomusa uhambo lokuvakasha, okuvumela izivakashi zizigubhe esifundazweni. Nge-nameman enhle, onentshisekelo kulesi sihloko, umbono onjalo wokubamba usuku lokuzalwa kuzofanele ukwenze.
Isikhumbuzo asidabuki, kepha ngokuphelele kunoma yimuphi unyaka. Ngemuva kwakho konke, lokhu kungenye umugqa, odlulayo okunesifiso sokunqoba okuningi okunjalo. Futhi leli cala alinjalo ngokuhamba kweminyaka yonke, kepha yeka ukuthi abantu abasha bazizwa kanjani emphefumulweni. Ngakho-ke, akufanele wesabe izifiso zakho: ziyohlala zikhona, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Into esemqoka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ubone ngempilo ngokungeza upende ogqamile kanye nemibono.
Izinketho eziphezulu eziyi-10, Ungawugubha kanjani usuku lokuzalwa, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.