Wonke umuntu okungenani kanye empilweni yakhe wabhekana nomona. Omunye abantu bamukelwa kalula ngalo mzwelo, abanye, kumane nje kugqekezwa ngaphakathi, kepha abakulungeli ukuvuma. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, wonke umzali ugcizelela ingane yakhe ukuba ibe nomona abanye kabi. Ezinhlotsheni, baqhathanisa lo muzwa ngesibungu esizohlala esifubeni futhi ku-Erod Soul. Kodwa-ke, izincazelo zabazali zikhohliwe ngeminyaka. Futhi umuzwa womona kwesinye isikhathi ufinyelela esikhathini se-inopportune kakhulu. Susa umona omhlophe nomnyama. Lokho abahlukile phakathi kwabo nokuthi bazibonakalisa kanjani, bafunda esihlokweni.
Yini?
Emisebenzini eminingi yemibhalo, ungahlangabezana nokubonakaliswa okungalungile komuzwa womona. Isibonelo, i-Snow White and makena umama, scar and mufas (abalingiswa bekhathuni "King Lion"). Ngisho nasebhayibhelini, umuzwa womona phakathi kwamaKayini nabafowethu bakwa-Avele uyaphinyiselwa. Eqinisweni, umona yinto eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Futhi ukuqonda isisekelo sayo, kufanele ucabangele ukuthi lo muzwa uqukethe yini:
- okubandakanyekayo;
- ububi;
- inzondo;
- ukungagculiseki;
- qhathanisa.
Lokhu kuyingxenye yemithunzi engokomzwelo eyabhekana nangomelana. Kepha into ethakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi lo muzwa empilweni yangempela utholakala ngaphansi kwamaski ahlukene.
Zizwe umuzwa womona usho ukuthi umuntu othandekayo ufuna ukuba nokuthile okukhona okukhona . Isibonelo, owesifazane ufuna ijazi loboya kusuka kubuya bemvelo. Kepha izimo zempilo zimphoqa ukuthi agqoke ijazi elijwayelekile noma ijazi lokufakelwa. Futhi intombi yakhe ithola ijazi loboya be-mink phansi. Ngokuvumelana nalokho, owesifazane unomuzwa wokuthukuthela, ngoba kakhulu wayefuna ukuxhasa ikhabethe lakhe ngento enjalo yezingubo ezingenhla, kepha akwazanga ukufeza lokhu. Ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso zakho kwabanye kuyimizwa elingabekezeleleki. Futhi njengokubizwa okubizwa ngokuthi ukusabela okuvikelayo, umuntu ocabangayo uqala ukuziphindiselela Lowo owavela yikho konke. Esibonelweni sowesifazane onejazi soboya, anelisekile ngempilo yentokazi iqala ukuncibilikisa inhlebo ngentombi yakhe, ekhuluma kabi. Kepha eqinisweni, izibonelo ezinjalo zitholakala empilweni yansuku zonke ngaso sonke isinyathelo.
Abaphenyi baveze lokho Abantu abaneminyaka engu-18 kuye kwengama-30 bathambekele emvelweni womona. Akuvamile ukuba nomona nabanye abantu abadala nezingane. Emhlabeni wanamuhla, umona wePhenomenon uhlukaniswe ngezinhlobo ezimhlophe nezimnyama. Kukholakala ukuthi umona omhlophe awesabi. Kodwa-ke, eqinisweni, ngisho nomthunzi omhlophe yimimoya emibi. Vele, kuyathambile, kunemizwa emincane engemihle, kuthola ngisho nendima eyingqayizivele ye-push, eshukumisayo phambili.
Isikimu esingokomzwelo somona omhlophe: Unomfokazi, wanquma, wabuthana namabutho, wathola owufunayo. Ekhuluma ngokulinganayo, Umona omhlophe ungumgqugquzeli oholela umuntu ukufeza impumelelo. Umona omnyama mubi kakhulu kunomhlophe. Ubangela imizwa engemihle kakhulu ngomhawu, immise ngentukuthelo nangobudlova. Kwesinye isikhathi kudinga ngisho nokubhujiswa komona onomona. Ngalesi sizathu, ama-Frings, inkohliso, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nokubulawa kwalokhu kuhlale kufakwa umona omnyama. Umona omhlophe kungenzeka ngomusa nangokungazi, futhi umnyama ngamabomu. Kungahlolelwa abantu abacebile, abahle, abanekhono, abaphumelelayo nabanempilo. Eqinisweni, umuntu angazwa umuzwa womona kuphela kulokho angenakho. Eqinisweni, lokhu kungukuhlukumeza okunamandla okubangela imizwa engemnandi eshawini.
Umuntu onomona uthathwa njengomunye waba yingozi kakhulu, njengoba ekwazi noma yiziphi izenzo.
Kuhlukahluka ngani?
Uma umuntu ebhekene nomona omnyama emphefumulweni wakhe, i-aura yakhe ithunyelwa ngentukuthelo futhi ingenamangele, ngentukuthelo nenzondo. Umuntu onjalo akakwazi ukulimaza umnikazi wakho omuhle. Umona omnyama ungacindezela umuntu ngezenzo ezimbi. Isibonelo, lahla umshini wokupenda noma ubhale uqubuzele umsebenzi othuthukisiwe. Umuntu wathola umona omhlophe akaveli imizwa emibi eshawini. Akafuni ukulimaza umuntu onempumelelo. Umona wokuzwa okumhlophe okuvumela ukuthi uthuthuke, ukholwe kuwe namandla akho, ngaleyo ndlela uzuze ukuphakama okufunwayo.
Abaningi bayazi ukuthi yini umona omnyama omnyama ohlukile, kepha awakwazi ukudlulisa amagama. Umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwale mizwa ukuthi Umona omhlophe uyisikhuthazo futhi umgqugquzeli, futhi omnyama yintukuthelo nenzondo. Ngumona omnyama obulala isimo somuntu somuntu. Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu kunzima kakhulu ukubhekana nomuzwa womona. Isinqumo ukuphela kosizo lodokotela wezengqondo ofaneleke kakhulu.
Izimbangela Zenzeka
Izimbangela zomuzwa womona womuntu ngamunye zihlukile. Konke kuncike ekuqinisekisweni kobuntu nangomlingiswa. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, Ukuzihlola okuyinhloko, uthando lokuqhosha, isifiso sokuba nezinzuzo ezinhle kakhulu, ubuntwana obuyinkimbinkimbi, imfundo engafanele nobuthakathaka nobuthakathaka bomoya . Uthando lwamandla lungabangelwa uhlu olufanayo. Naphezu kokwehlukahlukana kwezizathu zomona, zihlanganiswa nengxenye ebalulekile, okungukuthi isifiso sokuba nalo komunye umuntu.
Mayelana nomona omhlophe nomnyama kunezindaba eziningi ezahlukahlukene, izindaba ezincane, izinganekwane nemifanekiso. Isibonelo, ngolunye usuku umNdiya wakudala watshela umzukulu wakhe ukuthi emphefumulweni wawo wonke umuntu kuhlala umzabalazo phakathi kwezimpisi ezimbili. Isilo sokuqala yintukuthelo, inzondo nomhawu. Owesibili uthwala okuhle, ukuthula, uthando nenjabulo. I-Little Indian eyayilalela ngokucophelela le ndaba, yabuza umkhulu wakhe, hlobo luni lwe-wolf oluwina, lapho umNdiya adala aphendula ngalo ukuthi wehlulwa yilowo nalowo.
Izazi eziningi zengqondo ziyaqiniseka ukuthi umuzwa womona uyisimangaliso esithathelanayo. Uma imizwa enjalo ivele ekhanda kumuntu ongu-1, ngokuqinisekile izoshaya umakhelwane. Isibonelo, indoda isikhathi eside yamona ngempumelelo yochwepheshe bozakwethu, ngenxa yalokho okwaqala ukuxoxa nabo lonke iqembu lalesi sisebenzi, waqala ukutshela ngaye ekudekeleni, baqoqe abazakwabo futhi bafaka esikhundleni Ibhukwana. Njengoba sebezwile lolu lwazi, empeleni abasebenzi abangu-1 kwabangu-10 bazowela ohlangothini lwe-eficer, futhi impi yokulwa nomuntu ophumelelayo izokwakhiwa ngamandla aphindwe kabili.
Izazi zezengqondo zabantu ngamunye zikhokhela abantu abanokuzithemba okuphansi ngenxa yobuntwana obunzima nobumpofu. Bazwa umona wokungabi nabulungisa kwezenhlalo, okunzima kakhulu ukunqoba. Cishe kunzima nje ukuqeda umona abantu abazibheka njengalabo abalahlekile futhi bagcwele ukungasho lutho. Bahlala benikezwa ukuntuleka kokuphila okungcono empilweni. Ngasikhathi sinye, ngisho nokunqoba okuncane, ngokwazo bayakubona njengokuhlulwa.
Ungakukhohlwa lokho Yena ngokwakhe unomona, ebona umuzwa womona, ufona ekuthembekeni kokuhlupheka kanye ne-liquafiediedi yemizwa yakhe . Kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi awukwazi ukulahla imizwa engemihle kumuntu ophumelelayo. Lapho-ke kufanele ugcine ububi obuhloliwe kuwe. Imizwa engapheli emibi ibangela izifo eziningi - hhayi ngokomoya kuphela, kodwa futhi nangokomzimba.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umona ekuhlaselweni kobubi obuqinile ungadala isimo lapho kungathinteka khona ngabantu abangenacala. Into ethokozisayo kakhulu ukuthi Noma ngubani wabo angaba umphikisi obaluleke kakhulu, khona-ke umona kuzofanela aqine.
Ngisho nomhawu ojwayelekile uhambisana nomona. Zombili lezi zimizwa zidinga ukuba nento ethile. Futhi lapho kunemizwa enjalo, unembeza, ububele nobuqiniso obungekho.
Iseluleko Esiwusizo
Ngeshwa, akwenzeki njalo ukubhekana nawe. Kungakho umona uvela kungalindelekile futhi anganciphisa umuntu ngaphakathi isikhathi eside. Ukuze lokhu kungenzeki, kuyadingeka ukuthola isizathu esiyinhloko sokuvela komona nokusebenza ngesazi sengqondo. Kungcono ukuzithobisa ngezinto ezinhle, ukudla okumnandi, uhambo lokuya emicimbini ethokozisayo, ukushiya izwe, ukuvakashela amazwe akude. Ukuze uqede umuzwa womona, kufanele usebenze njalo kuwe. Akunakukwazi ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu. Ukukhululwa emonweni, impilo yomuntu iyashintsha ngokuphelele. Unezinto eziza kuqala izinto, izintshisekelo, abantu obajwayele. Isizinda esingokomzwelo sishintsha okungcono, nombuzo othi "kungani ungangi?" uya emhlane.
Umuntu kunzima kakhulu ukunqanda ngokuzimela, kodwa ngendlela efanele ungaguqula lo muzwa ekugqumeni okuhle. Isibonelo, abesifazane abafisa ukwehlisa isisindo banele ukubheka imizimba emihle yabameleli bezocansi ejimini. Labo abafisa ukuceba kufanele basebenze kanzima babheke inhloso yabo. Omunye wemikhandlu ebalulekile yezazi zezengqondo, ukuvumela ukuthi ubhekane nomuzwa womona - ukwandisa ukuzethemba kwakho.
Uma umuntu ngokuzumayo enomona ngokuzumayo, udinga ukunxusa ngokomqondo kubo, babonga konke futhi akunandaba nezenzo zabo.
