Isikhumbuzo somshado usuku wonke amalungu omndeni okufanele akhunjulwe. Isipho esivela kumkakhe ngosuku lokugubha iminyaka engama-25 yokuphila ndawonye kufanele sikhetheke futhi singalibaleki.
Izipho zosuku lokuzalwa
Isikhumbuzo seminyaka engama-25 somshado, njengomthetho, abashadikazi bagubha ubumnandi nokunomsindo - hhayi wonke ama-pair akwazi ukuqhosha impilo ende enjalo. Ukugubha umcimbi onjalo, yiqiniso, abashadikazi bafuna lolu suku ukuba bahlale bememori yabo kuze kube phakade. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi inesibopho sokukhethwa kwesipho. Lokhu kufanele kube yinto yasekuqaleni, ewusizo, kepha hhayi ebiza kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukuthi isipho esinjengomlingani futhi simlethele injabulo kanye nenjabulo ngalolu suku olubalulekile.
Ngokwesiko emshadweni wesiliva, kuyisiko ukunikeza imikhiqizo evela kuleli nsimbi. Kwindoda ilungele impela indandatho enhle yesiliva. Ungathenga umkhiqizo ophelile noma wenze indandatho yoku-oda. Noma yimuphi umkhiqizo okhethiwe, into esemqoka ukuhambela okuqoshwa kwezembazo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanelekile ukunaka etsheni elilodwa ku-Rim of Pers - zonke izimbiwa zithwala amandla akhethekile futhi zinencazelo yalo.
Isibonelo, uma unikeza umuntu oshade naye oshade naye nge-agate ngohlaka lwesiliva, luzomnika impilo, amandla nempumelelo. Itshe elinjalo elinjenge-emerald linikeza inkosi yakhe ukuthula kwengqondo, ugqozi kanye nenhlanhla kuzo zonke izindaba.
Isafire uzoba ngendoda ukholo lwangempela. Leli tshe linikeza ukuzethemba kocansi kwabesilisa futhi kudonsela inhlala-kahle yezezimali. Uma ukhetha indandatho yendoda, ekhokha amandla athile ngokwayo, khona-ke nakanjani izokwazisa lesi sikhona.
Uma kwenzeka lowo oshade naye ethanda ukugqoka amajakethi asendulo, akunandaba nokubopha, khona-ke isipho esifaneleke ngokugcwele sizoba ngama-clamp noma ama-cufflinks esilivere. Izesekeli zingaba nama-inlaid avela ematsheni, cishe kwakungenhla.
Uma oshade naye ethanda ukuthatha izivakashi, futhi endlini kuvame ukuba abangane bakhe, khona-ke ungayinikeza isethi yezitaki zesiliva. Babukeka bemangalisa kakhulu, futhi wonke umuntu uzokujabulela ukunikeza umfazi wesifazane onjalo.
Njengesipho esivela esiliva, kunconywa ukukhetha i-statuette eyenziwe ngalesi sinsimbi esihle, ngokwesibonelo, isele, indlovu noma ukhozi. Imifanekisodolobha enjalo izokwazi ukungayi kuphela umhlobiso wedeskithophu yomlingani, kodwa futhi ne-mascot yangempela eheha inhlanhla nenhlala-kahle yezezimali. Unganikeza ne-statuette, efanekisela uphawu lwe-zodiac lomlingani.
Kuyafaneleka ukucubungula njengesipho isiliva sokuqala esilula, isibambo esibizayo ecaleni elikhethekile noma kwidayari.
Ngendlela, manje kungenzeka ukuthi uthole idayari, isembozo sawo sihlotshiswe ngepuleti lesiliva elihle. Erekhodini ungenza ukuqoshwa okukhethekile. Njengombhalo, imvamisa bakhetha ibinzana elithandwayo lomlingani ovela kunoma iyiphi i-movie noma ukuqagela komuntu omkhulu.
Kungenzeka ukwethula umnikazi wenkomishi yesiliva uma lowo oshade naye eyisithandwa esikhulu setiye.
Njengoba isipho esikhona emshadweni wesiliva futhi senza isithombe esihle somndeni futhi sethula owakwakhe efreyimu yesiliva. Lesi sithombe sigcinwe emsebenzini kwi-akhawunti yomuntu siqu.
Imibono Yezipho Zokuqala
Vele, kuze kube-25 imishado yomshado udinga ukunikeza omunye nomunye ngesiliva. Lezi yizipho zendabuko ezizohlala ziyinkumbulo ende yalolu suku. Kepha ungathenga njengesipho esingeziwe, okuthile kwasekuqaleni, okungajwayelekile futhi okungabizi kakhulu.
Impela edolobheni kukhona isitolo noma isitolo sezipho zoqobo. Lapho ungathenga noma u-oda indondo yesiliva. Umlingani uzokujabulela uma umnika indondo nombhalo "wokwethembeka" noma "umyeni ongcono emhlabeni."
Ezitolo ezinjalo, kungenzeka futhi uku-oda idiploma 'umyeni omuhle kakhulu' noma uthole i-Oscar ebhalisiwe e-Statuette, kanye nendebe yesiliva. Izipho ezinjalo zoqobo zizothatha indawo efanelekile engaphakathi kwendlu futhi zibe yisikhumbuzo somgubho wesikhumbuzo sakho.
Oda isithombe somyeni wakhe othandekayo e-Ampllua engajwayelekile - futhi inketho yesipho. Isibonelo, esithombeni, oshade naye angakhonjiswa ngesimo senkosi noma ye-knight. Amadoda athanda izipho ezigcizelela ubuntu bazo, ubukhulu nobudoda. Umlingani uzoba muhle ukubona ukubukeka okuhlekisayo kwezivakashi ezizokwazisa lesi sithombe esingajwayelekile ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Uma umlingani enomuzwa wokuhlekisa futhi othanda hhayi owangempela, kodwa futhi nezipho ezimnandi, kufanelekile uku-oda ikhathuni noma i-statuette yasekuqaleni okuzoba yikhophi yomyeni wakhe.
Ukuze isipho esijabulisayo sokukhumbuza umyeni wakhe ngomshado wesiliva, ungenza ukungqopha kukho.
Ngokumangazayo, kusekhona uhambo lothando lwababili. Owesifazane ngamunye nje ukhumbula izinsuku nezindawo lapho ejwayelene khona, evuma othandweni, ukwanga kokuqala. Uhambo oluya ezihlalweni zesikhumbuzo luzoba yisipho esihle kakhulu sobabili.
Umqondo omuhle ukubhaliswa ejimini noma echibini , Isitifiketi sokugibela amahhashi noma ukuhamba ngebhaluni. Futhi ungathenga amathikithi ekhonsathi yeqembu lakhe alithandayo noma ahambe naye ndawonye kumdlalo weqembu lebhola lezinyawo noma le-hockey. Uma unkosikazi, lapho ekhetha isipho, ukubonisana futhi nezintshisakalo zomuntu siqu, enze umuntu oshade naye, khona-ke le ndoda nakanjani izojabulisa ngesipho esinjalo.
Ungasenza kanjani isipho sokuqala ngezandla zakho, uzofunda kuvidiyo engezansi.
Yini okufanele iyinika umyeni wayo?
Kunesigaba esithile sezipho ezinganikezwa umkhosi onjalo womndeni njengosuku lokuzalwa lomshado. Isibonelo, amadoda amaningi awanaki imimese yesipho noma ama-sabers asekuqaleni. Kepha ukunikeza isipho esinjalo ngosuku lokuzalwa 25 lomshado akunakwenzeka - lokhu kuwuphawu olubi, ngoba isipho esinjalo singangena abashadikazi. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukugwema izipho ezifanayo futhi ulahlise izinto ezibukhali ezibukhali nezithunga.
Izihlakala zesiliva - ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyisipho esilungele usuku lokugubha, kodwa ngakolunye - ukunikeza iwashi kubhekwa njengokuvuma okubi. Kuthiwa izipho ezinjalo ziholela ekuhlukaniseni - Kungcono ukunikeza umlingani isongo sokuqala kusuka esiliva noma okunye.
Noma ngabe umngane womshado ungumuntu othanda kakhulu wezinto ezindala, akufanele umnikeze izinto zakudala ezithengwa esitolo sakudala. Njengomthetho, izinto ezinjalo aziphathanga amandla amabi. Noma iyiphi indandatho yesiliva ye-vintage, esikhundleni senhlanhla nenjabulo, izoletha kuphela ukungaboni ngaso linye.
