Isikhumbuzo somshado ngaso sonke isikhathi siyisigameko esibalulekile sabalingani. Futhi ngo-17, kusukela osukwini lomshado, kufanelekile ukuziqhenya ngalo, ngoba lo mbhangqwana usudlulile ngesikhathi esigcwele injabulo nobubi, futhi akazange aphule. Lolu suku alukhanyi kakhulu, nokho, lunamasiko alo okugubha nokwethula izipho.
Ubani igama lesikhumbuzo?
Ngomngcele eminyakeni eyi-17 kusukela osukwini lokushada, kuhlotshaniswa namaqiniso amabili athakazelisayo.
Okokuqala, isikhumbuzo sinamagama amabili: i-tin nepinki. Zombili izindinganiso zinencazelo ethile. U-Tin ubhekisela ezinsimbi eziguqukayo, kuvame ukusetshenziselwa ukuxhuma izingxenye komunye nomunye. Abalingani, njengokungathi amaphazili amabili, axhumeke ngempela yi-aath yomshado futhi asakwazi ukusaba nokuhlala komunye nomunye. Kodwa-ke, bahlala ndawonye bona, futhi ukuguquguquka kwama-tin kukhombisa lokho Abalingani badinga ukuvame ukuhambelana kakhulu, okungukuthi, kuvumelana nezimo ngokwengeziwe ukugcina ubudlelwano busesikhathini eside.
Ngokuqondene ne-rose enhle, lolu hlobo lukhona ngosuku lwe-17 lokuphila ndawonye, hhayi nje lokho. Le mbali ihlotshaniswa nesisa nentshisekelo, ubuhle kanye nengozi ye-SPIKES EBUCHyo. Ngakho-ke ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana oshadile kufanele uhanjelwe njengomusa komunye nomunye kanye nokubonakaliswa kothando othandweni oluqinile lweminyaka eminingi. Kuyiqiniso, ngesinye isikhathi phambi kwenjabulo yomndeni, izinkinga kanye nokungaboni ngaso linye, njengezikhala, mayelana nokuthi le njabulo ingaphulwa ngawo, kepha awukwazi ukukhohlwa ukuthi abashadikazi baboshwe ndawonye, nokuthi bayakwazisa futhi bayakwazisa.
Kungakho kungcono kakhulu ukugubha iminyaka engu-17 kusukela osukwini lomshado ndawonye, esimweni sothando. Isibonelo, endaweni yokudlela noma endlini enokukhanya kwamakhandlela futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ngesixha samaroses amahle etafuleni.
Okwesibili, i-tin noma i-pink nakho kuwukugubha iminyaka eyi-10 yomshado. Umehluko we-Cardinal unjengobusuku bokuzalwa obubili obuqanjwe ngokulinganayo: Isikhumbuzo se-10 siyaphawulwa kakhulu, phambi kwezivakashi ezahlukahlukene, kanye neminyaka engu-17 yabalingani begubha ngombuthano womndeni omncane noma ndawonye kuphela, esimweni sothando.
Isiphi isipho sokupheka umkakhe?
Masinyane kufanelekile ukusho ngesipho esidume kakhulu nesamukelayo sowesifazane - mayelana nezimbali. Ngosuku olunjalo, isixha semishini ebomvu eyishumi nesikhombisa noma epinki ilungile.
Ngokuzithandela, ukumangala esiqwini, ungacasha, ngokwesibonelo, amathikithi enkundleni yemidlalo noma kwi-cinema, isitifiketi sezipho esitolo sezingubo noma izimonyo zabesifazane.
Kepha i-bouquet ingukungezwa okuhle kuphela kwisipho esikhulu. Ngakho-ke yini enimnika lowo oshade naye? Phonsa imicabango ngezipho zasendlini. Izitsha, izinto zasendlini, ilineni lokulala kanye nezinto ezifanayo zizokwethulwa kangcono ngabangane, futhi kumyeni wakhe kulolusikhumbuzo olunjalo owesifazane angathanda ukuthola isipho sothando. Sinikeza izinketho ezimbalwa ezifanele.
- Isidlo sakusihlwa endaweni yokudlela eqinile. Kuhle kungaba esikhungweni somculo obukhoma nemibala enamakhandlela asetafuleni. Umoya opholile usiza ukuwele imizwa ethambile, yothando komunye nomunye.
- Uhambo oluya endaweni yokuphumula yokuphumula ndawonye. Ngaphansi kokuvela okusha, isithandwa sizokhohlwa ngokukhathazeka kwansuku zonke futhi simane siphumule.
- Amakha. Ibhodlela lemimoya kufanele lithengwe kuphela uma indoda yazi kahle ngokuthandwa ngumlingani wayo.
- Ubucwebe. Lokhu mhlawumbe kuyisipho esifanele kunazo zonke. Amathuba nobubanzi bokuzikhethela ezitolo ezahlukahlukene kuzokuvumela ukuthi uthole isipho esihlangabezana nendaba yokugubha. Ungavimbela i-pendant, indandatho noma isongo ngamatshe abomvu noma apinki. Kungaba okufanekisela kakhulu ukunikela okuthile kubucwebe obuhle be-tin.
Lalela okukhethiwe noma ukumane ulinake, bese umbono ngesipho uzofika ngokwawo. Konke okudingayo ukukhombisa ukuthi imizwa enyunyana yakho isanamandla futhi iphakeme.
Yini Ukuvimbela Umyeni Wami?
Cishe wonke umuntu wesifazane, uma ufisa ukunika owakwakho lokho ayekujabulela ngempela, kuphula ikhanda. Okuhlangenwe nakho ngokweqile kweze, ngosuku lwe-17 lomshado, umfazi angenza isipho esihambelana nophawu lwalolu suku.
- Ekukhetheni izinto ze-tin kulula ukulahleka. I-Portrait nge-Tin ifaka indoda ebhemayo, i-tin flask, i-beer mug. Uma umlingani esebenza ehhovisi, ama-coasters aqokiwe, iziqeshana, ama-statuette edeskithophu, kanye nama-tin cufflinks azobukeka kahle emikhondweni yendoda yebhizinisi.
- Indoda ethandekayo izothokozela ihembe eliphakeme noma i-vest yesitayela sebhizinisi. Lapha ungasuka usuka ku-Emblic ukuze usuku lokuzalwa kombala opinki, kepha akekho owenqabela ukupakishwa ephepheni lepinki noma ebhokisini.
- Iminyaka engu-17, oshade naye mhlawumbe wafunda kahle okhethiweyo wakhe, angenza isipho ngokuya ngezinto azithandayo. Kungaba yigiya lokudoba, incwadi oyithandayo e-Pigs Edition, Prentncery Pres - noma yini.
- Ngaphezu kwalokhu okungenhla, ngosuku lokugubha umshado, isidlo sothando sizofanelana kahle nomfazi onothando. Angapheka izitsha ezithandekayo kakhulu zendoda yakhe, abhaka ikhekhe noma ikhekhe elibunjwe inhliziyo elizohlobisa itafula lamaholide.
Isimo sothando sinikela amakhandlela amnandi noma ajwayelekile, kanye nama-rose petals.
Izinguqulo zesamanje zabangani
Ukukhetha isipho sokugubha iminyaka engu-17 yomshado wabangane, Ungakhohlwa ukuthi umshado uyi-tin nopinki.
- Izinto zokuhlobisa ezinhle kakhulu, izinto zasekhishini, izesekeli, nokunye okunjalo. Ungaqonda ngokucophelela ekukhetheni ubucwebe be-tin, kepha kungcono ukugwema ukuthenga izindandatho ze-tin.
- Izihloko "ezipinki" zilula kakhulu: isethi yekhishi noma amathawula okugeza, iqoqo lelineni lokulala lekhwalithi noma i-plaid lingaba nemidwebo noma imidwebo nje, ingaba yipinki noma ibomvu. Ukupakisha izipho ezinjalo kungcono futhi ku-pink wrapper futhi ngaphansi komnsalo omuhle.
- Imishini yasendlini yamukelekile. Kungaba umenzi wezinkwa, umenzi wekhofi, i-juicer, i-blender, steamer. Ungaya lapha usuka ohlangothini ongajwayelekile: ukunika i-yogurtnitz, ama-wafflells noma u-ayisikhilimu. Futhi ilusizo futhi ngisho nakulokho okumangazayo kothando kuzoba yithonya elihle futhi lintofontofo. Akube yicebo elincane labashadikazi ukuze kwesinye isikhathi bathokoze ngakunye ngemibhede yasekuseni.
- Ukukhetha okuhle kwalesi sikhathi kuzoba isithombe somlingani ophrintiwe kwi-canvas ekhethekile. Ngasikhathi sinye, ungathatha uhlaka lwangempela lomfanekiso. Futhi akudingekile ukunikeza isithombe nombhangqwana onothando, ungenza ikholaji ephelele yezithombe zabalingani, abathandekayo babo nezihlobo.
- Ekukhetheni kwesipho seminyaka engu-17, iziphuzo ezi-pink ezithandekayo, ezinjenge-champagne, newayini noma notshwala, ziyathandwa. Ibhodlela lingahlanganiswa kahle, futhi lisetshenziswe kulo isethi yezibuko zabantu abaningana, ukuze isipho sivumelane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abashadikazi bazokwazisa kakhulu uhambo oluncane noma uhambo oluhlelelwe bona, ngokwesibonelo, ekugibeleni amahhashi, emgodini.
Ukumangala imibono yabazali
Ngokunokwenzeka, izingane ezinabazali bayo ezizogubha umshado we-pink-tin, azinawo imali oyitholayo, ngakho-ke kuzoba nzima ukwethula isipho esibizayo semali etholakalayo ephaketheni. Kodwa-ke, kunezindlela eziningi zokuxazulula lo msebenzi. Izibonelo zezipho ezethulwe ngezansi aziphathwa kakhulu, kodwa kuzodingeka ukubonakaliswa kokucabanga nomzamo.
- Movie. Ngenxa yokuphazamiseka okukhulu kokukhethwa kwezinhlelo zekhompyutha, akunzima ukuthola kahle ukudala ifilimu lomndeni elithinta inhliziyo. Susa amafayela ama-video amafushane, faka izithombe eziguqukelana ngaphansi komunye nomunye ngaphansi kwabazali ngomculo, futhi ifilimu lizophuma lihle.
- Izithombe zomndeni. Kwanele ukuthenga i-albhamu engenalutho yezithombe, bese uyigcwalisa njengezifiso. Okubi kakhulu kokudala kukhulu, ngoba ngezithombe ungafaka amasiginesha, nezinto ezingokomfanekiso ezifana nama-appliqués. Ungenza futhi ikhola enkulu yezithombe ngezandla zakho, ngisho nephosta yonke enezimpawu namaphethini ahlekisayo.
- Ukufuna. Isipho esingajwayelekile, kepha esiwusizo kakhulu sizoba amakhuphoni okuvakashela imfuno ejabulisayo. Ekushiseni kwe-Azart, umbhangqwana onothando uzokwazi ukubuyela ebusheni. Kodwa-ke, lapha, uma kungekho imali eyanele, ungahlela konke ngokwakho: Fihla yonke indawo efulethini ngemisebenzi, imibuzo, izimfumbe kanye namaphazili. Futhi ekuhambeni kwazo zonke izivivinyo, vumela abadlali balinde indawo encane kodwa emnandi.
- Umdlalo we Bhodi. Imibuthano Yomndeni Yemidlalo yedeskithophu ihlala iqinisa ubudlelwano phakathi kwezihlobo. Imidlalo ingaba ukuhlekisa, okuqondayo noma okuthakazelisa - ukukhetha kuyabanzi.
- Isipho ngezandla zakho. Kungenziwa yikho konke umphefumulo wakho: ukudonswa kwesithombe, ukufekethisa, ikhadi leposi elivela entombini, izifanekiso. E-gonfish enjalo, onikelayo ofaka umphefumulo ngokuzithandela, okubenza babe yigugu kakhulu.
- Ukubhaka okwenziwe ekhaya. Ngokubekezela, isikhathi kanye nomsebenzi, ungabhaka amakhukhi noma ikhekhe, futhi ukubonakaliswa kwenganekwane ngamafomu nobucwebe obumnandi kwamukelekile kakhulu.
Noma yimuphi umkhumbuzo womshado umcimbi onesizotha, leli yiholide, ukuthi yibaphi abathandi ngicela omunye nomunye ngokubonga ngokuhloniphana nothando eminyakeni edlule. Lesi yisizathu sokuhlangana wonke umndeni futhi wethule abalingani bezimanga.
Izinkumbulo ezimnandi zesikhathi esedlule, ukuqwashisa ngemingcele ejabulisayo yangempela nengavikelekile yekusasa kuzovuka ngempela emiphefumulweni yalezelwa emkhosini, futhi umkhathi uzofakwa ngezothando.
Kungenxa yazo zonke lezi zizathu ukuthi iminyaka yokugubha iminyaka ibigujwa ngamasiko akhethekile ngisho nezinkolelo-ze zasendulo, ngoba ihlanganisa kakhulu imibhangqwana eshadile.
Mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele uyikhumbule umshado, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.