Umshado ubumbano lwabantu ababili, olususelwa othandweni, ukuqonda nokwethembana. Isikhathi sanoma iyiphi inyunyana asikwazi ukubikezelwa ekuqaleni kwempilo yomndeni, lapho umbhangqwana osemusha washintsha izindandatho zomshado futhi unikeze omunye umfutho. Ngemuva kweminyaka yokuphila komndeni, kungaqondakala ukuthi inani leminyaka yeminyaka lincike kubo bobabili abalingani, kusukela ebudlelwaneni babo kuya komunye nomunye, kusukela esifisweni sokunqoba ngokuhlanganyela izimo zokuphila eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi zihambisane nomgwaqo omude wokuphila .
Njalo ngonyaka wempilo yomndeni kungenye isinyathelo esiteshini eside sobudlelwano bemindeni futhi unegama lawo elingokomfanekiso. Isikhumbuzo samashumi amane nesishiyagalolunye somshado, mhlawumbe hhayi usuku esiyindilinga, kepha naphezu kwalokhu, inani laso alincishisiwe phakathi kwenani elikhulu lamaholide.
Ubani igama lesikhumbuzo?
Iminyaka engamashumi amane nesishiyagalolunye yokuphila - indlela ende, okudlula ndawonye. Lokhu kunqoba kubizwa ngokuthi iCedar. Umuthi onamandla, oqinile futhi oqinile ufanekisela ukuthembeka kobudlelwano, ukuhlakanipha, uthando nokuqonda. Ngenxa yokutholakala kwalezi zimfanelo, umndeni ukhona isikhathi eside futhi uphinde unqobe bonke ubunzima abayinto yetayitela. Ubudlelwano obuqinile nobuqotho baba yisisekelo sempilo yomndeni ethembekile, eduze kwazo izingane zavuka, kwavela abazukulu bami futhi izinzwa ezinkulu ezinkulu.
Umuthi weCedar ungenye yezinkuni ebiza kakhulu emhlabeni kanye nobudlelwano bomndeni okudingeka ukuthi uhlobanise ukucophelela futhi ungavumeli ukuba nomona nezitha ukubabhubhisa. Umuthi ohlala njalo awugcini nje umhlobiso nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sonyaka, kodwa futhi unezakhiwo zokuphulukisa. Isitshalo se-coniferous sinokulwa nokuvuvukala, ukuhlanza nokuphulukisa umphumela. Ngakho-ke buyela endlini yabazali ukuya kubazali abanakekelayo nabahlakaniphileyo kuzosiza ukuxazulula futhi unqobe izinkinga namandla. Ukugxila Komndeni kuzokusindisa emvelweni wokwesaba nokungaqiniseki. Kuphela abazali bangajabula ngobuqotho ingane yabo.
Ubudlelwano obuvumelanayo babazali nakanjani buzoba yisibonelo esizukulwaneni esisha futhi bube bube yisibonelo hhayi izingane kuphela, kodwa futhi nakubazukulu nabazukulu.
Izigaba zokwakheka komndeni zifana nokukhula nokuthuthukiswa kwezinkuni. Umuthi, njengomndeni, ovuthayo wokuqala futhi uhluka, noma yikuphi ukunyakaza okungakhathali kungalimaza. Isimo sokucophelela nokunakekelwa kwakha isisekelo sokukhula, ukuthuthukiswa kanye nokuqiniswa kwesihlahla nomndeni. Ngonyaka ngamunye ophilayo, isici esingesihle siya ngokuya siba nzima ngokwengeziwe, futhi ngemuva kwesikhathi esifushane, kuvela amahlumela amasha, abonakale ukuqhubeka kohlobo olukhulile futhi kukhule ngaphansi komqhele wesihlahla esinokwethenjelwa, okufanekisela umndeni.
Ungawugubha kanjani umgubho?
Lo mgubho uyisiko ukuzogubha embuthanweni wezihlobo nabangane abaseduze. Ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu, kuyadingeka ukulungiselela indawo yokugubha. Izibani ezinamakha anamafutha aseCedar zigcwalisa igumbi ngephunga elimnandi futhi wakhe umuzwa weholide. Ukutshala izihlahla ezisencane zeCedar eduze kwendlu kuzoba isenzo esisenkabeni somgubho, futhi ukunakekelwa okulandelayo kwawo kungumsebenzi omnandi. Ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi, izihlahla eziqinisiwe nezidala ziyohlala zikhumbuza abazukulu ngempilo kayisemkhulu nogogo wabo, futhi nazo zizoba yisibonelo sokwenza umndeni oqinile.
Hike ukugeza ngosuku lokugubha umshado kubhekwa njengoMcimbi ongokomfanekiso nowendabuko. Kumenyiwe izivakashi kanye nabenzi bomkhosi ndawonye baya kulo mcimbi. Ukugeza emgqonyeni weCedar noju kanye ne-hop kubhekwa njengenqubo yokuma okuhlanganayo, nokugqamisa nokuthepha kalula kwama-austrweds kuzoba ukuzijabulisa okumnandi.
Ukugeza abashadikazi ngamanzi anezinwele kuwuphawu lokuhlanza ubudlelwano obuvela ezingxabano, imicabango emibi futhi ecasulayo, nokuqhubeka kokuphila ndawonye kufanele kubanjelwe emkhathini wokuzola nokuzwana.
Izivakashi kumele zilungiselele izingoma ezincane ezihlekisayo noma i-chastishki engafakwa amabhantshisene ngezikhumbuzo. Ithebula lemikhosi lingcono ukumboza ku-gazebo ethokomele ehlobo, ethafeni lendlu yezwe noma egumbini lokuhlala lasekhaya.
Ukubuka izithombe namavidiyo amadala omndeni kuzokhumbuza abezivakashi be-Annivarians mayelana neminyaka ejabulisayo yokuphila, mayelana nokuzalwa kwezingane nabazukulu futhi bazonikeza umzuzu kuphela, kodwa futhi nosizi olukhanyayo.
Izitsha zemikhosi akufanele zibe zinozwela, okumnandi futhi ziwusizo ukudla okwenziwe ekhaya, okuphekwe ngugogo nezingane, kuzofanela ukunambitha zonke izivakashi.
Maphakathi nethebula kumele kube isaladi ngesimo se-cedar cone. Idizayini yobuhle yalesi sidlo ingenziwa ngokuzimele ngokusekelwe ezifisweni ngazinye.
-Okukhona manje
Isikhumbuzo seCedar somshado sigujwa ngabantu beminyaka ehlonishwayo, lapho amanani wezinto ezibonakalayo esephelile ukuthatha indawo yokuqala empilweni. Ukunakekela, ukunakwa kanye nesimo senhlonipho - izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ezigcwele ngemibala ekhanyayo futhi zigcwalisa incazelo yayo. Izipho ezingokomfanekiso zingaba yimikhiqizo ehlukahlukene evela ku-cedar Wood, kanye nezobuciko ezivela ezintweni zemvelo ezenziwa izandla zabazukulu zizoba ukushintshwa okufanayo kwezikhumbuzo ezibizayo nokuhlobisa.
Abazali
Ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nokukhethwa kwesipho, kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ngokucophelela ngezifiso ezithandwa kakhulu ngabazali, ukuze isipho singabi yi-trinkel engathandeki noma i-trinket engadingekile. Ukulungiselela umgubho, kuyadingeka ukubheka iqiniso lokuthi amabutho nempilo yabazali sekukude kakhulu nalabo abasebasha, kanye nezinkinga zokunakekelwa kwasekhaya kanye nezinkinga zasendlini zithatha isikhathi esingenamkhawulo, okungcono ukusisebenzisa ekuxhumaneni nalo Abathandekayo. Imishini yasendlini, intuthuko yanamuhla yezobuchwepheshe izoba abasizi ababalulekile bezinsuku zonke. Ukutadisha amadivaysi amasha nemisebenzi yabo kungaphendulwa kwaba ukuzijabulisa okuhlanganayo kwazo zonke izizukulwane zomndeni.
Ngiyabonga abazali ngothando, ukunakwa nokunakekelwa kungasetshenziswa ngokwenza ngcono izimo zezindlu. Izinkinga, abasebenzi kanye nezinkinga zezingane zihlala ziningi empilweni yomndeni ngamunye, futhi imvamisa abukho amandla anele nesikhathi sokwenza kahle ifenisha, zilenga ezinye izinto zokuhlobisa impilo ngenjabulo futhi Induduzo.
Izingane zabantu abadala zingase zithathe ukusebenza kwalo msebenzi, futhi abazukulu abasebasha nabadala nakanjani bazokwenza amandla nentsha ibe ngaphakathi efulethini elivuselelwe.
Ukuhalalisela umama oneminyaka engama-49 ubudala, ungamisa ukunaka kwakho kulezi zipho ezilandelayo:
- imihlobiso nobucwebe obuhlukahlukene bokhuni lomsedari;
- Ukusikwa okwenziwe ngokhuni, ama-mugs okuhlobisa nezitsha ngeke kuhlobise itafula lamaholide kuphela, kodwa futhi agcwalise indlu ngephunga lezinaliti nephunga lehlathi elivuthayo;
- Imifanekiso yokhuni kanye izingoma zokuhlobisa;
- Uhlaka lomndeni;
- amabhokisi aqoshiwe;
- Izimonyo kanye nemishini yokuhlanzeka komuntu siqu enamafutha aseCedar.
Ubaba ngokungangabazeki uzojabula ngokunikela ngezesekeli zokugeza kanye nama-saunas, uwoyela onamakhambi nama-massage access azosiza ukubuyisela amandla, amandla futhi athuthukise impilo.
Amaswidi nokudla okuhlukahlukene okuhlukahlukene okunamantongomane ama-cedar azoba ukwengeza okumnandi ephathini yetiye yakusihlwa, lapho wonke amalungu omndeni azohlangana khona, kungakhathalekile iminyaka yobudala.
Amadivaysi ezokwelapha, avumela ukuqapha isimo sempilo kanye nesikhathi ukuthatha izinyathelo zokunciphisa ingcindezi, ukushaya ushukela hhayi isipho esihle nje, kepha kuyadingeka, okuzosiza ukunweba izimpilo zabalingani abadala. Gcina kulesi sipho akunakwenzeka ngokwezigaba, kuyadingeka ukuthola kuphela amadivaysi aphezulu aphezulu abakhiqizi abaziwayo.
Ngaphambi kokukhetha isipho esinjalo, izingane kufanele zikhumbule ukuthi abazali bazinikeze wonke amabutho angcono kakhulu futhi awasoze azisole noma izindleko ezibonakalayo.
Umzuzu othinta inhliziyo futhi ongalibaleki uzoba ukwethulwa kwezindandatho zomshado kubazali njengophawu lothando nokwethembeka, imbiza yokuhlobisa esitshalweni sendlu, kodwa futhi nesikhumbuzo esihlala njalo sothando nokunakekelwa kothando nokunakekelwa okuqhubekayo izihlobo.
Isipho esingokomoya singajabulisa ukwedlula izinto. Amathikithi e-cinema noma eshashalazini, inhlangano yephalishi noma uhambo oluya eSanatorium enempilo, ngokungangabazeki ngokumangala kwaba ukwamukelwa. Kanye nesitatimende seshashalazi esithuthukisiwe ngokubamba iqhaza kwamalungu omndeni amancane kakhulu kuzoba okugqamile kwalo lonke iholide. Ukudutshulwa kwevidiyo yasekhaya kuzojabulisa iminyaka eminingi ogogo nomkhulu.
Banganise
Ukucela abangane emkhosini wamaholidi owumnyaka wama-49 wokuhlala ndawonye akukujabulisi futhi akuhlonishwa, kepha futhi kuphakamisa ukuthi izikhumbuzo zibheke iminyaka eminingi futhi zihlukanise izikhathi ezijabulisayo nemizuzu yosizi. Noma yisiphi isipho esithengwe ngeholide kufanele sithwale umthwalo we-semantic. Asikho isidingo sokuthenga izinto ezibiza kakhulu, kwanele ukuthenga izipho ezidingekayo nezifunayo.
Kwabangane asebekhulile, ungazikhetha izinto ezingaphakathi zezinkuni, izihlalo zokuhlobisa nezihlalo ezinyakazayo. Amatafula amahle ezatakeletafula, ama-napkins nemicamelo ethambile izojabulisa umhambeli ekhaya. Yima izincwadi, isibani sokuhlobisa nethebula letiye kuzoba izinto ezidingekayo zokuhlwa isikhathi eside kusihlwa sasebusika.
Amasaladi aphekiwe, amakhekhe amnandi nezinye izibilibovu ngeke zijabulele zonke izivakashi kanye nabanikazi bendlu, kodwa futhi kwenze kube lula ukubhekana nethuba lomkhosi.
Ukuze isipho simukelekile, kuyadingeka ukutshala izinhlayiyana komphefumulo wakhe, futhi noma ngabe kuzokubiza malini.
Impilo yomndeni yindlela ende eye yadlula ndawonye. Ngaphambi kokuqala inhlangano yeholide, kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi izikhumbuzo zingabantu abadala abangenawo amandla nezinkampani ezinomsindo. Ukunakekelwa, ukunakwa, induduzo yasekhaya nabathandekayo iqiniso lokuthi kuyadingeka ukuze kugundwe yizikhumbuzo. Ukumamatheka kanye nokuhalalisela okuqotho kwezingane nabazukulu bayisipho esihle kunazo zonke. Usuku olufudumele nolunesizotha luzosheshe ukundiza, kepha endlini yabazali kumele ihlale injabulo futhi limamatheke.
Umsebenzi oyinhloko wesizukulwane esisesincane ukunakekela nsuku zonke abazali. Ugogo nomkhulu oneminyaka yobudala obudala - okuboniswa kwezimfanelo zangaphakathi zabathandekayo babo.
Imikhiqizo yeCedar yezipho zeminyaka engama-49 yokuhlala ndawonye bheka le vidiyo elandelayo.