Iningi lethu sazi amagama wesikhumbuzo sesikhumbuzo semishado - isiliva, igolide, idayimane. Futhi wazi kahle ngomshado weCitz - usuku lokuqala lomshado. Kodwa-ke, minyaka yonke, ndawonye emshadweni osemthethweni, unegama namasiko alo emgubhweni wawo.
Futhi namhlanje sizokhuluma ngesikhumbuzo seminyaka engamashumi amabili nambili yempilo yomndeni. Lesi akusona isikhumbuzo sesiliva sesiliva, kepha nokho isikhathi eside somshado. Futhi-ke, lolu suku lukufanele ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwakhe kugujwa kahle.
Ubani igama lesikhumbuzo?
Kubizwa iminyaka engamashumi amabili nambili I-Bronze Wedding. Lesi akusona isiliva okwamanje, kepha hhayi i-porcelain "usuku lokuzalwa oluneminyaka engama-20. Igama lalolu suku alinangqondo, ngoba i-Bronze iyinsimbi ethandekayo, ebalulekile. Abantu abahlala ndawonye iminyaka eminingi sebevele bebanda kakhulu ukuba babone futhi babukele ubudlelwano obukhona nesakhiwo somndeni, ngisencane impela ngithola imizwa eqinile komunye nomunye.
Noma kunjalo, ithusi aliseyona indwangu, hhayi isihlahla, yinsimbi, okungukuthi, okuqukethwe kunamandla kakhulu. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi inyunyana yabalingani eminyakeni edlule yomshado "egqokwa" yaba yi-monolith ethile, i-alloy, iqiniso lokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba lichithe.
Igama libonakala lithi i-Bronze ngokwayo ihlala isikhathi eside, ithembekile, ngenkathi imayini kakhulu (eyaziswa kakhulu ngabaculi) futhi ichitha imfudumalo ngokuphelele. Lezi zakhiwo zethusi zenza kube yinsimbi eyingqayizivele.
Eqhubana ngokufana nomshado, kungashiwo ukuthi abashadikazi baphila iminyaka eminingi kangaka eceleni, bafudumalane ngokufudumala kwemiphefumulo yabo, bakwazi ukwenza indlela ebalulekile yoMlingani, futhi ndawonye a Iqembu elithembekile neliqinile. Ezinhlokweni eziqinile zangempela, lezi yizimiso eziyisisekelo "ngokuzenzakalelayo", ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, njengoba zisho, entabeni nasengcupheni nakwintokozo.
Akuzona zonke izinhlangano zomshado ezifinyelela lokhu, ngoba ukuphila iminyaka embalwa futhi ungalahlekelwa yileyo mizwa ababeke badideka umkhaya odala umndeni, kodwa kunalokho, "ngokweqile" zothando olunamandla nokuhloniphana ngeze. Ngakho-ke, isikhumbuzo samashumi amabili nambili sibalulekile.
Amasiko
Njengoba bonke abantu behlukile, amasiko kuyo yonke imindeni eyabo. Eminye imibhangqwana unyaka nonyaka konyaka wokugubha indawo yokudlela oyithandayo, imindeni iya emvelweni, umuntu onemiphefumulo ngalolu suku isiqhingi esishisiwe solwandle olufudumele. Emindenini eminingana, kuyisiko ukuzogubha usuku lomshado kuphela nabalingani, ngaphandle kwezingane. Omunye, kunalokho, ugubha izingane embuthanweni womndeni.
Inhlonipho ka- "Wedding" eyingqayizivele ichaza abashadikazi ukuzogubha iminyaka engama-22 ubudala yenhlangano yomshado esimweni sothando kanye nokuphumula. Isigqi sempilo yanamuhla sishiya isikhathi esincane ngokuthula nokuzindla, kufaneleka kangako ngalolu suku kuzoya e-salon yohlelo lwe-spa kuhlelo lwe-spa kwezimbili, bese uvakashela indawo yokudlela kanye nesidlo sakusihlwa nezidlo zakho eziyizintandokazi.
Uma uhlelo lomsebenzi nendoda nomkayo luzobavumela lolu suku ukuthi bavuke ndawonye futhi bachithe isikhathi esithile: shintshanisa amagama othando nokubonga eminyakeni edlule, khumbula izikhathi ezijabulisayo nezihlekisayo ezivela empilweni yomndeni, ukuphupha ngekusasa. Mhlawumbe bazofuna ukubuyekeza i-albhamu yezithombe ngezikhathi zokukhumbula impilo yomndeni noma ividiyo kusukela ngosuku lomshado.
Manje kunenqwaba yezinkampani ezinikela ukuhlela ubusuku bezothando ngokuya nganoma yiziphi izifiso zeklayenti: Kudla ophahleni lwesakhiwo esiphakeme esibheke edolobheni noma ukuhamba kwe-yacht emfuleni wakusihlwa, ungakwazi Noma uhambe ngokugibela amahhashi ahlanganayo noma ukugibela inqola, ukundiza ngebhaluni noma okungenani ukuze ubambe iqhaza esimweni senjabulo noma esitudiyo sesithombe futhi uthole izithombe ezinhle ezikhumbulekayo - kanye noma nezingane.
Njengamanje ethandwa ngesikhathi samanje sezifundo ezi-master: ceramic, lapho lo mbhangqwana uzokwazi ukudala ngesandla umndeni wazo futhi ngaleyo ndlela uhlala njalo ukuze uthuthukise lolu suku; Culinary - ungapheka i-dessert noma ukhethe ukugubha umcimbi; Noma yibaphi abanye ngesicelo sabalingani.
Imibhangqwana eminingi ngemuva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili nambili minyaka yonke yenza izinqumo zokushada ukuze ishade ukuze yenze abesikhombisa hhayi kuphela izifungo zasemhlabeni kuphela zasemhlabeni, kodwa futhi nezifungo zaphezulu. Lokhu kuchaziwe impela - inyunyana iqinile impela, abashade nabo bahlobana nothando oluqotho, kodwa futhi nenhlonipho ebekile, ukunakekelwa, ukunakwa. Umbhangqwana oqinile ngempela ophethe lesi siko uzosenza sisondele kakhulu futhi sibize kakhulu komunye nomunye.
ENtshonalanga, isiko elinjalo ngokuthi "ukuthuthukiswa kwezifungo" lithandwa: Abalingani, abashada isikhathi eside, baphinde bafake izifungo zomshado. Ngaphandle kokubiza ukwamukela lo hlobo ngokweqiniso, ungawuthatha umbono wokuthi sikhumbule omunye nomunye, kungani uma nje usunqume ukudala umndeni, kungani bekuyisinyathelo esifanele, futhi kwakhula, bona baqiniswa, bona babenobuso obusha.
Ungakwenza ngesiko lakho elikhethekile futhi ukhulume nomunye unyaka nonyaka, obonga kuye ngonyaka owedlule, ulindeleni kuye olandelayo, nokuthi uthandani futhi nimhlonipha futhi nimthanda futhi nimhlonipha futhi nimthanda futhi esimhloniphayo.
Kodwa-ke, cabanga ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngalolu suku aluthandeki.
- Shayela izivakashi . "Injabulo ithanda ukuthula" - leli binzana linembe kakhulu maqondana nomshado. Isikhumbuzo somshado siyiholide labalingani, emakwe kuphela embuthanweni womndeni. Indoda, unkosikazi nezingane ngabantu abakuyo. Mema omunye umuntu, noma ngabe ningabangane abaseduze kakhulu, lolu suku alwamukelwa. Kodwa-ke, akuvunyelwe, umbhangqwana ngamunye ukhetha ukwakheka kwezivakashi ngokuzimela.
- Guqula umkhosi womndeni othule ube yi-golyka enomsindo kuze kube sekuseni. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kulesi simo, kusukela umgadli womshado, uma ungakubeka, umcimbi "waseChamber", kufanele adlule ngokoqobo nangokwengeziwe.
- Ekhumbula izehlakalo ezingamashumi amabili nambili, okungukuthi: Unkosikazi - gqoka ingubo yomshado kanye neveli, umyeni - isudi yomkhwenyana onama-boutonniere. Lokhu akuwona umshado, kepha usuku lwakhe, nomyeni nenkosikazi - abuseyena umakoti nomkhwenyana. Leli yiholide labantu abadala ababili, isikhathi eside esibandakanya ubuhlobo bomshado, yingakho kuphawulwa ngokuhlukile, kunokuba umshado.
-Okukhona manje
Izindleko zokugubha ezingavamile ngaphandle kwezipho, futhi usuku lokuzalwa lomshado alufani. Abalingani bashintshana ngezipho nomunye, futhi izingane nazo zingabanikeza izipho. Uma abangane bemenyiwe ukuba bagubha, kufanele futhi balethe nabo okuthile njengesipho salowo nalowo oshade noma umbhangqwana ophelele.
Sibala ini ngokwesiko ukulethwa emshadweni wethusi.
I-Bronze - i-Metal ayishibhile, njengemikhiqizo evela kuyo. Kepha ukunikeza izipho ezibalulekile, hhayi ngesikhumbuzo somshado. Akufanele uthenge umkhiqizo wokuqala wethusi, isipho sakho kufanele sibe nencazelo futhi sihlaba umxhwele ngesiphiwo.
Uma umlingani ebhema, ungakunika okulula, ugwayi noma i-ashtray kusuka kulokhu okuqukethwe. Uma engekho umkhuba omubi onjalo, ungamnika umbhangqwana wetiye, i-flask, iwashi. Esimweni lapho indoda ingumuntu othanda ikhofi, i-turkey yethusi noma isethi yokupheka esihlabathini izobe ishaya abayishumi abaphezulu. Kufanele kuphawulwe isipho esifanayo, injabulo nenenekazi. Noma mhlawumbe kuzokwenza, ngokuvamile, kuzoba nesipho sezingane kubazali, uma bobabili bangabakhi bekhofi.
Ukukhethwa kwezipho zentokazi kubi kakhulu - kungaba yizitsha zaleyo enothando lokupheka, isibuko esimweni esihle se-bronze sentokazi yezwe, isibalo sengadi yokuhlobisa. Ezwini, kuboniswa inganekwane futhi kucatshangelwa ukunambitheka komkami (kanye nemikhumbi engamashumi amabili nambili, bekuyodingeka ukuthi ufunde ngawo), umyeni angenza lolu suku lwamaholide lukhumbuleke kakhulu, lwethulwe kuye ngqo Kujabulisa kakhulu.
Izingane zingenza abazali bazo zibe yisipho esijwayelekile. Bangaba itiye yethusi ebekiwe noma i-cutlery (nezinkezo, imfoloko, imimese). Njengesipho esingokomfanekiso "senjabulo", ihhashi elivela ku-Bronze, elilengiswa emnyango wendlu lifanele. Amakhandlela avela kuleli nsimbi nawo ayisipho esihle, amakhandlela akuwo azoba njengoba kwakunjalo 'ukukhanyisa "indlela eyengeziwe yomndeni yalombhangqwana.
Uma abazali bethanda ama-antique, ungabanikeza into engavamile noma ehlanganayo ngokuya ngezintshisekelo zabo. Into yakudala ingangethulwa kanye nomlingani womlingani (naphezu), uma omunye wabo enesifiso sezinto ezifanayo.
Uma kunendlu enkulu noma ifulethi, unganikeza izifanekiso zethusi, amabala osayizi aphakathi, ezinye izinto zangaphakathi ezinjengamalambu, amatafula wekhofi noma ukusekela izambulela. Esimweni lapho umndeni uhlala efulethini elincane, futhi lezi zinto azitholakali ikakhulukazi ezinezipho ezifanayo.
Emindenini lapho kungokwezimfundiso ze-esoteric, izinto ze-Fengsui zizoba yisipho esihle, njengezithombe zakwaDike nonkulunkulu bakaDike, ezisiza ukukhula kwenhlalonhle. Zibekwe eduze kweSAFES, i-Piggyback, lapho imali igcinwa khona. Pronze Spoons - "Ukuhlikihla" kanye namafosholo ngemali efakwe ema-wallets kanye nesikhwama kuzobuye kube yisipho esibizayo, kodwa esimnandi.
Ungawugubha kanjani umgubho?
Lapho kulungiswa umkhosi womshado we-bronze, kufanele kubhekwe njengendlela yangaphandle, lapho umcimbi uzokwenziwa khona kanye nohlu lwezitsha oluhlelelwe ukuhanjiswa.
Ngokuya ngesihloko, ukwakheka kwetafula kufanele kube "ithusi". I-Tableware kanye nemishini ngemibala efanele, amakhandlela namakhandlela, yebo indwangu yetafula - uma konke ku-monochrome ngombala wale wensimbi. Uma umbhangqwana uphawula lolu suku ngaphandle kwendlu, unganakekela ubukhona, ngokwesibonelo, amabhaluni kulo mthunzi ukucacisa iholide eligujwa.
Ngokuqondene nezitsha, kufanele zibukeke "zicebile", zihlotshiswe kahle. Isixazululo esifanele sizokwenziwa kubhakwe kuhhavini - Duck, Inkukhu, Turkey ngama-apula noma ezinye izithelo. Futhi ilungele ukusikwa imifino, inyama, inhlanzi, izithelo, ekuqaleni yayihlotshiswe.
Uma i-hostess ithanda ukupheka, futhi usuku lokugubha lugujwa ekhaya, kufanele okungenani lube nesitsha esisodwa esithi "pie" - pie, i-lasagna noma ngisho isaladi lokuqala njengowesifazane umgcini wezwe ozwayo kuyo yonke le minyaka yonke yonke le minyaka yonke le minyaka yonke le minyaka yonke le minyaka yonke. .
Imfuneko yetafula lemikhosi embozwe ukuhlonipha umshado wethusi yikhona izitsha ezimnandi njengophawu lwempilo "emnandi" ngokuzayo. Imvamisa kungukukhekhe, ungahlobisa ngisho nezibalo zomakoti nomkhwenyana. Uma isifiso sokuthenga noma ikhekhe lesithando selingekho, unga-oda isethi yamakhekhe, abakhokhelisi be-capcaker, ama-traifls noma enye i-confectionery, kepha i-dessert kumele idingeke.
Kuze kube manje, akunzima, ngoba inani elikhulu le-pastales linikeza izinsizakalo zalo zokwenziwa kwezindiza ezihleliwe. Indishi emnandi ingamelwa ikhekhe - nge-lingonberry, ama-apula nesinamoni, amapheya noma ukuchitha, ngesicelo sabaphikisi bomgubho.
Izingubo zabalingani kufanele futhi zigcinwe eGamme "yethusi". Ingubo enhle, izicathulo noma imihlobiso 'yomthunzi' oyigugu kufanelekile, futhi kuye - uthayi noma ama-cufflink.
Emindenini lapho isikhumbuzo somshado siyiholide langempela, njalo ngonyaka kuqinisa inyunyana kuphela. Eminyakeni eminingi yokushada, okunamandla ngokwengeziwe futhi okuthembeke ngokwengeziwe, ngoba umshado wesiliva awukude ekhoneni, futhi lapho kusenesikhathi segolide.
Mayelana neqiniso lokuthi ukunika abangane ngonyaka wama-22 bempilo yomshado, bheka ividiyo engezansi.