Ukubonakala kwengane emndenini kungumcimbi oholela ekujabuleni, kubangela ukuba nenhlangano kungabi kuphela phakathi kwamalungu omndeni, kodwa nasendaweni eseduze. Kuyaqabukela, umndeni nabangane abanakwa: Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuhalalisela eduze nomcimbi ojabulayo. Umbuzo yindlela yokuhalalisela? Isibonelo, siyini, ngokwesibonelo, uma intombazane yazalelwa emndenini?
Imithetho Yokukhetha
Ingabe kukhona inhlonipho kuleli cala, iqoqo lemithetho yethoni enhle? Yena, kunalokho, emcabangweni wokuhambisana okujwayelekile kwezipho, inhlonipho, njll. Okokuqala, kufanele uthathe isinqumo sokuthi: Ufuna ukunikeza ingane intombazane ukuthi yini ongayidinga ingane manje, noma wenze isipho esihle se ikusasa. Zombili lezi zinketho zifanelekile ukucatshangelwa.
Kungaphambi kokucabanga okwengeziwe. Umbuzo: Mhlawumbe buza abazali bakho ngokuqondile, yini ingane edinga ngayo? Noma kunalokho, yini oyidingayo ngokuhle kwabasanda kuzalwa? Uma indodakazi izalwe esesomuntu osondele ngempela, umbuzo onjalo kufanelekile futhi uyasebenza. Kepha, kufanele kuqashelwe, kuvame kakhulu, ngisho nabangane abasebancane bathanda amangali.
Ngasikhathi sinye, kwenziwa ngokwezifiso: ngokwesibonelo, udala ingxoxo ye-vaiber kubo bonke abamenyiwe ukuba bavakashele emcimbini wokuzalwa kwengane bese betshela ukuthi sekuvele ukuthenga.
Ngokwesaba ukuthi isipho sizophindwaphindwa, abaningi bese sinquma ukuthi yini okufanele ikunikeze ikusasa linengqondo. Onke amadivaysi avela ochungechungeni oluthi "okokuqala" ayadingeka izinyanga ezimbalwa, izihlalo ezinyakazayo, ama-cradles, akhulisa ama-rugs aya kubazali abasebasha abazuza ifa kusuka kuRodney nabangane.
Ngakho-ke, i-algorithm injalo.
- Uma ufundile ngokuzalwa kwengane eseduze nengane lapho umama onengane esesibhedlela i-Maternity, ngeke kube yize ukudlula lapho isikhwama esincane esinemikhiqizo ekhokhelwa amakhadi amahle. Kulesi sigaba, lolu phawu lokunakwa sekwanele.
- Lapho abazali abasebancane bebonisa isifiso sabo sokukubona uvakashela, jwayelane nomshana omusha (amahle, indodakazi yabangane), sekuyisikhathi sokubuza - ukuthi uthokozela kanjani umkhaya.
- Uma abazali bevele bevela empendulweni, futhi unezinketho ezimbili ukuze uqhubeke nezinye isenzo. Ungabambisana nabanye abamenyiwe, uthenge isipho esikhulu esivamile. Uma bonke bendawonye benquma ukuthi isipho esihle kunazo zonke imali, futhi sihle. Ukuvakashela amabhola (ngeke abe egumbini lokuzalwa kwengane, kunjalo), ngezimbali zikamama kanye nemvilophu - isimo esihle kakhulu.
Umbuzo owengeziwe izindleko zesipho. Ayikho imikhandlu yonke lapha. Imvamisa, uma uya kudadewethu, mfowethu (izihlobo eziseduze), inani lingaphezu nje uma uhalalisela wena umngane.
Izipho Zangempela
Awufuni ukunikeza okuthile okwamukelwa ngokuvamile, okujwayelekile? Hhayi, ungacabangi, cabanga ngokumangala kosanda kuzalwa. Yilokhu okungaba khona izipho zangempela.
- Ubucwebe bememori. Kuyiqiniso, lesi yisipho esizayo, waqala ekuqaleni kweminyaka engamashumi amuva. Uma sekuyizenzo zendabuko - ukunikeza umkhiqizo osanda kuzalwa ubucwebe obukhumbulekayo. Amacici amancane wegolide noma isiphambano (ngesivumelwano nabazali), ipendant ingaphezu kwesipho esihle. By the way, uma umama kamama esondele kakhulu kuwe, ubucwebe bungangezela kuye. Isibonelo, ukumiswa kwalelosongo noma iketanga ngegama elithi "mama" kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokunakwa kwe-mamy encane.
- I-Ballet, Swimmut Swimsuit, Racket, njll. Uma indodakazi izalwe abadansi noma abasubathi, imvamisa abathandekayo bezama isipho esisanda kuzalwa ukuzenzela. Kuyathinta, kungokomfanekiso futhi kuhlale kumbangela izinyembezi ukuba zife umama osemusha. Vele, kungaba izicathulo ze-Sounir Ballet noma i-racket.
- Ukulethwa kwama-pastes wosuku lokuzalwa. Ungaxoxisana nenkampani eyenza ama-T-shirts noma i-bodi, ukuthi ngosuku oluthile lwenyanga ukulethwa kwalo kuzothunyelwa kuMama wezintambo ezisanda kuzalwa nombhalo obhalwe ngu-1 "," nginezinyanga ezi-2 ", njll. Kanjalo - kuya konyaka. Kumnandi, okungajwayelekile, futhi kube lula kakhulu ukuthola isithombe sokudubula: Ngonyaka wokuqala, ingane imvamisa ithatha izithombe zayo yonke izinsuku zakhe ezincane zokuzalwa. Ngendlela, umbono ngokulethwa kwama-pastes ungaba lula.
Thenga izingubo zosayizi abahlukahlukene (ukuze ukuwohloka kukhuphuke kuze kube unyaka), thatha umhlangano wokuphrinta, uzokwenza amaphrinta. Yebo, ungabakhulula ngeposi kungaba ngosizo lwe-Couria.
- Isitifiketi sesikhashana seseshini yesithombe . Namuhla kunabathwebu bezithombe abaningi abakhethekile isithombe esinezingane ezisanda kuzalwa. Basusa izingane ezingakaze zivule izinsuku ezingama-28, kuyilapho izithombe zithinta inhliziyo.
Khumbula ukuthi ukusebenza kwesipho akuyona inani eliyinhloko lenani layo. Ungadinga futhi unikeze okuvelayo nemizwa. Kubaluleke kakhulu, isikhathi esisheshayo esisheshayo, esinengqondo ukuwuqamba, qaphela ngezipho ezingalindelekile nezithandekayo.
Izipho Ezilusizo
Akubona bonke abazali abancane abalungiselelwe izipho ezingokomfanekiso: Omunye ufuna ukusebenziseka okuphezulu. Yebo, akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho. Into esobala kakhulu yibhokisi lesipho. Leli yibhokisi elikhulu (Ibhasikidi, ikhabethe), lapho ufaka khona konke okudingayo manje: amabhodlela, izimonyo zezingane, i-pacifiers, ikhithi yosizo lokuqala, ukuphakamisa konke lokhu kubhavu , dowetha iribhoni bese uletha. Yini enye ongayinika:
- okokulengisa - Le nto iyadingeka, imfashini, ilusizo kakhulu uma umama elungiselelwe ikhefu lokukhulelwa elisebenzayo;
- Izitsha Zezingane - Engxenyeni ethile uzodinga ingane, amasaka ngezinkomishi zokumunca, kanye namathemba azofana nawo;
- amathoyizi - Ngaphandle kwabo kunzima ukucabanga ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yesimanje, "ukuthuthukiswa" okuphephile kuyadingeka;
- izingubo - Akudingekile ukukwenza, kepha kube lula, lapho esifubeni samakhabethe, kukhona izinhlaka, izinqwaba, gxuma, izigqoko;
- ilingene - Noma ngabe abazali sebevele bayinakekela, ngeke kube khona isethi engenalutho;
- I-manezh - Lapho ngaphandle kwayo, khetha imodeli elula;
- Ama-elektroluy - Kepha kufanele kuvunyelwane ngesidingo sabo nabazali (nje ungathengi abahamba ngezinyawo nama-jumpers ngaphandle kombono wabazali ngesidingo sabo).
Iwusizo kakhulu, umama ubaluleke kakhulu umama angaba yi-cradle. Le cradle emasondweni, isetshenziswa kuphela kuze kube yilapho ingane ifunde ukuhlala. Dinga i-cradle ngo-ngxenye kuphela ngonyaka, kepha njengendlela elula kumama, hambisa lo mbhede emasondweni ngokwakho ezungeze indlu, ubekezelele kuvulandi, njll.
Isipho esisebenzayo sizoba Radionan, nedivayisi yokubulala inzalo yamabhodlela, ne-autolo . Uma abazali abancane bengakaze bakuthole inch yokudla Yibanikeke - isipho sizodingeka ngqo futhi sifunwa isikhathi eside ngokwanele. Phakathi kwezipho eziwusizo futhi Umbuthano wokuqala wokubhukuda, kanye nesethi yokungabi nazimiswa ezimanzi eCrib, kanye nesitoko esikhulu sama-diaper.
Yini engenziwa ngezandla zakho?
Uma ucabanga ukuthi abazali abasebasha bazokwazisa isipho sezenziwe ekhaya, kuphelele - into enhle engalibaleki izosala, ibangele ukuzihlanganisa okumnandi. Yini engenziwa ngezandla zakho?
- I-CASKET "Mamina Treasure" . Leli yibhokisi elinomhlanga, lapho umama azogcina amathegi esibhedlela somama, izinwele zokuqala ezinolaka, izinyo lokuqala, amasokisi okuqala, amasokisi okuqala, njll. Kungenzeka ukuhlela ibhokisi ngamasu ahlukahlukene: decoupage, scrapbooking, njll izitayela futhi zihlukile, enye yezinto ezifunwa kakhulu - uShebbi chic.
- I-albhamu "I Rasta". Kunzima ngokwengeziwe ukukwenza, kepha uma usebenza kahle ekuhlelweni okuhlukahlukene okunemifanekiso nezithombe, ungacabanga ngokuphelele ukwakheka, futhi ama-pographs azosebenza kahle azokuphrinta.
- Ikhekhe kusuka kuma-diapers . I-classic yohlobo, kunjalo, ingaxhumana naye.
- Ilineni lokulala lengane . Yazi ukuthi uthunga kanjani, oda ngendwangu enamaphethini wezingane amnandi namasampula avela kwi-Intanethi, ikhithi yokulala yokuqala yentombazane. Yenza ithoyizi langaphakathi kubhonasi emnandi.
- Kufakwe i-plaid . Futhi uma ubopha, khona-ke i-Intanethi efanayo izokunikeza ulwandle lwemibono yama-plaids amahle ezingane - zibaluleke kakhulu ekuhambeni.
- Isinyathelo . Uma wena ngokwakho unamandla esithombeni, nikeza abazali abasebancane ukwenza isithombe sokuqala seseshini nengane. Ngemuva kwalokho izithombe ezinhle kakhulu zokuphrinta, faka imvilophu enhle yemikhosi futhi unikeze intombazane yokuqala yentombazane encane (noma olunye usuku).
- Iqoqo lezigqoko ezihlanganisiwe. Namuhla, izigqoko ezihambisana nesitayela se- "Little Gnome" zithandwa kakhulu. Uma ubopha, bese ufaka le modeli elula. Yenza izigqoko ezimbalwa - 4-5, imibala ehlukene.
- Ubuhlalu be-pacifier. Futhi into edingekayo: Uma i-dummy ilahlekile, idrama yomndeni wonke. Ubuhlalu buzosiza ingane ukuba igcine "i-sedative" nawe.
Kepha okokuqala, jwayezane nenqubo yokuphepha - lapho ubuhlalu obunjalo kudingeka benze khona ukuze ingane ilimele.
- Isikhwama sokuhamba. Ungenza isikhwama noma isikhwama sangemuva kunyoko, lapho konke kungalingana khona buthule, ukuthi ngisho nangokweqiniso kungenzeka kube lula ukuhamba ngezinyawo.
- Ama-octopies ahlanganisiwe. Lesi sipho sisebenzela labo bazali ingane yabo ephuthuma ngokuzalwa. Futhi isipho esinjalo ongasethula, ngaphandle kokulinda isimemo esivakashele (ngenkathi ingane isesibhedlela, odokotela bavame ukubuza ukuletha amathoyizi ahlanganisiwe kusuka ku-yorn esezingeni eliphakeme). Amathoyizi anjalo asiza ingane, noma ngabe izokulahla ngokuqinile (okuyingozi isikhathi esingakwebiwe).
Into esemqoka ukubona ukuthi zonke lezi zinkinga nezipho ezisanda kuzalwa zimnandi kakhulu, zithinta, zinesidingo . Ungakhohlwa ukwaba umama osemusha, qiniseka ukuthi unikeza izimbali, kuyasekelwa, futhi kuyajabulisa, futhi unakekela isenzo esisodwa esilula.
Ukuthi ungayenza kanjani ikhekhe kusuka kuma-diapers, litshela kuvidiyo elandelayo.