Ukuze usithokozise ngesipho sendoda ngosuku loku-55, udinga ukukhetha okuthile okufanele. Futhi kulokhu kufanele ubonise uzwela, xhuma okunengqondo bese wenza ngokunembile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyadingeka ukubhekana ne-psychology yeJubili futhi ubonise ukucabanga kwawo. Lapho-ke isinqumo esifanele sizofika engqondweni, futhi isipho sizokwethula injabulo yangempela kumemukeli.
Izici zokuzikhethela
Ezinye izivakashi zimenyiwe ukuzogubha futhi zingacabangi ngencazelo nekhwalithi yesipho. Kucatshangwa ukuthi indoda endala izokweseka noma yini njengokuhalalisela futhi ngobuhlakani, uma kukhona okungafanele ukunambitha. Kepha lowo uJubili akanangqondo eqinisweni, ufuna ukumethula okuthile ngempela futhi kubalulekile.
Kusalokhu kuthola ukuthi yini ngempela. Konke akunzima kangako njengoba kungabonakala kuqala. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini enentshisekelo emadodeni futhi akhona afaneleke kakhulu, kulula uma ahlukaniswe izinketho ezikhona esigabeni.
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthi ucabange ukuthi isikhumbuzo siyini sisesikhathini saso esiqinile nanele sokuphikisana. Uma uqala ukubheka nje, le nkathi yempilo yendoda ibonakala iphelele, ngoba isivele itholakale okuningi, futhi zonke izinto ezibalulekile ezibalulekile empilweni zibekwe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, izifiso eziningi sezivele zihlanganiswe empilweni, futhi isimo sezezimali siqiniseka ngokuzayo.
Kulolu hlelo, kwakukhona izikhathi zenhlekelele esikhathini esidlule, enikeza ukuqonda kokuqonda nokuthi ukuzola endlini kubalulekile kanjani. Umsebenzi futhi uthatha isikhundla esizinzile nesiqine. Uma kunebhizinisi elakho, kuvame ukuba kwakhiwe futhi kuphumelele.
Uma iJubili isebenza njengesikhundla sombuso, ngokuqinisekile ihlala kwesinye sezinyathelo eziphakeme ezitebhisini zomsebenzi.
Kepha kunelinye iphuzu lokubukwa: Ukuqala iminyaka engu-55, umsebenzi womzimba uyancishiswa futhi sekuvele kudingekile ukunikeza umzimba isikhathi esithe xaxa eholidini. Imithwalo yezemidlalo nayo ayinamandla kakhulu futhi ibangele umdlandla omncane uma kuqhathaniswa nemizwa yeminyaka emihlanu edlule. Ngemuva kwakho konke, iminyaka engama-50 ubudala yafuna ukugubha ngesilinganiso futhi iqhubeke nokugibela phambili ngejubane elifanayo.
Abesilisa abeze iminyaka engama-55, banesifiso sokuzixazulula bona bathole ukuthi yini manje ebabazekayo. Ngasikhathi sinye, isimo sendabuko siye eminyakeni yobudala yeJubili futhi siba sikhethekile. Ummeleli ngamunye wobulili obuqinile ngaleyo minyaka ngithanda ukuthola ukuthi kulindelwe inhlonipho hhayi kuphela phakathi kozakwethu nabangane, kodwa nasekhaya. Ukuqonda ukuthi ekhaya uhlala ngaphambili, uletha futhi avusa le ndoda.
Kungakho isipho esivela emdalatho kosuku lokugubha iminyaka engama-55 kufanele siveze inhlonipho, ukunaka okuqotho, ukubonga nothando. Abantu abaseduze badinga ukuzama ukukhumbula lokho ngejubili yabo, bekubalulekile futhi kunesidingo muva nje . Mhlawumbe wayefuna ukwenza okuthile, kodwa ingabe izisebenzi nezibopho zasekhaya zivinjelwe?
Isibonelo, sekuyisikhathi eside bekukhona Bengifuna ukuvakashela i-spa resort noma ngifunde futhi i-skis. Ngisho nje usuku lokuphumula, oluchithwa ngokuvalwa kwemvelo, sekuyisikhathi eside bekuyiphupho elingenakuqhathaniswa, ngoba konke kuhlale kumatasatasa kwebhizinisi. Futhi kusukela ohambweni osuvele olukhokhelwayo noma uhambo lomndeni oluhlelekile, indoda cishe yenqaba. Kuzofanele uguqule uhlelo lwayo lomsebenzi walesi sipho.
Futhi uma engeyena othanda isikhathi esisebenzayo noma uhambo olude, hlela Uhambo oluya ekotashini noma epikinikini yezwe. Lokhu kungumbono ozolile wokuphumula kumbuthano wabantu abaseduze kakhulu.
Okomuntu okwazisa ukudla okuhle nomculo, ukuhlela umgubho wesikhumbuzo esitolo sokudlela. Vele, uma isimo sabahleli bezimali somkhosi sivuma. Umculo owuthandayo, uhlelo lokubonisa, ukudonsa, ukudansa, izingoma - konke lokhu kuzoholela ezinsukwini ezithile ngethoni futhi kukukhumbuze ukuthi impilo isagcwele upende nokumamatheka.
Izipho ezisebenzayo ezivela eRodney zingatholwa ngokuhlangene. Kuyazuzisa futhi kulula. Ngakho-ke Thenga i-Plasma TV, i-laptop entsha, umshini we-smartphone noma wekhofi Ngeke kube khona i-invoice yanoma ngubani.
Uma iJubili ithatha isikhundla senduna, futhi umkhonza ngokuthumela, eminyaka engama-55 yawo ukulungiselela Isipho esihle esivela eqenjini lonke. Suka nozakwethu ngokufanelekile futhi hhayi okujwayelekile.
Ngasikhathi sinye, kungenzeka ukubala ngenani elihlaba umxhwele, elikhulisa kakhulu imingcele yokukhethwa kwezipho. Ngokuvamile kuthathwa ukunikeza izinto ezingakunaki imingcele ye-Office Etiquette nebanga phakathi komqashi kanye nomqashi.
Enye yezinto ezibalulekile zomcimbi onesizotha, njengoba kwenziwa iminyaka engama-55, yizimbali. Yebo, ukuthenga i-bouquet kuleli cala kufanelekile futhi kukhonjisiwe.
Esiqwini se-chic noma ubhasikidi onezimbali, kuyinto efiselekayo ukufaka ikhadi leposi ngezifiso ezivela eqenjini . Isitifiketi sokuthengwa kwezinto ezahlukene kufanelekile njengendawo yamanje. Lo mbono uzovumela umphathi ukuthi enze isinqumo esizimele sokuthi kufanele sithole futhi ngeke sikubeke esimweni esingesihle.
Ngenye indlela, kungenzeka ukuthi unikeze umphathi-indoda iminyaka engama-55 ngehhovisi elinophawu. Ngokwesibonelo, Isibambo esinezimpaphe zegolide noma esihlotshiswe ngenye insimbi eyigugu. Noma wethula okuthile kusuka kwizesekeli ezikhethekile, osomabhizinisi abalusizo. Ayikho imizwa engaphansi emnandi ezodala isihloko sokupenda noma isithombe, kepha kuphela i-connoisseur yezobuciko noma umqoqi.
Abalingani bebhizinisi nabo bahalalisela lolu suku lweJubili. Imvamisa abahlanganisi nobudlelwano obusondelene, kepha ukuxhumana okunobungane phakathi kwabo kukhona. Kulokhu, ukudlula kwendoda eneminyaka engu-55 ubudala kuyabhekwa.
Uma umkhosi womkhosi uthanda ukuzingela, isethulo esihle kakhulu Isibhamu esihle. Ngezincwadi, ungalungiselela ikhophi engandile yokushicilelwa okuphrintiwe noma i-e-book esezingeni eliphakeme. Izipho zingasebenza nezinto zomhlobiso wasekhaya noma wasekhaya. Isibonelo, iMephu yezwe ehlotshiswe ngokuqala (izwe elihlukile), i-desktop yesimo (udonga) iwashi, isethi efakwe uphawu. Ngokuvamile, kwaletha umuntu ohlonishwayo, othandekayo noyedwa.
Isipho esivela kubangani iminyaka engama-55 sivame ukuthenga ngokuhlangene. Lapho-ke ungakwazi ukukhokhela okuthile okubonakalayo futhi kube yinzuzo. Ikakhulu uma inkampani enobungane ikhona isikhathi eside futhi kuningi.
Isipho singaba nezingxenye ezimbili: ezingaphatheki futhi ezisebenzayo. Esimweni sokuqala, kuhloselwe ukuhalalisela, kuhlotshiswe ngohlaka oluhle . Kungcono uma kuzoba izinkondlo ezikhumbulekayo noma ikholaji kusuka esithombeni seminyaka ehlukene, kunjalo, ngesithombe sabangane kuzo. Wonke umuntu, uma efisa, ubhala ngemuva kwesifiso sakhe somuntu siqu kuJubili.
Isixazululo esikhulu - ukunikeza ividiyo yempilo yakhe ngosuku lokuphila kwakhe ngempilo yakhe ngezithombe ezihlanganyelwe kanye nomculo owuthandayo wokugujwa komkhosi womkhosi. Ividiyo izothakazelisa ngokwengeziwe uma ihambisana nokuphawula koqobo kuzimele . Impela emndezeni womndeni wegumbi lokuzalwa kuzoba nezithombe ezihlekisayo ezizofanelekile ukukwazi ukuhalalisela kokudala.
Vele, kubhaliswe yisinqumo kanye nokusekelwa komlingani noma izingane ezindala zeJubili.
Izipho zohlelo olusebenzayo zisethi yezinto eziyizintandokazi kakhulu zendoda eneminyaka engama-55 ubudala. Ngokwesibonelo, Umshanelo ngokuhamba ngezinyawo ebhukwini elibhangqiwe, elinqabile, u-actil alchit, ama-cigars. Noma okuthile okuvela ezizithandayo - I-tennis racket, isiginci, ipikinikini isethi ekotishini, izesekeli zemoto.
Izinto eziwusizo
Okwamanje okuyisikhumbuzo akudingeki kube yisimo futhi kubize. Into esemqoka ukuwunikela enhliziyweni emsulwa. Ngisho ne-bable ngesinye isikhathi kungaphakamisa isimo uma egcizelela inhlonipho yomhlinzeki kanye nezimfanelo zowesilisa zeJubili. Imvamisa izinto ezincane eziwusizo zenani lesabelomali zinikezwa yi-aroud, umalume, umfowethu odala.
Ungakhetha okuthile okuvela kulezi zinketho:
- ummese we-perochy womklamo ongajwayelekile;
- Isitayela esitayela sasewayinini;
- ukukhanya okulula;
- ngegama leJubili;
- idayari eqinile;
- I-ashtray engajwayelekile;
- isibani.
Ikholwa (isiphambano) lizofanekisela kakhulu isitho . Isipho esinjalo sizophinde sithande umkhulu. Ezitolo zesonto, ungakhetha isithombe sosanta futhi ungagcini nje nje ngesandla, bese udala ukuvikela okunamandla koMuntu obizayo ebubini nasenkathazo.
Isipho esisebenzayo sesihlobo - Setha itiye nembiza kaju esikhundleni se-candy. Kumuntu osondelene naye, kulula kakhulu ukukhetha okuthile okudingekayo futhi okuwusizo. URodin uvame ukuqaphela okuncamelayo nezifiso zomunye nomunye.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi noma ngubani ngeke ajabule ukuthola isipho, ubudala, kepha uBaba noma iBeotor uzoba nokubonga ukubanakekela . Kulokhu, kuvunyelwe ukunikela I-TONECELET, i-glucomemeter, unyawo noma emuva emuva, ukuhamba kweSanatorium noma izinqubo ezichaziwe. Isipho ukuhlonipha iminyaka engama-55 ukusuka kuYise okuvela ezinganeni kufanele kudlulise ukunakekela impilo yakhe futhi kudalwe ukuthi kwandiswe iminyaka yakhe ekujabuleni kwabapheki nasebuthonjeni.
Umuntu ongokoqobo futhi oqashiwe ongakwenza ukuba athandeke Isethi enhle yamathuluzi, ukushayela kagesi, isikulufu - Ngokuvamile, iqiniso elizowenza kube lula ukwenza umsebenzi wokulungisa endlini. I-brazier noma ikhithi ye-barbecue nayo ibhekwa njengenketho enhle njengendawo yendlu.
Akudingekile kuphela lapho kugubha usuku lonke ukwethula izinto wonke umndeni ozozijabulela. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kunesikhumbuzo somshado, unyaka omusha nezinye izinsuku aziyona eyomuntu uqobo. Kuyadingeka ukwenza usuku lokuzalwa oluhle kulowo owenze lona.
Lapho-ke nesipho esingokomfanekiso siyokujabulela ukujula komphefumlo.
Izimanga ezingajwayelekile
Umuntu ogubha usuku lokugubha iminyaka engama-55 lunganikezwa ukuhlonipha lo mcimbi indondo noma idiploma. Ngezinhlobo eziningi, zithengiswa ezitolo eziningi ze-Mouvenir. Okuhle kuzokwenza umbhalo wokuqala obhaliwe ngendlela yokuqopha inkumbulo. Umngani noma umfowethu ungazikhetha izifiso zamahlaya futhi zikhona I-minibar, ibhokisi lezincwadi lokulala kusuka kumfazi, i-t-shirt noma i-apron nge-barbecue enesithombe esinezici ezintathu se-torso esigcwele.
Unkosikazi futhi akenzeki ukuba asondele ekukhetheni izipho ezinamahlaya. Ikakhulu uma oshade naye empilweni ethanda ukuhleka nokuhlekisa. Ngaphezu kwesipho esikhulu salowo oshade naye, angahlekisa ngothembekile, amnikeze ingubo noma izicathulo ezintsha, ezazikhethwa ngokwakhe. Lokhu kwenziwa nge-subIngcondcondvo lesi sipho esihle kakhulu somyeni wakhe unkosikazi omuhle eduze. Ngemuva kokwethulwa kwesipho esinjalo, iJubili inikezwa isipho sangempela.
Kungaba isifundo esisebenzayo sokuthi umyeni azosizothola futhi ahlehlise ukuthenga imali kancane kancane. Noma okuthile okukhumbulekayo, okukhumbuza imizwa yomshado, eyayingashodanga iminyaka eminingi emshadweni. Owesilisa ufuna ukuzizwa ethandwa kunoma yimuphi unyaka nesimo. Akunasidingo sokuzisola ngemizwelo, ngoba hhayi kuphela ngemali nezipho ezibizayo ezivezwa ukwazisa nothando ngomuntu oseduze.
Izipho ezenziwe ngezandla zakho
Phakathi kwezinketho ezithandwayo zihola uSweather othokomele, ophathwe ngumfazi onothando, uphiko othandekayo oluvela endodakazini noma eshalofini elivela endodaneni, ngokungafanele uBaba. Ngezandla zabo, wonke amalungu omndeni ajwayele ukwenza okuthile kwi-jubilee. Abamele isizukulwane esincane ngokwesiko dweba, bakhe ubuciko bokudala, ukufunda imilolotelo.
Amadoda aseminyakeni yobudala evuthiwe ayathandeka, ngakho-ke iJubili iqhutshwa ngokunembile isimo esihle sengqondo ngaye. Kungenzeka ukubeka indondo noma idiploma ukuhlonipha iminyaka engama-55 "uBaba omuhle kakhulu", "umyeni onakekelayo uqobo", njll. Ungakhohlwa ukuthenga uhlaka lwediploma ukuze uzilengise endaweni yokuzibangelela.
Ukwakha idiploma, ngeke udinge izinto eziningi noma isikhathi. Landa ithempulethi eyenziwe ngomumo kwi-Intanethi. Lokhu kungenziwa mahhala ngokuphelele futhi ezinguqulweni ezihlukile. Futhi ungamane nje, ubuke umkhathi futhi ukunambitheka kwakho, dala okuthile okuhlukile. Kuzobathinta ngendlela emangalisayo futhi kuhle kunoma ngubani.
Ngokwenziwa kwezindondo, ngisho nabazukulu abancane bazobhekana nakho. Kuzothatha amakhadibhodi egolide kuphela, iphepha elinemibala, iribhoni ye-satin, i-glue kanye nesikhafu. Isigamu sesigamu sehora - futhi indondo yeminyaka engu-55 yokuphila ukuze umkhulu noma umalume alungile.
Ukuyinikeza kangcono umculo, unikeze umcimbi ngokwengeziwe.
Izipho ezingenakulibaleka
Lesi sigaba sihlobene nokuthenga okufanele kufanekise isimo somndeni wakwaMan-Jubilee kumuntu wakhe. Imibhalo yasendlini yememori, eqopha ngensimbi, ngokhuni, njll. Amukelekile, kulula, kodwa ukunyakaza okufanayo - ukufekethiswa endaweni yokugeza, ihembe lesithombe, isibani esibonisa isibani esibonisa umhlangano wonke umndeni.
Eqinisweni, ukuhlukahluka okuningi. Into esemqoka ukubala ezimalini zakho futhi uqonde ukuthi yini ezokwenza kube mnandi futhi ifaneleke ngokwengeziwe kulo lonke icala elithile. Omunye uzokhetha ukunikeza usuku lokuzalwa esihlotsheni sakhe esithandekayo, ubucwebe obunombhalo wesipho, omunye umuntu afunde ukuzinikezela komlobi emkhosini noma ahlabelele ingoma edumo lakhe.
Konke lokhu kuhle kunoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa, futhi kuzo zonke izinhlangothi: Abanikeli nomkhosi we-Culprit. Ngokukhumbula igama lokuzalwa kusuka kubo bonke abantu abaseduze kakhulu futhi obubizayo, ungakha umyalezo wevidiyo lapho wonke umuntu ezoveza khona isimo sawo sengqondo kuye futhi ahalalekele.
Uma owesilisa ungumthandi wemidlalo yebhodi, i-backgammon noma amasheke ekusebenzeni kwezipho azoyidlulisela emphefumulweni futhi enze engcinyazini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphakathi kwensimu yokhuni esiningi esiya esimasingeni sesikhumbuzo sabantu abanothando.
Izipho ezimnandi zomyeni wakhe zizoba:
- ethokomele uplaid noma i-bathone;
- Isitsha esinomsebenzi wokushisa kwesitoreji sasemini;
- ikhekhe elimise inhliziyo;
- Iphothifoliyo yamadokhumenti kanye nokuphepha okubalulekile;
- ukudoba amagiya;
- Okuthile okuvela ekubuseleni kwezobuchwepheshe.
Ungahambisa ama-headphones oshade naye ukubuka imibukiso ye-TV yakusihlwa, noma yini yenduduzo e-salon yemoto noma entweni ehambelana nokuzilibazisa komuntu ngamunye. Ngisho nenjabulo encane enjalo izoba yisipho esihle kumuntu osesimweni sokugubha iminyaka engama-55.
Mayelana nokuthi ungazikhetha kanjani isipho sokuqala somuntu, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.