Umama ungumuntu obaluleke kakhulu empilweni ngayinye yethu. Yize kunjalo, umama wethule ngokuphila nangethuba lokuncoma leli zwe elihle. Lo ngumuntu ozosithanda njalo, naphezu kwesikhathi, ibanga nezimo. Futhi isikhumbuzo esihle kakhulu - iminyaka engama-55 - udinga ukugubha ngandlela thile okukhethekile, futhi ukuze kube lula futhi ngempumelelo, kungcono ukulungiselela kusengaphambili, ucabange ngayo yonke imininingwane.
Izipho ezinhle kakhulu
Omama bethu bayakufanelekela izipho ezinhle kakhulu nokuhalalisela. Futhi yini ngempela enganikeza umama iminyaka engama-55, sizoxoxa ngale ndatshana.Ngobuhle
Izimpahla zobuhle ziphakathi kokuthandwa kakhulu lapho ukhetha isipho sonyaka wama-55 kamama. Kungaba iqoqo lezimonyo zokunakekelwa kwesikhumba, umzimba, zezinwele, amakhandlela ahlukahlukene kakhulu futhi, ngokweqiniso, izimonyo ezihlobisa uma kungenzeka zithanda ukuyisebenzisa. Lapho ukhetha izimonyo, kungcono ukugxila kumikhiqizo esezingeni eliphakeme nehlolwe.
Kuyinto elula kakhulu ukuthi emigqeni eminingi yemikhiqizo yezimonyo zokunakekelwa kwesikhumba, isigaba seminyaka sikhonjisiwe ukuthi ukhilimu noma ukhilimu ulungile. Lokhu kuzokonga kakhulu isikhathi lapho ukhetha isipho, kanye namathuba okuthi i-cosmetic ayifanelekile ingekho, njengoba ikhethwe ngokuya ngesigaba seminyaka ekhonjiswe kwiphakheji.
Lapho uthenga amakha, ungagxila kokuthandwayo kwakho kokunambitheka, ngoba cishe awufani nomunye, uyawazi umama wakho kanye nokulutha kwalo ezikwakheni ezinamakha. Uma enephunga elide elihlulekile, awukwazi ukushintsha amasiko futhi uthenge ngesibindi, ngoba ibhodlela elinjalo alisoze laba lingathandeki.
Ngenxa yohlobo olubanzi lwemikhiqizo ye-cosmetic ehlukene, ungakhetha noma yisiphi isakhiwo sezimonyo ezizokwenziwa ngazo umama. Isipho esinjalo sihlala siyindlela enhle yowesifazane wayo yonke iminyaka.
Ubucwebe buhlale endaweni ekhethekile ohlwini lwezipho zomama obathandayo. Ukugubha izinsuku zokukhumbula zesikhumbuzo zomuntu obizayo futhi othandekayo, ngifuna ukunikela okuthile okuhle futhi okuhle ukukhumbula isipho isikhathi eside futhi kwajabulisa iso, kukhumbula uthando lwakho. Namacici noma isongo, iketanga noma indandatho, futhi mhlawumbe ipendisi negama lezincwadi lokuqala - noma yini oyikhethayo, isipho esinjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi siyohlala silungile futhi saziswa.
Ungathenga umkhiqizo ohlotshiswe ngetshe eliyigugu noma eliyigugu: Ruby, Carnelinesian, Topaz, emerald kanye nedayimane, kuya ngamathuba akho ezezimali.
Ekhaya
Njengesipho somama kusuka emikhiqizweni yekhaya, ungazikhethela izipho ezahlukahlukene kusuka kumasethi ezitsha zezitsha nokuphela kwemishini ehlukahlukene engajulile neyasendlini. Kulolu daba, kubalulekile ukugxila kulokho okungekho empilweni yansuku zonke umama wakho, futhi yini engenza impilo yakhe ibe lula futhi ibe mnandi ngokwengeziwe. Isibonelo, iprosesa lokudla elethulwe nguwe ngalo mkhumbuzo lizokwenza inqwaba yomsebenzi mutual ngesikhathi sokupheka.
Uma ethanda izinto ezinhle zokuhlobisa ezingaphakathi, kufanelekile ukumnika isithombe esihle, iphaneli yemidwebo eminingana noma i-vase. Unga-oda futhi u-oda isithombe ngesithombe sakhe ngesithombe, esenziwe ngumculi onekhono uku-oda. Isipho esinjalo sibonakala ngendlela yaso futhi ngokuqinisekile sizothinta izintambo zomphefumulo kamama wakho. Ungakhetha isithombe sakho osithandayo sikamama wakho noma, ngokwesibonelo, lapho uboniswa khona naye, kanye nawo wonke amalungu omndeni wakho. Isithombe esinjalo sizokwenziwa nge-Annuvivs yayo engama-55.
Umsebenzi womculi ngokuqinisekile uzothatha indawo ehlonishwayo engaphakathi kwekamelo lokuhlala noma ihholo, futhi uzokhumbuza umama wakho ngothando, ukunakekelwa nokunakwa.
Ngokuzilibazisa
Ungakhetha isipho sokuthi umama wakho we-hobby ulusizo. Isibonelo, uma kujatshulelwa yisiphambano se-Embroidery, khona-ke ungamlungiselela njengesipho sephethini yoqobo yokufekethina yephethini enemibala enethayidi lemibala eminingi enemibala enemibala eminingi. Uma ungumthandi we-knitting, bese kuthi umshini wokusebenza ongasebenzi kahle uzoba nomphefumlo wakhe.
Uma umama wakho ethanda ukupheka, nokupheka izitsha nakho kuyinto enhle yokuzilibazisa kuye, khona-ke uzoba yisilungiselelo esisha noma ikhishi. Ngokuvamile, engxenyeni yeKitchenare, ungathenga noma yini kusukela kumifino esebenzayo, ephela ngocezu lwama-pancake ama-pancake ama-pancake ama-diameter ahlukene.
Into esemqoka ukuthi unyoko uthanda ukupheka, futhi kulokhu, uzokujabulela kakhulu lokhu.
Okokuphumula
Uma umama ekhombisa intshisekelo yobuciko nasemlandweni, khona-ke umbono omuhle uzovakashelwa nombukiso othile othokozisayo, imnyuziyamu noma ukusebenza enkundleni yemidlalo. Lapho-ke ungaqhubeka nobusuku obude be-cafe noma indawo yokudlela ethokomele, ebedlule etafuleni lapho.
Uma umama wakho enjengesimo somndeni sokuphumula, ngemuva nje kokuvakashela i-Theatre noma imnyuziyamu ungaya ekhaya, futhi usuvele emndenini womndeni etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa ukuyogubha usuku lokuzalwa lwakho ukuze ugubhe usuku lokuzalwa. Lapho ulungiselela isidlo sasemini samaholide, ungakhulula kuphela umama emisebenzini yobuciko ukuze wonke amalungu omndeni akwenze okuthile ngokwakhe. Umqondo omuhle kakhulu uzoba ukulungiswa kwekhekhe elihle lamakhosi angumuntu angumama.
Uma ungakwazi ukuziqhayisa amakhono avelele avelele, unga-oda kuqala ikhekhe elinjalo ngokulethwa endlini. Idizayini nokugxuma kungakhethwa konke ukunambitheka, njengoba kukhulume ngaphambili ngompheki.
Kubalulekile ukunaka ngokukhethekile imininingwane ebaluleke kanjena ezonikeza iholidi isimo esikhethekile: lezi yizindlela zokugudla ekhekheni nasemithonjeni evela emabhola e-helium. Akunandaba noma uzogubha kanjani usuku lokuzalwa kukamama wakho, lezi zimfanelo ziyohlala zikhanyisa ukugqama kanye nokuqina kunokuba zithokozise kakhulu empilweni yomuntu.
Amabhola angakhethwa kunoma yimaphi amadijithi amamitha amakhulu ngosuku lokukhumbula, ephela ngokuhalalisela nezifiso. Isikimu sombala singase futhi sihluka kakhulu, ukunambitheka kwakho. Ukumangala okunemibala enjalo kuzokhumbula isikhathi eside futhi ngihlobise ngempumelelo noma yiliphi iholide!
Ungakubona kanjani ukukhetha?
Lapho ukhetha isipho ngomama ezinganeni, kubalulekile futhi ukugxila kokuthandayo. Uma ethanda ukuzilibazisa okusebenzayo, izivakashi zihamba futhi zihamba emvelweni noma ezintabeni, khona-ke uzosithanda isipho esivela eMnyangweni Wezemidlalo, njengetende, isikhwama esifudumele sokulala.
Kungcono kakhulu ukuhlela ukuhamba kwakhe ezintabeni neqembu lezivakashi, njengoba kuvumile ukuthi kuhambo nabahleli. Futhi ungakwazi ngokuzimela kulowo ogubha usuku lwakhe nomndeni wonke emvelweni, olwandle, emfuleni noma echibini elinombono omuhle, lapho ungahlomisa khona indawo yokuhlanza, lapho ungahlomisa khona imifino emlilweni. Ukuphumula okunjalo ngokuqinisekile kuzoshiya izinkumbulo ezimnandi kanye nemibono isikhathi eside.
Futhi mhlawumbe, umama akazange athi kuwe ngezifiso noma ezinhlelweni zakhe kudala, khona-ke umsebenzi wakho wavuselelwa kakhulu, futhi umane usize umama ukuba enze umkhuhlane.
Ngokukhetha isipho kuzosiza ekutholeni indlela yayo yokuphila. Isibonelo, uma kusebenza esikoleni noma kwenye isakhiwo sombuso, kuzojabula kakhulu uma ikhabethe lakhe lizogcwaliswa ngenye ibhizinisi lebhizinisi lelo mbala olithanda kakhulu.
Uma ungazanga nokuthi kungcono ukunika umama, isitifiketi sezipho sokuvakashela i-spa, iSolon Solon, ngokuthengwa kwezimonyo, izicathulo, noma okokugqoka esitolo kungaba yisipho esihle kakhulu. Isipho esinjalo kufanelekile ngoba umama uzokwazi ukuhlakanipha ukukhetha lokho azokuthanda kakhulu.
Izimbali zihlala kahle endaweni eholayo lapho ihalalisele ngosuku lokuzalwa. Isipho esihle kakhulu futhi esibuhlungu kakhulu sosuku lokuzalwa lwe-55 luzoba yisixha sama-rose angama-55 ngokulethwa endlini. Imibala eminingana enjalo izobukeka inhle kakhulu futhi enhle, futhi i-bouquet ngokuqinisekile izohlobisa iholide nophawu lothando lwakho olungenamkhawulo nokunakekela kwakho. Uma umama ethanda chamomile noma ezinye izimbali, khona-ke okuhle kunakho konke, ukuze ubanikeze. Imibala eminingi esiqwini, okusebenziseka kalula futhi okuqhakazayo kuzoba khona okuvelayo kwesipho esinjalo.
Izimbali ezinjengawo wonke umuntu wesifazane futhi kufanele ziwuphawu lothando nobuhle, ngakho-ke lolu phawu lokunakwa luzohlala luwina-win!
Yini okufanele ibe khona?
Okokuzalwa komama akufanele kwenziwe ngezipho eziphikisanayo eziphikisayo zokuzilibazisa nokuthandwa kwazo. Isibonelo, akufanele unikeze isitifiketi sokugxuma kweparachute uma umama wakho engathandi imidlalo eyeqisayo, futhi impilo yawo ngeke ivumele isenzo esinjalo. Akunasidingo sokunikeza izesekeli zasekhishini kumama, angathandi ukupheka. Uma umama edla impova, khona-ke, izimbali azidingi ukunikela, ukuze zingaphangi iholide lakhe, futhi mina uqobo lumuthi.
Kepha ngenhlanhla, lezo zimo ezingemnandi ezinjalo zenzeka kakhulu, ngoba, ikakhulukazi, izingane zizwela kakhulu omama bazo, ngobukhona bokuvuselelwa kwazo noma okunye okuvuselelayo noma okuthandayo, ngakho-ke bazama Izipho zikhetha efanelekile futhi zilusizo.
Kunezimo lapho isipho nje sasingamthandi umama wakho noma singalingani ngosayizi, kepha singalungiswa kalula ngokubuyiselwa kwemali esitolo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kuzoba khona ubukhona obanele besheke nepasipoti yakho, futhi kule nqubo kuvame ukungavezi ubunzima. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kungcono kakhulu ukushintshanisa isipho esingaphumeleli somunye umkhiqizo noma usibuyisele ku-Cash okulingana kungcono kunalokho uma elala ngaphandle kwekhabethe.
Akunandaba ukuthi uzosebenzisa malini ngesipho sonyoko ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe, kubalulekile ukuthi uthole ukunakwa kuye nangesikhathi sakho. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi kubiza kakhulu futhi eduze nesipho esiyinhloko uthando lwethu nokunakekelwa, futhi ikakhulukazi umama - owesifazane osinike isipho esibaluleke kunazo zonke - impilo.
Mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele unikeze umama, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.