Nsuku zonke udinga ukulungiselela ngokucophelela futhi isikhathi eside, nasendabeni yesikhumbuzo saseSithupha, lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi. Leli holide kufanele likhunjulwe iminyaka eminingi elingaphambili hhayi kuphela ngenxa yalomgubho, kodwa futhi nakulo nalunye izivakashi ezivakashile - ezimweni eziningi amacala anjalo alona ngokwesiko ukuzogubha umbuthano olandelayo wezihlobo ezilandelayo.
Izici zenhlangano
Iminyaka yobudala engama-60 ikhethekile kowesifazane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, usungakhuluma ngempumelelo enkulu etholakele empilweni, mayelana nokuhlonipha indawo ezungezile nothando. Nomunye, Kwabesifazane, iminyaka ebalulekile ibilokhu inetimu yokugula - akekho ofuna ukuguga, kepha amantombazane akhathazeke ikakhulukazi.
Umsebenzi Abahleli usesimweni esinjalo ukuchitha weminyaka engu 60 ukuze akukho nokuncane uguge okwakuseduze - kunalokho, ukuze lokuzalwa kungase kudingeke okuvelayo ephelele ukuthi namanje uyakwazi.
Ngenxa yalokhu, ngokuxakile ngokwanele Iholide akufanele likhiphe uNaphtalin nhlobo - esikhundleni salokho udinga ukufaka into yomsebenzi nokunyakaza. Hlela ukuhlangana kwamabhanali etafuleni ngokungesikho - ukukholwa kwecala kufanele uzizwe ukuthi amabutho akukhona asaqhubeka. Ngasikhathi sinye, akwamukeleki ngokwezigaba ukuthi kwakhiwe uhlelo olusebenzayo kangaka, ukubamba iqhaza lapho owesifazane ngeke adonsele khona ngqo, futhi futhi angamukeleki imincintiswano nemincintiswano, lapho intombazane yokuzalwa izolahlekelwa khona izivakashi ezincane.
Ngasikhathi sinye, kuzofanela unake ifomu lomzimba kanye nezivakashi ngokwazo, ngoba ngeke kube nomncintiswano uma okungenani abahlanganyeli ababili abakwazi ukuqashwa. Iphinde futhi, Eqenjini elikhulu, izivakashi azinakuphela abantu ababili kuya kwabathathu.
Ngaphandle kwalokho, Umkhosi walesi silinganiso awukwazi ukudlula lapho kungekho khona inani elikhulu labantu ababalulekile. Sizoba inhloso: Isikhumbuzo Sesithupha singaba yisikhumbuzo sokugcina sokugcina sokuthi owesifazane angakwazi futhi afune ukuzungeza isixuku esikhulu ngenkathi usakwazi ukubheka yonke izinketho zokugubha okukhona. Kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukuhlanganisa emcimbini ngokuphelele bonke abanokuningi noma okubaluleke kakhulu. Ngasikhathi sinye, kwesinye isikhathi uhlu lwalezo zivakashi luvela ukuba lube lukhuni kangangokuba kunengqondo ukwephula iholide ngezingxenye ezimbili, noma ezintathu. Lokhu akuvumeli ukuhlanganisa okubaluleke kakhulu ezivakashi ezingaziwa - lapho-ke kungaphawulwa khona eqenjini labesifazane, nasekhaya - embuthanweni wezihlobo.
Lokhu kuzosiza ukukhetha kahle izihloko zomkhosi, futhi amanye amaholide amabili ahlala engcono kunelilodwa.
Ukukhetha itimu
Eminyakeni yobudala yabantu abaningi badonsa i-nostalgia - ngoba nje izikhathi zangaphambili, ngenkathi ubumncane futhi uthembisa, impilo yabonakala iheha futhi iyathakazelisa. Esimweni esinjalo, isilingo sihlele kakhulu iqembu ngesitayela sentombazane yokuzalwa kwentsha yokuqala, kodwa empeleni alikho iphuzu ekulandeleni ngokuqondile iminyaka yalo eyishumi nesishiyagalombili, ngoba inani eliphakeme lempilo lingenzeka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nokuthi "amaqembu ane-theoviet" angu-thematic angahluka kakhulu ngokuya ngokuthi hlobo luni lwesikhathi abakopisha khona.
Ngesitayela 60s. Ukungena ngokujulile emlandweni, uma sikhuluma ngokuqondile mayelana ne-nostalgia, kunganengqondo - abantu besimanjemanje bamashumi ayisithupha, abantu abaneminyaka eyishumi nesithupha bezikhathi ezindala ngeke bawukhumbule. Amashumi ayisithupha ase-USSR ayengakabi isikhathi sokuthuthukiswa kwamasiko anamandla ngomqondo wanamuhla, ngoba ukugcizelelwa okuyinhloko kuvunyelwa kabusha impilo yemikhosi yalezo zikhathi. Izindonga zingahlotshiswa zivame ngokuphelele ngalesi sikhathi ngamaphosta ahalalisele futhi anwebe amamaki, abeke etafuleni "Isaladi ka-Olivier, i-herring ngaphansi kwengubo yoboya, ama-sprats, kepha akudingekile ukwenza ukugula kwamazambane abilisiwe abilisiwe noma i-puree - akukho tiramisu!
Uhlelo lokuzijabulisa lungakhiwa azungeze amaketanga ambalwa abekhona ngaleso sikhathi.
- Ngesitayela 70s. Kuzoba ukushaya okunembe kakhulu ngesikhathi, lapho intombazane yokuzalwa, khona-ke intombazane yayimncane kakhulu. Kuliqiniso, amaqembu angu-thematic ngesitayela salezo zikhathi angeke akwazi ukulandela lokhoko, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukucacisa ukuthi inenekazi liseduze kangakanani nesitayela se-aesthetics. Kuwufanele ukucacisa ukuthi yiziphi izithombe ezazisemfashini ngaleso sikhathi - bobabili abesilisa, futhi abangane babo babegqoka izingubo ezikhanyayo nezinwele ezithandwa kakhulu zezinwele. Amasheya ahlukahlukene alezo zikhathi azokhuphuka njengokuhambisana komculo - ngaleso sikhathi izinkanyezi zokuqala sezivele zivele ekuqondeni kwanamuhla kwaleli gama.
Isiphuzo esikhulu sakusihlwa, kunjalo, iSoviet Champagne, futhi ungakwazi ukujabulisa amapuleti nezingoma ngaphansi kwesigingci.
- Iphathi 90s. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, leyo ndaba ayiphathi owesifazane oneminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha ngqo ebusheni, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngalezo zinsuku yayikude kakhulu, kepha wayesekwazi ukufeza okuthile empilweni, okusho ukuthi Kungenzeka kube yi-nostalgic kwalezo zikhathi. Le nkathi emlandweni yayikhanya kakhulu, futhi ingashaywa ngamahlaya, inikezela ngezivakashi ukuveza "amaRussia amasha". Uhlu lokudlalwayo lwalezo zikhathi esisakukhumbula, kepha ukudla okusha kwavela etafuleni - i-caviar efanayo ebomvu, okufiseleka ukudla isipuni, okuhlukahlukene kwamaphayinaphu aphesheya, izibiliniso ezithandekayo zenyama. Ungaphuza njenge-vodka nanoma yini enye i-elite.
Isitayela sezingubo zabavakashi - ngaphandle kokukhanya nokwezandla.
Ungagubha kuphi?
Kufanele kuboniswe kusengaphambili ukuthi kufanele uqhube kuphi umcimbi, futhi kuyadingeka ukuncipha ngokuyinhloko kusuka kumibandela emibili - inani lezivakashi kanye nezinto ezithandayo. Esimweni sokuqala, indawo kufanele ibhekane ne-surfaceding enjalo yabantu (mhlawumbe lesi sikhungo kuzodingeka ukuthi sibhukhe ngaphambi kwesikhathi), ngokwesibili - kubalulekile ukucabanga ukuthi iyiphi indawo ezonikeza induduzo yesivakashi ekhululekile.
Eqinisweni, izinketho zingaba kakhulu, kepha zivame ukubheka enye yezindawo ezintathu ezijwayelekile.
Kwi-cafe
Inketho esobala kakhulu yendawo yamaholide, kunjalo, i-cafe noma indawo yokudlela. Ukukhetha okuvumayo indawo enjalo kunengqondo okungenani ngoba ngamahlombe abahleli, isibopho esikhulu sezikhathi eziningi ezihlobene nokubikwa kwethebula nokuzijabulisa kwezivakashi ziyasuswa.
Esimweni sokuqala, ungasebenzisa imenyu ejwayelekile yesikhungo noma uvumelane kwimenyu yemikhosi kusengaphambili - abasebenzi bekhefi bazothenga imikhiqizo ngokwabo, bazolungiselela konke okumnandi, beza etafuleni. Kwesibili - imvamisa sebenzisa izinsizakalo zeTamada ezimenyiwe, ezinolwazi ekwenzeni amaholide anjalo futhi azi ukuthi ungavumi kanjani izakhamizi zangaphambi kwe-Age.
Ngokuqondene ne-cafe ethile, lapho-ke ukukhetha kuncike ekutheni ubani nokuthi ungawugubha kanjani. Isibonelo, isikhumbuzo sekhanda le-pread ngeke sigujwe ngezindawo ezishibhile - indawo yokudlela edingekayo kuphela, ngoba igama lokuzalwa kungenzeka lingazicabangi umuntu ompofu. Uma iholide lihlelelwe uzakwabo noma intombi esondelene kakhulu, khona-ke ukugxila kufanele kwenziwe njengenduduzo kanye nokulula, hhayi kuma-pathos.
Ngokusho komqondo ofanayo, uhlobo lwekhishi nezinye izici ze-cafe noma indawo yokudlela zikhethiwe. Uma umgqugquzeli womgubho ungobugcingisiko futhi othambekele ku-nostalgia, ukusungulwa kufanele kuseshwa, ngezindlela eziningi kulondolozwa amasiko, ngaphandle kwenani elikhulu lezitsha ezingaziwa, kunoma yikuphi, i-fondise fotical izoba ngcono kune-sushi. Kodwa-ke, amantombazane avulekele lonke elisha kulo lonke elakutholwa - ukukhetha kungaphoqelelwa kusuka kokunye okuphambene nalokho, ngoba bahlala bemangele ukuthola ukutholakala futhi bazomangazwa yithuba lokuzama ikhishi elisha.
Ngemuva kwalokho, noma kunjalo, kufanelekile ukuxhumanisa okunengqondo nolwazi lokuthandwa ngabantu - ngokwesibonelo, uma kungafani bukhali, i-cuisine eseningizimu neyokuqala mhlawumbe inyamalale.
Ngaphandle
Inketho yokugubha iminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha, yowesifazane ongaphandle kwedolobha nayo iyasebenza kakhulu - okungenani uma ihlala endaweni ethile enkabeni yedolobha elikhulu futhi likhathele yimpikiswano enkulu. Vele, ukugujwa komoya ovulekile kuzocindezela eminye imikhawulo, ngoba ngesimo sezulu esibi kungenzeka ukuthi kube ngumqondo omuhle, futhi ngesikhathi esibandayo sonyaka, ngokuvamile, okungafanele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bekungalungile ukubona ikhampasi yemvelo njengoMkhankaso we- "Dicar" ojwayelekile wehlathi - ungasusa ifa elincane edolobhaneni, lapho kuzokwenzeka khona ukucasha egumbini nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Kubesifazane abaningi abaye baphila impilo ekhuthazayo ebusheni, lokhu kukhethwa kwesikhathi kuzoba okuningi ngendlela. Bona, ngisho nangokuthola okuningi, bazojabula ngokweqiniso ukuthi bahlale ngokweqiniso ngokuhlala umlilo kumbuthano wabangane, bacule izingoma ngaphansi kwesigingci bese bezama inyama ephekwe kugridi. Ngomkhosi onjalo ongesoslic, okuningi akudingekile - empeleni, bonke abantu ababalulekile kuzoba nzima kakhulu. Uma ukuma kusesimweni sokugujwa ngesilinganiso senduduzo, khona-ke iholide libalulekile ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ushintshe isimo, futhi esiwusizo kakhulu.
Imvelo njengendawo yokugubha usuku futhi iyamangalisa ukuthi kukhona okuhle kuwo wonke umuntu. Kuyasiza ukuphefumula umoya kubantu banoma yimuphi unyaka, futhi uma kukhona izingane ezincane phakathi kwezivakashi, khona-ke bayoba nethuba elihle lokugawula.
Izindlu
Inketho yokugubha ikhaya imvamisa kufanelekile uma ngabe ubekwe emndenini wemindeni ngesimemo, ngaphandle kwalawo mangani ajwayelene nawo wonke amakhaya. Iholide ekhaya linamandla amakhulu ezomnotho, ngoba lisho ukuthengwa kwemikhiqizo ejwayelekile esitolo, ngokulungiselela izivakashi zazo ezilandelayo - Ngakho-ke, izinsizakalo zabo akudingeki zikhokhe. Futhi, uma othile evela ezihlotsheni egibela amaholide ngokukhethekile esuka kude, angasuka masinyane ubusuku - lokhu futhi kusindisa imali.
Ukungathandeki kwenhlangano yamaholide yasekhaya ukuze umama--ami noma ugogo kudinga isikhathi esikhulu nomzamo wokuhlela yonke imininingwane. Akukho cafe lapha - akekho, ngaphandle kwabahleli uqobo, ngeke baphule ikhanda phezu kwemenyu, funa imikhiqizo efanele, bathenge bese upheka. Lokhu akuwona umkhosi wemvelo - akekho oyokujabulela ngetafula elikhulu lemikhosi, futhi yonke inyama ibonwa, futhi izindonga zasekhaya zansuku zonke zibonwa njengomhlobiso wokukhumbula okuncane kunalehlathi nomfula.
Ngamafuphi, ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lwendlu - kungcono inketho noma isabelomali, hhayi ikhambi elihle.
Ungayihlobisa kanjani ikamelo?
Abantu beminyaka yobudala beminyaka yokuthatha umhlalaphansi basakha izakhamizi zesikhathi esedlule, lapho senziwa ngokugcizelela kakhulu imishanguzo. Lokhu akumangazi - kwakufanele baphile ngezimo ezibucayi futhi ezingenakudabuka, ngoba okungenani eholidini bafuna upende owengeziwe. Lokhu kungaqondakala, ngakho-ke ihholo endaweni ye-cafe noma egumbini lendlu kufanele lihlotshiswe ngayo yonke imibono.
Empeleni, amaqembu ama-nostalgic esitayela seSoviet alungile ukuthi ezimeni eziningi azikho okujabulisa okukhethekile - ngaleso sikhathi babengekho nje. Akukho ukuhlobisa okungaphezu kwemvelo akudingi. Umbuzo uxazululwa ngosizo lwe-garlands (ejwayelekile nezimbali), kanye namabhaluni anemibala eminingi. Ungase futhi udwebe amaphosta noma wenze amaphephandaba amancane odonga nabasebenzi abakhanya kakhulu abavela empilweni yentombazane yokuzalwa. Konke lokhu kungabekwa njenge-oda okungahleliwe, kepha ngesimo sezincwadi, ekuthuthukiseni ukuhalalisela ngosuku lokugubha.
Ngasikhathi sinye, ungakhombisa futhi okuvela ngokwengeziwe kokuhlobisa okungajwayelekile egumbini. Lapha, Kuliqiniso, uMkhandlu othize kunzima ukuwunikeza, kepha ungakweluleka ngokujulile ukushaya kakhulu okuthandwayo kanye namaqembu kuhlobo lokugwetshwa komkhosi. Isibonelo, uma inenekazi lithanda ukubandakanyeka emgqonyeni noma omunye wabalintshi, ungahlobisa izindonga zekamelo nobuciko bakhe ukuze uthole uhlobo lombukiso wezobuciko.
Indlela enjalo izoziqhayisa, hhayi i-caustic, futhi izosiza ukunakwa ngokwengeziwe namagama afudumele avela kubavakashi abafikile emcimbini.
Ukulungiselela umbhalo
Esikhathini sethu, ngandlela thile akuyona inkambiso yokugubha itafula elithile - kufanele kube nohlelo oluthile lokugubha, oluzohlinzeka ngemizwa emihle futhi luzonikeza ithuba lokusongela konke okudliwayo. Okwamaholide ku-cafe, umholi ochwepheshe avame ukumenywa, kepha kungenzeka ukwenza umcimbi futhi ngaphandle kwe-toasta, ngemuva kwakho konke, izinsizakalo zawo zikhulisa isabelomali somcimbi, futhi zithakazelisa ngempela Ngisho nochwepheshe. Ngaphandle kwalokho, Ekhaya, umuntu othile owenza ngenhloso ngamabomu futhi adonsele ukunaka kuye, angadala ukunganeliseki komakhelwane.
Zonke lezi zizathu ziphoqelela esinqumweni esenziwa ngokwezomnotho ngokwezomnotho okuholayo kulabo abakhona, futhi manje sizongitshela izinketho zokuzijabulisa ngokuhalalisela.
Imincintiswano
Umoya wokuncintisana ungokwemvelo kubantu abaningi. Lapha Kubalulekile ukuthi imincintiswano ihlekisa, i-perky futhi imnandi, ngoba into esemqoka akuyona into yokunqoba hhayi ukubamba iqhaza, kepha iqiniso lokuthi labo abakhona ababuthana ndawonye ngosuku olulodwa. Ngasikhathi sinye, uhlelo lokuncintisana kufanele lubhekele ubuntu obuhleliwe - mhlawumbe etafuleni kukhona abamele izizukulwane ezahlukene.
Ngokuvumelana nalokhu, kuyinto efiselekayo ukukhetha imincintiswano ngayinye yabangenele ukuncintisana kweminyaka ehlukene ababambiqhaza abalingana namathuba okuwina.
Inketho elula kakhulu yomncintiswano wesizukulwane esidala ikhipha umucu womugqa ophindwe kabili isikhathi esithile. Lapha, kusobala, kuyadingeka ukukhumbula ukuthi ukucabanga okungajwayelekile akuhambelani ngaso sonke isikhathi - kwezinye izinkampani, akekho noyedwa kogogo abazokwazi ukuhlanganisa. Ngenye indlela, ungachitha umncintiswano wesihloko somdansi ongcono, ngokungazelelwe futhi ungahleleli imisindo ye-melody nemisindo ezwakalayo - khona-ke abaqhudelanayo bangcono ukwenza konke ngasikhathi sinye, futhi ophumelele akhethe izithameli ngasikhathi sinye.
Ngasikhathi sinye, umncintiswano wokudansa ungaba yinkimbinkimbi ngosizo lwemithetho yobuqili. Abaqhudelana bahlukaniswe ngababili, kanye nephepha noma izinhlanzi zamakhadibhodi, ezizokwazi ukudweba ngokukhululeka phansi okhalweni lomuntu ngamunye obambe iqhaza. Lapho umculo uvulwa, imibhangqwana iqala ukudansa, kanye nomsebenzi wamadoda - ukudiliza inhlanzi yabanye abantu, uyeza kubo ngonyawo, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye ukuvikela umlingani wawo ekuhlaselweni.
Imidlalogu Imidlalo
Imincintiswano echazwe ngenhla iphakamisa ukuhamba okubalulekile kwabahlanganyeli, kanye nezivakashi ezineminyaka yobudala, noma ngabe zikulungele ukuzama ukunqoba, ngeke zikwazi ukuncintisana nakho konke kusihlwa. Ngenxa yalokhu, kufanelekile ukunikeza ukuzijabulisa okuncane okuzosiza ukudlula isikhathi esisetafuleni ngaphandle kokuvuka. Ngisho nemidlalo ehlukahlukene yebhodi izoba ngokwama-theory, uma kuphela abakwazi ukufaka inani elikhulu kakhulu lezivakashi futhi zazithakazelisa wonke umuntu.
Kepha ungaqhamuka nokuthile okuthakazelisa ngokwengeziwe njengomdlalo "Ingoma ye-Antipess". Izimo zilula - iqembu elilodwa liqala uhlobo lwengoma, kanti owesibili kufanele aphendule olunye ukushaya ngomqondo othile, okuphambene nalokho "okuhambe" abahlanganyeli bakhe. Uma umethuli ongathathi hlangothi uxhumeke kulowo mdlalo, ungabuza ukuqondiswa okujwayelekile kwemicabango yokulula - ngokwesibonelo, ukufuna ingoma "emhlophe / emnyama", "Owesilisa / umfazi", njalonjalo. Ngasikhathi sinye, amaqembu mhlawumbe alinganiselwe ngesikhathi, okunikezwa ukukhumbula izingoma - lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi unqume ukuthi ngubani onqobayo.
Udinga ukunikeza umyalo ngamunye ithuba lokubuyisa - vumela i-lag ngephuzu elilodwa namanje ayisho ukuphela komdlalo.
Enye inguqulo enhle yomdlalo "iyiqiniso noma amanga." Kuyabonakala ukuthi ungazise abadlali abangahle ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ukuthi yimuphi umdlalo ozodlalwa manje, umemezela kuphela ukuthi amaqembu amabili adinga. Iqiniso ngukuthi umongo walo mdlalo ukuthola amaqiniso ayiqiniso noma amanga e-biography yokugwetshwa komkhosi, ngakho-ke ukwahlukaniswa kwabahlanganyeli emaqenjini kuzokugcina ngezikhathi ezithile okuxakile kwabanqobi. Uhlu lwamaqiniso kumele lube ngumuntu owaziyo i-biography yendoda yokuzalwa, ukugcizelelwa kuvame ukwenziwa hhayi izehlakalo ezisobala nezigameko ukuze izivakashi zibe zinhle ukuphula amakhanda abo, empeleni zingaba noma cha.
Ukukhethwa kwezitatimende kungabuye kwenziwe okungahleliwe - vumela ababambiqhaza bakhiphe isigqoko sePepa ngezehlakalo eziyiqiniso nezamanga. Iqembu elizonqoba ngaphezu kwezici ezifanele.
Indawo
Ukuhlanganisa uhlelo oluphelele lomcimbi kufanele lubekwe ngokuqukethwe kokuzijabulisa kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba ngokuthinta izigcawu ezimfushane, ezingasho ukuthi noma yimuphi umnqobi kanye nolahleko bazosebenza ikakhulukazi. Izindima ezikulezo zimiso zivame ukunikezwa izingane ezingadlala noma yiziphi amahlaya noma ngisho nezigcawu ezivela kogogo bangempela bempilo, ehambisana nenhlaya ecashile evela kumhleli we-scripord.
Ngenye indlela, wonke umncintiswano osuselwa ezigcawini angaqhutshwa. Okokuqala, imiyalo emibili noma emithathu yabantu ababili noma abathathu iyaqashwa kabusha, okuthi kuphela ngemuva kwalokho kumenyezelwe umsebenzi: kufanele uveze ngokuzimela futhi ubonise ababukeli bendawo ngokubona kwakho. Amaqembu anikezwa imizuzu emi-3-5 ukuze ahambisane futhi avumelane ngesimo, bese kuthi ukuhola kunamahloni kungenye imininingwane - kuyavela, kuyadingeka ukudonsa izigqoko ze-phantha, lapho hlobo lwesizukulwane esiqondile kuzokhonjiswa!
Ngenxa yalokhu, okokuqala, ngisho nokukhotha umbono wakubeka engcupheni yokugibela ku-Farce, kepha umsebenzi womncintiswano awusiwonakalisi amakhono amabi ngokubhala, okungukuthi, ukuhlukumeza labo abakhona isikhathi.
