Abesifazane babe umuzwa atfutfuke kakhulu kunemakhono amadoda, futhi ngenxa yalokho zivame ukuqala ukuqagela nengcebo womshado eside ngaphambi amaqiniso sobala. Abameleli phansi esihle ngokoqobo "bamba" akaqondakali, uketshezi olusha, kodwa hhayi njalo siyichaze. Ngokwemvelo, bonke abantu besifazane anentshisekelo, kanjani ukuqonda ukuthi umyeni sishintsha, futhi yini okufanele uyenze futhi ukuthi baziphathe kanjani uma izinsolo avele kakade. Kulesi sihloko sizozama ukunikeza izimpendulo ezinemininingwane zonke izindaba laba besifazane evuthayo.
Indlela ziziphathe ngayo esolwa?
Ubumsulwa futhi bangasephula umshado uk namuhla engasekho into efanayo edlule. Futhi-ke, isehlukaniso kwenzeke kaningi. Esinye sezizathu njalo ngoba ekunqanyulweni kwe ubudlelwane abashadile umbuso. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, adulters besilisa eRussia, ngokwezazi zezenhlalo, seyihlanganisa 75% inani akhashelwa, abesifazane zishintshe ngendlela ephawulekayo ngaphansi ngokuvamile - cishe ngo-25% amacala.
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, psychotherapists, zezenhlalo bekwi nezindaba izimbangela adulters, izibalo kanye ukucinga ongakhetha kusuka amathuba phambilini imvelo somshado kuleli zwe. Mayelana izindlela nezinqubo ngokwengqondo ezihambisana bayavukela namuhla kukhona impela eningi, kodwa kuze kube manje ukuthi, ngeshwa, ayivumeli ukwehlisa inani labantu abahlukanisayo ngenxa adulter.
Nature abesifazane wadala bazwelane kakhudlwana izenzakalo ezizayo. umuzwa athuthukisiwe yikhono elikuvumela uma uzicabangela kusengaphambili izimo ezingezinhle futhi ingozi ukuba nesikhathi ukulondoloza (uhlobo, ukuvikela) inzalo. Ngo amayiyane bakholelwa ukuthi ukuvukela umbuso kahle kwanikeza nazo zonke izinyathelo uzungu yokutholwa izohlala waphawuleka umkakhe. Conspiration uyobe sokuphuca ubufakazi owesifazane, kodwa ukuzizwa izinguquko kancane ukuziphatha umlingani wakho uyakwazi yimuphi owesifazane. Khona-ke uyobe ukukwenza, awukwazi ngisho ukungabaza. Ngokuqondene nobufakazi, umuzwa owesifazane ongeyena okunokwethenjelwa nakanjani uwathole, ngisho noma ngabe izinyathelo enyathi kwakucatshangwa out nangemininingwane emincane kakhulu.
Ukuqagela emlonyeni okungenzeka indoda ohlangothini owesifazane, sibonga 'sixth sense ", mhlawumbe emehlweni, ngokuvumelana ukubonakaliswa umuntu, ku buviyoviyo yokukhuluma, ngokusho kwabanye babhekwa ekuziphatheni. Ngezinye izikhathi nowesifazane yena akakwazi ukuchaza ukuba ukuzingcwelisa, + ngoba lokho izimpawu waqala ukuzizwa ibe usongo - nje wazizwa, nokuthi-ke.
Umbono kanye izibikezelo - inkathi enzima kakhulu. Owesifazane unzima kakhulu ukuzigcina ezandleni zawo futhi ezolile. Ngaphakathi, yena eshubile yonke ocean imizwa lowo ongabhubhisa umshado hhayi kuphela, kodwa futhi ngaphakathi yayo. Lapha, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungaweli umugqa ovumele, ngoba kusuka kumona ojwayelekile uye ePathological Paranoid - Isinyathelo esisodwa esincane. Esimweni somona ongenangqondo, iziphi izazi zezengqondo ezibhekisela ezizweni ezingekho emthethweni zohlobo lwe-paranoid, owesifazane ngeke esazwa izimpikiswano, izwi lengqondo nengxabano. Uzoqiniseka ukuthi umyeni useshintshile, noma ngabe kwakungekho ngempela i-ajulter. Kancane kancane, isiteji se-maniacal sizoshintsha i-paranoid, futhi owesifazana ubungozi ukuze abe yisiguli somtholampilo wezengqondo noma owesilisa, ngoba ukugula ngokwengqondo okungokoqobo.
Ngakho-ke, lapho usola ububi bomlingani, kubalulekile ukuthi ungayeki 'ukuwela induku'. Kuhle kakhulu, zama ukubheka isimo kusuka ohlangothini. Zonke izizathu zokusolwa zivame ukungaqondile. Bangaphenduka ukuba babe yikho konke ababonakala. Cabanga ukuthi uzobukeka ngokuphuthumayo kangakanani uma uqala ukuhlela ama-hysterics, amahlazo, ukungafani, ukumemeza kumyeni wakho nokusola kulokho wena ongaqinisekile: eqinisweni lokuvukela umbuso! Kumuntu, umuzwa obaluleke kakhulu umuzwa wokuhlonipha umngane wakhe wokuphila. Uma ngasizathu simbe elahlekelwa nenhlonipho, ubalekela nakho konke okunye: uthando isifiso.
Indlela efanele yokubhubhisa ubudlelwano kulesi sigaba ukuphula inhlonipho yakhe ngawe. Ukukwenza, njengoba sekukhulumile, kulula ndawo, kulula ukumemeza, qala ukumemeza, ukukhala, ukudonsa i-hysteria yakho noma nini lapho kuzobuya emsebenzini, kusola konke emhlabeni; Dinga igama senkosikazi, iya emsebenzini emsebenzini futhi bakhononda abasebenzi, shayela njalo ngehora isigamu, hlola phone yakhe futhi mail. Konke lokhu kusengaphambili kwenelisa indoda eqinisweni lokuthi ngomngane kangaka wokuphila akasekho endleleni. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ushintshe noma cha, umshado uyoba ubole.
izenzo Lungile e esolwa kumele sihambisane ezolile. Akunandaba ukuthi kunzima kangakanani, udinga ukuzithatha ezandleni zakho bese ubuka nje. Bheka ama-nuances nemininingwane, amagama nezenzo, qhathanisa amaqiniso. Uma kungenjalo ukushelela kukhombisa ngokwanele, kuzoba yisiginali ukuguqukela esigabeni esisebenzayo: kuzoba yisidingo sokukhuluma nemiphefumulo.
Ingxoxo kusukela Monologue icala is zihlukaniswa yokuthi kunabantu ababili abantu self-ukuhlonipha. Abanaso bayaklabalasa futhi musa "ukudikiza", musa khumbula nomunye amaphutha, ageje, bakhuluma ngokuqondile ngenkinga olwenzeka manje. Ukuze indawo inkhulumomphendvulwano azithathe, udinga ukukhetha isikhathi esifanele. Indoda kumele amisiwe ingxoxo, akufanele basheshe okwamanje emsebenzini, futhi nakakhulu ungakhulumi it ngocingo noma bhala kuye. Kulesi ingxoxo, udinga ukubona emehlweni umuntu, ukuzwa izinguquko kancane emazwini.
Kuvele ingxoxo ebalulekile kungcono ukuchitha esimweni esikhululekile, ngempelasonto, asele ndawonye lapho umuntu bancibilika akalindele a "iqhinga." Akubalulekile ukuba ngimtshele kusengaphambili ukuthi "ingxoxo sina ulinde kuye," uzokwenza kucindezela, futhi uma ukukhashelwa senzeka, naye uyakuliphuza nanesikhathi ambalwa eziningi ezingekho "izaba", kusukela enembile ngeke baqonde ukuthi le ngxoxo yakho Lesithembiso.
Kanjani ukubuza indoda? Ngqo. IBhodi ngaphandle uqala eside. Mtshele okwesabayo, ungitshele ukuthi uzizwa, kodwa ukukwenza njengoba ngomoya ophansi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi benevolently. Ukuze uthole ngomzuzu, ungaphuthelwa umqondo yokuthi akekho emhlabeni ubophekile ukuba okulindele meet kothile. Hlonipha umlingani. Ungakhulumi ngaye, kodwa ngalokho imizwa kungenxa yenu ukubangela izenzo zakhe. Nikeza wonke AMANGA nokushintshashintsha nokuziphatha kwenu futhi amazwi, usitshele lokho baye baqaphela. Ungakhali futhi musa nikhamuluke. Yenza okuthulile, izwi ezolile.
ukuqapha ngokucophelela ukusabela. Conference, amehlo kufihlwe, nokunakekelwa ingxoxo, imfuneko ukuyeka ingxoxo njengamanje, kufanele wazise. Ingabe indoda ukungitshela iqiniso? Musa Ngethemba okuningi ngoba. Yebo, zikhona izimo lapho umyeni "yayicindezele odongeni" Izingxabano onohlonze ibona ngempela icala lakhe futhi ezama ukuchaza noma iya izinto collect ukushiya. Kodwa ezimweni eziningi, umyeni ngazisa ukuthi konke lokhu "umbhedo wakho," ukuthi "umbhedo", "yini iqiniso" futhi, ngokuvamile, "isidingo kancane ukucabanga."
Kubalulekile, besifazane ayebathanda, yini lokho uzothi. Kubalulekile spin yayo ukusabela kokuqala. Qala kokubili: buhle, ugodo waphenduka, waqala into kancane esandleni sami, ecindezela amaqupha yeminwe, ukukuthinta kadyk, esihlathini, ekhaleni, esusa amehlo, ekucindezela indlebe indlebe, ugwema ukubukeka ziqondile; Ngokushesha eyeka ingxoxo kanye namahlamvu ekamelweni, iya ibe ukuhlaselana ngalokho nolaka ngamazwi - konke lokhu izimpawu iyashaqisa ethi is feverishly ngifuna amazwi nezincazelo, eqamba amanga. Khumbula ukuthi ukusabela kokuqala ngeke lihlale isikhathi eside, ngakho-ke umyeni okungalungile kuzothatha yena esandleni (abantu bekwazi ukwenza kuyenza isheshe!) Futhi izindaba eziningi kangaka ezithakazelisayo uzokutshela ukuthi kuyoba nzima ukuqonda lapho iqiniso, iphi eqanjiwe.
Indoda engashintshile ingaphendula ngendlela ehlukile. Imvamisa ibala ngokufanele, khona-ke izoxuba nomphefumulo, futhi mhlawumbe izokwephusa, kepha izokwenza ngaphandle kwengxabano, ngokuqinisekile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho kuzoncika ngezinga lokuqiniseka phakathi kwabashadikazi, ezingeni lezemfundo namasiko ngakunye kwazo, ukuthi ungazixazulula kanjani izinkinga ezamukelwe kulo mndeni, kusukela ekuthambekeni kwabalingani.
Uhlu lwezimpawu zokuvukela umbuso
Okunzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa izimpawu zokuvukela umbuso kusuka ekubonisweni kwezinye izimo zempilo ezehlukene empilweni yomlingani wakho. Kwi-Intanethi, abafazi abashaqisayo bangathola izindatshana eziyizinkulungwane ezingamakhulu ambalwa nezincwadi ezinikezela ngezixazululo ezenziwe ngomumo: uhlu lwezimpawu ezikhombisa isidambi. Ungabelani futhi ungabangenise kwinkonzo, ngoba iningi lazo lingabangelwa yizimbangela ezihluke ngokuphelele. Funda ukucabanga ngokunengqondo. Ngakho-ke, sithatha ipeni nephepha futhi sinesisindo amaqiniso ezikhundleni ezimbili zento ngayinye: "kuguqulwe" futhi "akazange aguquke". Ake siqale njengamanje.
Indoda yazikhohlwa futhi imvamisa ikhala ukukhathala
Amadoda aphakamise ubudlelwano "ohlangothini", anake kakhulu imiyalo yakho nezicelo. Ekuseni bambuza endleleni eya ekhaya bayothenga okuthile, futhi wakhohlwa. Usuku lomshado wakho, owawulilungiselela ngalo, "wandiza" ekhanda lakhe. Umbiza kuma-movie, futhi ukhonza ukuthi ukhathele futhi ungcono uhamba ne-TV ngempelasonto. Iziphakamiso zokwenza uthando, uvame ukuphendula ngokwenqaba ngokubhekise futhi ekukhathaleni.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuziphatha okunjalo kungadalwa yizinkinga zomzimba: Ukhathele ngempela, usebenza amahora ayi-12 ngosuku ngempelasonto eyodwa, unezinkinga emsebenzini, ubunzima ngezezimali. Kungenzeka ukuthi kube nezinkinga nge-potency, futhi kulula ngaye ukusho ukuthi ukhathele kunokuzama ukuqaphela ukungaboni kwalo kwezocansi (isihloko sendoda sibuhlungu kakhulu). Nasenkazimulweni yokukhohlwa kwabesilisa, ngokuvamile, ungangeza izingoma, ngakho-ke iqiniso lokuthi ukhohliwe ngezinsuku zokuthandana, okwakuyimbangela yeminyaka eyi-10 edlule, hhayi esizathu sokuthi umsolwa ngokuvukela umbuso, njengesici Inkumbulo Yabesilisa: inkumbulo yesikhathi eside phakathi kwabameleli bobulili obuqinile "Chromas» kuyo yomibili imilenze. Ukuntuleka kwezifiso zobulili embhedeni womndeni nakho akusho ukuvukela umbuso, ngoba amadoda anaka kakhulu kunoma yikuphi ukucindezela. Kuphela iqhawe le-cinema elikwazi ukucindezela okwazi ukuqondisa izigcawu. Empilweni yenkinga, iLibido emadodeni anqoba kakhulu.
Wamisa indandatho yomshado egqokile
Isikhathi esiningi, abantu musa ukuzifihla intombi eseceleni ukuthi ushadile, futhi ngenxa yalokho abanakho isidingo ukususa iringi. Ukwehluka - sína uthando. Uma indoda sathandana ngempela, futhi akafuni intombazane ukwazi ngesimo sakhe, ukuze singathwesi bayabubula ke, ngempela kungathatha indandatho isikhathi esithile. Ezinye uyisuse nhlobo futhi ikhefu ekhaya, abanye ukukwenza nsuku zonke ekuseni, uvuka. Qaphelisisani.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iringi kungaba kancane noma kakhulu, ngoba umuntu ukuncipha futhi ngokugcwele, uye kudliwa, ngakho ogqoke izindandatho ngaphandle koxhumano adulter ngezinye izikhathi kuba nzima.
Xazulula isimo nje. Buza oshade naye ukubiza for a ngamagugu futhi ukwandisa ubungako iringi, uma lisho iqiniso ukuthi ozithobayo noma ukunciphisa uma iringi izimpukane. Uma ngemva kwalokho iringi uzophinde kuxazululwe phezu umunwe iyisithandwa, exinwe lutho.
Umyeni baba ezahlukene
Lesi sici ngomunye wabokuqala. Kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukuyibiza ngokucacile. Azisekho izinguquko ngisho ngokuziphatha kwayo futhi imikhuba, kodwa ijubane ngalo lezi zinguquko zenzeka. Izolo Ngangisolo elele phezu kombhede futhi babephuza ubhiya ngaphansi webhola, futhi namuhla ngase ubhaliselwe ejimini futhi ngadideka nokungawuvivinyi ngokwanele amakhilogremu extra. Ukuletha ukuba umqondo wokuthi umyeni sishintsha, kuba iletha futhi nokucija lezi zinguquko. Kubalulekile ukulinganisa nesimo sakhe kumkakhe: indoda ngubani uzizwa enecala "engakwesokunxele", kuba ngokuzumayo ukunakekela kakhulu, ehlukile, futhi indoda ongenalo isipiliyoni wecala, ngokuvamile, ngaphandle izizathu ebonakalayo, uthukuthele nomkakhe, ukuklabalasa , ugxeke, kubonisa amaphutha ayo.
Sibheka inkinga ngakolunye uhlangothi. Izizathu ukuguquguquka unkosikazi wakhe futhi baxgeki ekhelini layo kungaba kakhulu ngendlela oyithandayo. Umyeni othukuthele uma ubudlelwano abasele bafise okungcono uma engawuboni ulandele ukubukeka kwakhe, khona-ke aluphumeleli sibhekane ngokuphumelelayo ukuphathwa komnotho, bekhulisa izingane, futhi akusiyo nhlobo lokuthi umuntu "phezu uhlangothi ". izinguquko zalo nokhahlo, ngokuvakashela ejimini nentshisakalo ukubukeka kwakhe, zingahlanganiswa isifiso banal ukuba isisindo ngokuhlala futhi ukubuya ifomu langaphambilini, njengoba umngane benza.
Umlingani has izimfihlo zabo
Kungenzeka ukuthi ekuqaleni oyisebenzise kokubili eyodwa ibhokisi leposi jikelele ngogesi, futhi manje indoda atholwe sakhe futhi uzama ukuba akubonise ukuthi wenzani lapho. Umuntu unobuhlobo abomndeni kuhambisana izincwadi, ngempela, kuba eyinakekela kahle ukufinyelela kumadivayisi zalo electronic. Ishintsha amaphasiwedi ocingweni futhi ku-imeyili, ujikela iwindi isithunywa uma uya ekamelweni, wayeka uphonsa smartphone yami endaweni egqamile, kanti ngaphambi wayelele emhlabeni lapho wawa wamfuna kuphela umsindo engenayo shayela. Uma uzama ukuthola ukuthi yini uhlobo izinyathelo ekusithekeni zixhumene ne, kuba sezinzwa futhi emacembe ingxoxo noma khamita, okubonisa ukuthi "onelungelo ngokugcwele." Yebo, has. Kodwa-ke lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi avame ivumela umkakhe ukuqonda ukuthi imbangi sisekhona.
Ase sibheke isimo ngaphesheya. Ngo indoda, abanjengawe, kukhona ilungelo ephelele isikhala siqu kanye izimfihlo zabo. Imfihlakalo kungaba okungakhulunywa nhlobo ngabo indlovukazi yakhe, kodwa, isibonelo, in a pornolist, okuyinto efuna ukubona, futhi lapha ufaka igumbi. Yiqiniso, ozosigingqela "Iwindi" ku qapha. Izimfihlo kungenzeka ukuthi umataniswe nemisebenzi yakhe professional, e kube sekupheleni nguyena akaphoqelekile kumbukiso ubani lokho rewrittening nabangani noma nabangani bakhe abadala, ngisho noma kuyinto ingxoxo mayelana nokudoba, ingxoxo umdlalo noma nathi nawe, besifazane ayebathanda . Njengoba ukuqonda, ke akuhlangene ne umbuso.
New inuka
Psychology lapha nhlobo. Awudingi ukuba barbell waba nomuzwa acute yokuhogela ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi umyeni wahogela iphunga ngenye indlela. Imikhiqizo ngokuvamile elimnandi nabesifazane omusha amakha flavour. Futhi lapha ungakwazi lutho. Le ndoda yena singase singakuboni lokhu, hhayi ukuze unamathisele ukubaluleka, ngoba "uthukuthele 'futhi ejwayele iphunga amakha, ogama yenethiwekhi manje futhi yena ngokwakhe. Kodwa umfazi cishe Lowaya ichaza kothile omunye unuka futhi kuthatha Barrack ukuzingela.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuba akudingekile ukuba ngakususi inketho emsebenzini womunye wakho abathandwa abasebenzi inequately isebenzisa amakha inuka ukuze wonke umnyango uyabuya ekhaya kusihlwa nodwendwe ezimangalisayo perfume French.
Kuyoba obukholisayo lokhu uyobheka kuphela uma umyeni wakho akusebenzi lenkampani luyingxenye wesilisa, lapho imimoya umane akekho.
Kanjani ukuze adalule?
Edalula umyeni engalungile iyona ingxenye kakhulu nzima kuzo zonke le ndaba. Qoqa mass agumenti singabi nalo ezinhle Eqinisweni olulodwa - izindlela ukuba collect lutho. Okufanele ukwenze uma zonke izimpawu engaqondile ukhombe lokuvukela umbuso, kodwa lutho ukufakazela? Yekela. Iseluleko sethu Kungase kubonakale kungavamile, kodwa izidingo wesifazane hhayi "uthole" futhi "Izingxabano" umlingani, kodwa ukudala ezolile kakhulu ngisho isizinda somkhaya ngokwengqondo. Uma kwakuba khona ingxoxo nomyeni wami nokuceba kwakhe kungenzeka, futhi waqiniseka ukuthi kwakungenjalo, sengathi amazwi akhe yaphoqa ngokuphelele kuwe, sicele intethelelo yakhe ngenxa yokuthi asola wona Ajulter futhi qedani ukungalokothi ukwenza ke Will not.
Emasontweni ambalwa ezolile futhi egcwele, ukuphila kulinganiswa, umyeni uphumule ngokuphelele. Futhi kwaba khona-ke ukuthi angazenza amaphutha Imininingwane eyokusiza uthole ulahlekile "puzzle Eqinisweni." Kuphela James Bond njalo ukwazi amanga hhayi bagwaze, futhi ngisho nangalesosikhathi kuphela ama-movie. Ekuphileni, scouts ngisho wazibonela ukwenza ageje ezimweni lapho ebonakalayo, ukuphepha eyayenziwe wadala. Lokhu ngokuphelele aziwa counterintelligence emazweni onke futhi ngenkuthalo ukusebenzisa indlela emsebenzini wethu ukuze abone izinhloli isitha.
Zonke imfihlo ngokushesha noma kamuva kuba sobala. Khumbula indaba yezingane ngalelo gama? Ngakho manje - isikhathi sika sikhumbule futhi balindele ezimpondweni yakho lapho ekhubazekile kungenziwa ezungezwe amanga.
Nquma ukuziphatha
isiqinisekiso bangempela be- kungenzeka ukungathembeki emshadweni ekuziphatheni kungenzeka, kodwa ngeke kuthathe isikhathi esithe xaxa. Waqala bayasala emsebenzini futhi ayithathi ifoni umakhalekhukhwini kusihlwa? Shayela lenombolo ukusebenza, cela ukumema ukuba ifoni, ungazise ukuthi kuyaphuthuma, kusukela efulethini yakho uzamcolo omakhelwane phezulu. Okokuqala, it kuzokuvumela ukuthola ukuthi indoda ithi ngempela, futhi okwesibili, kuyokunikeza isizathu sokucabanga ukuthi unakho phakathi nozakwabo. Uma umuntu azi ukuthi angakwenza lapho ngempela okwamanje, bazoxhumana kuye nokubika ubani endlini yakhe kukhona kwafika. Indoda wunduka nawe ukuxhumana yena. Khona sizokwazi ukuchaza ukuthi sengathi.
Hhayi-ke, uma ujwayelene nabangani bakhe, osebenza nabo. Yiqiniso, akudingeki ukuba ubacela ukuqondisa nemibuzo umbhedo. Ngisho noma azi ukuthi into, bayoba emangalisayo esingesihle futhi ukuthola iqiniso akunakwenzeka ukuba aphumelele. Kodwa ungakwazi zokuphola ukuthola uma umyeni has a semali umsebenzi ezengeziwe, ngenxa okuyinto wayevame waqala bayasala. Uma imbuka ajwayelekile awunalo wezingobe udala sakhe, bayoba ngesasasa elikhulu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe ngendlela efanayo njengakuqala.
Indoda, kuzo zonke izindlela ezingaba khona nsoma nonkosikazi wayo, ibhekisa ukukhathala, kufanele ithunyelwe ngokuqinile ku-Therapist ukuze uthole inhlolovo, ukuze uthole ama-pathologies okungenzeka. Kuyacaca ukuthi angakwazi ukumelana, ikakhulukazi kusukela ngempilo yebutho, konke kuyindlela engcono kakhulu. Qopha lapho ulandele ngokwakho, hambisana naye. Kwenze ngobumnene nangobuhle: Ukhathazekile ngempilo yakhe!
Ukwenqatshwa okunolaka kwesiphakamiso sakho, ukwenqaba kwesigaba kwenhlolovo - isizathu sokucabanga ngokungathi sína futhi siphakamise isihloko esingathandeki kumuntu oshade naye ngoba kungani kungekho ocansini. Amadoda amaningi angalungile, akhathele ngokungafanele ukubheka izaba, kungekudala avume ukuxoxa iqiniso.
Ungaphendukeli inhloli ye-amateur ukubheka futhi uthole ukuthi umyeni ushintsha yini. Abangewona abaphilayo, benovalo, benemibuthano ngaphansi kwamehlo nangama-shagy Champions, unomphela, unkosikazi onamafuleko uzokwethusa muntu. Ngenkathi udala "isicupho sokuphepha esibonakalayo", zinike isikhathi sakho: iya ku-hair Devidreser, zibeke ngokuhlelekile, qiniseka ukuthi ubonakala ngendlela efanelekile.
Uma ukugeleza kwezimpikiswano kanye namazwana ekhelini lakho kusuka engxenyeni yalo ngeke kunciphe uma kungahleki ukunganaki ubukhona bakho, kungenzeka ukuthi iphuzu akuyona into enikuwe lingerie noma ukuthi upendwe kanjani, okungukuthi upende kanjani, okungukuthi upende kanjani, okungukuthi upende kanjani, okungukuthi upende kanjani, okungukuthi upende kanjani, okungukuthi upende kanjani Okuningi akanasifiso sokuthi umuntu wesifazane, kodwa ukuqeda umshado, ngasizathu simbe akufuni ukuqaphela ukuthi bambalwa abantu abayayo ukuphula ubuhlobo nonkosikazi wakhe. Iningi labayeni abangalungile likhetha ukugcina umshado, futhi, ngokunembile, ukubonakala kwalo, kusukela kushukumisela, ingxenye yempahla, imali mboleko, izingane kanye nesidingo sokuchaza izihlobo azifakiwe ezinhlelweni zayo.
Indoda ethobisa umkayo, ngeke ikwazi ukufihla imfihlo yakhe kuze kube phakade. Kungenzeka ukukhomba nokuqaphela iqiniso noma kunjalo, noma ngabe owesilisa uyiqiniso lokuphika ngokwezigaba ze-ajulter.
Kukhombisa impela uphawu lokushintsha izimo zengqondo ezinganeni zazo: Amadoda amaningi azizwa enecala ngaphandle konkosikazi webhonasi, kodwa maqondana nezingane. Futhi lapha baqala ngaphandle kwesizathu sokuletha amaswidi namathoyizi, bathenge izipho ngaphandle kosuku lokuzalwa noma unyaka omusha kanjalo, ngezinsuku zesonto.
Sesha Ubufakazi
Ukuhamba ngokufuna ubufakazi bokubi koshade naye, kungakuhle ukuthi ukhokhele umbiko wokuthi i-DEORCECT esuka kule "ntaba" ingaba buhlungu kakhulu. Kepha ukukhuphula intaba, imvelaphi ayikaze ibone.
Ubufakazi bokuthi ungahlanganisa umphenyi wangasese. Lona umsebenzi wakhe, futhi yena akukubi hhayi okuhle. Imininingwane enjalo onguchwepheshe ngubani manje kakhulu kuwo wonke amadolobha, bengenamahloni hhayi scary. Uma ukukopela hhayi lenhloni, kungani kufanele sibe namahloni ngazo? Uma okukhethwa kukho esinjalo ephaketheni lakho futhi akusho kungqubuzana unembeza, kuyoba okungcono ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukubhala imigomo. Onguchwepheshe surveillance kuyinkosi, njengoba umthetho, isisebenzi wangaphambili kwezitho, ngokuvamile on impesheni. Anakho eziningi uxhumo "break ngokusebenzisa" inombolo yocingo yomuntu kwezinhloso zenzuzo, ukusungula uhlobo izincwadi, ukuthola indawo yakhe ngokuphazima kweso ethile, trace, nabo futhi uma ihlangabezana futhi ikunikeze nge umbiko ogcwele, asekelwe izithombe namavidiyo. Nge-agumenti esinjalo, esenzeka ngeke ukuphuma kuphi, ngeke bakwazi ongaphika nikela. Uma kokusa yangasese kuthola iqiniso lokuzama ukuvukela uMbuso, ke ngeke cishe babe namahloni kini. Indlela ukuphuma kulesi simo, kuyodingeka ukunquma ngokwehlukile.
Uma kungekho izimali ku umphenyi yangasese, ke owesifazane kungaba kwakuthiwa futhi yena. izinhlelo eziningi ziyosizwa kule: locators lolo sizo encane, iqiniso, ukucacisa indawo womshado. Uma uthi uhleli emsebenzini futhi compells umbiko bese ibizwa cishe ngokuhudula phezu ubusuku, kanye locator imibukiso ukuthi zokubhalisa nhlobo kwenye indawo yedolobha, umbhangqwana amahora ukushayela evela ehhovisi, kuyobe sekuba i-ubufakazi ngempela kwamanga. Kodwa-ke ngeshwa, hhayi kakhulu Empeleni umbuso. Phela, kuyenzeka ukuba indoda yenze ephuma kumngani edolobheni futhi nje ukuphuza utshwala in the okugeza ukuba ayithethelele ngaphambi hhayi ukubika izenzo zakhe.
Ungakwazi ukufaka video ukubhekwa ikamelo umshini yayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, uzodinga ikhamera encane ephathekayo ngokuhle amabhethri, okuzothumela isithombe smartphone noma ikhompyutha yakho. Ochwepheshe kumele ajube ithimba uhlelo, kodwa uma ufisa ukuqonda lokhu, owesifazane can futhi ngokuzimela. Izingxoxo zokulandela efulethini futhi okukhethwa kukho, ikakhulukazi uma owesifazane ngokuvamile kokuya izindaba. Ungakwazi belingisa uhambo ngomsebenzi, kokuba wamuka izinsukwana kumngani noma umama. Okufakiwe kusuka amakhamera ngalo umyeni akazi, kuzokusiza uqonde iqiniso, uma, yebo, yena uyokwenza unquma baletha kuye owesifazane efulethini yakho.
Ungakwazi ukulandelela umlingani emsebenzini futhi ngemva kwaso, uyifunde SMS futhi ubone izingcingo, bhala phansi amakamelo ukuthi ubiza ngokuvamile kakhulu futhi isheke lalabo wona angakaJehova, ngokwenze amakholi egameni Jeep noma Sobes kusukela yomunye inombolo yocingo ngaphansi ibhaxa lokubalwa kwabantu labantu noma Abanye esinye isizathu ngasizathu.
Isazi sengqondo somndeni esihlakaniphile futhi esinolwazi asisoze sangeluleka noma yini yezindlela ezingenhla zokukhipha ubufakazi bokungathembeki komyeni wakhe. Vele okungenani ngesizathu sokuthi bonke babhubhisayo. Babulala ukwethembana, ukuqonda, imizwa. Baguqula umfazi abe yisidalwa esimanzi, esinovalo futhi esicindezelayo, futhi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi "imidlalo yokuhlola" ingaholela ekuqhekekeni kwemizwa esindayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunobungozi bokubhekwa kanye nokuhlola okuzokwambulwa ngumlingani, bese ubudlelwano buye bame noma ngabe ukuvukela umbuso.
Iphinde iphinde yethembele uma kwenzeka kuyiphutha ekuziphatheni komlingani. Izindlela ezithembekile kunazo zonke zokufunda iqiniso zihlala zibuhlungu kakhulu. Le yihembe elibi kakhulu kwi-lipstick yomunye umuntu, into ekhohliwe yezingubo zangaphansi zekhabethe emotweni yekhabethe, oyitholayo, nokuhamba nomyeni wami ukuvakashela noma esitolo; Ekugcineni, ungayibona ngengqophamlando ngengozi yokuqabulana noma ukwamukela. Ngalezi zingxabano, futhi, kuzoba nzima ukuxabana, yize, umyeni ongalungile uzozama ukuchaza ubukhona babanye abantu ekhishini lapho nginikeza umngane kumngane wakho. Futhi i-lipstick - ukukhathazeka kozakwabo besifazane, okwabhekana nendlela, yakhubeka yawa, yawathinta ngokungafanele izindebe zayo.
Bona ukugcwala kwezimpawu. Uma cishe yonke into echazwe kule ndatshana, umyeni unayo, futhi izinsolo zinamandla ngosuku ngalunye, khona-ke la ma-panties noma izindebe zomunye umuntu zisenazo izinketho.
Ungaziphatha kanjani ngokulandelayo?
Alukho uchwepheshe emkhakheni wezengqondo wobudlelwano bomndeni uzokunikeza okulungile futhi kuphela izeluleko zelungelo lokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngemuva kokukhaphela kuqinisekiswa. Konke kuncike ekutheni uluhlobo luni lomuntu, liyini izinga lakho lesiko futhi liyamukeleke ekuziphatheni, kunemiphi imithwalo yokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okusondela kulesi sigaba sempilo yakho. Uma umshado sekuyisikhathi eside uqhekeke phezu kwemithungo, futhi kwaya ehlukanisweni, kungenzeka ukuthi lowo oshade naye azoba yindawo yokugcina emlandweni wakho wobudlelwano. Kubuhlungu ngokwengeziwe lapho owesifazane ekholelwa ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle, wabe esevula iqiniso elibi.
Kungakhathaleki ukuthi yini ohlela ukuyenza nalobu budlelwano futhi, udinga ukukhuluma nomyeni wakho, ubeke wonke amaphuzu ngaphezulu kwe-I. Zama ukusindisa isithunzi, ungahlathisi, ungafinyeleli izinsongo, umnyama, ungasebenzisi noma yini, ungadingi lutho futhi ungazibuthi ekuthomeni indoda. Vele uthole ukuthi yini ahlela ukuyenza ngokulandelayo. Ukuzibophezela kwalesi simo kulele ezimbili, kanye nesinqumo sokuthi ungaba kanjani ngemuva kokuvukela ukuvukela umbuso. Khumbula lokhu.
Ngemuva kokukhuluma kuwe, empeleni, hhayi izinketho eziningi zesenzo. Ungahlanganisa umyeni wami izinto futhi uzixoshe ngaphandle kwendlu, ungazishiya, ungahlala futhi uthule noma uthule noma uzwakala ngokufutheka, wasolana kuzo zonke izono. Ungathethelela le ndoda futhi ugcine umshado, futhi awukwazi ukuthethelela futhi ume naye noma yibaphi oxhumana nabo. Konke kuncike ekutheni iziguli futhi zinzima kangakanani ubudlelwano ngesikhathi sokuvukela umbuso, kanye nasezinhlelweni zendoda uqobo. Uma yena, ngaphansi kwengcindezi yamaqiniso, avuma i-ajulter, futhi athi uhlose ukushiya umndeni ukuze ayeke konke lokhu, ungabe usamlandela, noma ngabe ubhekene nobuhlungu kangakanani. Kunoma iyiphi intengo, gcina isithunzi somuntu siqu, ngoba amadoda empilweni angahluka, futhi ukuzethemba kungokwakho kuphela futhi unekhophi elilodwa.
Okubi kakhulu ukuthi lona wesifazane angenza, umyeni wakhe okhashekelayo ukuqala ukuziphindisela. Ukubika isenzo sakhe kuwo wonke umuntu azungeze, uthele udaka emehlweni abangane nezihlobo, ukuze uguqule ukuxoshwa emsebenzini, afake izicelo ezimbalwa enkantolo, zimsole ngokweba noma esonweni, ziyeke ukuklebhula imoto yakhe, thola ikheli le inkosikazi futhi umemezele lapho ngesandla. Musa ukuphuma ungene kuyo yonke ithuna uqobo, ngokuziphindisela kwemizwa engafanele. Akukho lutho lwalokhu oluzoletha impumuzo.
Kuyadingeka ukubona, thatha lesi simo, ukuqonda ukuthi impilo ayikapheli, kodwa futhi iyaqala, nakho konke okukhona kusengaphambili kuzoba ngcono impela kunalokho okukhona manje. Ngokuqwashisa ngalokhu, unganquma ukuthi uzophila kuphi futhi wenze konke okuhlehliswe umshado isikhathi eside: Iya kolwandle, ushintshe umsebenzi, isithombe, uqedele izifundo zabashayeli bezindiza noma izinduna zemikhumbi emincane, Eqa ngeParachute.
Ngenkathi usebenzisa yonke imibono yakho emide, naphezu kobuhlungu bangaphakathi nentukuthelo, isinqumo esifanele sizofika yedwa. Uzovuka uqonde ukuthi yini futhi ungayenza kanjani ngokulandelayo.
Ngezimpawu zokuvukela kwesilisa, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.