Ukuze bajwayelane nendoda ngobuhlobo obungathi sína - nansi enye yezinkinga ezinkulu zowesifazane wesimanje wesizungu. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukwazi izindawo lapho ungaya khona futhi uthole isiphetho sakho. Futhi akubalulekile ngokuphelele, ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30, ngemuva kweminyaka engama-40 noma ngemuva kweminyaka engama-50 ufuna ukujwayela umbhangqwana noma imithetho elula, uyakwazi lokho, kulula ukugwema amaphutha amaningi.
Owesifazane wanamuhla wendlela yokuphila kufanele azenele Kodwa-ke, umbuzo ozowubuza ukuthi uzohlangana kuphi nomuntu ojwayelekile, omuhle, oqinile, ugwema abesilisa obukhulu, obukhulu, buhlala buvulekile.
Ku-Intanethi
Okokuqala, awukwazi ukuya ndawo kuzo zonke - izinsiza ezibonakalayo ezenzelwe ngqo ukuqomisana zilula kakhulu futhi ziphumelela indlela yokuthola umbhangqwana. Siphila eminyakeni eyikhulu yokuxhumana nomphakathi kanye ne-Intanethi, ukuze sikulahle lokhu, kusho ukuqhekeka. Noma ungeyena umsebenzisi osebenzayo kakhulu wemithombo ye-Intanethi, kuyadingeka ukuzama. Ungakhohlwa into eyodwa: ngakolunye uhlangothi lwesikrini kungaba ngubani, futhi laba bantu abafanayo abasizungezile empilweni yangempela.
Ama-Knights, amaqhawe, izikhulu zitholakala lapho ngokuvamile lapho zihamba ngezinyawo esitolo esiseduze.
Kwi-Intanethi ngempela ukuze ujwayelane nendoda yombuthano ongazizwa ngayo. Kungaba ubuntu bokudala, isikhulu, usomabhizinisi, kepha ngempumelelo efanayo uzojwayelana nomfundi, umlahlisi noma uZhigalo. Ngendlela, uma ubheka indawo engafanele ye-Intanethi ukuze ujwayelane, qiniseka ukuthi ubeka engcupheni futhi wenze uhlu lwemibuzo esizeni sokuthandana. Kuluhlobo lokuxhumana olunjalo ezintweni eziningi luzokufundisa, luzoxwayisa kakhulu, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, luzokhulisa ukuzethemba. Abasebenzisi be-Intanethi esitezi esinamandla ngeke bavalwe ukuncoma, futhi uzozizwa kungekudala le ndlovukazi.
Futhi lapho amehlo akho ethatha amehlo akho, ukuzethemba kuzokwenyuka, umuzwa wokufunwa kwawo nakanjani uzophakamisa amasheya akho emehlweni amadoda angempela.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, kufakazelwe isikhathi eside - ngokushesha nje lapho uzithola ungumlandeli, omunye uvele ngokushesha.
Ukujwayelana empilweni yangempela
Imihlangano ebonakalayo ayidingi ukubukeka okuhle, uvumelane ngokuphephile kuma-pajama. Kulula ukuthumela fan wesithombe sakhe esenziwe ngumthwebuli wezithombe onguchwepheshe. Impilo yangempela ibeka imithetho yayo, lapha i-avatar enhle ngeke isize. Ngokuzithandela, njalo ekuseni ukwenza isitayela esiyinkimbinkimbi kanye nokulwa nombala, kepha owesifazane olungiselelwe kahle uhlala ekhiqiza umbono omuhle kakhulu kune-span.
Ngakho-ke, senza ngesikhathi se-manicure, izinwele zezinwele, ukubala, ukungakunaki ukwakheka kwansuku zonke.
Ngaphezu kokunakekelwa, kubalulekile ukudala kanye nesithombe esifanele. Okokuqala, khipha izingubo ongahambi, omncane noma omkhulu - uzozizwa ungakhululekile kuyo, futhi ngenxa yalokho uyazizwa ungakhululekile. Ngemuva kwalokho sisusa izingubo ezivusa inkanuko: izindwangu ezijulile, izindwangu ezisobala, uFrank Mini. Ngakho-ke uzokhiqiza umbono wokuthi ufinyelela, noma uhehe uhlobo olungalungile lwamadoda afuna. Awudingi ukushintsha isitayela sakho futhi uphinde uguqule, kepha indlela ebucayi ekhabethe lakho izokunikeza ithuba lokungabi nenhlamba, kepha ekhangayo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha izingubo ngohlobo lwesibalo, esifihla ukushiyeka futhi sigcizelele isithunzi. Musa ukugoba ngokuphakama kokuphakama, okokuqala, ama-studs ezintabeni zansuku zonke abukeka exakile, kanti okwesibili, akunangqondo. Ikakhulukazi ngokucophelela ngezithende, uma ukukhula kwakho kungaphezulu kwesilinganiso.
Ungawuthola kuphi?
Impilo yanamuhla ishesha kakhulu, kepha ungajwayelana nomuntu omuhle noma kuphi, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa imizamo ye-Titanic. Okokuqala, bheka uzungeze. Uma uthanda ukuzulazula amawashi wewashi, kungani ungakhiphi usizo kulo? Qondanisa uyothenga izindikimba zesilisa kuphela, ubheke amathayi namahembe, imoto noma igiya lokudoba.
Kepha ukuphambukiswa kwezingubo zangaphansi kungcono ukugwema, uzobheka lapho njengomfazi othengela amasokisi ambalwa.
Uma ubuza izeluleko zakho, qiniseka ukusiza, futhi unentshisekelo kuyindlela enhle yokubopha ukuxhumana. Buza uMkhandlu kanye nawe, uma umuntu ekuthanda, kungani ungacabangi ngobaba noma umphathi ndawonye. Ngaphezu kwezitolo zezingubo, ipulatifomu enkulu yokuhlangana nendoda evikelekile - izitolo ezizenzakalelayo kanye nezimoto ezithengiswayo. Lapho, ungabuza izeluleko ezingapheli, cela usizo ekukhetheni futhi ubukeke umuhle nowesifazane. Uma ungenayo imoto, ngitshele ukuthi uphupha ngokuthenga, kepha akekho noyedwa okufanele athathe izifundo zokushayela.
Amadoda athanda ukusindisa nokusiza, udinga nje ukubanikeza ithuba elinjalo. Lokhu kungenziwa kalula eminyangweni yezokwakha, ama-salon ama-computer, amaselula salon. Bheka izitolo ezinkulu, ikakhulukazi eminyangweni, lapho ukudla okuqediwe, imikhiqizo eqediwe notshwala. Kokugcina, ungabuza ngokuphepha uMkhandlu ngokukhetha i-whisky enhle njengesipho somfowethu.
Ukuthenga akuyona ukuphela kwethuba lokuhlangana nendoda yamaphupho akho. Ithuba elihle kakhulu linikeza imibukiso ekhethekile. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi i-van gogh izonikeza amathuba amahle, kodwa ekwakhiweni, kwikhompyutha, ezempi noma embukisweni wezimoto uzojwayelana ngaphandle kobunzima.
Izindawo zokudlela namakhekhe
Ngokuvamile, into efika kuqala engqondweni yakho uma kuphakama umbuzo kuphi hlangana - lena ukusungulwa iIgama. Yebo, ngempela kunjalo, it is ulula ukuba ahlanganyele kulo, futhi amathuba okuthi umhlangano nomuntu sina kukhona okusezingeni eliphezulu. Ungabeki amathemba amakhulu ngoba uphola kuma-nightclub, izitolo zokudlela nezindawo zokuphuza. Kodwa kwasemini ibhizinisi noma coffee shop ngeSonto suku ongakhetha kakhulu.
Into esemqoka ukunikeza indoda ukudla ngaphambi kokuqala ukuheha ukunakwa.
Emsebenzini
Ngale ndlela impikiswano kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma ngokuhlanganyela kuyinto zesifazane, futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi inkonzo amanoveli kuholele umphumela lesifanele. Futhi okwamanje iphesenti imishado ephethwe phakathi nozakwethu kuphezulu kakhulu. Phela, abantu ukuhlobanisa empambana izithakazelo zabo, ngaphezu, ukuvama emihlanganweni futhi ukukhulumisana ngokuvamile linikeza uzwela ukuthuthukiswa ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba sikuthathe ngokuphelele ukuthi lokhu kwenzeke.
Umdlalo
Yokubhalisa ejimini kuyinto isixazululo omuhle kakhulu wokuthola ukuphola. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyasiza kokubili izibalo, ezempilo kanye ukuzethemba. Uma ungaphenduki like simulators, ukuya pool, ziaqale epaki, uma uthanda ibhayisikili - ngesisekelo ngesithakazelo esinjalo kulula kakhulu uzithola umhambi esikanye. Uma isibalo singamaphesenti esihle, ehlobo ukuchitha isikhathi sasivumela eside ogwini, imidlalo kanye ibhola nokunye ukuzijabulisa kakhulu eduze abantu.
umsebenzi
Izinkomfa, trainings, izingqungquthela - izindawo lapho nje amadoda bayahamba, kodwa nabameli babo abafuna ukuthuthukisa. Ngesikhathi embukisweni photographer wendawo nakanjani ukuhlangabezana eziningi ozakwabo. endalini Accounting ikuvumela ukuba shí emkhathini amadoda okuqinile futhi ivikelwe.
Awudingi ukusebenzisa esehlakalweni eyodwa kuya kwenye, ichaze uhlobo amadoda abanesifiso a priori, futhi kukwenze kube kuwo.
Izincomo bengqondo
Ngeshwa, ngokusho izibalo, ngaphezu kwesigamu ukuphola kungukuthi ivela ngoba owesifazane baziphathe okungalungile. Kanjani hhayi ebangele lesi simo?
- Ningaphendukeli ibe hunter ne olokhu ebheka, bheka okuzingela, umgomo wakho kufanele yaziwe kuwe kuphela. Akunandaba ukuthi ukuphi, sengathi le ndawo umgomo wakho, kodwa hhayi isicupho indoda. Uma ngabe abanesifiso isithakazelo, liziphathe ngokwemvelo, ningajabuli asenzi dudula coldness. Ukuphathana kahle kanye nobungane kukhona abasizi engcono. Futhi akekho okudingeka indondo, okuyinto Ngivumelana ngeminithi lokuqala.
- Ngakho-ke, ukubaleka ngokuzithandela kakhulu cafe, lokhu ngomzuzu akuyona njalo indlela engcono kakhulu tie amaziyo eside. Kungcono exchange izingcingo bese bevumelana umhlangano ngolunye usuku. Uma ungazange ulinde ucingo, akufanele athole ecasukile, cishe, umuntu wayecabanga ukuthi ngeke uqhubeke ubungane ekuqaleni. Umuntu othakazelayo iyoletha njalo eyakhe.
- Noma ngabe unesibindi futhi usebenza kakhulu, akudingekile ukukhombisa ngentokozo ngosuku lokuqala, futhi ukukhathazeka ngokweqile kukhiqiza umbono ongemuhle. Akukho ukusabela ekuphenduleni - ungaqhubeki okucasulayo, akuyena umuntu wakho.
- Ungasheshi, nikeza umhlangano wokuhlakulela ekwajwayelana okuhle, futhi wazi okuthile ngokuzimela. Isidingo sowesilisa sokukubheka.
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