Ukuphazamiseka okucindezelayo ezinganeni akutholakali kaningi. Imvamisa kwenzeka njengokusabela kwesikhashana kwe-psyche yezingane esimweni esingesihle futhi kuyinto evamile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusiza ingane ngesikhathi esifanele. Ukudana kokudana kwaqala ebusheni kungangena kwifomu elingamahlalakhona.
Izimbangela
Izingane ezinempilo ngenxa yedivaysi ye-Psyche yezingane kanye nohlelo lwezinzwa ngokuvamile aluthambekele ekuboniseni ukuphazamiseka okuhlangene. Imvamisa ezinganeni kuze kube unyaka kathathu, ukucindezelwa kungukugibela. Kungahle kuhlotshaniswe nokunqotshwa kohlelo oluphakathi lwezinzwa. Isimo esicindezelwe enganeni sidlulile ngemuva kokudluliselwa ukutheleleka kwe-intrauterine, i-acioute hypoxia enqubweni yokuzalwa kwengane. Izifo ezithathelwanayo zohlobo lwe-meningitis zingathinta umsebenzi wobuchopho bengane. Ukuntuleka komoya-mpilo emjikelezweni wokujikeleza kwe-cerebral kuholela ekucindezelekeni kwe-cerebral.
Izinsana zangaphambi kwesikhathi, ama-introverts, izingane ezinezinkinga zokuthuthuka zentuthuko kanye nama-anomalies ahlukahlukene ama-CNS, kanye nobuntu obumangalisa nobungcweti bavezwa esimweni esicindezelayo. Isisekelo sokudangala kwezingane kuvame kakhulu ukusebenza ngokomzwelo.
Ekwindla nasebusika esimweni sengqondo sezingane, ukuntuleka kwelanga kuboniswa.
Eminyakeni yonyaka owodwa kuya kwenye iminyaka nesigamu, izingane, zixubha noMama, ziyathusa, zenqaba ukudla, zikhale. Ukuphazamiseka okusebenzayo okusebenzayo kwenzeka ezinganeni ezineminyaka engu-2-3 ubudala, kungakulungeli ukuvakashela enkulisa ngenxa yokuhlukaniswa okuphoqelelwe emndenini. Ingane ibhekene nokuphelelwa yithemba nokulangazelela.
Ezinye zezingane zinekhanda, zihlupheka ngenxa yokwaliwa komzimba nezifo zepheshana lesisu, indlala yegilo noma ukulimala kwengqondo. Noma yisiphi isifo singadala ukudangala. Umuzwa wokungabi namandla namandla phambi kwezingqinamba ezingenakuvinjwa, ukuwa kwezinkomba kanye nezinhloso nakho kufaka nomthelela ekubonakaleni ukugula. Imbangela yokudangala kwezingane ingahle ibe yimfihlo.
Ezinganeni zasenkulisa, ukuphazamiseka okucindezelayo kwenzeka ngenxa yokulawulwa kwabazali ngokweqile, ukugada ngokweqile noma ngenxa yokubonakaliswa kwesimo sengane. Uma i-Preschooler ingenakunakwa ngokwanele kweminyaka eminyaka engama-5-6, ulahlekelwa yintshisekelo ezenzakalweni ezenzeka futhi agelezele ekucindezelekeni ngezibonakaliso ezikhathazayo.
Kwesinye isikhathi ingane yengane ayikwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obujwayelekile nontanga noma uthisha, ngakho-ke ihlala ekucindezelekeni okungapheli. Eminyakeni engu-10 ubudala, ubuntu obucindezelayo bungathola amaphupho amabi, ukwesaba okulandelayo, izinkinga ekufundeni. Ukuzalwa komfowethu noma udadewethu kwesinye isikhathi kuvusa umhawu wezingane.
Isizathu sokuvela kokudangala kungaba amahlazo omndeni, udlame lwasekhaya, ulaka lwabathandekayo, isimo sengqondo esinzima. Indlu yengane ayikwazi ukuzizwa iphephile. Izijeziso ze-Boreal ngesikhathi sangempela sezwe lithinta kabi i-psyche yengane. Ivala futhi ingena ngokuphelele ezinzwaneni.
Cishe iminyaka eneminyaka engu-11-16 ubudala, izingane zijoyina i-Pub. Ukwenziwa kabusha komzimba kwe-hormonal kuholela entlevesheni ukuya engxenyeni ethile. Umfana uyahlupheka ngenxa yokungcoliswa kobusuku, intombazane kufanele ihambisane nomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini.
I-hormones engafanele ye-jumones ihola intsha eningi ibe nolaka.
Ukufika imfihlo kanye nobuntwana bentsha kuhlanganisa nokutholwa ngesikhathi sokuxineka okucindezelayo. Ukudana komoya kungaqeda ukuzibulala.
Izibonakaliso
Izingane zinzima ukuhlola imizwa yazo, ngakho-ke ngeke zikwazi ukuqonda, ikakhulukazi zidlulisela isimo sazo sengqondo kubazali. Abazali abanakayo bavame ukubona izimpawu ezifihliwe. Ukwanda kokukhathazeka, isimo esingesihle esibonakalayo, ukuncipha kokusebenza ngokomzimba nasekuhambeni, ukuhlukaniswa okuvilaphayo, ukuhlukunyezwa kokuhambisa ukuhlanganisa amasikhombisa ukwehluleka okungokomzwelo nangokomzimba emzimbeni wezingane, mayelana nokudangala okuvelayo. Imvamisa isimo esicindezelekile sengane sihambisana nokukhathazeka nokwesaba. Intombazane ecindezelayo iyeka ukuba nentshisekelo ngokubukeka kwakhe, yaphendukela esibukweni. Angahle abukeke.
Ezinganeni, iminyaka eyi-10-11 ubudala ulahlekelwe yikhono lokujabula emakilasini akhe awathandayo, umculo, izingubo ezintsha, izipho, iziphuzo, ukulinganiselwa okuhle. Abaphefumulelwe imihlangano nabangane nezihlobo eziseduze. Umuntu osemusha akahambi ukuze ahambe ngezinyawo, kuthatha ukutadisha, ukugwema ukubamba iqhaza emicimbini yomphakathi neyomndeni. Kunzima ukuthakazela okuthile.
Ababelethi kufanele banake kakhulu kusuka ebuntwaneni bakhe ezinganeni zabo ukuvimbela ukwakheka kokudangala. Ingane ngayinye ingumuntu ngamunye. Eminyakeni engu-3, le ngane ikhula kakhulu, i-psycho-monational sphere yakhe iyashintsha. Kuqala ukubona izinto ngendlela ehlukile, ngoba kukhombisa okuningi futhi kuthola izakhiwo ezintsha zezinto ezahlukahlukene.
Ukunwetshwa kwendawo yokuxhumana kunomthelela ekubumbeni amakhono okukhuluma kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwenkululeko. Kungaleso sikhathi abazali akufanele bazinaki noma yiziphi izinguquko ekuziphatheni nasezindleleni zezingane, ngoba zingakhombisa ukuthuthukiswa kokudangala kwezingane.
Izingane ezineminyaka emithathu ubudala zibona isimo esidabukisayo ngosizo lwezinto ezithile ezivamile zibonisa isimo sokugula.
-Valiwe
Ingane ayifuni ukuxhumana naleyo ezungezile. Ukhuluma kancane, ususa abazali bakhe ngenkathi bezama ukukhuluma naye. Noma yiziphi izenzo zengane azinikezwe. Uhlala eveza umbhikisho lapho abadala bezama ukuthatha okuthile ku-crumb. Ingane ivame ukuncenga noma ukuheha ithoyizi elisha, uswidi, ushokoledi. Esikhathini esiningi ingane ichitha yedwa, ifihla endaweni ethokomele.Ukuntuleka kwesifiso sokudla
Ingane yenqaba ngokucophelela ukudla. Akanandaba ngisho nezitsha ezithandwayo. Yenza ingane idle noma iphuze akunakwenzeka - ngokushesha iqala ukukhala. Ngasikhathi sinye, i-crumb ayizizwa indlala nokoma.
Ukuphazamiseka kokulala
Kusihlwa ingane ayikwazi ukulala isikhathi eside. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuqwasha ekuseni kuvuka sekwephuzile. Esezinhlelweni zokulala, ukusonteka nokufutheka kuyabonakala. Ngesikhathi sokulala, ingane ibubula njalo. I-Crook ibonakala ngokuqina, kepha hhayi i-plastiki. Le mininingwane idinga ukunakwa ngokukhethekile.Ukwesaba
Ukwesaba ubumnyama, isizungu, ukufa kwezingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka emithathu kuvame ukungathandeki. Ukubonakala kwezimpawu ezinjalo zamamvuthuluka kufanele kukwazise abazali, njengoba besayina ngokudangala okuqala.
Ukuhlaselwa kolaka
Isimo sengqondo esinolaka nesinonya amathoyizi nezilwane ezifuywayo kwesinye isikhathi kuvame ukuba uphawu lokuvezwa kokuphazamiseka kwendlela. Ingane enolaka idala ukulimaza amathoyizi, ibajezisa, izama ukudala ubuhlungu obucabangi.
Ukuhlela ngohlobo oluthile
Emsebenzini wanamuhla wezengqondo, ukuhambisana kokudala ukuhlukaniswa kokudangala kwezingane kuhle. Ngenkathi kufanele usebenzise izindlela ezihloselwe abantu abadala. Ochwepheshe bathambekele ekuhlukaniseni okungu-2: I-MKB-10 ne-DSM-III-R.
Ku-ICD-10, i-F-93 CIPHER eyengeziwe isetshenziselwa ukuqamba ukwephulwa ngokomzwelo ezinganeni. Kumephu yekhadi labantu abadala, kungenzeka ukuthola ama-CIPHERS akhombisa ukuthi ukuphazamiseka okucindezelayo esigulini kuyabonakala kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ngakho-ke, amacala e-episodic okudangala aphawulwa yi-cipher F-31, kanye ne-distimia - F-34.
Lokhu kuhlukaniswa kwamarekhodi ama-phobias ahlukahlukene ezinganeni, ukwesaba okuthe xaxa, umbango ongelona impilo ngokuzalwa komfowenu noma odade, izingxabano zokukhathazeka kanye nokuphazamiseka kokukhathazeka okuhambisana nokwahlukana. Ukuhlukaniswa kufaka ezinye ezinye (eziciniwe izingane) ukwephulwa ngokomzwelo, kufaka phakathi i-epiology engacacisiwe.
Ukuhlukaniswa kwe-DSM-III-R akusho ukuthi ukuhanjiswa kwesimo esicindezelayo ngeminyaka. Zonke izindlela ezifanayo zisetshenziselwa zonke.
- Ngokwezinga lokubonakaliswa, bahlukanisa ngokukhanya okulula, okulinganiselayo nokuqinile.
- Amafomu alula afaka uhlobo lwe-melanchoc, wethukile, u-Adamic kanye nohlu lokuphazamiseka kokudangala. I-single-ipochondria kanye nokudangala okune-delirium kanye nama-hallucinations kubalwa amafomu ayinkimbinkimbi.
- Izingane ezicindezelekile ze-EndoGenous zikhula ngokungemuva kwezifo ezibonakalayo, futhi izingane zesikole kanye nabantu abadala bangumphumela wokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Izifundazwe ezicindezelayo ezihlotshaniswa zihambisana nezici zangaphandle.
Ungasiza kanjani?
Abazali abangenayo imfundo ekhethekile ngeke bakwazi ukuletha ingane ngokuzimela ekucindezelekeni. Usizo lodokotela wezingane, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wezengqondo noma i-psychotherapist iyadingeka. Uchwepheshe uzotshela abazali ukuthi benzeni esimweni samanje. Izokwamukela indlela yokubuyisela isigaba sengqondo nangokomzwelo sengane. Uma kunesidingo, kuzoqokwa ukwelashwa ngemithi.
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukukhomba konke ukwesaba kwezingane. Ngemuva kwalokho udinga ukudala umkhathi ukhululekile futhi othokomele. Umndeni kufanele ube nesimo sezulu esihle nesizethembayo. Kuyadingeka ukuqeda zonke izinkathazo zomndeni. Ingane ibalulekile ukuzwa ukubaluleka kwayo.
Ukwakha isithombe somuntu oyinhloko emndenini kuyadingeka ngokuqapha, ukuhambisana nomqondo wenani lomuntu wezingane, ungalethi i-egoism.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusungula imodi efanele yosuku. Kuyasiza ukwahlukanisa isikhathi semidlalo nokuzilibazisa, ukulala nokuphaphama. Abazali kumele banikeze ingane ngokudla okugcwele. Izabelo ezilinganiselayo zibandakanya ukufakwa kwawo wonke amavithamini adingekayo kanye nezinto zokulandela umkhondo ekudleni kwengane. Ukudla okufanele kunomthelela ekuphakamiseni ithoni yempilo.
Noma iyiphi ingane isesidingo esikhulu sothando nobaba nobaba. Indoda encane encane idinga ukuvalwa komzali nokuqabulana. Ukuxabana komndeni kanye nokungavumelani kukamama nobaba kuthinta kabi i-psyche yengane. Uzwa i-alamu eyandayo. Lapho ephuma emndenini, omunye wabazali bakaCrahari uyaziwa ngomuzwa wesizungu.
Ingane kufanele ihlale ichaza izimbangela zezehlakalo. Xoxa kaningi nezingane zakho. Izingxoxo nabo zinomthelela ekutholeni amakhono okuveza amagama awo okukhombisa.
Ukwelashwa kokudangala kwezingane kuhlobene ngqo nokuqedwa kokwesaba kwezingane nokucabanga okungalungile. Buyisela ukwesekwa kwengqondo kwengane. Khombisa ukunakwa nozwela. Ukuze ulondoloze isizinda esifunekayo ngokomzwelo, okuvelayo okusha kufanele kungeze njalo enganeni. Ziphazamise kude nokuhlangenwe nakho okucela ikhaya, ukuya evakashele noma ekuhambeni emvelweni.
Ukwelashwa kokulwa nokubhukuda kusizwa kahle ekulweni nokudangala kwezingane. Bhala ingane engxenyeni yezemidlalo noma kumdanso. Musa ukubeka phezu kwawo ngezithiyo ezinkulu, wehlise izidingo zezidingo ukuze ugweme ukusebenza ngokweqile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ochwepheshe bancoma ukwenza i-massage yengane.
Umdwebo ohlanganyelwe ngopende noma ama-fature-faucers uholela ekwehleni kwe-alamu yengane. Ukuphuma ekucindezelekeni, kungahle kube nosizo lwezingoma ze-lullaby kamama, izinganekwane ezinhle nezinkondlo ezinhle zeRhythmic. Thola ithoyizi lakho elingagqokwa nawe. Kuzovumela ingane ukuba izwakale ekuqinisekeleni ezimweni ezivusa ukwesaba kwezingane.
