Izinqubo ezinozwela zitholwa emisebenzini yokuhlanza kwabantu esemncane. Izingane ziyakwazi ukuzwa okuhlangenwe nakho komunye umuntu futhi zimphendule.
Yini?
Amandla okuqonda imizwa nokuhlangenwe nakho komunye umuntu abizwa ngokuthi uzwela. Isimo singazibonakalisa ngesimo sozwela, uzwela nosizo. Uzwela ezinganeni lwakhiwa kwinqubo yokwazi izwe elizungezile, uqobo kanye nabanye abantu. Kwenzeka kakade ebuntwaneni. UKrocha ukumamatheka ngokuphendula ukumamatheka, abonakalise ukusabela ekukhaleni noma kubabisi bezinye izingane. Kuze kube yiminyaka eyi-10, umuntu uthola okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle, okuthintwa kakhulu ukuphendula kwawo ngokomzwelo.
- Isigaba sokuqala sokuthuthukiswa kwengane sibonakala ngokutholwa kwekhono lokuzwelana nozwela. UKrosh angazibona zisendaweni yabantu abaseduze.
- Isigaba sesibili sihlotshaniswa nokuqwashisa ngemizwa nemizwa yomuntu siqu. Lapho esesencane, ingane izwa umuzwa wobuhlungu ekwindla noma ekuphazamisekeni, lapho umama ehamba endaweni ethile, kepha akasakwazi ukuqonda imizwa yakhe futhi ngandlela-thile baziveze.
- Okokugcina, kwakhiwa ukuqwashisa ukuthi omunye ubuntu okusolakala ukuthi uzizwe. Ngalesi sikhathi, kunconywa ukuhlukanisa amacala ahlukile avele naphansi noma embiwa ezinganekwaneni ezinganekwaneni, izindaba, izinkondlo, amakhathuni. Kuyadingeka ukuxoxa ngezehlakalo, ababambiqhaza bakabazali noma umntwana uqobo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhahlela ukugxilisa ububele, ngaphandle kwalokho uzokhula ngumuntu onobugovu, oziphefumulayo. Ukuba khona kozwela lwezingane kuvumela ingane ukuthi ingene ngempumelelo eqenjini lontanga, sebenza eqenjini elifanayo futhi likhule ngokwengqondo. Umuntu onozwela uyakuqonda okwenzekayo nabanye okwamanje. Uma uhlobo oluthile lwengane lukhala noma lwesaba, khona-ke uzwela lufuna ukukuthola esimweni sakhe, bese lusiza ogulayo. Ukwakheka kokuzwela kuncike komuzwa otholwe ngabantu abadala ngamava, umnikelo ongokomzwelo wengane uqobo, kanye nasekufuneni kwawo.
Ukuhlangana kwesimo sezulu no-Emriparia kushiwo ikakhulukazi ebusheni. Ukuziphatha okunolaka kwentsha kuyabonakala ikakhulukazi kuma-Choleric naseMelancholics ngezinga eliphansi lokuzwela.
Ithonya Lemfundo
Ukuthuthukiswa kokuphendula ezinganeni ngqo kuncike ekufakweni okunozwela kwabazali. Isimo sengqondo emndenini sikhonjiswa emizweni yengane. Ukubonakaliswa kothando, umusa, ububele nothando akwanele ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wokuzwela. Ebudlelwaneni bomndeni, kuyadingeka ukukhombisa imodeli yokuvezwa enozwela. Ingane kumele ibone ukunakekelwa nokuzwela kumakhaya.Ukuntuleka kokuphendula ngokomoya ngokwanele komama noma ubaba kungabopha futhi kuvimbele ngisho nezinqubo ezisebenzayo zozwela. Abantu abadala kufanele banake izingane ngemizwa yabanye abantu. Esezinhlelweni zokuhlalisana kwabantu, kubazali abanikeza ingane imiyalo yokuqala enozwela imiyalo: "Kungani ucindezele umfana? Wena ngokwakho ulimele lapho wawa! Xolisa umfana. "
Ungayinquma kanjani lelo zinga?
Kunamasu ahlukahlukene ukukhomba izinga lokwakhiwa kozwela ezinganeni. Kwabasenkulisa, ochwepheshe benziwe ngu-G. A. Uruntaev no-APhonkina bayasetshenziswa. Enye yamasu abo isho ukukhiqizwa kabusha kwezigcawu zendaba. Okokuqala, izingane kufanele ziveze izimo ezihlukile. Ngemuva kwalokho bavotelwe ukuthi uzizwa nje yiqhawe lale ndaba. Esigabeni sesibili, ababambiqhaza bakhombisa imizwa ehlukahlukene. Uchwepheshe ucubungula imiphumela etholakele, ukuthola izinga lokwakhiwa kozwela kwengane ngayinye.
Ukuxilongwa kwezingane zesikole ezisencane kwenziwa ngosizo lwe-N. E. Izindlela, i-prass yohlobo "lapho umuntu ecasulwa ebusweni bami, ngi ..." noma "ungabiza umuntu ...". Isikole esinomqondo ongalungile wekhwalithi enobuntu, uthola amaphuzu 1. Ingane enokuqonda okungaphelele ihola amaphuzu ama-2. Izingane ezinomqondo ocacile nocacile womqondo zinikezwa amaphuzu ama-3.
Ukuhlonza izinga lokuphendula kwengqondo kwentsha, imibuzo edinga izimpendulo ezithembekile ziyasetshenziswa. Amasu okubonisa Mina. Yusupova, V. Boyko athandwa.
Ungakuhlakulela Kanjani?
Ukuze kwakhiwe umuzwa onozwela, ososayensi bezengqondo bakweluleka ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo ezahlukahlukene. Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila komuntu, umsebenzi owusizo ngumdlalo wokucasha nokufuna. I-Kroch ihlala ithola imizwa ekhanyayo lapho kubona ubuso obungazelelwe bomzali ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile ngemuva kokunyamalala. Umdlalo ku- "Ku-ku" usiza ingane ukuthi ibone ukuthi nakanjani abazali bayovela ngesikhathi esifanele. Kusukela ngonyaka kuya kweminyaka emi-3, kunconyelwa ukuvumela ingane ukuthola ithoyizi elahlekile. Ngasikhathi sinye, kufanele kunikezwe amathiphu athile: "Cishe, ibhere lakho le-teddy lihleli ngaphansi kombhede noma ngaphansi kwetafula, kepha alikwazi ukuthola umgwaqo ukusuka lapho." Lapho-ke ingane igxile ukunaka kwayo hhayi kuphela emizweni yayo, kodwa futhi nokusiza abantu abadala, ngaphansi kokuholwa ukuthi abhekana nalo ngokungathembeki ezweni langaphandle.
Kwakheka ezifuywayo zasenkulisa, ukuphendula kungalungiswa ukusungula ukuxhumana nabamele abakwaFauna. Izilwane ezifuywayo zisiza ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wokuzibophezela nozwela oluvela enganeni. Kusukela eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, ingane iyakwazi ukumamatheka ngezindlela ezihlukile. Ngosizo lokumamatheka, udinga ukukhombisa injabulo emhlanganweni womngane, ukuveza ukusekelwa komngane osekuyene enkingeni, uzwelana nomuntu ogulayo. Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bancoma ukwenza ukubingelela kwasekuqaleni. Isibonelo, kunikezwa ingane lapho uhlangana nomama ukuze umama ukuze aqabule esihlathini, nobaba - anikine isandla, nomfowethu - ukuze alahlekelwe yikhamera yakho. Abangani bangaba nokuhaha ngokusebenzisa isenzo "vumela amahlanu" noma aqabule umoya. Ezinganeni zobudala basenkulisa, kubalulekile ukufunda izinganekwane ezigcwele ngemizwa ehlukahlukene, xoxa ngezici kanye nomlingiswa wamaqhawe. Kuyadingeka kanye nengane ukuthola okushiwo yinganekwane futhi kwafinyelela esiphethweni esithile. Hlala ngenkathi ufunda, cela imibuzo enjengokuthi "I-Ivanunushka iyathuka, okubizwa ngokuthi yisiwula?" Noma "Imiphi imizwa evivinywa nguCinderella lapho esusa i-croup?"
Ukuzivocavoca "Nikeza igama lothando" kuphakamisa ukuncoma ukuncoma ukusho ibinzana elimnandi ku-interlocutor. Ngalo msebenzi, izingane zifunda ukukhombisa ukuphendula futhi zikwethule njengesipho kubantu. Tshela ingane ngezingane ezishiywe ngaphandle kwabazali. Ngokubambisana baqoqe iphasela labafundi bekhaya lezintandane. Ukuthuthukiswa kokuzwela entsheni okwenzeka ngobudlelwano obuqotho nabazali. Uma lokhu kuxhumana kuphukile, lesi simo sibangela kabi ukwakheka ngokomoya komuntu.
Intsha ingafundiswa umuzwa wokuzwela nokuqonda izwe elingokomoya lomunye umuntu ngosizo lokuthembana nokuxhumana nonobungane naye. Kulokhu, kuyenzeka ukwakha isisekelo esiqinile sokutholakala koMpumalanga Wokuphila kwakho yonke.
