Umhawu umuzwa omubi. Kepha ezimweni ezinzima, kungaba usizo ngisho. Isibonelo, lapho ubudlelwane bupholile noma ngokuvamile akucaci ukuthi kwenzekani phakathi kwabantu ababili nokuthi bangobani omunye komunye.
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Entombazaneni yamanje
Uma uhlangana isikhathi eside kakhulu, khona-ke ungabona ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi wamunca indlela yokubhukuda. Akusekho owanele owake waya e-Azart, umzwelo wokuzingela wokuzingela wanyamalala endaweni ethile, futhi wathathelwa indawo ngochungechunge nokuphila okuyisidina. Noma, intokazi yakho isuka emvelweni umuntu onomlingiswa we-phlegmatic, futhi uheha isivunguvungu, umbani namanye ama-cataclysms emvelo. Kulokhu, umhawu ngukukhanya kakhulu okungazisola nge-bonfire yakho yothando futhi. Into esemqoka akuwona ngokweqile, ngaphandle kwalokho uyazibeka engcupheni yodwa.
Ukwenza intombazane ibe nomona, isidingo, empeleni, into yomhawu. Okuhle kunakho konke, uma imbangi iyinganekwane, ngoba akufanele ubeke esikhundleni abanye abantu. Wozani nixoxele indaba yomhlangano ebhasini lapho umuntu ongumfokazi ebheke wena, ethatha imininingwane yokubukeka kwakhe edonsela ukunaka kwakho futhi, kunjalo, ukuthandwa ngempela. Woza nanoma iyiphi indaba lapho omunye umfazi akubeka khona iso.
Uma umcabango wakho ukhungathekiswa, bese usitshela ngomuntu wangempela, ngokwesibonelo, umlando wozakwethu kusuka emsebenzini, okuwukuhlakanipha, noma okuhle, noma ukhuphuka nokuthile okwakho. Akufanele unikeze umuntu okhethiwe nazo zonke izimfanelo zowesifazane ophelele. Okokuqala, intombazane yakho izoba nombuzo wokuthi kungani usenaye, futhi ungagijimeli ukunqoba okuhle kwakho. Okwesibili, awufuni ukuthi othandekayo wakho abe nomuzwa wokuthi akwanele kuwe. Kungadala izakhiwo eziningi - ungabulali ukuzithemba kothandekayo.
Cela umuntu ukuthi akubize futhi akhulume imizuzu embalwa. Ngesikhathi sengxoxo, zihole ukuze nentombazane yakho iqonde ukuthi enye ibizwa ngokuthi. Noma ungaya kwelinye igumbi, ubuye elungiselelweni elihle lomoya, ngokumamatheka namehlo akhanyayo. Kepha ungakhohlwa ukusula ilogi lezingcingo, ngoba uma uzoba sezulwini lesikhombisa enjabulweni ngemuva kocingo "uLehi ovela esitolo sokulungisa izimoto", kuzodala eminye imibuzo.
KUBALULEKILE: Uma uhhafu wakho wesibili ungaphandle kwalowo onomona, bese ulungele ihlazo elincane.
Inketho yabafana abayingozi ikakhulukazi: zama ukusikisela intombazane uqhubeka kolunye uye endaweni yokudlela noma kwi-Opera (noma kuphi). Inketho ethambile ukubiza igama elihlanganyelwe nomunye umuntu wesifazane umhlangano webhizinisi noma umhlangano emsebenzini, njengoba kwenzeka ngempela empilweni.
Kukhona nezinketho eziqinile, ngokwesibonelo, ukuzoqhamuka emsebenzini kungakanani okujwayelekile noma ukubeka amaphasiwedi kuzo zonke izingcingo nama-laptops, kepha kuzoncibilikisa kakhulu ukwethembana phakathi kwakho, nokuzethemba ebudlelwaneni kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Isinyathelo esihle esilandelayo ukuya kwenye indawo yinkampani enkulu lapho kukhona amantombazane amahhala. Naka ukunaka, kepha unganqamuki imingcele evunyelwe, ukuze ungafaki umngane wakho endaweni enzima. Vele ungitshele umbhangqwana - phezulu kwezincomo, lalelisisa, ukhokhele konke ukunakwa kwengxenye yensikazi. Musa ukukhetha umgomo othile, yiba yinhlewo wonke umuntu. Ngemuva kwalokho intombi yakho izoqonda ukuthi ungaba kanjani kuhle kanjani.
Inketho ekahle ngengozi evulekile futhi ikhombise ukubizwa kwezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuxhumana nomphakathi nenye intombazane. Abantu abaningi babhala amakhasi angembukwane, ngakho-ke ungaphuthelwa ithuba lakho lokunikeza ukuqonda intokazi yakho ukuthi uthandeka kakhulu kwabanye besifazane. Uma ngisho nezimpondo zingabhali, leli khasi lingadalwa, licashe ngakolunye uhlangothi lwesikrini intombi yakho noma ngokwakho.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi wena kuphela owazi umlingiswa wengxenye yakho yesibili futhi wazi ukuthi ngabe ukulungele ukubulala kusuka kufoni eyodwa noma ngomoya ophansi kuvumela i-sauna nomuntu ofunda naye. Ngakho-ke kunqunywa ngesilinganiso sokuvezwa kanye nonya lwezindlela.
Akufanele uzame ukudala umhawu entombazaneni enenhloso futhi eyanele - angacabanga kakhulu ngalokho umuntu angalethi into ethokozisayo, kodwa ukungabaza kanye nemizwa engemihle. Ngowesifazane onjalo, kulula kakhulu ukuhlala phansi bese uxoxa ngesimo samanje.
Entombazaneni yangaphambili
Uma wena nentombi yakho yakudala ninemibuthano evamile yokuvezwa noma ukuhlangana ngezikhathi ezithile, khona-ke okokuqala udinga ukuxhumana nokuthandana namehlo akhe ngakolunye. Uma konke kuhamba kude, khona-ke ungaqala ubuhlobo nale ntombazane, futhi, imininingwane yakamuva ku-ex yakho. Vele ungakhohlwa ukuvimba intokazi entsha ngezinhloso zakho.
Ungaphuthumi ukususa inani lentshiseko yangaphambili futhi uyivimbe - ungayivimba "iphutha" ukuthumela umyalezo omuhle, bese kuthi ngemuva kwenani lesikhathi (ngemuva kwemizuzu ethile emihlanu-nesikhombisa), thumela okwesibili bese uxolisa ngokucasulayo ukungaqondi.
Omunye umsizi kuleli bhizinisi ukuxhumana nomphakathi. Yebo, amanye amantombazane athanda ukuphequlula amakhasi wabafana bawo bangaphambili futhi afune izibonakaliso ezikhomba ukuthi uyahlupheka kanjani. Songa lesi simo emseni wakho - injabulo eyengeziwe, okuthunyelwe okujabulisayo ngemizwa emisha nezithombe namanye amantombazane.
Manje mayelana nokuthi kungani kungafanele uvimbele wonke amakhasi entombi yakho yakudala. Uma ulungiselelwe ukuthola unesikhwele, xhumana naye ngeseluleko, ngokwesibonelo, ungabuza ukuthi yisiphi isipho sokunikeza isithandwa esisha. Zama ukugcwalisa umyalezo wakho kumusa maqondana nowesifazane omusha.
Yazi: Uma wehlukana ngoba intombazane ilahlekelwe yintshisekelo kuwe, lezi zindlela zingahle zingasebenzi. Angakujabulela ngisho nawe. Kulokhu, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngesizathu sokupholisa izinzwa futhi ucabange, futhi mhlawumbe inkinga ikuwe?
Ebangeni
Kwenzeka ukuthi ukuxhumana kwakho kungokwe-Intanethi kanye nezingcingo zocingo kuphela. Akukho lutho olubi uma uswele ukukhanya komhawu, khona-ke lokhu kwanele, ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni kude.
Ingasebenza izindlela ezifanayo njengasebudlelwaneni obujwayelekile: I-pair of izincomo nenye intombazane evelele ukuncoma kwakho, isikhathi esichithwa enkampanini yabanye besifazane (nezithombe!). Ngasikhathi sinye, akudingekile ukuba khona kwangempela kokubabaza noma umhlangano womhlangano - Mane nje usho lokhu kwizincwadi. Okunye kuzokwenza umbono wengxenye yesibili yakho yesibili.
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi yinto enamandla kakhulu. Dala ikhasi lobuhle obungaziwa, engeza kubangani bakho ngokwakho bese ushiya amazwana athambile athambile futhi uthanda ekhasini lakho. Umsebenzi onjalo ngeke uhlale unganakwa. Uma ufisa, ungangena esikhundleni sekhasi eliyimbubhi, kepha ukwenze ngengozi yakho.
Ungathumela isithombe sanoma iyiphi intombazane, hlola idatha yaso yangaphandle noma umhlaba wangaphakathi ocebile, futhi ekugcineni ukusho ukuthi lo uzakwethu omusha. Inketho yokuqhubeka - lalela isithombe lapho ukhona ngale ntombazane. Yebo, uma kungasebenzi nalokhu, khona-ke kusuka komunye.
Uma intombi yakho isetshenziselwa kuwe ivela emsebenzini ngakusikhombisa kusihlwa, futhi ngehora lesishiyagalombili ihlale phansi kukhompyutha yakho futhi ithumele izinhliziyo zayo - shintsha amacebo bese uzama ukubhala kamuva. Ukulibaziseka kwakho okungalindelekile kuzokwenza ukuthi intokazi yenhliziyo ikuphathe kahle, kepha yeka ukuthi umuntu ophilayo uyathakazelisa kanjani futhi ngaphandle kwawo. Inani lakho nokubaluleka kwakho kuzokhula kuphela.
Engeza izintokazi ezimbalwa ezintsha kubangani, ngasikhathi sinye upende ukuthi abhale enye yazo, kodwa ungacaci ukuthi ngubani ngempela, uphenyo oluncane lokuthola imbangi yenza izimbangi zakho zithanda amandla abo nobuthakathaka bazo, futhi uma Ukuphela kokuhlolwa uzokutshela isigamu sesibili, okumangazayo nokuthi umthanda kangakanani, khona-ke impendulo evumayo izoba namandla kakhulu.
Zonke izeluleko zobudlelwano obujwayelekile zisebenzela ubudlelwano bezincwadi. Into esemqoka ukufaka ama-fantasy futhi ungahlehli.
Ube nomuntu othanda
Kulokhu, umhawu akuyona indlela eyisimangaliso futhi ungasebenza kuphela uma nje intombazane ifihla imizwa yayo ngawe, noma ngokwakhe ayibazi. Uma uke wazama konke (futhi ngisho nomhawu), futhi awuzange unake kakhulu kuwe, bese uyazamukela - awuyithandi le ntombazane, futhi into enhle ongayenza ukuhlonipha ukukhetha kwakhe nokuyeka ukushushiswa.
Dumisa enye intombazane, ikakhulukazi uma into ye-rebebent isetshenziselwa izincomo zakho kuphela ekhelini lakho. Kuzoba khona kungazelelwe, futhi uma intombazane inozwela okungenani, ngokuqinisekile izoba nentshisekelo kwenye intombazane nokuthi ungumuntu onjani.
Hlanganani endaweni enabantu abaningi bese uqala ukunakekela amanye amantombazane. Le nto ebonakala imsulwa iyakwazi ukwembula imizwa yangempela ngokushesha okukhulu. Futhi, lonke izeluleko zisebenza lapha, kube sengathi usebudlelwaneni - kuphela uvunyelwe kakhulu lapho uthandana nothando futhi ukhulumisana nabanye.
Yehlisa inani lokuxhumana. Yonke imibuzo iyajaha noma iphendula kumacebo azokwenza afune ukuthi unesikhathi esincane ngenxa yokuthi kuthatha enye intombazane. Noma ulinde izinsuku ezimbalwa futhi ungaphenduli izingcingo. Ngemuva kokubuya okuyisisekelo, ukuxhumana futhi ngamacebo, kukhomba ezinsukwini ezigcwele zothando ngakolunye. Futhi ukuntuleka okunjalo - intokazi yakho engaba khona iza inesithukuthezi futhi iyaqonda ukuthi akwanele kuye.
Uma isithandwa sakho futhi singumngane wakho, bese sizama ukukhombisa ukuxhumana nenye intombazane, cela uMkhandlu, usitshele ngalokho esikutholayo ngomunye umuntu ajabulele umngane.
Amandla okulahlekelwa umuntu onozwela azokwenza intombazane iveze isimo sangempela ngawe ngakuso. Ngokuzelelwe kwawonakalisa imizwa (eyasiwohloka ngemuva kwezinhlelo zakho), ukudabuka - lezi yizibonakaliso ezikhomba imizwa eyiqiniso. Noma zama ukuhlola intombazane entsha ngokunobungane futhi wabelane ngemibono yakho.
Ungayenza kanjani umhawu intombi yakho, bheka ividiyo elandelayo.