Yonke imihla sijongana nomntu owahlukileyo. Ezothutho, emsebenzini, esitolo, kwindlela egodukayo Sidibana nabantu abaninzi bekhawuleza kwimicimbi yabo. Ukuthotyelwa kwemigaqo yokuziphatha kuyathintela iimeko ezimbi amaNgqina anamaNgqina awo ngamanye amaxesha. Akukho kungangqinelani kwezothutho okanye iingxabano ezivenkileni. Umntu owakhulisa umntu uyazi indlela yokuba uziphathe ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziphepha.
Kutheni ufuna imithetho?
Kwasekuqaleni kobuntwana, abantwana bathi indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo. Ukusukela kwiintsuku zokuqala, abantu abadala kufuneka bancede umntwana abe ngumntu ongumntu ngokwenkcubeko, akwazi ukunxulumana nabanye abantwana kwikhaya leenkedama nasezikolweni. Ikhulile, wonke umntu kufuneka azikhumbule le mithetho kwaye aziwenze. Ezo zinto Imigangatho ekhoyo ukunceda nawuphi na umntu ukuthintela iimeko ezihlazo abangazange bayipholise imvakalelo, kodwa bashiye umbono ongathandekiyo ixesha elide. Ukusuka ekubeni umntu aphuma kwimeko engathandekiyo ixhomekeke, kangangoko aqhelene nengcinga enjalo njengokuthi ittiquette.
Kuxhomekeka ngokuchaneka kwezenzo zethu, njengoko bebona abantu abangqongileyo. Uluntu luqala ukuvavanya umntu kunye nezenzo zakhe zonke.
Ukuziphatha ngendlela efanelekileyo kuya kunceda ukuseka unxibelelwano nabantu abaqhelileyo, kufezekisa ukuqonda okuthe kratya ukuze kubekho intsebenziswano.
Injongo yemithetho yokuziphatha kukwenza imeko ekhululekileyo ilungu ngalinye loluntu, alivumeli uburharha, uburharha, ukungahloniphi ubuntu bakho. Kumntu ngamnye, ukusuka kubuchule bakhe bokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo kwaye wenze imilinganiselo eyamkelekileyo ngokubanzi, kuxhomekeke kuluntu esidala ngalo.
Nangona sivela ebusaneni I-Ethics luhlobo lokuziphatha kwireferensi, inkqubo yeMithetho yamkelwe eluntwini.
Ezona zinto zibalulekileyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla kufuneka: cwalisa imbeko, ububele kwabanye kunye nokuhoya kubo.
Imigaqo yokuziphatha kwabantwana
Umntwana osuka ekhaya ujongene nenani elincinci labantu - aba bazali nezihlobo, oogqirha, abamelwane. Ukufumana kwi-Kindergarten, uziva engakhuselekanga ukuba abazali basilela ukubethelela imithetho yokuziphatha okuhle ukuze baqwalaselwe kumaso anjalo.
Umntu ngamnye kwindawo entsha uziva engakhuselekanga, kwaye umntwana unemeko enjalo inokubangela uxinzelelo. Ngokuthe ngcembe ufundisa umntwana kwinani elikhulu labantu, xelela ngemithetho yokuziphatha. Cacisa ukuba zeziphi izinto ezingamkelekanga zabantwana.
Kunkulu, umntwana uza kuba nemithetho ethile kwimpahla, bayazi kwaye bazame ukwenza.
Sihlala sisesitratweni okanye esitolo esibona ukuba umntwana uqalisa njani imbi, elungiselela i-hysterics. Abantwana abancinci banika ithoyi kunye neelekese ezivela kubazali. Ngokuphathelele abakwishumi elivisayo, banokukukhala, ukufunga, ukutshaya, baziphathe ngokungafanelekanga. Ukuziphatha okunjalo akufuneki kungamkelekanga abantwana.
Uninzi lwabo lwazi ukuba kukho imilinganiselo ekufuneka ilandelelwe, kodwa ayizizo zonke ezo zinto zenziwa. Ulutsha kufuneka luqonde ukuba abazali banokubohlwaya bengahambelani. Ukususela kwiminyaka eli-14, bona baya kukwazi ukuphendula kukwaphula uxolo.
Izakhono zenkcubeko masibe sisiseko sobomi, kuba umntu okhuliswe kakuhle kulula ukumisela ubudlelwane kunye nobomi obufutshane
Kukho imigaqo ethile ekufuneka ilandelwe ngu:
- Akucetyiswa ukukhwaza ngokuvakalayo kwindawo yoluntu.
- Akunakwenzeka ukuphosa inkunkuma kwi-Urns, ungakhathali, phula imithi kunye netyhefu.
- Kuyimfuneko ukulandela imigaqo yendlela, hamba ngendlela kwimema.
- Awungekhe wenze isenzo esibi, kuya kufuneka ubalumkise kubahlobo babo.
- Abantwana akufuneki bahlekise kwaye bahlekise abanye abantu, kunye nokuthuka, ukonakalisa ipropathi okanye impahla yoontanga.
- Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhubekise incinci.
- Kuyimfuneko ukuhlonipha abalupheleyo.
Ezi ziimfuno ezisisiseko zabafundi. Abantwana besikolo bayazi ukuba abavumelekanga:
- Ukusela isiselo esinxilisayo.
- Dlala ukungcakaza.
- Ukufunga ngamagama athambileyo.
- Khwela kwizinganga, eluphahleni.
- Yenza iintshukumo ze-hooligan, umzekelo, ukrokrela ngamatye.
Ukugweba ngokwenyani yokuba ezo zinto zinokufunyanwa rhoqo, aba bantwana babengafundisi aba bantwana indlela yokuziphatha kwindawo yoluntu.
Abantu abadala banyanzelekile ukuba baqeqeshe umntwana, indlela yokwenza izinto kwiindawo apho baninzi abantu ukuze bangaphazamisi. Kuyimfuneko ukunika uqonde umntwana ukuba abantu abakhubeki bamemeza kwaye bengxolo, baphose ipipi phantsi, impempe kunye nokutshiza.
Xa umntwana engena kwindawo entsha, kufuneka aqonde indlela yokuziphatha kakuhle kwaye ndingenza ntoni. Umzekelo, xelela umntwana ukuba kwi-zoo awungekhe ugxeke izilwanyana, ukuqhuma ngamatye, nyuka kwi-high, hlula kakhulu kwaye uphume kakhulu. Ke, undwendwe lwasemncinci alusoyiki nje izilwanyana, kodwa ziya kubathintela abo babeze kwi-zoo, kwaye baya kuveza ingozi.
Ukutyelela kwisekethe okanye imovie, umntwana kufuneka athobele imbeko efanelekileyo. Chaza ukuba kutheni xa usentsebenzo ungayityi, ngelixa i-popcorn iziswa kwisekethe ngeziselo. Ukutyelela imyuziyam, abantwana kufuneka baphulaphule ngononophelo, obuxela isikhokelo, kwaye singasuki kwimiboniso kunye nefestile yevenkile.
Ngakumbi imfuneko ukutsala umdla wabantwana ekuziphatheni kwabo kwezothutho. Chazela umntwana ukuba:
- Abafazi kunye nabantu abadala bangena eyokuqala, emva koko bafika abantwana.
- Ukudlula kwikhabhathi, i-elbows kufuneka icinezelwe, awunakukhuphela abakhweli kunye nabo.
- Kuya kufuneka uhlawulele ukuhamba ngexesha.
- Umculo omkhulu uyaphazamisa, ngoko ke ufihla okanye ucinyiwe.
- Awunakho ukwenza imibhalo yezihlalo, uqhekeze ipropathi, ilahle inkunkuma.
- Akunakwenzeka ukwenza ingxolo, khwaza, kunye nokuphazamisa umqhubi ngelixa traffic
- Ukuba umntwana akazange atye inja eshushu ethengisiweyo okanye ipayi, kufuneka ifakwe kwiphakheji kwaye itye emva kokuba abakhweli. Sebenzisa i-napkins ngelixa usitya, utye ngokucocekileyo, hayi i-chalk.
- Umntwana kufuneka ahlale ene-harkechief naye kwaye ayisebenzise njengoko kufuneka. Ukutsiba okanye ukukhohlela, kuya kufuneka uvale umlomo wakho, sebenzisa i-napkins okanye isikhafu.
- Chaza kwakhona ukuba umntwana ufuna ukulandela inkangeleko yakho kwaye xa uphuma esitratweni, ucocekile kwaye ucocekile, wacocwa.
Kwasekuqaleni kobuntwana, abantwana baqala ukuqeqesha ngembeko. Umzekelo wakho wemihla ngemihla ulungele oluqeqesho olunjalo. Ungalibali ukubiza amagama ahlonitshwa ekhaya, xa abazali okanye izihlobo bahlala besebenzisa amagama athi "enkosi", "nceda", "Nceda", "Kumnandi" ubusuku " Ukuzibiza kwaye ufunde kuqala imigaqo yentlonelo.
Ungalibali ukufundisa uMntwana obalulekileyo wokuziphatha:
- Ukuvula iingcango, kufuneka unkqonkqoze.
- Ungaphazamisi incoko yabadala.
- Sukungahoyi, shiya okanye ujike.
Umntwana kufuneka abenze indlela yokuziphatha kwenkcubeko etafileni. Abantwana bakopa abazali babo. Ukuba kubantu abadala bentsapho abasoloko beziphatha ngokuchanekileyo, amakhaya amancinci aqala ukuphinda izenzo zabo. Thatha umntwana, njengoko kufuneka uziphathe etafileni kwaye undixelele ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ngexesha lesidlo.
Kuba umntwana ukuba acace gca (kwaye umphumo), uxhonywa ngomfanekiso wetafile enomfanekiso, njengoko kufuneka utye, ongenakwenziwa. Ke, kwimidlalo iya kuba lula ukufundisa umntwana enemithetho ebalulekileyo yokuziphatha kunye ne-etiquette etafileni.
Umntwana kufuneka ayazi loo nto:
- Ngaphambi kokutya, kufuneka uhlambe izandla zakho ngesepha.
- Kuya kufuneka ukuba ube nakho ukusula ngephepha le-napkins.
- Kufuneka uthathe isixa esaneleyo sokutya.
- Ukwazi ukusebenzisa izixhobo ngokuchanekileyo.
- Emva kokutya ndihlala ndibulela.
Kwangelo xesha, umntwana ufanele achaze ukuba yintoni ebengafanele yenziwe ngexesha lesidlo:
- Slide umlomo opheleleyo wokutya, uthethe ngaxeshanye.
- Ukutshiza ukutya.
- Ukujikeleza, ukujikeleza, ukuguquka, uxhaphaza.
Umntwana kufuneka ayazi indlela ohlala ngayo ngokucocekileyo nelungelo lokuhlala etafileni. Beka kwisitulo esimnandi ukuze adle ngokwakho, ngaphandle kokugalela iimpahla zakhe kwiimpahla zakhe.
Ingakumbi ndingathanda ukutsala umdla wabazali kwinyani yokuba umntwana angavunywa ukuba angangafumani chaktie etafileni Ngamanye amaxesha kwenza abantu abadala bobabini. Qala ukuphakamisa umntwana kunye nawe. Umntwana ujongeka njengabazali bakhe ekuziphatheni eluntwini. Ukuba uyabona ukuba bayayivala kakhulu, batshicela i-URN, baphosela amaphepha kwaye krwada evenkileni, akukho mzekelo ubalulekileyo wokuxeliswa.
I-PODRAL, umntwana wakho ungena kwinkampani yabahlobo abaya kuba nefuthe elithile kuyo. Mbonise ukuba into embi yokuziphatha ibonakala imbi kwinxalenye, kwaye ichaze isizathu sokuba izenzo ezimbi zibuyeke abanye abantu, nendlela ezinokuthi zichaphazele ngayo ikamva labo.
I-odolo esekwe kubantu abadala
Abantu abadala kufuneka bahambisane nemithetho yokuziphatha kungekuphela esitratweni, kodwa nakwintsapho. Ukusuka kwindlela abantu abadala abakwaziyo ukuziphatha kakuhle kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke, kakhulu kuxhomekeka. Sebenzisa imigaqo yonxibelelwano lwenkcubeko, unokufaka abafowunelwa abatsha emsebenzini nakubomi bemihla ngemihla.Ngaphandle
Ukuphuma endlwini, sijamelene nabantu abaninzi. Esitratweni, kwezothutho, iivenkile zabantu abadala kufuneka ziziphathe ngendlela yokuba zingahambi kakuhle kwabanye kwaye zibambelele kwiimfuno ezithile:
- Thatha ingqalelo kwangaphambili malunga nempahla ecocekileyo kunye nencam kunye nezihlangu ukuya kuhambo. Iinwele kufuneka zicoceke, zibekelwe kakuhle.
- Ukujika ngaphesheya kwesitrato, jonga ngononophelo emacaleni okanye uhambe ngokukhanya kwetrafikhi. Ungaze uwele phambi koomatshini okanye kwiindawo ezingaziwayo. Kananjalo ayinakukwazi ukuhamba kwi-lawn.
- Xa sukuma, musani ukutyhalela izandla zenu, uze ungazigcini izandla zakho ezipokothweni zenu, musani ukunkqonkqoza, nikhangele phambili, kodwa ungalibali ukujonga iinyawo zenu. Ukuba ufuna ukuba ne-snack, ungathenga iqhekeza okanye ipayi, inyathela kwaye utye ukutya. Sukuhlafuna kwi-go-kubi. Ukongeza, unokusonga iingubo zethu kwaye ecaleni kokoza kwabantu.
- Sukuyilahla inkunkuma, i-napkins kunye necuba endleleni. Ukuba akukho lurre ekufutshane, okwethutyana faka inkunkuma kwipokotho yakho. Ngokutshaya abantu, kukho iikona apho zingatshaya khona. Kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke, ukutshaya akuvumelekanga.
Ngelixa ukuhamba akufuneki kukhanyeziwe ngabantu, kunye nokuhamba, ukulima izikrweqe. I -dpass kwaye igqibe abadlula ngendlela kufuneka babelungile.
Ukuba kukho abantu abaliqela kwindlela, kukho imigaqo ethile:
- Ungayi kwindimbane esitratweni, uthintele abadlula ngendlela. Kuvunyelwe abantu abathathu abahamba kufutshane.
- Ukuba indoda iza nebhinqa, inenekazi kufuneka lihambe ngasekunene. Ukhetho ngumkhosi-kufuneka banikwe imbeko.
- Ukuba amadoda amabini eze nomfazi, inenekazi lingena embindini.
- Ukuba kukho amanenekazi amabini kunye nendoda, kukho umfazi osele ekhulile ecaleni kwakhe, ke umncinci ubudala.
- Ukuba amanenekazi abudala obufanayo, i-cavalier ihamba phakathi kwabo.
Kwizothutho
Uhambo lwezithuthi zikawonke-wonke lufuna ukuphunyezwa kwemithetho ethile:
- Ngokungenisa izithuthi zikawonke-wonke, susa iingxowa ezininzi kunye neengxowa zesanga, ukuze ungabethe abanye abakhweli.
- Musa ukuthatha ngaphezulu kwendawo enye kwizothutho, ezibonisa imilenze ngokubanzi.
- Ukuba ubuza umbuzo, kufuneka umamele ngononophelo kwaye uyiphendule.
- Ungalibali amagama omlingo: "Enkosi", "nceda" - Yiba nobubele. Ukuba umkhweli ngengozi, kuya kufuneka ucele uxolo. Rhoqo kwezothutho ungazigcina iimeko ezinjalo xa umntu ehamba ngeenyawo okanye watyhala. Ingathandeki xa isibetho siqala, kwaye emva kwayo yonke kwanele ukucela uxolo ngentlonelo.
- Ukuba utya nabantwana abancinci, ningazibalileni, musani ukuphazamisa abamelwane, khange ndikhwaze. Benze baqalise intetho, kwaye ekhaya baxoxa ngalo mbuzo.
- Qiniseka ukuba uhlawula isicatshulwa, indawo yokuhamba okanye amanye amaxwebhu ngaphandle komsindo, kuba umlawuli wenza umsebenzi wayo.
- Ukuphuma kwezothutho, umntu wokuqala uphume, unika isandla sakhe kwinenekazi. Ulutsha lubonelela ngoncedo lwabantu abakhulileyo, ukukhubazeka.
- Wehla izinyuko, umntu ufanele ukuba aqale, anyuke, umfazi.
- Ukuba ukwindawo engaqhelekanga okanye kumanyathelo akukho kukhanya, indoda ifanele iye kuqala.
- Ukuba uvuka kwi-ofcalator ngaphandle kwendoda, cinezela iqhosha ngokwakho, ukuba umntu uluxanduva lwakhe.
Inkcubeko yokuziphatha kwindawo yoluntu
Ukuya evenkileni, ngaphambi kokuba ucango luphoswe ngabantu osakhasayo, emva koko uzenzele ngokwakho. Yibani ne-Plellers, pheka imali ngexesha, ungaphazamisi i-cashier.
Ukuba uqokelelwe kwimovie okanye kwi ncwadana yemidlalo yeqonga, imigaqo ye-Etiquette iya kunceda apha:
- Yiza ngexesha lokuqala kweseshoni okanye ukusebenza.
- Ukuya kwindawo yakhe, jikela kubaphulaphuli.
- Sukujika, musa ukutshintsha iindlela ezahlukeneyo.
- Sukuthetha, musa ukuhleba.
- Nqamla iifowuni zeselfowuni
Ukophulwa kweMemo
Indlela yokuziphatha esitratweni okanye kwizithuthi, abaninzi bayazi. Kodwa akusoloko kukhona abantu benza isenzo, ukuza kwimyuziyam, i-Theatre, i-cinema. Kule, kukho imithetho ngokubanzi yokuziphatha:
- Ngexesha lokusebenza, akunakwenzeka ukuba uthethe ngefowuni okanye kubamelwane, ukhwele, ukutyhila iminwe yakho, ihlebeza okanye ikhuphe amabinzana okukhulu okanye amagama.
- Sukuxhomekeka ngasemva kwesitulo esingaphambili ngezandla okanye imilenze yakho. Sukuza kulomsitho kunye nobushushu, impumlo ebalekayo. Awuzukuphazamisa kuphela abo bakho, kodwa unokubanyamezela.
- Kwimidlalo yeqonga, musa ukubagqabanga abaphulaphuli ngoBinoculars, abazihloli ngexesha lokuphatha. Ukuba indoda yeza kwindawo yemidlalo yethalethi, akufuneki ishiywe yedwa. Mkhathalele, yizalele kwisiselo se-buffet kunye neelekese (ngeminqweno).
- Ukuba awuyithandi ingcinga, ngokuzolileyo (ngaphandle kwengxoxo) hlala ugqityiwe. Ungayishiyi iholo kude kube sekupheleni kwendlela yokusebenza, kwaye kungcono ukulinda ungenelelo. Xa igqithile, linda de ikhuselo linciphile, emva koko lihambe.
Ulwazi oluthe kratya malunga nendlela yokuziphatha kwithiyetha, i-cinema okanye enye indawo yokuhlala iya kuxelela le vidiyo ilandelayo.