Iminyaka engama-32-yintoni umtshato? Ngubani igama lesikhumbuzo ezingama-32 ukusuka kwimini yobomi emtshatweni? Kutheni engaphawulwanga?

Iminyaka engama-32 yokuphila- Lo ngumhla onobuzaza. Amaqabane apheleleyo enyanisweni azama izifungo zawo "kwaye evuya, kwaye entabeni" kwaye angabelana nabanye ngamava obomi bentsapho. Kumnandi ukuba usapho lubhiyozela wonke umhla, kodwa ngokubanzi, iHolide enkulu yenziwa ukulungiselela isikhumbuzo: iminyaka emi-5, njalo njalo. Eli nqaku lichaza ngokweenkcukacha oko kubizwa ngokuba ngumtshato onjalo, hayi indlela ophumeleleyo ukuba ulungiselele kwaye yintoni ecetyiswayo ukunika umntu osondeleyo ngalo mhla.

Ngubani igama lesikhumbuzo?

Kubonakala ngathi kutsha nje kuphawula isikhumbuzo seminyaka elishumi elinanye nangamashumi amane, kodwa phakathi kwabo, enye iminyaka engama-32 emtshatweni ukusuka kwimini yomtshato. Abantu bakona ngokwesiko ukubiza eli gama-umtshato wobhedu. Kubonakala kungaqhelekanga ukuba kukho ubhedu phakathi kwesilivere, iperile kunye negolide. Ngapha koko, ookhokho bethu babeyiqonda le nto ngezinto zayo. Umzekelo, ubhedu luxabiseke kakhulu kune-tin, kwaye isikhumbuzo se-tin siyafumaneka.

Igama "Ubhedu" lufuzisela amandla omtshato kwaye kwangaxeshanye kubudlelwane. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ziimpawu zalo mbandela. Isikhumbuzo siqatshelwe ukuze sizilungiselele ukuba ubomi bomtshato buthembekile kwaye buhlala. Akufuneki ulibale ukusebenza kubudlelwane rhoqo. Ke, Emva kweminyaka engama-32 kunye, umyeni nenkosikazi yakhe bafanele bakwazi ukubonisana, ukuba bathobekile kwimicimbi yokulalanisa.

Enye ingcaciso. Ubhedu lufanekisela iipropathi zokuphilisa kunye nenkangeleko entle. Kwanangakumaxesha amandulo, yayisetyenziselwa unyango, kwaye ngoku ungadibana njengenxalenye yeziyobisi ezininzi zonyango.

Esi sikhumbuzo ngumnqweno wempilo kunye neminyaka emide yokuphila. Wonke umntu ukhetha ukuvuyela ukungcamla, kodwa nangayiphi na imeko, iminyaka yobomi kunye umphefumlo emphefumlweni kufuneka kuqatshelwe.

Izithethe kunye nezithethe

Nasiphi na isikhumbuzo sokwabiwa kugxininisa izithethe kunye nemisitho. Bawenze okanye hayi - lo ngumbuzo ngokokubona kwento nganye. Ngokubanzi, isikhumbuzo sama-32 asingomhla okwisiko ukucwangcisa ukwamkelwa. Kwanele ukubhiyozela umsitho kwisangqa sabathandekayo, ezinye izibini zithanda ukuchitha usuku omnye komnye.

Mhlawumbi umgaqo wokuqala, zama ukwenza namhla ezikhundleni zakho kunye neehafu zakho. I-Romance ikhona kwaye emva kweminyaka engama-32 yomtshato. Khohlwa malunga neholide, ixabane kwaye ikhubeki omnye komnye. Ngokokukholelwa Ingxabano yale mini iya kukhokelela kubudlelwane bengquzulwano unyaka wonke.

Ookhokho bethu ababeka usapho entlokweni yekona beqhutywa yimibhiyozo emininzi ehle ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje. Ezinye izithethe zilula kwaye zilungile ukuze zizenze.

1. Isimboli yoshicilelo, njengoko sele uyiqondayo, kobhedu. Ngaphambili, banika imihlobiso ngobhedu. Ngoku izinto zobhedu zinokusebenza njenge-decor okanye i-cutlery. Umzekelo, ngokomfanekiso, i-vases okanye izinto kuyilo lwetafile. Ukuba uthenga umhlobiso, ungayinxiba ngokukhuselekileyo ngalo mhla, kwaye ubhedu luhlala lusetyenziswa ngamaqhosha okanye amanye amahle kwimpahla.
2. Kumaxesha amandulo, umyeni wakhe nenkosikazi yakhe banika omnye komnye iingqekembe zobhedu njengophawu lwempilo-ntle kwintsapho nakwisifo sobutyebi bemali.
3. Emnyango kuyacetyiswa ukuba uxhome ihashe lobhedu. Ngokwesiqhelo, i-holl izisa ithamsanqa kwiNdlu.
4. Unokumsamkela isiko lezinye izizwe. Umzekelo, iFrench inika amanye amakhonkco neentliziyo ezenziwe ngecingo lobhedu. Banxibe kunye nemithi yokwenene yomtshato kude kube sekupheleni komsitho. Oku kongeza isisa kwiholide.
5. Enye, sele isiko lale mihla linxulumene nezibini zokukhumbula. Ungahamba ujikeleze isixeko imini yonke kwaye wenze, ngohlobo lwakho lokuyalelwa kwimbali yosapho. Eyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokuxelela abantwana, ukuba, phi, abazali babo badibana njani.

Le mihla kufuneka yenze oko umphefumlo wesibini wosapho. Akufanelanga ukuba ilandelwe kwimithetho engqongqo, le holide yenzelwe ukugcina uthando kunye nokuthandana kwamaqabane. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba bayakuthi cwaka ekhaya okanye bahambe ngendawo entle yokuhamba kweyona ndawo yokutyela. Mhlawumbi uza kuthatha isigqibo sokuya kolunye uhambo lomtshato.

Yintoni isiko elinokunika?

Xa umsitho kugqitywe ukuba uphawula, kufuneka ke usombulule lo mbandela ngesipho. Eyona ndlela ilula, nika umfazi okanye umyeni, emva koko into enemfuno. Ingaba zizinto zonke, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba kwisipho esinjalo kukho isidingo. Isikhumbuzo-isizathu esihle sokuphumeza iphupha lesiqingatha sesibini. Ukuba akukho ngcaciso, ke akufuneki ukhethe ukukhetha iinketho zemihla ngemihla, isipho kufuneka sikhumbule.

Kubafazi, khetha lula isipho.

• Unganikezela ubucwebe ngenkokelele yobhedu. Kufuneka ikhethwe ukuba ivele kwiivenkile ezikhethekileyo okanye zenze iodolo.
• Isifundo somntu ngamnye. Umzekelo, indoda yakho yekofu yakho. Kutheni ungaveli umatshini wekhofi okanye i-turko entle?
• Kufanelekile ukukhankanya iziqholo ezintsha zomfazi othandekayo. Namhlanje kukho iinkonzo ezikuvumela ukuba uqokelele i-bouquet yephunga lakho, ngoko ke ubonise isimo sengqondo sakho esishushu.
• Iintyatyambo-isipho esihle ngesizathu nangaphandle kwawo. Khetha isityalo esingafunekiyo embizeni ukuze sakuvuyela iliso ixesha elide.

Kwisiqingatha sesiqingatha sikhona nemibono aliqela.

• Umsoma uza kulungela i-finsolo, egxininisa inqanaba. Kwizifundo ezifanayo zibandakanya: iiglasi, icuba, umnini wekhadi leshishini, elixabiso eliphantsi, iwotshi okanye ibhanti okanye ibhanti. Kungcono ukuthenga izinto ezinjalo kuyilo lomntu ngamnye kwaye luphosile.
• Ukuba umyeni usisityholo sotywala, soze sibe sengqiqweni sokugcwalisa ingqokelela yebhotile ye wayini okanye i-whisky.
• Igajethi yokulungisa, ukuloba okanye ukuzingela. Esi sigqibo siya kuba ufanelekile ukuba isiqingatha sakho sesibini side sifune into ebiza ixabiso elithi "toy", kodwa zala.

Umcimbi wezipho zinokuba yingxaki kungekuphela nje kwindoda nomfazi, kodwa nakwabandwendweli. Okokuqala kufuneka uqonde ukuba isipho senzelwe isibini xa iyonke. Ikhethiwe yintoni eya kuba nomdla kuzo zombini.

Eyokuqala, ungabetha uphawu lweminyaka yokukhumbula kwaye unikezele into yobhedu. Ingaba yi-SAOVARS, iseti yezitya okanye iseti entle ye-cutlery, ii-mugs ezinkulu, imibophelelo efanayo, iitotshi kunye nezinye izinto zokuhombisa. Ewe kunjalo, kungcono ukuba usapho oluthandayo luthanda iimbono ezinjalo, kwaye baya kufumana ukusetyenziswa kwesipho. Rhoqo unokufumana izipho ezizodwa kwikopi enye kwiivenkile ezizenziwe ngesandla.

Awunakho ukunamathisela umxholo wobhedu kwaye unike incwadi, umfanekiso, ipleyiti yomculo kunye nangaphezulu. Apha, umntu uyayihlutha iminqweno kuphela.

Ukuba isibini asinabunzima bezemali, imali ayikhuthazwanga. Isipho esinjalo yeyona ilula, kodwa ayizukunika iimvakalelo zakho.

Ungazama ukufezekisa isibini esitshatileyo ngephupha kwaye sibathumele kuhambo, okanye babhalele kwiklasi yenkosi edibeneyo ekudaneni, umzekelo. Ingcebiso enjalo kufanelekile ukwenza bonke abahlobo abamenyiweyo kwaye banikezele kumatikiti kunye nokuhamba ngenqanawa.

Ukuba uqhelene nesibini ixesha elide, emva koko isaqhwithi seemvakalelo ziya kubiza ngokuba yivuyiswa yenziwa ngezandla zakho. Ingaba: Iphephandaba, imibongo, ividiyo, ingoma okanye i-albhamu enemifanekiso kunye nezilayidi. Ngokwesiqhelo, izipho zibangela iimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo, iinyembezi kwaye zikhumbula ixesha elide. Unyaka wonke usapho luya kuba nakho ukuhlaziya ividiyo, umzekelo, uhambelana neziqendu ezintsha.

Ngendlela, olu khetho luhlala lusetyenziswa ngababini ngohlobo lomthi wosapho.

Esinye isipho kukucwangcisa umbhiyozo ngokwakhe. Rhoqo, abantu abafuni ukubhiyozela umhla okanye balibale konke malunga nesikhumbuzo sobhedu. Kule meko, unokwenza isimangalo seholide, ukuphindisa ixesha kunye nemithambo yabanzi bobubi bombhiyozo. Kanjalo, Kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukuzisa iminqweno yendoda yakhe kunye nenkosikazi yakhe kwaye ibethe ebomini. Umsebenzi awukabikho kwimiphunga, kodwa iziphumo zikufanele.

Xa uthenga isipho ekufuneka ukhumbule ukuba iindleko zayo azibalulekanga. I-Masters Ingqwalaselo kunye nesimo sakho sengqondo kubanzi bobubi. Sukuzama ngokukhawuleza ukusombulula lo mbandela. Cinga ngento oyifunayo ngokwenene olu ntsapho, umyeni wam kunye nomfazi niyinike. Nokuba le yinto encinci, ukuzaliseka komnqweno kubalulekile.

Ibhiyozelwe njani iholide?

Isikhumbuzo sama-32 ngexesha lokuphumla sikufuphi iminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwengama-35. Ngendlela, igama elithi igama lazo yiPearl kunye ne-corarali, ngokwahlukeneyo. Ehlabathini, kuxhaphakile ukubhiyozela iminyaka yobudala kunye nomgangatho, ngoko ke isikhumbuzo sobhedusi sihlala singafumani minyhadala kunye nomda. Esi ayisosizathu sokuyeka, ukuba kukho umnqweno. Kukho izikhombisi ezi-3 eziphambili kuphuhliso lweholide yesikhumbuzo sama-32.

• Cwangcisa uSuku lwaBabini. Umntu owuthandayo ulungile ukuva amazwi afudumeleyo othanda uthando kunye nombulelo kwidilesi yakho, kunye nokufumana isidlo sakusasa ebhedini. Ngokuhlwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ngokuthe cwaka nakwiqela losapho ukubhiyozela isikhumbuzo, ukuseta isidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kuwe. Ukuba kugqitywe ukuba banikele imini yonke omnye komnye, kuya kufuneka uye kwi-SPA, iZiko lokuziloloba okanye uye phambili kwaye lunike omnye komnye uhambo kwisikhumbuzo. Iholide enjalo iya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide.

• Olona khetho luhambelana ngqo neholide evuzayo. Ngenxa yemvelaphi yayo, esi sikhumbuzo sinokuba sisizathu esihle sokwenza umtshato, ayinguye wonke umntu okwazi ukuhamba ngomtshato ofanayo. Abantwana baya konwaba xa bebona umtshato wabazali babo. Ingaphakathi le ihonjiswe kakhulu ngezinto zobhedu, njengomsitho wesimboli. Qiniseka ukuba unekhekhe kwitafile yomthendeleko ukuze bonke ubomi bexesha elizayo babemnandi. Kuba iindwendwe azizange zidinwe ngexesha lombhiyozo, kufuneka uze nomphumo obahlukileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, umzekelo, abantu babonwa ngokutsha kukhutshelo kwaye bathelekise iimpendulo zayo zangoku. Ngokuqinisekileyo iholide iya kushiya uphawu kwinkumbulo, ufuna ukuphindaphinda yonke iminyaka.

• Okokugqibela kodwa hayi eyona ndlela imbi kakhulu - Umbhiyozo kuphela nabantu abasondeleyo. Isenokuba zizizala, abantwana kwaye, umzekelo, amaNgqina asemtshatweni wakho kwiminyaka embalwa. Umbhiyozo uza kuzaliswa ziinkumbulo, kuya kubakho indawo efudumeleyo, enobuhlungu. Igumbi apho umsitho uya kubanjwa khona kufuneka ihonjiswe ngeebhola. Ungaxhoma iifoto zamaqabane kunye namalungu osapho. Phakathi kweebhola onokuthi ubeke i-jung yokuvuyela ngendlela yamaphephandaba eendaba okanye iiposikhadi ezinkulu. Itafile kufuneka ithandwa yiyo yonke izitya neziselo. Qiniseka ukuba ukhethe itafile yeholide kwaye ubeke iintyatyambo kwiivases.
• Ipiknikhi yoSapho -Isisombululo esihle setyala elinjalo. Ungachitha usuku kunye nabantwana abadala kunye nabahlobo. Itheyibhile kufuneka igqunywe kwibhanki yemilambo okanye kwi-lawn entle. Imifuno kunye ne-kebabs iya kuyihlonipha. Umbhiyozo owenziwa ngomoya omtsha uya kukhunjulwa ngabo bonke abo bangoku. Amaculo ezenziwe phantsi kwegitari ye-Guitari iya kuba sisipho sokuthatha amaqabane.
• Elinye icebiso Sukuzisola imali kwaye uchithe imali kumfoti. Ukubamba olu suku kwiifoto okanye iividiyo ngeenkumbulo eziqaqambileyo.

Naluphi na ukhetho mhle. Injongo yeholide kukuzonwabisa kunye nesikhumbuzo sokunyaniseka kunye nothando lwamaqabane omnye komnye. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, le yeyamzuzu owahlukileyo.

Jonga ngakumbi ngomtshato wobhedu kule vidiyo ilandelayo.