Ukudala usapho, abantu bakholelwa kwikamva eliqaqambileyo, kubomi obuncinci kwaye bafuna ukuhlala kunye njengasemva kwexesha. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yoko, ayiguquki kwisibini ngasinye. Kwaye ukuhlala kunye neminyaka engama-23 nayo ingangabo bonke.
Kodwa ukuba isibini esitshatileyo "siye" kumtshato weBeryl, oko kuthetha ukuba bakwazi ukusinda bonke ubunzima kunye namaxesha owonwabisayo kwaye angaphulukani nokholo omnye komnye. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile ukuba iphazamise.
Ixabiso leSikhumbuzo
Emva kweminyaka engama-23 ukusuka kumhla womtshato, umtshato weBeryl uyeza. Ithatyathwa njengelitye, ifanekisela uthando kunye nokulingana ngokomoya, kunye nokuchuma kusapho.
Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeBerla. Umzekelo, u-Agastiit kunye no-Idodor azimele tyala. Kodwa kukho amatye anjenge-aqumarane okanye i-emerald abaxabiseke kakhulu. Le yintsingiselo ethile. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, izibini ezitshatileyo zentsapho zichithakele uthando lwabo ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye ziphila nje. Kwaye kukho abo babaxabisa iimvakalelo zabo ngaphezulu.
Ukongeza, iBeryl yomelele kakhulu, nangona ilitye elibonakalayo. Ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye emva kweminyaka engama-23, ubudlelwane baba njalo - bomelele kwaye buxabiseke kabini.
Isikhumbuzo samashumi amabini anesithathu esibonakala singabalulekanga kangako kwabaninzi, kuba lo ngumhla ongentloko. Ke, izithethe zikhona ngala mhla kancinane. Kodwa kukho izinto ezincinci ezingakulingeliyo ngokungaphazamisi isiqingatha sakho sesibini.
Ekuqaleni, amaqabane kufuneka avuyisile omnye komnye ngosuku lomtshato. Le holide ayiphawulwanga nge-sweep enkulu. Kwanele ukumema kuphela ezona zihlobo zikufutshane nezihlobo, okanye nje zokuyibhiyozela ndawonye.
IBeryl lilitye elihlala liphuzi okanye luhlaza, ke itafile yomthendeleko mayikhutshwe kule mibala. Kufuneka kubekho luhlaza ngakumbi kwaye ziqhamo etafileni. Zifuzisela impilo, kunye nohlaziyo kubudlelwane bosapho.
Ukongeza, kufuneka kubekho iintyatyambo egumbini. Ufuna iiroses ezibomvu ngalo mhla. Kungcono ukuqokelela ithambo elikhulu le-23 roses. Nangona kunjalo, eyona mibala inikiweyo, ngcono imeko iya kuba ngalo mhla, kwaye onwabe ngakumbi uya kuba ngunyaka olandelayo. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukubamba onke amaxesha onwabileyo kwi-albhamu yefoto.
Yintoni onokuyibonisa umfazi okanye indoda?
Umntu ngamnye kwisibini ucinga ngesipho esihamba ngesipho sakhe. Ewe, ndifuna ukukhetha into ekhethekileyo. Ukongeza, esi sipho kufuneka senze amalungiselelo okubini. Umzekelo, ngokuhlwa okuchithwe kwindawo yokutyela igqibelele. Emva kweglasi ye wayini okanye ikomityi yekofu, ungakhumbula eyona mizuzu ilungileyo yobomi bomtshato.
Kwaye nesipho esimangalisayo siya kuba kukufika kwabantwana abanokulungelelaniswa kuye. Ukongeza, unganika into ukuba isiqingatha sesibini siphupha ixesha elide.
Indoda iya kulunga ii-cufflinks ezintle okanye ipeni etyunjiweyo, iwele ngelitye leBeryl. Unokunika ne-wristband yewotshi okanye ipini ye-tie. Ukuba umyeni uyatshaya, isipho esikhulu siya kuba yipati yecuba kunye neBeryl okanye ilula. Mhlawumbi umyeni wakhe uyakuthanda ukuzingela okanye ukuloba. Emva koko uya kuvuyela ukufumana into enxulumene nento ezonwabisayo.
Kubafazi, kulula kakhulu ukukhetha isipho. Nabaphi na baya kuvuyela ukugcoba imibala enkulu oyithandayo, yongezwe ngumhlobiso omnandi. Ingaba ngumsesane, amacici, kunye nokumiswa okanye i-brooch. Ukuhonjiswa kufuneka kunyanzelekile ngeBeryl. Ngapha koko, eso sipho sinokufunyanwa njengelifa labantwana.
Kodwa esona sipho sibalaseleyo kukunxibelelana, kunye nabantu obathandayo. Amagama abo athambileyo kunye nokuvuyela.
Iingcamango ze-chars
Kubantwana, abazali bahlala belinde izipho zoqobo, into yokomoya kunye nentsingiselo. Ingaba ngumfanekiso wabazali kwisakhelo esihle, itikiti lekonsathi yemvumi ethandwayo okanye uhambo nje lokuya kwindawo yemidlalo yeqonga.
Ungalungiselela intlanganiso yabazali bakho nabantu abangaboni kwakudala, kodwa bangathanda ukubona kwakhona. Ukuba imeko yemali ivumela, ungathenga amatikiti ukuze uhambo oludibeneyo okanye ulungiselele inqanawa. Oku kuya kunika ithuba lokuba abazali baphinde bazive bebancinci kwaye bayathandana. Ukongeza, ihlawulisa amandla abo aqinisekileyo kwinyanga enye.
Ukongeza kwezi zipho zinomdla zinjalo, unokukhetha kunye nezinto ezisebenzayo ngakumbi abangenakukwazi ukuzithenga. Umzekelo, umatshini oqhelekileyo wokuhlamba, okanye uhlawulele ukulungiswa kwindlu. Kuyimfuneko ukucinga ukuba yintoni oyifunayo, kwaye ngenkalipho uhlangabezana nezimvo zakho.
Izinketho zeSipho sisixa esikhulu, kwaye kuqala sixhomekeke koko kuthando lwabazali. Ungayithenga ikhekhe entle ngombhalo okanye ude uyenze ngezandla zakho, eziya kuba mnandi kakhulu.
Ukongeza, unokwenza i-albhamu ye-albhamu yentsapho ngezandla zakho. Uya kukhumbuza abazali bakhe malunga neminyaka eyabiweyo.
Sivuyisana nabahlobo
Abahlobo ngokukhethekileyo banika izipho ezinquliweyo. Ke, ungathintela iingelosi okanye iiglasi ezimbini, kunye neebhafu ezimbini zokuhlambela. Isipho esitshatileyo siya kuba luphawu lobunye kusapho.
Kungcono ukunika ubucwebe ngeBeryll. Unokufumana ibhokisi okanye i-statette enelitye elinje. Ukuvala abahlobo okanye izalamane zingakhathalela isipho esinyanisekileyo. Umzekelo, thatha iifoto ezindala kwaye ume kubo. Okanye wenze ividiyo. Isibini esitshatileyo siya kukuvuyela ukunika eso sipho, kuba sinokuphononongwa ngaphezulu kwesinye kwaye sinandiphe ixesha lobomi.
Ukuze ufumane abantu abaninzi abasebenzayo, unokuthenga inkonzo entle nengaqhelekanga okanye nayiphi na indlela yemihla ngemihla. Unokunika ikhithi yebhedi okanye ingubo enezingelosi. Ukongeza, unganika ithebhulethi okanye igajethi.
Isipho esimangalisayo sendoda iya kuba yibhotile ye wayini enesidima okanye ibhanti, kunye nebhinqa-i-roseet enkulu yeerrosi. Kodwa kwakhona musa ukulibala ngempilo yesibini esitshatileyo. Ukuyilondoloza, eso sipho sifanelekile njenge-prememeter okanye i-calator elula. Unokunika ubhaliso lwambini ukuya kwi-SPA, ukuze isibini esitshatileyo asisiyo nje kuphela, kodwa sizuze nomzimba wakho.
Ewe, umtshato weBeryl ngumgca omkhulu kubomi bosapho bawuphi na umntu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngasemva kwasemva kovuyo oluninzi kunye neendlela ezinamava kunye. Kodwa ukuba kwiminyaka engama-23 ayitshintshile, oko kuthetha ukuba ukhetho lwenziwa luchanekile. Kwaye ihlala ivuyisileyo ekuvuyeleni oku, kwaye iphinde ibhiyoze umhla obalulekileyo ngentanda yakho. Kwaye esona sipho sibalaseleyo somtshato weBeryl siya kuba ngamagama afudumeleyo kunye nexesha elichithwe nomntu osondeleyo, kwaye alunalusana ngamatye anqabileyo kunye nexabiso eliphakamileyo.
Malunga nendlela ebizwa ngayo iminyaka engama-24 ukusuka kumhla womtshato, bona ividiyo elandelayo.