Umtshato yiholide kungekuphela nje kubantu abasandul 'ukutshata, kodwa nabazali babo. Umama womtshakazi kunye noMama Birde bafanelwe ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Yabela ixesha kumbhiyozo kwaye uveze uthando lwakho kunye nombulelo kubo - umnqweno wendalo wabantwana olufanelekela imbeko.
Ulungiselela njani?
Owona mbulelo ubalaseleyo kuMama emtshatweni uya kuba ngamazwi amahle athethwa entliziyweni. Lo mzuzu unomdla kakhulu. Nditsho nabantu abanamava abaqhelene neemvakalelo zesidlango, kwaye kuyavela ityhubhu. Isipho sokuphuculwa sinokuhamba ngomzuzu othembekileyo, kunjalo kubalulekile ukulungiselela kwangaphambili.
Fumana ixesha elincinci lokuthatha umhlala phantsi kwaye ube yedwa kunye nawe kunye neemvakalelo zakho kumama. Khumbula amatyala ahlekisayo ukusuka ebuntwaneni, imeko xa ndaphuma ndaphuma nengcebiso okanye uncedo lukamama. Akusoloko konke konke kunolwalamano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Ngolu suku, akufuneki ukhumbule ingqumbo kunye nezikhalazo.
Sketch itekisi ephepheni. Ungazithatha njengesiseko sezinto ezilungisiweyo ezilungiselelwe, kodwa kungcono ukuba wenze ngaphandle kweetemplate. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba ibizwa ngenani elikhulu leendwendwe, ngokuyintloko icelwe ukuba nguMama. Ukusuka kwi-pompous, amabinzana ophathekayo kufuneka kushiywe ngokukhetha amagama afudumeleyo kunye nemifanekiso eqondakalayo ngayo.
Khetha ukuphatha umama wamagama eethenda: mhle, sithandwa, indabuko, iintanda, igolide. Masiqonde ukuba sisalamane okanye sisondele umama wakho ekukhanyeni komntu.
Isicatshulwa esilileyo Funda ngentliziyo, siphinda siziqhela izihlandlo ezininzi. Kwimeko apho, pheka iphepha lokukhohla ngokubhala ngokubhala kwikhadi leholide. Imibongo emihle iya kuba yinto entle. Kwaye ingoma eyenziwa iya kuba ngumhlobiso oqaqambileyo kwaye ochukumisayo wombhiyozo.
Icebo elilungileyo-bonisa izilayidi ngeefoto zabantwana kwi-albhamu yosapho.
Ukusuka kwintombi
Ukubonakalisa umbulelo, intombi inokuthi ixelele iindwendwe malunga neempawu ezintle kwaye zibe ziimpawu zesimilo, ukuba zibize iimpawu zomlinganiswa, ezifunyenweyo kunye nezakhono, enkosi, amatywina. Ukuthamba kunye nokuthamba kwelinye icala, ubungqongile kunye nokufuna - kwelinye. Umsebenzi kamama kunye nomzamo, ubusuku obungalali, iminqweno elungileyo kunye neentsikelelo bezingekho lilize. Wonke umntu uya kutyhilwa ngoku ebomini. Kwaye owona mvuzo ubalaseleyo kwaMama ngenxa yobomi obubonisiweyo, ubuntwana obumnandi kunye nolutsha oluqaqambileyo luya kuba ngumama wentombi oya kuzisa ithuba lokwenza ithuba lokwenza abantwana bakhe.
Umama uya kuba kumnandi ukuva ukuba ngaphandle kweengxaki ezihlala zisekhaya, sebenza, ukhathalela abantu obathandayo, intle kwaye unetalente yomfazi kunye nonina, imodeli yokuxelisa umtshakazi omncinci.
Qiniseka ukuba ugxininisa loo nto ngaphandle kwento yokuba umyeni nosapho olutsha beza ngaphambili kwintombazana yabantu, i-mumpmage, ubulumko, amava obomi kubaluleke kakhulu kweli xesha kwangaphambili.
Ngokunyaniseka "Enkosi" kufanele ukuba uthi mama ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwiingxaki zeholide kunye nokulungiswa komtshakazi ukubhiyozela, kwizipho noncedo lwezinto ezibonakalayo.
Ngomhla womtshato, uMtshakazi wafumana umama wesibini - umkhwekazi wesibini. Umhle kakhulu umama uqhuba kumtshakazi wegama elixabisa lonwabo lokukhuliswa koNyana. Ukuthetha ngeenzuzo zendoda yakhe kunye nokuqonda ukuba nguMama kule, uMama, uMtshakazi akabonisi kuphela intlonipho, kodwa ikwafundi ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nezihlobo ezizayo.
Kunyana.
Amadoda ahlala enxunguphalo. Kubalulekile ukujamelana nemincili, ukuba ungankqonkqoze kwaye ube nguwe, ngokucacileyo kwaye ubonakalise iingcinga zakho, ubonise iimvakalelo zakho ezinyanisekileyo: Intlonipho, ihlonitshwa, intlonipho.
Unyana ngombulelo wamama ngesisa, ukhathalelo, ukuqonda, ukuze abe nomonde kunye nokuchana, kwizifundo eziluncedo kunye neengcebiso. Ukuze into yokuba kumaxesha anzima okukhula koMama akhule, amazwi athambileyo athi, Wazama ukuqhela, kwaye kuyenzeka. Ngenxa yokuba ngamanye amaxesha iimfuno kunye nezinto ezinomdla zomntwana zazikhulisa ngaphezulu kwazo. Ngenxa yokuba umkhuseli kunye nomsondla bamzisela, bamkhokelela kwinto yokuba unokubekekile kwintsapho yakhe entsha aze anyamekele inkosikazi encinci.
Unokucela ukuxolelwa kwimvukelo kwaye ukuthanda ukuthanda ukuthobela. OKO KUFANELE kwenzekanga ebuntwaneni kwaye ngakumbi ngeli xesha "yobudala obunzima." Ukuziva amandla akho, ukufuna ukususa igcinwe, amaxesha amaninzi amakhwenkwe anamagama abukhali abuhlungu koomama, banganyanzeli.
Entliziyweni yakhe, omnye umfazi ulawula ngoku - umfazi. Kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba uthando lukamama lusenkulu kwaye uNyana uyamxhasa ngamaxesha onke.
Nantsi imeko apho ungazikhathali iimvakalelo zakho kwaye unokunikwa iimvakalelo.
Umtshakazi kaMtshakazi kaMama akangekhe athethe amazwi oxabiso. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukususela, ubuqhetseba bakhe nobuhle bayo buye kolunye usapho. Umyeni ucinga ukuba icace gca phantsi kwempatho yakhe, umntwana wakhe omncinci uya konwaba, ehlala echuma kunye nobuninzi. Akukho zizathu zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ungabulela ubuhle kunye nokukhanya komtshakazi. Kwaye luthando ngembono epheleleyo yokutshabela, iphoswe emfazini oselula, iya kuba ngamazwi.
Imiphefumlo yolwandle, igqibezela isiko kunokuba sisifo kumtshakazi kunye nomyeni okanye ii-hugs ezifudumeleyo.
Umzekelo wamazwi ombulelo kumama kwintombazana yam emtshatweni, ubone ividiyo engezantsi.