Ngomsitho obalulekileyo onjalo, njengomtshato, uninzi lweegudi zilungiselela iqela le-bachelor. Inqaku liza kuthetha ngoobani abafanele balungiselele umsitho kwaye bahlawule zonke iindleko, njengoko iqela le-bachelor lihlala libanjwa, kwaye yintoni enikwa umyeni.
Yintoni?
Phambi komtshato, kufuneka ube nesoka - abantu abaninzi banamhlanje bayalandela ngqo olu luvo. Ukucwangcisa itheko lokuzukisa umyeni - olu luhlobo lwesiko elidlulise phambili kumazwe amaninzi ehlabathi. Njengomthetho, umsitho onjalo wonwaba kakhulu. Inkampani yabahlobo abakhokelwa nguMyeni uyaqhubeka, kwaye wonke umntu ubhiyozela imihla yokugqibela yobomi bomhlobo wabo we-bachelor yomhlobo wabo.
Ngokwesiqhelo ipati ye-bachelor yenziwa ukuze kamva umyeni, kwaye bonke abahlobo bakho, yayiyinto ekufuneka eyikhumbule. Zonke izinto ezimnandi zobomi obucekeceke, i-bachelor yomyeni oselula osemncinci zivakalelwa kweli cala lilungiselele imbeko yakhe.
Kukho i-stereotype enjalo ukuba ipati yeBachelor kufuneka iphakamise umoya ophazamisayo waseBachelor, kufuneka kubekho indimbane yabadanga abalungele yonke into, njalo njalo. Ngokwesiqhelo, olu luvo lunamathela kumatshaba, ohlala ebachasa amaqela anjalo. Kodwa kaninzi, ii-bachers zenzeka konke konke njengoko kubonakala ngathi amantombazana. Umsitho usenokuba unomdla, ochwayitile kwaye ulungele amaqhezu okukhohliswa. Khawuqwalasele ezinye zeembono ngendlela yokuqulunqa itheko le-bachelor. Kodwa malunga nayo emva kwexesha elincinci.
Ngubani oququzelela aze ahlawule?
Kwisiko elisekelweyo lokulungiselela umsitho onjalo, njengepati yeBachelor, iNgqina lithathwa liNgqina.
Ngokwesiqhelo, njengengqina lomtshato, aba bantu bamema ezona zilungileyo nezihlobo okanye umntu ovela kwizalamane ezisondeleyo. Ke ngoko, lingqina ukuba bonke abanomdla kunye nezinto ezikhethwayo zomyeni mabazi, zinokulungiselela iqela elingalibalekiyo.
Rhoqo, zonke iindleko zezezimali zodwa zithatha ubungqina bomyeni. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba udibanise iinzame kunye nabo bazokuya emcimbini. Kule meko, yonke le mali yahlulahlula ngokulinganayo phakathi kwabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwinkwenkwe. Kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba i-tiance ngokwayo ityalwe kwiqela elizayo. Imibuzo enomtsalane iconjululwe kwangaphambili, kunye phakathi kwabahlobo kunye nabahlobo abaya kubakho kwinkwenkwe.
Kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele loo nto Rhoqo, abahlobo bakhokelwa liNgqina elilungelelanisiweyo balungelelanisa isiganeko esifanayo somyeni kwaye balungiselele ukuba bamangalise. Kwaye kuya kuconjululwa njani umbuzo wezezimali, kwaye oya kuhlawula umsitho, sele ixhomekeke kubuchule bobuqu.
Kwenziwa nini?
Njengomthetho, emva kobunye nokuzibandakanya kwaye kude kube yimini yomtshato, abantu abancinci bahlala beyinyanga. Ke ngoko, ipati ye-bachelor inokuba lula ukulungiselela naluphi na usuku ngaphambi kombhiyozo. Ewe kunjalo, kungcono ukungacwangcisi iziganeko ezifanayo ngemini okanye emibini ukuya emsithweni. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kwiveki ephelileyo ngaphambi kokuba loo msitho ubalulekileyo uhlala usenza ixesha, kwaye kusekho izinto ezininzi ekufuneka zenziwe ukuze kwenziwe phambi komtshato. Ke ngoko, ixesha elifanelekileyo lokubamba isoka kukuzilungiselela iiveki ezimbini ngaphambi komtshato.
Ukuba ixesha lihlala lincinci kakhulu, unokucwangcisa itheko lomyeni ubuncinci kwiintsuku ezintlanu ngaphambi komtshato. Ngeli xesha kwanele ukuqinisekisa ukuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwiSoyeni bafika kuwo emva kwepati emva koko baze beze emtshatweni besempilweni.
Ucwangcisa njani?
Kunokwenzeka ukuba uye kwinkampani yamadoda enkulu kwaye enengxolo enkulu kwi-bar ekufutshane, kwaye kunqabile ukuchitha ixesha. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo wonke umntu ufuna ukuba iqela lihambe ngandlela thile kwaye likhumbula umyeni kunye nabahlobo bakhe ixesha elide. Kukho izimvo ezininzi eziza kusetyenziswa kuzo zonke ezo ziceba ukulungiselela i-bachelor party kwixa elizayo.
Ndiyavuma ukuba yonke indoda ithanda kakhulu kwaye isantya. Ke ngoko, unokucwangcisa amakhwenkwe kwindawo ethile engaqhelekanga, umzekelo, ukucwangcisa umdyarho wokwenene kwi-carting. Bonke abantu bayathanda ukuqhuba koomatshini, kwaye i-carting yeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
Apho, kunokwenzeka ukuba iququzelele i-buffet encinci, emva koko ibhiyozele uloyiso lomnye wabahlobo kunye. Ukongeza, unoku-odola kwangaphambili kunye neDiploma engalibalekiyo kumthathi-nxaxheba ngamnye wolu khuphiswano. Ewe, eyona diploma ephambili kufuneka ifumane umyeni.
Ukuba umyeni akawathandi amakhadi, kodwa uyakuthanda isantya, kunokwenzeka ukuba angaphaya kwesixeko ukuze kuqhubeke entliziyweni kwibhayisekile kwibhayisekile. Kwaye ukuba ixesha sele liqalile, linokwenzeka kwiikhephu zekhephu. Ukuba kwindalo, kunokwenzeka ukucwangcisa uhlobo lokufuna. Unokucwangcisa yonke into kwangaphambili, kwaye uya kuncedwa ukuba enze amakhadi anemisebenzi enomdla. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuqhuba indalo, yiya kwimiqobo eyahlukeneyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni ufumane umvuzo ophambili. Ekupheleni kwemfuno enjalo, ungawusondeza umyeni kwangaphambili ngesipho esilungisiweyo, okanye ulungiselele iqela kwindlu yehlathi. Inkwenkwe enjalo iyayithanda le ndoda.
Iqela le-bachelor liqela lomyeni. Kwaye ke kuya kuba sengqiqweni ukuba iphupha lakhe elide lizaliseke kumsitho onjalo. Umzekelo, ukuba uyazi ngqo ukuba i-room ide iphuphe i-throtrub okanye malunga neparachute, kutheni wonke umntu engayi kuzalisekisa iphupha elide lombhiyozo. Kwaye emva kokuqala kwenkwenkwe enjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uye kwiqela lasebusuku ekufuphi okanye i-bar, kwaye sele kukho ukuqhubeka nokuzonwabisa.
Kwimeko apho umbhiyozo ucwangciselwe ngexesha lasebusika, kungcono ukuya ezintabeni. Apho unokususa i-cottiby cottage yolo msitho wolonwabo. Ukwenza ukuba ukhwele emva kwemini, unokukhwela iibhodi zekhephu okanye skis. Emva kokuzonwabisa okunjalo, kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuqhubeka ngokuhlwa kwindawo efudumeleyo necokisekileyo, ukufudumala kwindawo yomlilo ngeglasi yesayilithi, kwaye emva kokuba ucwangcise itheko elinomdaniso.
Naphi na apho ucwangcisa isoka, ukuze ayonwabele kwaye angalibaleki, kuyanyanzeleka ukuba ilungiselele ukhuphiswano olwenziweyo kwangaphambili. Umzekelo, isifungo somyeni awawungasibali abahlobo kwaye sidibane nabo ngenyanga, sele eyinxalenye yesiqhelo neyesiko lepati ye-bachelor.
Bona Okuninzi.
Sisiphi isipho?
Njengoko isoka lingumsitho ofanayo kubomi bomntu, njengomtshato, emva koko abahlobo bahlala benika umyeni ukuya kwi-bachelor party parth carty yeqela lesiseko kunye nesikhumbuzo. Ewe kunjalo, umbutho wesiganeko ngokwakhe sisipho, kodwa ndihlala ndifuna ukuveza into eza kuthuthumela ngomyeni malunga noku kuhlwa ngokuhlwa ngokuhlwa.
Okwangoku akufuneki ibize, kuba uya kunika izipho zomtshato. Kwaye njengesipho sokuhlonitshwa kwepati yeBachelor, inkcazo-ntetho encinci nengalibaleki ilungele kakhulu.
Umzekelo, unokunika umyeni uBhatsheluli onesidima onombhalo wokuqala, ezinye iihlaya, malunga nokuba wazi kuphela. Kwaye njengesiqhelo, i-T-shirt enencwadi ebhaliweyo malunga nesoka elidlulileyo lilungile.
Indoda nganye iyakuvuyela ukunika isipho esinje ngebhotile yesiselo esizithandayo. Ngendlela, le yangoku inokuhamba kunye neposikhadi ye-gortic, kwaye emva kokuthatha umyeni onomyeni odibana nabo, umzekelo, kunyaka kamva.
Ukuba uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo malunga nezinto ozithandayo kunye ne-hobby yombhiyozo wombhiyozo, ungasinika izinto ezingezizo okanye igadasi ukuba iya kuba yiyo. Umzekelo, kunokubangela i-imateur yokuloba ama-Amateur, ingqekembe ehlanganisiweyo ye-wigsm, isibane sokuqala sokuthanda i-cigars, isigcina-ntloko esitsha kwisithuthuthu seAmateur njalo. Esi sipho siye kumyeni uya konwaba.
Ngapha koko, unokumnika umniki-mva onjalo, ukuba asebenzise ukuba anakho neqabane lakho elincinci. Umzekelo, eli litikiti leentsuku ezininzi kwindlu yokukhwela ilizwe, isatifikethi sokuxhuma ngeparachute sababini, ukubamba ifoto, ukukhwela ihashe. Ingqwalaselo evela kubahlobo ayizukuqonda kuphela i-cingo ngokwayo, kodwa kunye nomtshakazi wakhe omncinci. Intombazana ngokukhawuleza iyakuqonda ukuba yintoni abahlobo abalungileyo nabanenkathalo aneqabane lakhe elizayo, kwaye bayakuvuyela ukumyeka aye ezintlanganisweni kunye nabadiketheli.
