Onke amazwe angcwele ngaphezu kweZithethe nezithethe zoosikowo kumanqanaba obomi amaninzi. Inzala ethile malunga noku ngumsitho womtshato, okwilizwe ngalinye linempawu zalo zomlinganiswa. I-Azerbaijan, apho ukudalwa kwentsapho kuya kusondela kakhulu, akukho njalo. Umtshato waseAzerbaijani umtshato wandulelwa ngamalungiselelo amakhulu, kubandakanya nezenzo ezininzi zesiko.
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Iimpawu zokukhetha umtshakazi
Umsitho womtshato eAzerbaijan unezithethe ezahlukeneyo zethambo, amasiko amadala, ezibanjelwe phambi komtshato, kwaye emva kwayo. Ngokuphathelele emtshatweni, umtshato kweli lizwe ubonakaliswa ububanzi nobubanzi. Njengaye kwenye indawo, eAzerbaijan, u-Asanda ubeka izinto kwiMilinganiselo efumene ukukhululeka.
Kodwa izithethe zifuna ukuba i-Azerbaijanic incinci yahlukile ekuthomeni kwendlela yokuziphatha. Amantombazana amaninzi ahlala enxibelelana kuphela ngabafana nonyana, ekuphepheni uluntu lwabantu abancinci.
Eyona nto iphambili ekukhetheni komtshakazi wexesha elizayo yendoda. Kodwa uluvo lwabazali luthathelwa ingqalelo, umyeni wexesha elizayo kufuneka afumane imvume yabo kwimanyano nentombazana ekhethwe nguye. Ulutsha lulandela umbono wabazali babo kwaye ungaze ubachase. Ukungavumiswa ngabazali kuhlala kutshintsha izicwangciso zobuntu.
Inkangeleko kunye nomtsalane wentombazana ihlala idlala indima enkulu. Lo mfana ubonakalisa intombazana kubazali bayo, emva koko intsapho yakhe ifuna ngale ntombazana nosapho lwayo. Kwimeko apho abazali bomntu bafumana into bengawaqhamisi, ngoko nangoko bavakalisa ngayo. Ukuba le ntombazana yanelisekile ngabazali kuyo yonke into, emva koko enye yezihlobo ihlawuliswa ngolwazi oluneenkcukacha. NjengeSwatch, udadewethu omdala womyeni, umakhulu, umakhulu.
Ukuqokelela ulwazi, i-Swahah ingqwalaselo eninzi ihlawula imeko yezixhobo zosapho lwentombazana Ukufumanisa ukuba umyeni wexesha elizayo uya kuba nakho ukubonelela ngemeko yomfazi wakhe wobomi bentsapho. Imeko yentlalo ibalulekile kuluntu lwentsapho yakhe, nokuba iyakuthanda nembeko negunya. Iimpawu zobuqu zomtshakazi zithathelwa ingqalelo. Imfundo yemveli ye-Azerbaijani ifuna ukuba intombazana ifunde abazali kunye nazo zonke izalamane, isimo sengqondo sokukhathalela amalungu osapho omncinci.
Ezi mpawu zilandelayo zomtshakazi zifunyenwe:
- ukuthozama kunye nokuziphatha eluntwini;
- ubuchule boqoqosho;
- Izakhono zeCusinary;
- imeko yempilo yakhe;
- inqanaba lemfundo.
Ubudala bentombazana ayibonakali ukubaluleka kakhulu. Izithethe eAzerbaijan zikuvumela ukuba utshate nentombazana emva kokufikelela kwiminyaka eli-14 ubudala.
Kukho amaxesha anqabileyo:
- AmaSilamsi akanakutshata nomntu ongaphakathi, ngelixa i-muslim inokuthi itshatise umKristu kunye nomYuda;
- Kungafumaneki imitshato engamkeleki ngegazi kwizalamane ezithe ngqo.
Emva kokuthotyelwa kwayo yonke imizuzu kunye nokuvunywa ngabazali kusapho, la mantombazana athumela isihlobo esinye ukufumana umbono wabazali bakhe. Ngutata wakhe ekufuneka avume lo manyano. Emva kokufumana imvume kaBawo, umsitho womdlalo uyaqhubeka.
Iluki njani?
EAzerbaijan, udonga lukwanalo iinkcukacha zalo: Inamanqanaba amabini-uthando luncinci kwaye lukhulu. Udonga oluncinci luqala ngengxoxo kayise womfana nosapho lonke. Wonke umntu uvakalisa uluvo lwakhe awaphulaphula ngalo. Kwaye emva koko, umdlalo wathunyelwa kusapho lomtshakazi.
Njengommiselo, umama kunye nezihlobo ezintathu zomyeni (oontanga babantu abadala, umakhulu, umakhulu) abandakanyeka kumdlalo omncinci wemidlalo. Emva kokwenza izisombululo ezihlangeneyo kubafazi beentsapho, ootata kwiintsapho ziyahlangana nokuqhubeka komdlalo. Utata kaYunoi kufuneka ahambe amadoda amathathu: okanye izalamane, okanye abantu, bonke abahlonitshwayo. Utata uvakalisa utata womnqweno ongumfazi oselula wokutshata unyana wakhe.
Ukulandela isiko, utata womtshakazi uyala okokuqala, ebhekisela kwinto yokuba kubalulekile ukuba uyazi umbono wentombazana ngokwayo. Isivumelwano, intombazana ithe cwaka. Kule migudu yodonga oluncinci, kwaye abathengisi bathetha kakuhle.
Inqanaba lesibini ngumdlalo omkhulu-uqala ngengxubusho ye-Azerbaijan yomtshakazi. Abafazi bavela kusapho lomkhwenyana baya kwintombazana ukuze bafumane iminqweno yakhe malunga nomtshato wexesha elizayo. Emva koko, umhla wokutyelelwa kumdlalo womdlalo uyaqeshwa.
Ukuphinda uphinda-phinda ukugqitha kwaye ngetheko phambi kweendwendwe. Isityalo seMarmaker sesona sizwe sibekekileyo kwaye siphathwa ngesisa ngezitya ezahlukeneyo zeAzerbaijani.
Ukuya kumtshakazi omkhulu onodonga akunakuba, ngeli xesha lixesha kunye nomama, omsusayo kwiintombi zakhe. Umbuyisi obuyayo wentombazana ngexesha lokugcina amanzi, egcina ukuthula, ngaloo ndlela echaza inkxalabo ngekamva lentombazana yakhe.
Izihlobo zentombazana zincokola ngokuzonwabisa kunye nabalingane. Umsitho ubanjelwe kwindawo efudumeleyo kwaye uqale kuxoxwe ngezihloko zasezintlanganisweni: ezidolophini okanye kwimicimbi yasezidolophini, kwiindaba, imozulu. Kwaye emva koko, umbuzo ophambili wokuvumelana komtshato bubuzwa. Utata ka-Azerbaijani usikelela abancinci, kwaye omnye woodade abangxamileyo ukwazisa iindaba zovuyo zoMfazi, onokuthi abuyele ekhaya kuphela emva kokusebenza komdlalo.
Bazali bavuyisana nentombi efikayo, ifanekisela ubomi bentsapho obonwabisayo.
Emva koko qhubela phambili ukubandakanyeka, kwaye uphindwe kabini. Inkcitho yokuzibandakanya endlini nguMtshakazi. Umkhweli othembekileyo ubeka iringi yomtshakazi emnqweni, kwaye entloko - itshefu. Emva kokuba etya isiqingatha sendlela emnandi, ezinye zinxulumene ne-feance.
Emva kokumka kwabathunywa besinye, uMtshakazi wanelisekile yitheko yeBachelorette: gubungela itafile ngazo zonke iintlobo zezitya ezimnandi, ezifuzisela ubomi obonwabisayo nosapho.
Emva kwexesha elithile, kudlula ukubandakanyeka kwesibini. Kukuphawulwe ngokubanzi ngesimemo sokunganeli nje kuphela, kodwa kunye nabahlobo, abamelwane. I-Rodin Groom inika izipho zomfazi. Emva koko iintsapho zixoxa ngesixa semali yokuthenga kwakhona kunye nemvumelwano yemvumelwano apho imali yembuyekezo eyenziwa ngayo ngoqhawulo-mtshato.
Ubomi bale mihla buyatshintsha iimfuno zemithetho yendalo yosapho. ERussia, okwangoku, imibutho yabasebenzi yamanye amazwe, kubandakanya iAzerbaijlis neRussia, iye yaba yinto eqhelekileyo. Umtshato onjalo unokwenzeka ukuba izalamane zomyeni azichaze kwi-Russian-Azerbaijani yomtshato.
Ukuba, emva komtshato, usapho olunjalo luye kwilizwe lendoda yakhe, emva koko umfazi waseRussia kuya kufuneka aqhele kwaye azithathele izithethe zeAzerbaijan.
Izithethe zomtshato womtshato
Ukusuka ekuzikheleni de kube ngumtshato kufuneka uqhubeke kwiinyanga ezininzi eziyimfuneko ukuze uyilungiselele. Kukho amasiko okwenza ngeli xesha nakwesihlandlo nakwezinye izithethe ezinomdla. Kudala ngaphambi komtshato, indoda yeentsapho ezimbini inika umbhiyozo womtshato kwaye ichonge amaxesha afanelekileyo njengemenyu, ukuhamba komculo, inani elimenyiweyo.
Ngexesha lokulungiselela komtshato, usapho lomgodi lunika umtshakazi izipho ezahlukeneyo: Ilaphu elihle, iingubo ezihonjisiweyo ezihonjisiweyo, isikhafu semibala eyahlukeneyo, imihombiso.
Ngombhiyozo endlwini yendlu ukuya kuMyeni, i-dowry ithuthwa. Yenza ukuba nabani na ahlukane nabantu (umzalwana, umalume), lowo umama womyeni anika isipho.
Ukuqala komtshato waseAzerbaijani kwenzeka endlwini yomtshakazi. Ngokukhupha umculo ovakalayo wabhengeza ukuqala kweholide. Ngokuthe ngcembe, indlu izaliswe ziindwendwe ezinika izipho, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ihlalwe itafile ukuze inyangwe, nganye nganye iindwendwe kufuneka ihlawule, isuse imali kwiKazan.
Emini, iingoma zomtshato wesizwe kunye nesandi somculo. Isalamane kuphela soMdaniso womyeni kunye noMtshakazi. Iholide ihlala ixesha elide, kwaye ngokuhlwa usapho lwemigodi lugoduka ilungiselele umbhiyozo ekhayeni lakhe.
Umgodi uya kuba ngumtshakazi. Ukufika komyeni, i-rite yeengcingo zomfazi iqhutywa. Abazali batshintshiselana ngesipho banikwa abameli besitshixo se-Groom egumbini, apho uMtshakazi ukho khona. Ngokusikelela intombi, abazali bagubungela intloko ngomkhusane, i-ribbon ebomvu ityhuwe kwaye isuswe endlwini.
I-BonFire sele iqhawule umtshato ecaleni kwendlu, apho uMtshakazi uyajikeleza, ukuze ukukhanya nobushushu bekuhlala kuye umyeni wakhe endlwini. Yenza ezinye iintshukumo zesiko:
- Indlu yakhe yayineendonga ezinokuthenjwa, iphoswa ngamatye;
- Ukuze abantu baselula bengazange boyise ukuba lusizi nokulangazelela, amanzi agalelwe phantsi kweenyawo zakhe;
- Ukuze amazibulo entsatsheni abe ngunyana, intombazana inikwe ukubambelela kwizandla zenkwenkwe;
Igazi lexhwane lemvariweyo lifaka isicelo kwingubo kwaye inyibilike ibunzi lakhe kumtshakazi, ukuze kube lula kuye ukuba angene kwintsapho entsha kwaye amisele ubudlelwane obulungileyo;
Ubomi baba sisityebi, irayisi, iilekese, iilekese ezincinci entlokweni yomtshakazi.
Emva kwezi ntetho, uMtshakazi ukhokelela kumyeni ukuba aye endlwini yakhe, kwaye iintombi kunye neendwendwe zithintele, zifuna intlawulelo.
Ngendlela yenkqubo yomtshato endlwini yoMtshakazi, uMtshakazi ususa inyamakazi yakhe. Ke uyalumkisa ngokufika kwakhe. Kumnyango wendlu yomyeni, uyaphula iplate ilele apho.
Umamazala kufuneka alandele uMtshakazi entloko ukuze avume. Umbhiyozo uyaqhubeka kumkhwenyana endlini.
Iingubo
Isibini esincinci sifuna ukukhangela ngemini yomtshato wakhe oyena mhle kakhulu. Ke ngoko, banikela ingqalelo enkulu kwiingubo zabo ezikhethwe ngokupheleleyo kwaye zikhethwe ngononophelo.
Umyeni
Ngeentsuku zakudala, ingxaki yokuzikhethela, yintoni onokunxiba umtshato, andizange ndime phambi komyeni. Yayisoloko iyingubo yomtshato yesizwe. Okwangoku, abantu abaselula bakhetha iimpahla ze-Europe-sty-ngesiqhelo le yimpahla kathathu.
Isinxibo sinokuba ziziko zombini ngokwesiko elimnyama kunye neethoni ezikhanyayo.
Inkangeleko engathethekiyo inika "ibhabhathane" endaweni ye-tie kunye ne-boutonniere kwilog. Ngamanye amaxesha umkhwenyana unxibe i-tubitte.
Umtshakazi
I-Azerbaijan Bridedas kwaye ngoku zinokunxiba isinxibo esibomvu sikazwelonke okanye sikhetha isinxibo salo naluphi na umbala. Isinxibo kufuneka sijonge ngokuthozama, kodwa sihle kwaye sithandeka. I-subs kwizicubu ezibiza kakhulu nezinobunkunkqele, ihonjiswe nge-Shoidry, Lace kunye nezinye izinto ze-DECOR.
Kukho inani leempawu ezilandelayo xa ukhetha ingubo:
Kufanele ukuba inqunyulwe ngokuthobekileyo, ibe nemikhono emide kunye namabele avalekileyo;
Kwingubo yokuphuma, umtshakazi kufuneka abe ngombala obomvu.
Umdiza womtshato womtshakazi ubonakaliswa ngokuqaqamba kwengubo kunye ne-facurtyles ezivumbayo. Inqaku eligunyazisiweyo ngumthengisi weLace, idla-mtshayi inxitywe njengomhlobiso wesithsaba, amacici, umgexo, ukumiswa.
Okwangoku, iAzebaijani iyahethwa ziimpahla zomtshato zanamhlanje. Ihonjiswe ngamatye, imisonto yegolide. Ukuthatha irhafu kwisiko, isinxibo esimhlophe siyadinwa ngebhanti elibomvu okanye iribhoni.
Phambi komtshato, uMtshakazi uhombisa izandla zepateni ezintsonkothileyo ezikwi-henna.
Iindwendwe
Kuba umtshato apho zihlobo ezikude nezikude zeentsapho ezimbini, wonke umntu uzama ukutyeka kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye ulungile. Amadoda esizukulwana esidala sihlala sinamathela kwizinxibo ezingqongqo. Abantu abancinci banokufumana isitayile esingakumbi sentando yesininzi.
Abafazi bazama ukunxiba ngobubele nangekutshabhise, kwaye amantombazana akhetha iimpahla eziqaqambileyo. Kodwa wonke umntu kufuneka athobele umgaqo ophambili: akunakwenzeka ukuba uqhubeke nokudlula kwingubo yomtshato.
Yintoni enikezelwa kwitafile yomsitho?
Umtshato waseAzerbaijani ubhiyozelwa ngomgangatho, kwaye iitafile zemibhiyozo zaphulwe kwiimpango ezingezizo nje kuphela, kodwa zihonjiswe ngobubele.
Imenyu yahlulwe ziintlobo ngeentlobo zeenkomo zenyama yenyama, iintaka ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kukhethwayo zinikwa iMvana: Kyufsa-Bozbash, Dolma, U-Sabab, uKebab.
Isitya esiqhelekileyo se-pilaf, iindlela zokupheka apho kukho kakhulu.
Into ebalulekileyo yesitya ngasinye inamabele anencasa kunye nemifuno evuzayo kwizixa ezikhulu.
Ukusika imifuno eyahlukeneyo kunye nee-choles kungekuphela nje kubangela umdla, kodwa umele uhlobo lokuhonjiswa kwetafile.
Zininzi iziqhamo kunye nezitya ezimnandi zikazwelonke kwiitafile: I-Pakhlava, iChinearrs, i-Schecker bura.
Iziselo ezininzi ezithambileyo - uShrchebet, uDosbab, ovela kwi-Wiaucasian Wines, iBrandy kunye nesiselo sikazwelonke - tutovoy raby.
Unika ntoni ngombhiyozo?
Ngenxa yezipho eAzerbaijan ezamkelwe sele evuliwe.
Uninzi luhlala lunxiba, ukuhonjiswa, iindwangu, izinto zelungiselelo lobomi.
Kumbhiyozo womtshato, imali yenziwa ukunika imali. Phambi kokungena endlwini okanye kwigumbi apho umtshato ugqitha, babeka ibhokisi okanye ibhokisi ehlotyeweyo, apho iindwendwe zisezantsi khona imali ethile. Inokuba yahlukile, kodwa ingaphantsi kwe-50 ye-50 ayimkelwanga. Ukongeza kwimali, umkhwenyana wentsapho unika iseti ye-chibby entsha.
Ukongeza, izinto zasekhaya zokucwangciswa kunye nokuhonjiswa kwekhaya kunokunika.
Izipho ezinkulu zisongelwe kwizifuba eziboshwe ziiribhoni ezibomvu, kwaye zincinci kwiitreyi zokuhombisa.
Uya kufunda ngakumbi malunga nezithethe kunye nezithethe ze-Azerbaijaning, ibone ividiyo elandelayo.