Imvakalelo yokuhlekisa inokubizwa ngokuba sisipho esihle sekamva, kuba ayinguye wonke umntu ovela kwindalo onolu nqanaba. Kwaye uninzi kakhulu ndingathanda ukufunda ukuhlekisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umntu onoburharha uhlala ehleli esweni, kulula kuye ukufumana ukunxibelelana nabanye, ukufezekisa uvelwano lwesini esahlukileyo. Kodwa ukuba kukho umnqweno omkhulu wokuba yi-humarist, ubuncinci bakho abantu bakho kunye nabahlobo bakho, kufuneka ufunde ngakumbi, indlela yokukhulisa ukuhlekisa kwaye ufunde ukuhlekisa.
Imigaqo esisiseko
Kwakufanele ukuba ukhulule ukuba ukufundisisa indlela ehlekisayo ngayo ngosuku olunye ayisebenzi. Lo ngumsebenzi omde ofuna indlela edityanisiweyo. Ukuphuhlisa imvakalelo yokuhlekisa, kufuneka utshintshe isimo sengqondo malunga nawe kunye nehlabathi elikungqongileyo, okokuqala kwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Kuya kuthatha ixesha, umonde, uqeqesho. Cinga ngezinto ezinokubandakanya utshintsho.
- Ukuba ungumntu onobuchule, sele ulungile. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kufuneka uqale ngokuphuhlisa amandla okunxibelelana nabantu. Ngaphandle kwayo nangayiphi na indlela. Kuya kufuneka ufunde indlela yokubuza imibuzo, ixhasa incoko, musa ukoyika ukujoyina incoko, ungakuphephe iinkampani. Kuya kufuneka uphulaphule iimvakalelo zabanye, ukuba uziqonde, ukuba uziqonde, ukuba usabele ngokuchanekileyo kwaye uzame ukufumanisa indlela abanye abakuphatha ngayo - mhlawumbi akulunganga kakhulu. Zonke ezi zinto zithanda kakhulu zibaluleke kakhulu. Ngokuthe ngcembe iyaphumelela ekuphuculeni iimpawu zabo zonxibelelwano.
- Ihlaya ngalinye alikho nje amazwi obudenge akhutshwe endaweni. Kufuneka ithethe. Ungahlekisa kwaye kufuneka ube nezihloko ezahlukeneyo, ngelixa onke amazwi afanele ukuba afaneleke, kuphela ukuhlekisa kuphela kwaye afumane impendulo evela kubaxhasi. Kule nto kufuneka ube ngumntu ongumntu. Ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba ufunde kakhulu (iya kuba negalelo ekukhuleni kwesigama), ndwendwela indawo yethiyetha, imiboniso kunye nezinye iziganeko zenkcubeko, zinxibelelana nabantu abanomdla.
- Lowo ufuna ukulwa isandi esijikeleze kunye namahlaya akhe kufuneka akwazi ukuhleka. Amabali malunga neemeko ezihlekisayo ezivela kumava obuqu ahlala ethathwa ngendlela efanelekileyo, le yindlela eqinisekileyo yokubeka umntu onxibelelana ngokwakho kwaye woyisa yonke inkampani. Ukuba ungumntu ovuthayo, ungathandi ukubhengeza ukubonakala kweemvakalelo zakhe kunye neemvakalelo zakhe, kuya kusingathwa. Umqobo wengqondo kuya kufuneka woyise.
- Kufuneka ukwazi ukubona ubuso phakathi kokuhlekisa kunye nokuhlekisa. Kwenzeka ukuba i-joke inokuvakala njengexesha lokukhubekisa umntu okanye othulu. Kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukuziva ngalo mzuzu xa ungahlekisa, kwaye xa ungafanelekanga ukwenza le nto. Ukongeza, imeko yabantu ifanele ifakiwe, mamela intuindition. I-Josy Joke, kodwa akukho mntu ucimeyo indlela yokuziphatha kunye nokuyimfuneko. Kwanele ukuhlekisa kangangezihlandlo ezininzi ukuze kamva kwinkampani yomntu obonwa ngokungakwazi ukuziphathe ngokufanelekileyo.
- Ukufumana amava, kuya kufuneka ujongeke ngakumbi kwisicwangciso esiphezulu seSicwangciso esiPhezulu - kwiindlela zikamabonwakude, kwi-Intanethi, funda iincwadi, ukubukeli. Ngokuqinisekileyo oku ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuxhamla. Oku kuyakuvumela ufunde indlela yokuqonda ukuba ihle, kwaye iphi iphi.
- Ukuvumela ukuhlekisa ebomini bakho, kufuneka ube nethemba, kuyo nayiphi na imeko ukufumana amaxesha afanelekileyo. Kwaye nakwimbandezelo ijonge kwi-prism yokuhlekisa. Kuya kufuneka uncume rhoqo kwaye ubenakho ukuphazamisa iingxaki. Ewe kunjalo, ayiyi kusebenza kwangoko, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ngoqeqesho oluphezulu, inkqubo iya kuqhubeka ngempumelelo.
- Kukho enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo-akufuneki uxelise nabani na kwaye ukhuphele nabani na. Ixabiso kukuba ubuntu, ukwenza isitayile sakho. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ekuqaleni, kwaye nasemva koko, amahlaya omntu awanakuphinda abeke kwakhona. Ngokuqinisekileyo. Ndifuna nje ukuzama ukuyigculela ngokwenene kwaye ungazixeleli ngumbhali webali lomnye umntu.
- Ungaze uphelelwe lithemba kwizigqibo zokuqala. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ihlaya liyahlekisa, kodwa akukho mntu uhleka, oko akuthethi ukuba isibetho sakho asifanelekanga naphina.
Mhlawumbi namhlanje abahlobo bakho abanandlela okanye nikwinkampani apho abantu baziva behlekisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yahlukile.
Yintoni ihlayo malunga?
I-joke ayisiyo iseti yamagama nje. Kukho abantu ababandakanyekayo ekubhaleleni imizimba ehlekisayo, kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha kuzalwe nje imililo yamahlaya. Kodwa italente kunye namava athile. Ukuqala, kufanele ukuba iqondwe ukuba ihlaya lincinci kakhulu, kodwa umsebenzi woncwadi. Ke ngoko, ikwanetiya, ukuphuculwa kweplani kunye nokushiywa, nangona kusenzeka ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwi-joke yithuba elingalindelekanga. Ukusuka koku kwaye yenzeka ukuba ihlekise. I-joke inokwahlulwa yangamacandelo anje:
- I-zinc, ikhowudi yinkcazo yemeko;
- Obizwa ngokuba ngumgibe, onyanzela uMphulaphuli ukuba alungiselele ukuphuhliswa okuthile kweziganeko;
- Ukumangalisa kukujika ngequbuliso ngesiphelo esingalindelekanga, ekungekho mntu unokucinga ngayo.
Intsingiselo kukuba kubonakala ngathi yimeko esemgangathweni apho umntu ebomini banokujamelana nawo ebomini, unomgangatho ongaphezulu, ekungekho namnye ulungeleyo kwaye awulindelanga ukuva indlebe. Ngokufanelekileyo, ibangela impendulo ngendlela yokuhleka.
Abamkeli
I-Will-Inqanaba elifanelekileyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, unokuphendula ihlaya eliqaqambileyo, uthobe impixano, hlula imeko yexesha. Kodwa ayingabo bonke abantu abanikwe ukuba babe netalente enjalo, kwaye ngenxa yoko abanye baya kuthi baqale ekuqaleni, bafunda baphila ukuze baphendule eluntwini, bakonwabele kwaye babangele umdla kubantu abadala kunye nabantwana.Kuya kufuneka ufumane isitayela sakho kwaye wenze imithambo yonke imihla, imizekelo yokufunda yabanye abantu abahlekisayo, bawukhange amabinzana ahlekisayo. Kungoko kuphela iya kuba nakho ukusebenza kweyona nto ihlekisayo kwaye izuze ukuzithemba. Ukuphuhliswa kobuchule bayo kufuneka kuqala ngokuqwalaselwa kwezinto ezikhoyo xa usenza amahlaya.
Inkcaso yobuxoki
Umgaqo wokwakhiwa okunjalo kokuhlelwa kukuba isiphelo sehlehlekiso akufaneli ngokupheleleyo ekuqaleni, kodwa oku kufanelekile oko kukomeleza. Njengomzekelo, apha ungazisa ibinzana lomsebenzi we-Ch. I-Dickens: "Wayenombala ophuzi we-tyhele, oxhasa ubuqhetseba obuqaqambileyo ngempumlo." Inkcazo enjalo inika umbhali wentombazana, kwaye yonke into iyakulunga ukuba umbala webala ujikelele i-blish, kodwa impumlo ivela ngokungalindelekanga, kwaye sele ihlekisa.
I-Ameblication
Kule meko, yonke into yakhelwe kwinto yokuba isiphelo sisiqinisekiso sokuqala, kodwa oku kukuqala nje. Ngapha koko, ngakumbi ukulandela umlo. Njengomzekelo, unokujonga njalo xa iHeine ixelela umbono wakhe malunga nomnye umhlobo, ukuthelekisa nenenekazi neVenus Milos, kodwa kwangaxeshanye wabona ukuba wayendala kwaye engenanto. Ngenxa yoko, ngenxa yesiphelo esinjalo, intsingiselo yeli binzana linikezelwa ngokupheleleyo.Nxibelelana ne-Adsard
Igama elithi igama lizithetha. Nasiphi na isiteyitimenti sinokuziswa kwingxolo. Into ephambili kukuphendula ipholile kunye nesihloko. Umzekelo, umntu uvakalise ingcinga, umntu unokwenza ngathi uyavumelana naye, kodwa emva koko uyiguqule phezu kwayo ukuze intsingiselo ibuye umva. Kwindawo yokwamkelwa, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokukhetha iindlela ezibonakalayo, ukugqithisa okanye ukuntywila kusetyenziswa rhoqo. Umzekelo, umzekelo, kuyaqondakala into yokuthelekisa: "Ukukhanya, njengoko kunjalo ebusuku."
Ungaqeqesha kwinkqubo yonxibelelwano yonke imihla.
Uthelekiso olungalindelekanga
Obu buchule bulula kakhulu. Ungakhetha ngokupheleleyo amagama kwaye uthelekise ngezinto ezingekho kwaphela kule meko. Umzekelo, unokuthi, izandla ziyabanda, njengamafutha aqaqambileyo, okanye ingcinga iphuhliswa, njengomthi. Ke ijika izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye ne-phenomena, unokuza nento ehlekisayo.
Inokuthenjwa
Kule meko, kufuneka usebenzise iikhonsepthi ezikhethekileyo ezikhoyo eziza kuqhagamshela kunye. Umzekelo sisigwebo esinjalo: "Kobanye uBukumkani, urhulumente othile, kwabakho inkosazana efileyo." Okanye unokusebenzisa igama ngexabiso elinye, emva koko kwelinye: "Inzululwazi enye yathi umhlaba awungomjikelezo, umnyama kwaye umdaka."Ukuxuba isitayile
Obu buchule bubandakanya ukudibanisa into ebalulekileyo yenqanaba, phezulu ngemihla yemihla ngemihla. Sebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo nakweyiphi na iimeko kwisangqa sabahlobo. Njengomzekelo, 'intetho' yeHard "inokuziswa.
Icebiso
Intsingiselo ayisiyonto ichaza ngokuthe ngqo isimo sakho sengqondo malunga nemeko, kodwa ngoncedo lwamanye amagama, kodwa ukuze licace. Ungayijonga le meko. Abantu ababini bahlala etafileni, ngequbuliso omnye wabo ubeka kwitafile yonyawo. Enye inokuthi kuyo: "Zive ukhululekile ukubeka yonke imilenze yoma kwitafile", ngenxa yoko, ukonakalisa umntu okufana nomntu kunye nesilwanyana seli ntlungu.
Ukutolikwa kabini kwegama
Le ndlela isekwe ekusebenziseni ii-smonyms. Igama elinye linokuba namaxabiso aliqela. Umzekelo, ukutshiza yi-hairstyle kunye nesixhobo sokusebenza, isibambo sisifundo sokubhala, amayeza omnyango kunye nohlobo olunzulu lwegama "Sake". Kwaye kukho amagama anjalo ngesiRashiya.Irony
Sisebenzisa amahlaya anjalo rhoqo. Ke, ungatsalela umnxeba umlo osisiyatha obizwa ngokuba yi-Smart, umntu ogreceli obizwa ngokuba nesibindi, emdaka - ucocekile. Ngokusekwe kulo mgaqo, kulula ukubhala iziqhulo.
Thelekisa uphawu olungaqhelekanga
Uthelekiso olunjalo lwenzeka phakathi kwezinto ezingadityaniswanga nangayiphi na indlela okanye zinxulunyaniswa kakhulu. Umzekelo, ndingawudibanisa njani umthetho kunye neposi. Kubonakala ngathi yinto eqhelekileyo. Kodwa nkqu, akunakwenzeka ukuwela, kodwa ungahamba.I-paradox
Kubalulekile ukuqokelela ndawonye izinto ezingqubana nokuxabana kwaye kwenze njalo kangangokuba kwakumnandi. Umzekelo, sinokuthi ezona zinzima emhlabeni zilele kwisofa nelingesisemthethweni. Kwaye ngokungakhathali, kunye nokuhlekisa. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela ehlekisayo, kufuneka ihlale ikhunjulwa ukuba isivumu sibe yindawo. Asinguye wonke umntu oqondayo, umzekelo, abahle kakhulu.
Ukongeza, kufanelekile ukuqonda ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ukonwabisa iintsilelo zabantu okanye iimeko zinokungafanelekanga. Kuya kufuneka uzame obu bunzima babambe.
Imithambo
Ukuze ufunde indlela yokuhlekisa, kufuneka uqeqeshele uburharha bakho, nokuba akukho lukhulu kakhulu. Ungayifaka nayiphi na ihlaya elidumileyo okanye ukubuyisela umhlobo wakho ocaphuka ngento ethile, indawo elungileyo yomoya. Zama ukukholisa umfazi, phakamisa imo yabantu abasebenza nabo - yonke le nto yoqeqesho olulungileyo, oluya kunceda ukunyusa amathuba okuphumelela. Ukuqala, kuyacetyiswa ukuba usebenzise imithambo ethile.
- Kuya kufuneka ukuba uze namagama amaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwileta enye, kwaye emva koko kula magama ukuzoba izindululo. Ukuzilolonga okunjalo kuyanda isigama (kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu), ikuvumela ukuba ucinge ukuba ucinga rhoqo yonke imihla. Umzekelo, uthathe ileta "b". Amagama asusiweyo: I-fork, iwizard, inamathele, yathatha, ikhola, i-collarit. Unokwenza isicelo: "I-wizard yathatha iplagi, ibambelele kwikhola."
- Ngexesha elifutshane kufuneka uthathelethelwe uninzi lwemibutho emininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Abangaqhelekanga kwaye bayamqaqambisa, abangcono. Ukongeza, unokuza namagama anje, ngokuchaseneyo, awunakunxulumana nezi zimvo. Yonke le nto iqeqesha ngokugqibeleleyo ukucinga. Umzekelo, sithatha igama elithi "ihlobo". Yintoni le mibutho? Ulwandle, ilanga, laberlls, iintyatyambo, ubushushu, iholide, phumla. Kwaye yintoni engenakudityaniswa ngokupheleleyo nehlobo? Usizi, ukubanda, isiketi, ice, isithukuthezi.
- Sikhangela amagama aneentsingiselo ezininzi. Sizama ukukwenza ngokukhawuleza kwaye sizuze amagama amaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Umzekelo, isitshixo ngumnyango, umngxunya, isitshixo kwixabiso lomjelo, isitshixo kwixabiso le "Ripping".
- Fumana nayiphi na into, umzekelo, imbiza, yeza neendlela ezilishumi zokuyisebenzisa.
- Khumbula ezi zifundo zibini ezingadibananga kunye. Zama ukufumana ezi zinto zifana.
- Hlaziya ukutshintshela okhuhlekisayo, zama ukuhlelisa onke amahlaya: I-paradox, irony, inyibilikisi njalo njalo.
- Vula nayiphi na i-log okanye iphephandaba, yiza nazo zonke iifoto zakho.
Yonke le mithambo iya kunceda ukusebenzela isantya sokuphendula, siphuhlise imvakalelo yengcinga, yenza ukucinga bhetyebhetye. Le yinto eyimfuneko yokuphuhlisa imvakalelo yokuhlekisa kwaye ifunde indlela ehlekisayo neqaqambileyo.
