Ibinzana elithi "umfazi onamandla" lokuphendula "wahlukile. Abanye bomona babiza la mazwi, abanye - nge-sircasm kwaye bandezekile. Inyani yile yokuba abafazi abanamandla bamba unxibelelwano olwahlukileyo. Ungayiphatha njani le nto kunye nendlela yokufumana amandla asempilweni, inqaku liza kuxela.
Iziseko zokuzithemba
Iingcali zengqondo kudala zididekile ngumxholo wamandla obhinqileyo. Iipoli zenziwa, kwaye uninzi lwabafazi baqinisekisa ukuba bafuna ukomelela, kuba baya kuba nayiphi na imisebenzi kunye neengxaki egxalabeni. Kodwa uninzi lwamadoda xa besebenzisa ibinzana elithi "umfazi onamandla" echaza imibutho enemigqaliselo yamandulo, eKerasovsky, eya kuthi iyeke amahashe elugqatsweni, kwaye amahashe atshayo afakwe ngokulula. Ngokubanzi, umbutho wabasetyhini unethemba, kwaye amadoda ayalele.
Ukusuka kwi-warriors ngekrele uduthwe uninzi lwabameli besondo elinamandla lokuzama ukukhulula kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Nangona kunjalo Kukho umzobo wengqondo ochaza umfanekiso webhinqa elinamandla ngaphandle kombala oneemvakalelo- njengoko kunjalo. Ke, ukuba sithetha ngeziseko zentshumayelo, kufanelekile ukuba yomelele, nto leyo eyomeleleyo, ingenamandla enza izigqibo, ingenanjongo, intembelo, Ukwazi ngokucacileyo ukuba ufuna ntoni kuye nakwabanye, kubudlelwane nabo.
Inkululeko ayithethi ukuba ithwele iingodo kumagxa xa amadoda ejongiwe kufutshane. Inenekazi elizimeleyo liyayazi into anokuyenza, kodwa yintoni engakhange inyamezele. Kwaye lo luphawu lwamandla. Ngumbono ocacileyo wemida kunye nezithintelo ezivumela umfazi onjalo ngenxa yokuthatha indawo yazo efanelekileyo ebomini.
Ibhinqa eliqinileyo lingeniswe kakhulu ziimvakalelo zakhe, njengoko lihlala lingakamva kwaye lingaphelelwa lixesha elidlulileyo kunye nezithuko, kodwa zenzekile, apha, apha ke ngoku. Yile nto kanye enika isiseko sokuzibamba okuhle kunye nokuziqhelanisa.
Amandla omfazi anika ukhetho olululo lomsebenzi, imfundo ebangela ukuba ibe mncinci, kodwa iqonga elizinzileyo loluntu, olunokwazi ukuzithabathela, ngaphandle koncedo.
Unokuba uqina njani ngokwengqondo?
Amandla engqondo yabasetyhini Yakha ebuntwaneni, Ngayiphi na imeko, ngeli xesha iziseko zendalo zibekwe. Iimpawu zobuqu, ubushushu, imfundo yosapho kunye nezithethe zichaphazela. Zonke izinto "ze-cocktail" zigqiba kancinci ukuba umfazi uba lizimele, eqinile umoya onamandla. Kodwa - ngokuyinxenye. Kwaye le yeyona ngongoma iphambili. Ezona zinto zihlala zizimele, kwaye ukuba kufuneka ube yintombazana eyomeleleyo okanye umfazi, akukho nto ayinakwenzeka. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba ngumntu oqolileyo, kwaye oku akuxhomekekanga kwiminyaka yobudala okanye kwinkolo okanye inkcubeko apho inenekazi likhula khona.
Ukongeza kwinkcazo yomfanekiso wengqondo womfazi omeleleyo, iingcali nazo zasebenza kwimpawu ezibonakalayo zezinto ezingamandla ezibuthathaka, kwaye ukuthelekisa kwezi ntlobo ziza kunceda ekuboniseni ubuthathaka kwaye unyuse amandla obhinqileyo ngokuqonda ngakumbi igama.
Inenekazi elinamandla alinakubonisa indlela yokuziphatha ethembekileyo. Igxile ngakumbi kwintsebenziswano okanye ukuxhomekeka ekudluliseleni, ayizivumeli ukuba ithobe, iphazamise, yaphula indawo yakhe, iphalaza i-phars. Kukuphendula iqabane akuyi kuza nezilangazelelo zakhe, kodwa kuya kuba kukulalanisa.
Abafazi, bomelele bomelele, Zihlala zizikhumbuza ukuba zenzeka kweli lizwe, zinganyamezeli ukuthotywa, kodwa ungangxami okanye umlo, ucinga ukuba nayiphi na imeko kwaye izama ukuphepha ukungaboni ngasonye yonke indlela. Ukuba iyasilela ukuphepha, inenekazi elinamandla alishiyi phambi kotshaba, sele linokhetho oluninzi-ukwazi ukucinga kwangaphambili.
Uluvo lwabantu abajikelezileyo babuhlungu . Ilizwi le-intuition laso libaluleke kakhulu kubo, kwaye bayamphulaphula, ngelixa bebuthathaka bakhula ngenxa yoko bacinga okanye bathetha abanye. Ngenxa yobume boluvo loluntu, abameli abanamandla besiqingatha sobuntu baphantse bakwazi ukunyanzelisa ukholo, ukuvela ngaphandle. Omnye uya kulandela ikhulu leepesenti ukwala ukwala, kwaye ukuba impembelelo iya kuba kunye noxinzelelo, ukwala ke oko kuya kuba nembeko kakhulu.
Umfazi onamandla awusoze azibeke phezulu okanye asezantsi kunabanye. . Uyaqonda ngokulinganayo ilungelo layo kunye nelungelo labanye ngoluvo olukhethekileyo, imida yakho kunye nenkululeko, iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga.
Ukuba umntu akahambelani nolindelo, kunjalo, baya kukhathazeka, kodwa intlekele ayiyi kuba ichanekile. Kwaye nangakumbi, "i-pecalication" yomnye umntu ayiyi kuba sisizathu sezinyosi, ingcikivo okanye ubundlobongela kwidilesi yakhe, kunokuba sibe nobubuthathaka.
Amandla abasetyhini bangaphakathi - Obu bantu bokuvuma kwiimvakalelo zakho, nokuba iyenza ukuba ibe ngumfazi kuqala . Obu buchule bokuqonda uncedo kwaye lunombulelo. Elo bhinqa elinje liyakhalimela ngokulula ngabantu "abanetyhefu", ngaphandle kokuzisola, bashiya ubuntu butshabalalise, uluntu, lulandela "abantwana.
Umfazi onamandla unokucwangcisa, ukubala izenzo kunye namathuba ayo. . Ukuba ngequbuliso kuya kufuneka anike usapho ngenxa yeemeko, ungathandabuzi ukuba uza kujamelana nayo, nokuba wayengazange abe namava. Ukubala, ukukhetha ukhetho lwezicwangciso, umbono ocacileyo weenjongo.
Kumadoda, abafazi abanamandla bayayiqonda Ukukwazi ukuhlonipha ubuntu bakhe, ukugxininisa neemvakalelo kunye neminqweno yakhe, ukunyaniseka . Usapho kunye nentsebenziswano kunye nobuhlakani bengqondo, amadoda abuthathaka ahlala engaphumelelanga, kwaye anqabile amanenekazi aqinileyo. Bafanele kuphela amahlakani anomeleleyo, alinganayo abaya kuba ngabafazi kuphela, kodwa ne-Allies, iintombi ezithembekileyo
Iingcebiso eziluncedo
Abasetyhini abanenjongo yokufumana amandla, iingcali zengqondo zinika iingcebiso eziluncedo eziluncedo.
Ngaphandle kwalo naluphi na ubuqhetseba malunga nabanye. Sukwakha imifanekiso yentsomi yeentombi, amaqabane, oogxa bakho. Susa izimvo zakho ngaphandle kokulindelekileyo ezingeyomfuneko, thabatha amagama kunye nezithembiso, kodwa izenzo zomntu ngamnye. Oku kuyakunceda ukungaziva kuphoxeka ekrakra, kulula ukuthatha inyani.
Kungcono uzifumane. Thetha nawe ngokunyaniseka, vula iminqweno yakho yokwenyani, kubandakanya ukuphendula, kwaye kutheni ufuna amandla kwaphela. Ukuba olu lulo, lubolekwe kuMama, bonke ubomi babonelela ngosapho kunye nendoda - otyhutyha, oko kukuthi, umda omkhulu wokuba imeko iphindaphindwa, kwaye amandla ayiyi kuzisa uyolo ngenxa yoko. Kuyimfuneko ukuthumela amandla kuphela kwindalo, ngenjongo elungileyo apho umphefumlo ulungile.
Yibani nemvakalelo. Amandla awomileyo kwaye akakhathazeki. Umfazi ufanele ukuba abonakalise ezona mvakalelo zibalaseleyo, uthando, uziva unombulelo, ungabi nantlonelo ukuba uvutha nemfesane. Kuya kumnceda ulwalamano olunyanisekileyo nolwexesha elide nabantu.
Yamkela ukuphikisana kwangaphakathi. Obu buchule buza kunceda ukungafihli kwinjongo ukuya kwinjongo, kwaye balandele indlela ekhethiweyo, eqonda ubuchule bayo kunye nendawo ebomini. Ukuze ndizithembile, umntu ophilayo kunye nengqondo, qinisa, kufuneka uzame ukukhupha bonke abantu base-psychotroms. Ukuba baqokelele kakhulu, kungcono ukuguqukela kwi-psychotherapist, i-goestalt-therapist okanye i-psychologist. Ezi ngcanya ziya kunceda ukuba zifumane oonobangela bokuthandabuza kunye nokoyika, zoyise, kwaye amandla angaphakathi angaphakathi aya kuza endaweni yoko.
