Ukuzikhusela kusivumela ukuba sihambele phambili, sitshintshe ubomi bakho, sifumane ulwazi olutsha kunye nezakhono eziluncedo. Nakwindlela yokuziphucula ngokwakho, abaninzi bazibuza ukuba zeziphi iincwadi eziya kuba nakho ukuba ngabancedisi bokufunda. Oku kuyakuxela eli nqaku.
Imikhombandlela yeencwadi zokuziphucula ubuntu
Ukufunda iincwadi kubantu abakhetha indlela yokuphucula rhoqo Icandelo elibalulekileyo lobomi. Ukufunda kuyazikhulela ngokwayo, kukhathaza ilizwe elingaphakathi lomntu. Ilungele wonke umntu, nkqu nabo bangenalo isizathu esithile abanakukwazi ukubhalisela iikhosi, baye kwiiklasi, izikolo okanye basebenzise i-webinars.
Umzi mveliso weencwadi wanamhlanje uzama ukwanelisa ngokupheleleyo imfuno yabafundi kuncwadi lokuziphucula. Kwiivenkile zeencwadi, iilayibrari ze-Intanethi zikho kwiinxalenye ezikhethekileyo "zokuzikhusela", apho kuqokelelwa khona uncwadi neengenelo ezifanelekileyo. Kodwa ayisoloko ifumaneka kwezi macandelo ale ncwadi iya kuba nakho ukwazi ngokupheleleyo abafundi. Kwindawo esiya kuyo, "ii-pawers" zihlala zifihla - iincwadi ezingathwali zibonelelo, kunye noncwadi, olunokutolikwa njengelinye ihlelo.
Indlela yokukhetha iincwadi eziza kunceda ngokwenene kwaye ibe yidesktop yakho, akukho thala leencwadi okanye irejista okanye ivenkile, ngelishwa, ayizukuthetha.
Iincwadi ezinemigangane zokuziphucula zinokwahlulwa Izikhokelo zeNkuthazo, eziSebenzayo, iiNdalo kunye nentsomi. Iincwadi ezikhuthazayo nezisebenzayo zixabisekile kwimeko yokuba zibhalelwe iingcali zezengqondo, oobocayili behlabathi. Basondeza ubuchwephesha bombhali, iingcebiso eziluncedo, imithambo eziya kunceda umfundi ukuba abe yi-Gectaes.
Iibhayiloji kunye neekomus zihlala zinciphile ngabantu abaphila ubomi obuqulazo ngokwawo ngokwabo. Baluphawu lomzabalazo, amandla angaphakathi. Ezinye zibhalwe ngamagorha ngokwabo, ezinye zezabantu ze-peru bibiographers. Uncwadi lobugcisa lokuzikhusela yeyona nto impikiswano. Umntu othile usondele kwi-classics, umntu - idrama yengqondo okanye abacuphi. Konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni ziphi izikhombisi zokuzikhusela umntu ngokwakhe ophawulwe njengeyona nto iphambili.
Ungayikhetha njani?
Kukho uncwadi oluninzi olunomdla kunye neyenzululwazi. Konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni yeyiphi incwadi eluncedo kuwe. Kwaye kuba Ukuqala, ukumisela ukuba loluphi ukhokelo oluzimisele ukuphuhlisa. Ukuba intombazana okanye umfazi ucinga ngezizathu zokusilela kubomi bakhe, uya kufuna ezinye iincwadi. Ukuba umntu uqinisekisiwe ukoyisa intlalo-gesisane yendalo kwaye ufunde ukuba nomdla wokunxibelelana, uya kufuna olunye uncwadi.
Kukho iincwadi ezigubungela ubuninzi bamanqanaba obomi bethu ikakhulu ezi zezo zibonelelo zabo banenjongo yokuqonda i-Psychology, oonobangela bezenzo zabo kunye nemiphumo yabo. Yenza uluhlu lomxholo onomdla kuwe kwaye uzame ukukhetha iincwadi ukuze zigutyungelwe ngokupheleleyo yindawo yobomi apho unomdla wokuzisa i-odolo-ubudlelwane, ukukhula, ukukhula kwengqondo, njl.
Eyona ncwadi ilungileyo yokuzikhusela
Ukwenza ukuba kube lula kuwe, senze isabelo sakho seencwadi zokuzikhusela kwiindawo neenjongo. Kubandakanya abathengisi kwaye eyona misebenzi iphambili, i-psychology kunye nemizekelo evela kubabhali abanesiqalo.
Uninzi lweencwadi ezibonisiweyo azinazimida zobudala, kuzo kunye nolutsha, kunye nabantu abaneminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwengama-55 ubudala, kwaye abo babeneminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwengama-35 ubudala, baya kufumana okuninzi abanomdla kubo.
Ukucinga kweshishini
Iincwadi ezikweli nqanaba aziyi kukunceda ukhokele ngempumelelo ishishini lakho, kodwa unika izakhono ezisisiseko, iingcebiso eziluncedo eziya kuba luncedo kuwo nawuphi na umsebenzi wobungcali. Inqaku elahlukileyo lolu ncwadi kukuba kubhaliwe ngokuyintloko oosomashishini abanetalente esekwe kumava abo amava kunye neempazamo ngokwawo.
"Utata onobutyebi, utata olihlwempu" R. T. Kiyosaki. URobert Kiyosaki, ummandla waseJapan, wenza ishishini eliyimpumelelo eUnited States. Kwinkqubo yokwenza ishishini labo, wasebenzisa imithetho emininzi kunye nemithetho esebenzayo kwimali. Akungqinelani nale mithetho ikholelwa nguRobert, kwaye ikhokelela abantu kugqatso olungaphumelelanga kwimpilo-ntle yemali. Imigaqo kaRobert echazwe nguRobert yaxelela utata wakhe, eyayingumkhonzi oqhelekileyo waseburhulumenteni. I-Kiyosaka ininzi yamkelwe yindlela yokujonga utata womanyano lwakhe - ingeniso ephumeleleyo.
Ukuthelekisa iimodeli ezimbini, umbhali ukhethe owesibini, kwaye sele emncinci, ebambe uBukumkani bakhe bezemali, wakwazi ukubaleka kugqatso lwemali kwaye wazinikela ekwenzeni abanye.
"Cinga kwaye ube sisityebi!" N. Hill. Ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nentatheli uNapoleon Hill kwiNduli okokuqala wagqiba kwelokuba apapashe incwadi yakhe ngo-1937. Umbhali akafundisi ngezi nkqubo ezisebenzayo zotyalo-mali, ekholelwa ukuba ubutyebi buqala ngokutshintsha umfanekiso wokucinga komntu. Bonke abantu abaphumeleleyo, ngokoluvo lwakhe, babekholelwa kwiindlela zokucinga, ezikufutshane kwaye zibakhokelele ekuchumeni. Faka isicelo seengcebiso zeenduli ezinikezelwe kuphela ekufumaneni intlalo-ntle yemali, kodwa nokufezekisa impumelelo kwezinye iindawo zobomi bomntu. Amashumi ezigidi ze-volus sele ezahlulwe emhlabeni wonke, kwaye wanyusela isihloko sentloko yenkulungwane edlulileyo, enikwa umdla omkhulu kuye ovela kubafundi.
Ngubani owebileyo? S. Johnson. Ukufunda le ncwadi akuthathi ixesha elininzi, kuhlala kunokwenzeka ukuyifunda kangangesiqingatha seyure. Umzekeliso omncinci waxelelwa nguSpencer Jones ngenjongo kuphela - ukukhuthaza abantu ukuba baqalise utshintsho lwangaphakathi kubo. Eyona ncwadi iba luncedo iya kuba yeyabo "inamathele" kwingxaki ayinakushiya indawo yazo yentuthuzelo, ayikwazi ukujamelana nale meko.
Lilonke, isiqingatha seyure siya kukunceda ufumane umthombo wamakhaya otshintsho oluqinisekileyo nolungenakuthelekiswa nanto.
Ukuphuhliswa kwememori kunye nesantya
Iincwadi ezikweli nqanaba ziya kuba luncedo kubantu bayo nayiphi na iminyaka kunye neeklasi, kuba bobabini abakwishumi elivisayo abanoqeqesho nabadla umhlala-phantsi, Ezimisele ukugcina ukucaca kweengcinga zabo iminyaka emininzi, kufuneka basebenzise imithambo ethile.
"Phucula inkumbulo yakho" T. BUCESEN. UTony Busesen wadala indlela yayo, ecacisa ukuba inkumbulo ikwazi ukuzithoba. Encwadini, imele iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokufunda ukuba ungalufumana njani ngokukhawuleza izicatshulwa ezinzima, ithetha ngemithetho-siseko yokudala ingqiqweni ixesha elide. Ukongeza, umfundi uya kuba nakho ukuqhelana ne-phenomena engaqhelekanga nemangalisayo yenkumbulo yabantu.
"Indlela yokufunda ngokukhawuleza" o. Andreev. Le ncwadi inokubizwa ngokufanelekileyo kakuhle i-tutorial yesigqwetha. Umbhali u-Oleg Andreev C ucebisa ngeendlela eziqhelekileyo, kwaye abelana nezinto ezenziwayo. Iincwadi Unokufumana i-discs eziya kwenza kube lula ukuba kube yinxalenye yeklasi.
Unxibelelwano, ubunkokeli
Ukuphuhliswa kweempawu zobunkokeli kubalulekile kungekuphela kwabo bafumana izikhundla okanye izicwangciso kuphela zokuhlala. Kuwo nawuphi na umsebenzi, kunxibelelwano ngaphandle komsebenzi, imigaqo yonxibelelwano olusebenzayo iya kusetyenziswa ebomini, eziya kufundisa ezi ncwadi zilandelayo.
"Ungafumana njani abahlobo kwaye ube nefuthe kubantu." D. I-carnegie. Incwadi yiseti yengcebiso esebenzayo yonke imihla eziya kumnceda umfundi ukuba akhulule, afunde ukuba nomdla wokunxibelelana, afumane ukuthandana okufanelekileyo. Incwadi iya kunceda ukoyisa izinto ezikhoyo, ukungaqiniseki. Kumashumi eminyaka, apho incwadi ingahlala ikwi-desktop yamashumi ezigidi zabafundi, yabonisa ukuba abantu be-Dale Carnegie "basebenza" ngokubhekisele kubomi babo, kodwa bafumana umvuzo ofanelekileyo .
"Ubuntu beNkokeli" B. Tracy . UBrian Tracy waqhubela isifundo esikhulu sobuqu kubalinganiswa babona bantu baphumelele kwaye bangamagama asebenzayo abamazi umhlaba wonke. Utsalele ingqalelo kwiziganeko zobomi babo, izigqibo ababezamkelwe kwiimeko ezithile. Ikhutshiwe imveliso enomdla, apho iindlela zongezwa khona i-tracy kunye neendlela zobuso bobuqu zokuphumelela.
"Fumana ixoki lokubonisa ubuso" P. EKman. UPaul Ekman waziwa ngokuba balandeli befilimu "Ithiyori ixoki". Umbhali uyakufundisa umfundi ukuba aqonde inkohliso ngokubonakaliswa kobuso, inkangeleko yobuso kunye nezimbo zomzimba. Kwakhona, umfundi uya kuba nakho ukuqeqesha ekuboneni nasekugxinisweni kwengqwalaselo, kuba indlela ye-psychologist yengqondo i-Ekman isekwe ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwiqhina.
"Imidlalo apho abantu badlala khona" E. Bern . I-fan enkulu ye-psychoanalysis eric gorn ivula iingxaki zengqondo zolwalamano phakathi kwabantu.
Le ncwadi iya kuba nomdla kwabo banenjongo yokusombulula iingxaki kunye nezihlobo, yakha ubudlelwane obuhle namaqabane, abantwana, abazali babo, abahlobo babo.
Ukuphuhliswa kobuchule bokuyila
Iincwadi ezikweli candelo ziluncedo kwabo banenjongo yokwandisa kwaye baphuhlise indlela abacinga ngayo, Kubantu abanobuchule bokuyila kunye nabo bafuna ukucinga.
"Ukuthengisa emva kwexesha: Itekhnoloji yokukhangela imibono yotshintsho" F. Kottler, F. Triaad De. Incwadi ibonisa indlela emangalisayo yokucinga kwesitrato, eya kufundisa kubuntu obuqhelekileyo ukuze babone okungaqhelekanga, beyisila. Uninzi lwemigaqo yalo msebenzi iba sisiseko soqeqesho okhoyo ekukhuthazeni ukucinga okuyisiko.
"Iindlela ezintandathu zokucinga" e. de Bono. Indlela yombhali ka-Edward De Bono iya kumnceda wonke umntu avune iziseko zokucinga zokuyila. Iindlela ezintandathu zokucinga ziboniswa ngumbhali ocacisiweyo, ichaza iindlela zokusebenzisana nohlobo ngalunye.
"Ulwimi lugxile - utshintsho kwiinkolelo ngoncedo lwe-NLP" R. Izitovu. I-Robert Dilts yenye yeengcali ze-NLP emhlabeni. Wadala eyakhe indlela yakhe engayi kunceda ukungaphuhli nje unxibelelwano, kodwa nokwenza intsingiselo ye-interney engaphakathi ngokuhlaziya "ukufaka" ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi komntu ngamnye.
Iklasikhi
Umzekelo, uncwadi oludala, "inkosi neMargarita" M. Bulgakov, "I-Atlantaice" ye-Atlantaist "yegolide," i-progrees fahrees. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa kwakhona iincwadi ezithandwayo ebuntwaneni. Ngokwesiqhelo ukufunda okwesibini okanye okwesithathu kuvula intsha kwaye inomdla kwimveliso eqhelekileyo, into engazange ifune umfundi ngaphambili.
Kamva
Ababhali banamhlanje banikezela ngemibono emininzi enomdla, entsha kunye neembono zabo ngokuzikhusela. Ezi ncwadi zilandelayo ziya kukunceda oku.
"Iindlela ezili-100 zokutshintsha ubomi" L. Parfenteva. I-LALISA i-Parethenteva yaziwa ngokubanzi kuluntu lwe-intanethi. Utshintshe kakhulu ubomi bakhe, ngokwakhe waba ngumbhali wamabali amangalisayo esekwe kwiziganeko zokwenyani ezixelwa ngabasebenzisi. Incwadi emangalisayo eshukumisayo iya kunceda ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na imeko enzima.
"Kulo nyaka ndi ..." M. J. Ryan. Incwadi yenzelwe abo bakuqonda ngokupheleleyo imikhwa yazo embi kunye neebhloko eziphazamisayo. Uya kufundisa imikhwa ukuba atshintshe, soloko uzalisekisa izithembiso zabo kwaye uzifezekise iinjongo ezixabisekileyo.
Phakathi kwayo kwaye ndifuna "e. enyangeni. Incwadi iya kunceda ukufumana injongo yakho ekhoyo ebomini, ityhila amaphupha akho, iminqweno kwaye iqalise ukulandela izwi le-Intution kunye noMphefumlo.
Ukukhula ngokomoya
Ukukhula ngokomoya, zonke iincwadi ze-psychotherapist valery valennikov, louise haye, ziya kuba luncedo. Bafundisa indlela elungileyo njengendlela yokuphakamisa 'kwinqanaba eliphezulu lophuhliso, apho indalo iza kuqala ukunceda umntu ukuba abe sempilweni, onwabile. Nika ingqalelo kwiincwadi ezinjalo.
"Phuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela" B. Tracy.
"I-MONK eyathengisa iFerrari yayo" R. SHRM.
"Ekupheleni" E. larsen.
Ungafunda njani ngokuchanekileyo?
Sukufunda iincwadi ngokuzikhusela njengoko usenza ngentsomi. Sukungxama, landela ezi ngcebiso.
Yenza amanqaku emasimini, uhlala ubuyela kubo.
Emva kokufunda isahluko, kuya kufuneka uyeke kwaye uzame iindlela ezicetywayo ekusebenzeni.
Ngenisa okwakho okuqapheleyo, utshintsho. Oku kuyakunceda 'kukuginya "amakhulu angabizi kakhulu kuwe kunye nemiqulu engapheliyo kuwe, ukukhetha kuphela ezo ncwadi zinefuthe elihle.
Fumana abantu abanengqondo enjalo onokuthi uxoxe ngayo ukufunda. Ukuba akukho ndawo injalo, unganxibelelana nabanye abafundi kwiiforamu ze-Interity kwi-Intanethi.
