Kugqirha, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo zichazwe ngokweenkcukacha, apho umntu unokudibana khona. Ezi ngxaki zibandakanya ukuphindaphinda. Urhulumente xa umntu engaboni mntu, ngaphandle kwakhe, ngamanye amaxesha unokudlula ngaphaya komda kwaye, kule meko, inokugqalwa njengento ethatyathwa njengento engento. Ukufumanisa ukuba isifo sengqondo sinzima, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba sinike umntu umntu oxilongo, ngaphandle kolwazi olufanelekileyo kwi-psychologlogy kunye nengqondo. Eli nqaku liza kuchaza iinkalo zesi sifo, imiqondiso kunye neendlela zonyango.
Iipeksi
I-Gervice I-Narcissism yingxaki ethile yendoda kunye nendlela yokuziphatha, enokuzibonakalisa kwivolumu efanayo kubafazi, nakubantu. Abantu babantu abanengxaki enjalo babizwa ngokuba "Narcissus". Nangona kunjalo, umntu akakufanelekisi ukuba ngubani na emva komntu ngamnye onothando, kuba esi sifo kunzima ukumisela, ngaphandle kokuba ugqirha wobungcali. Ngapha koko, esi sifo sineefom ezahlukeneyo xa umntu ophethwe sisifo esiphethwe luluntu. I-pecaltimates ye-narcissism enokucinezelwa ikwabandakanya:
- ubuntu obungacacanga obungenangqondo;
- ukungabikho kwemvakalelo yokuzisola okanye amava kwabanye abantu;
- Imvakalelo yokuphakama kuwo onke amalungu oluntu.
Ethetha ngendoda "ye-narcisue", ethi ihlupheke kwi-pathology enkulu, unokukhankanya ukuba abantu 'badlala "kwimidlalo yabo yesini esahlukileyo. Yintoni, ehlala ichaphazela kakubi okwesibini. Abafazi baqala ukubandezeleka ngenxa yokudakumba, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukwenzakala kakhulu kwengqondo kukwafunyanwa.
I-Persongenic Daffodils inento ekhethekileyo kunye nendlela ethile yokuziphatha engakhange bayivelise ngonyaka. Abantu abanjalo bahlala beyikhanyela izenzo zabo kwaye bahlala bengakwenzi oko bakuthembisayo. Aba bantu baphantse bazama ukuthoba ukuthanda kwabo komnxibelelanisi wabo okanye iqabane labo.
I-DAFFODIL ithanda ukuxhaphaza iimvakalelo zabanye ngaphandle kokufumana amava okwenyani. Bangaqhelekanga kubo. Abantu abanjalo abaze bathathele ingqalelo izimvo zabanye. Oogqirha abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba abantu abaye basungula uPathology banegazi elibandayo ngokupheleleyo kwaye alikhathazeki.
Izizathu zokuvela kunye nokuqulunqwa kwePathology
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, akukho mpendulo icacileyo evela kwiingcali, kutheni kuvela isidubedube. Kodwa, njengamanye ukuphazamiseka okuninzi kunye nobunzima, inokuba neengcambu ebuntwaneni. Le inokunxibelelana nayo kunye nokungaphantsi kwembambano, ukungoneliseki ngenkangeleko yayo okanye isikhundla kuluntu. Ukucaphuka kwesi sifo kunokubangelwa yimfundo engachanekanga okanye ingqalelo eyoneleyo ehlawulwa emntwaneni.
Ngamanye amaxesha iingcali zide zithethe ngokwemvelo lohlobo lolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha esi sifo sinokuba luphawu lwezifo eziyingozi ngakumbi, umzekelo, inokuba yi-schizophrenia.
Imiqondiso
Kunzima ukudwelisa yonke imiqondiso 'ye-narcissa ", kuba wonke umntu ubalulekile kakhulu, kwaye ke eso sifo sinokuba ngandlela enye okanye enye ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuya kwelona xesha libalulekileyo ngokubanzi, ngenxa yokuba ungayamkela i-narcissus, bhekisa:
- Amanqatha aqinileyo ngempumelelo enkulu, ethi i-DAFFODIL ihlala ichithwa rhoqo;
- Ubukho beminqweno malunga nentlonipho kubantu abathile noluntu luphela;
- ukukhukhumala kunye nokugqwesa okungaphezulu, akuxhaswanga naziphi na izenzo;
- Ngaphandle kwento engathandekiyo kulo naluphi na ugxeko kwicala lakho;
- Zonke iintlobo zokuzimisa fihlakalo;
- Sebenzisa abanye abantu ngenjongo yabo ye-mercenary.
Amadoda nabafazi abanolu lo patholog akaze banomdla kwimpumelelo yabanye abantu, kuquka ezo zalamaneko. Bahlala bethetha ngezithixo, kwaye emva koko bafanekisela ngandlela zonke. Kukho imiqondiso ethile enendalo yesini. Ke, amadoda - uDaffodss bahlala benekratshi, banqwenela ukuba sisityebi kwaye badume kuyo nantoni na.
Amadoda anjalo, njengomthetho, musa ukuzigculela, nokuba azibavumeli. Zihlala zingahoywa sisimo sabameli besini esihle. Ngapha koko, amadoda afuna kakhulu kwaye enekratshi. Amadoda oqhelekileyo akwi-DAFFODILOus axhomekeke kubazali okanye amantombazana entliziyo. Njengomthetho, usapho lucinga ngelo xesha lokugqibela okanye ungacingi konke konke, luzenzele ngaphambili. Ngokubhekisele kwabasetyhini, bane-pathology ye-pereversny ibonakalisa koku kulandelayo:
- Balandela kakhulu imbonakalo yabo, befikelela ngaphandle kwengqondo;
- Ukukhangela amaqabane atyebileyo kunye namakhuba akhuselekileyo, nokuba bayaqonda ukuba asisi sibini;
- vumelana nokuba kunokwenzeka, ngazo zonke iindlela zigcuma;
- Rhoqo, kumnqweno wenkangeleko efanelekileyo, abafazi - i-narcissus babuyela kwimisebenzi yeplastiki, ezinye iindlela zongenelelo ngonyango kunye nokusetyenziswa okukhulu kwe-cosmetics.
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba inenekazi linokuba ne-pathology yolu hlobo, kunzima ukuyichaza. Kubonakala ngathi abo bantu bahlelelekileyo akufuneki babe nempilo engekho mhlophe kwaye befuna izibonelelo zabo, ngokuchasene noko, bahlala bethandabuza. Amantombazana anjalo, njengathi madoda, uNarcissus, akakhethi ukuba afumane ngokuzimeleyo, uninzi lwabo luhlala kwinkxaso-mali yabazali. Ngayiphi na imeko, abanye abantu banokuzithemba nje kwaye oko akuthethi konke abagulayo.
Ke ngoko, kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kulula ukuchonga ummelwane wakho, isalamane okanye umntu ongaqhelekanga, nangona kukho ulwazi lweempawu ezithile zekatithologic.
Ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane ne-daffodil
Ubuntu obuninzi, biza incoko kunye nabaxhamli, abanakukwazi ukubona i-narcissa. Kunzima kakhulu ukuyityhila, ukumjonga nje. Abantu abane pathology baxhasa kakhulu kwaye bahlala bevelisa umbono olungileyo ekuqaleni, ngenxa yoko banomdla kakhulu ukunxibelelana nabo. Phantse akunakwenzeka ukuba ukrokrela nantoni na kude kube lixesha elithile.
Amanqanaba okuqala olwalamano nendoda okanye umfazi onesifo sokungabonakali kangako unokubonakala ngathi mnandi. " Uninzi lwabaphengululi bade babizwa ngokuba "yiholide yazo", kodwa ke bonke betshintsha kwaye ubudlelwane baqala ukubahlukile. Kuba abantu abanengxaki yesango banobuntu obukhulu, bahlala beziva bengangonelisekanga, nangona bengayibonisi. Kodwa xa iqabane labo linesithukuthezi, bayayeka ukufihla, bebonisa ubukhulu becala. Ke ubudlelwane kwilizwi lokwenyani lunokujika lube yinto yobusuku bokwenyani.
Akukho lwalamano lunobuhlobo nabantu abanjalo- kunzima ukuthi, konke kuxhomekeke kwifomu yesi sifo kunye nendlela indlela yokuziphatha ngayo. Kodwa ukuba sithetha nge-pathology enzulu kwaye ngokuthe ngqo malunga nobudlelwane besibini, emva koko obu budlelwane sisiphelo esifileyo. Ukuba baphuhlisa ixesha elithile kwaye bavuselele, ngoko kwixesha elizayo abayi kuzisa nantoni na elungileyo.
Ewe kunjalo, kunokubakho ngaphandle ngababini, ngakumbi ukuba "indalo yesiqhelo" iza kuba nomnqweno wokunyanga.
Iindlela zobume bobundlobongela bokuziphatha
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba indlela yokuziphatha kwe-narcissa kunzima ukuyixela kwangaphambili, iingcali zithanda ukucofa okuthile kunye neendlela ezithile abantu abane-pathology basisebenzisa ngobuchule. Ke, imvume kubhekiswa kuyo.
- Ukugqithisa naziphi na iingxaki, ukuvalwa kweemeko kwimeko yabo.
- Ukungafuni ukumamela iqabane, uqonde iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zalo. Rhoqo "ukutshintshela" kuthathelwa ingqalelo ngokupheleleyo, ngelixa iqabane lixoxa ngezinto ezibalulekileyo nezingxamisekileyo. Kwangelo xesha, uNarcissus unokusebenzisa ukugculelwa, ukutshintsha kakhulu isihloko sencoko.
- Intsimbi ye-Bell inokuba yinto yokuba inxenye yenxalenye ye-nacissus iya kudlulisela amagama omnxibelelani wakhe.
- Kwakhona, abantu abanesilitho esinjalo banokuboleka nje abo banxibelelana nabo ngaphandle kokuchaza izizathu zabo.
- Kwaye ekugqibeleni, banokubonisa ukuhlaselwa ngequbuliso kobukrakra ngequbuliso, kwanangokunxulumene nabathandekayo kunye nezihlobo. Banokuhlala benomsindo, xa kukho into engahambanga kakuhle.
I-Perevosny Narcissus iya kuhlala izama ukutshabalalisa omnye umntu ukuze iqhubeke kuwo onke amandla. Kwaye ubuntu obubuthathaka obuthathaka, ngelishwa, bungenakuphikwa kwempembelelo enjalo.
Iindlela zonyango
Ukuxilongwa kwaye nawaphi na amanyathelo onyango kufuneka atyunjelwe yingcali. Esi sifo, njengommiselo, asifumaneki kwasekuqaleni kokuvela kwayo, kwaye ngenxa yoko iba sisifo esinganyangekiyo, ngenxa yokuba iiseshoni zonyango zinokunikwa ingxaki. Njengommiselo, iingcali ziphuhlisa ikhondo elithile lonyango, izama ukuba nomdla kwisigulana kwaye iwutyhalele ukuzithemba. Ezona paramitha zilungileyo zibonisa ukuba iiseshoni ze-psychotherapy zibonisiwe, kwaye zingalawulwa ngamachiza kwezonyango. Kucetyiswa ukuba uqeshe olikhumbuzayo ukuba, ukongeza kwisifo esinye, umntu uxinezelekile, uhlaselo loyiko okanye nayiphi na iphobias, yonke le nto ifuna uhlengahlengiso olunyanzelekileyo.
Kuzo naziphi na iimeko ezithile ezinengxaki yomxube, ingcali inokuthi inikezele ngomotsoli, i-antidepressants, ezinye ii-SIDSITER kunye ne-phyprechapter. Nangona kunjalo, iziyobisi zonyango zinqumamisa iimpawu zenye okanye kwenye ingxaki, ngaphandle kokuhoyi isifo. Ukwenzela ukufezekisa iziphumo ezilungileyo, unyango olubanzi kufuneka lusetyenziswe, olubandakanya iintlanganiso nge-psychotherapist.
Iingcebiso ngeenxa zonke
Ewe kunjalo, eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphepha iingxaki kukunxibelelana nabantu abanjalo, kuba kunzima kakhulu ukuxhathisa. Phumelela i-DAFFODIL ngokungathi ukondla amandla abo bajolise, kunzima ukwenza ngayo. Njengomthetho, ukuba i-garcissus ngokungakhathali ibhekisa kwibhinqa lalo kubomi bemihla ngemihla nakwizinto ezininzi, kwintsapho, kunzima ukwenza nantoni na apha. Uninzi lwazo, iingcali kunye neengcali zengqondo zosapho zisombulula iingxaki iimeko ezilula ezilula ezinxulumene nengxabano yasekhaya.
Kodwa ukuba sithetha ngoNarcissa, emva koko akusayi kubakho uphonono, okanye abantu kuya kufuneka basasaze . Ngamanye amaxesha abantu basetyhini bakhetha ukuthobeka, kodwa kwakhona, abanazo ixesha elide. Kufanele ukuba iqonde ukuba ukuba kwenzeke ukuba umntu wakhe okhethiweyo unesifo sentlabatho kwaye uyacinezela, ke ayisiyompazamo yakhe. Sele yenzekile. Kodwa esi asisosizathu esigqibeleleyo sokunyamezela kwaye sikuvumela ukuba ugxunyeke ngeendlela zonke.
Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, ukulungiswa kokuziphatha kunye nengcali kunika isiqhamo, kodwa kuphela ukuba i-chacistis igwenxa inomdla kule, hayi ixhoba lakhe. Kukwakufanele ukuqonda ukuba abantu - i-narcissus bahlala bethwaxwa ziimvakalelo abazibhuqiweyo ngaphakathi. Abanye babo bade banesithukuthelo, kuba abanakukwazi ukujamelana nabo.
Zithini iimpawu kunye neempawu ze-narcissism yemvume, jonga le vidiyo ilandelayo.