Iimvakalelo zentlukwano kunye nemfesane zifana kakhulu, kodwa kukho umahluko okhoyo phakathi kwabo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba bagqibe khona.
Inkcazo yeekhonsepthi
Phambi kwemfesane, amandla okuvelana, uqonde iimvakalelo zabanye abantu ezenzeka kwimiphefumlo yabo. Imfesane inesigqibo esitshabalalisayo somphefumlo waLowo ubhekiswa kuye. Uvelwano ngokunxulumene nabanye abantu kukukwazi ukuchaza ngokuchanekileyo imeko yabo ngokweemvakalelo. Ubuchule ngaphandle kweemeko ukuze benze izinto ukuze bangabunzi abanye. Umntu obangela ubumnene, imiqondiso kububuthathaka bayo kunye nokuvumisa okuthile ", ukubandezeleka kwayo kuchazwe kumgama othile. Le mvakalelo ihamba kunye namandla atshabalalisayo, ibonisa ukungakwazi kolunye ngaphandle koloyini imeko enzima, eqonda isikhundla sedini.
Imfesane ithathwa njengelona nqanaba lokukhethekileyo, likulungele ukubonelela ngoncedo, ukuchaza indlela ukuthanda ummelwane, ukuziva kwaye ndimkele intlungu yakhe. Umntu onemfesane unikela ingqalelo kwaye kancinci kwabo bakufuphi, behlonipha izinto abanomdla kuzo kunye nabantu abanovelwano kukungaphumi kubo ekuzibopheleleni. Ndinovelwano, kuthetha, ububele, ndinqwenela ukugcina enye kwikamva elibuhlungu, elihle. Into yemfesane sisidalwa esibandezeleka, inkalo yalo kukukhuphela kwintuthumbo.
Ngenceba kukho ukwanela kokuphakama. Lowo ubangela ukuba iqondwe njengelahlekileyo. Sukuzisola umntu-yile mvakalelo intshabalalo. Ijongana nekratshi, inesenzo esitshabalalisayo kunye noko akukhalayo, kunye nalowo ubangela.
Abo bafuna imfesane, bafuna ukuqinisekisa ukubandezeleka kwabo.
Izinto ezifanayo
Ekuqaleni nje kubonakala ngathi kusenokubonakala ngathi ububele nemfesane buyinto efanayo, bayafana. Kwaye enye, kwaye enye imvakalelo ibonakalisa abo bangqonge abanye. Kwaye vumela umxholo weemvakalelo ukuba bahlukile, kodwa okufana kuyasebenza. Inceba ibonakalisa ukubakho kosizi. Zibonakaliswa lusizi. Ezi mvakalelo zibonisa amaxabiso abantu, zozibini ziyafuneka. Ubuntu buxhomekeke kubo.
Izinto ezifanayo zithi yonke into, kodwa umahluko uyakuqaphela wonke umntu, kodwa awunakukhanyela.
Umahluko ophambili
Nguwuphi umahluko phakathi kwemfesane kwimfesane?
- Okokuqala, inyani yokuba kukho amandla emfesane, kwaye kwimo yesibini ayilahleki.
- Umntu onemfesane usoloko ekulungele ukusondela, nokuba akukho nanye into enokunceda. Nokuba ubukho besalathisi ukuba imeko, nokuba kubonakala ngathi kubonakala ngathi kuyakhutshwa. Xa kukho igxalaba elinokuthenjwa, ngokuqinisekileyo le nto iya kuba. Kuyiphiliso nakwiimeko ezibonakala zinethemba. Masithi umntu umi emnyango wokufa. Imeko icacile, usindiso aluboni ngako, kodwa lowo uvumayo akasayi kushiya indlela. Umboniso wothando usenza kakhulu emphefumlweni.
- Imfesane yimfesane, ukukrexeza kunye nemvakalelo enodaka. Imfesane iphawuleka yomsebenzi nobulumko. Ihlala ikhangela ibhalansi phakathi kokwamkela, iyeke ukuhamba kwaye iqale ngenkuthalo. Umzekelo, iindlela ezininzi zeBuddhism, umzekelo, zimisela iimpawu ezithile ngokwazo. Le nkolo iqhubeka kwinto yokuba emntwini ngamnye sele ebekwe. Unokuba lixhoba leemeko, kwaye ungahlangabezana nabo ngempumelelo. Into ephambili kukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo.
- Imfesane ayinalo uvelwano, kwaye kwimfesane ifumaneka, ikhuthaza ukunceda kwelinye icala ukubandezeleka kwakhe.
- Umahluko ophambili phakathi kwezi mvakalelo kukuba umntu uyonakalisa, kwaye eyesibini iyakha.
- Imfesane inobudlelwane kuphela ngelishwa, kwaye inceba ijolise ekuncedeni ukoyisa iimeko ezikhoyo.
- Olunye umahluko obalulekileyo yimvakalelo yokuzivalela. Ihlala ilandela ububele. Kodwa ububele buye bahluthwa, omnye umntu uthathwa kwinqanaba elifanayo, engabikho ngaphantsi.
- Imfesane ibonakaliswa ngowedwa, kunye nemfesane yokunyaniseka.
- Abantu abazisolayo abayifumani nantoni na elungileyo kule, qhubeka uhleli ngamaxhoba. Akukho mntu uya kuxhamla isimo sengqondo esinjalo. Ukuba lihlwempu kwaye akonwabanga yindlela eya ngqo.
- Uxolo ngomntu, umntu wamfaka kubumnyama nobubi. Ukuziphatha okunjalo luhlobo lomyalezo womfanekiso womonakalo. Abantu abazisolayo baqhele ukuba buthathaka, banokungasebenzi ixesha elide. Rhoqo ukoyisa iimeko ezimbi kufuneka kuthathe amanyathelo okuthatha isigqibo. Kodwa kutheni le nto, ukuba kulula ukuba lihlwempu kwaye ungonwabi.
- Uxolo ngokwabo, abantu babelana ngovuyo umthwalo okhoyo nabanye-le yindlela efanelekileyo yokutshintsha uxanduva nezenzo zabo, ukuba bafune ukuqondwa kunye nengqwalaselo.
- Inqaku elahlukileyo lemfesane kwinyani yokuba livela enzonzobileni komphefumlo. Le mvakalelo yenza ukuba kwenzeke ukuba ujonge abanye ngaphandle kokuqhwanyaza kunye nokuziqhelanisa, kuhlala kuhlala ukuzola.
- Uvelwano lokwenene ayisiyo misebenzi yeemvakalelo, ukuzikhathalela ngumntu othandekayo- le yimbono yokubandezeleka ejikeleze inqanaba lokomoya, ukwamkela njengoko kunjalo. I-Sociadia, unokuzola ukubandezeleka, thatha iintlungu zakhe. Ukuvelana-kuthetha ukuba kwindawo yalowo kufuneka abandezeleke.
- Uxolo kukuqonda ukuba umntu othile ungene engxakini, kodwa kwangaxeshanye unamava okukhulu kwinto yokuba kwenzeke nawe.
- Uvelwano luyenziwa kwindalo, lutyhala ekukhangeleni iindlela ekwaziyo ukunciphisa ukubandezeleka - kungekuphela nje ekwenzeni ukuba yonke into ihamba, kodwa ifumane indlela yokuphuma kwiimeko.
- Umntu onemfesane akazihluleli kwihlabathi elijikelezileyo, uziva elinganayo phambi kwayo yonke into. Uvelwano yimvakalelo ephezulu, ivuselela inkathalo yokubandezeleka, kwaye zonyusa kuphela ububele babo.
Abantu kufuneka babonise umnqweno wokuthelekisa kunye nokuthintela ububele. Kukuqala kugxilwe kumandla nenkululeko, okwesibini kusebenza njengento ebonakalayo yobuthathaka, ibangela ukuxhomekeka.
