Imeko yokuzalwa yeminyaka eli-9: ukhuphiswano lwabantwana ekhaya, elihlekisayo nelonwabisayo lamakhwenkwe namantombazana. Ukubhiyozela njani usuku lokuzalwa lwabantwana ekhaya?

Iminyaka eli-9 ubudala, nangona ingangomhla wokujikeleza, usuku lokuzalwa olunjalo, olunokuphawulwa luqaqambileyo, luvakale, ngamalungiselelo aphezulu okuqala. Ewe, kuba yonke imihla yokuzalwa kwabantwana lithuba lokucwangcisa iholide ekhethekileyo kumntwana wakho othandekayo. Ngelixa esemncinci, kwaye ngelixa olu suku luyinto yenyani kuye. Kwaye mkhulu xa yonke imihla yosuku olutsha ayifani neyangaphambili.

Yintoni ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo xa ulungiselela?

Abaququzeleli beholide yeholide bahlala behleli. Kwaye ukuba bafuna ukwenza yonke into egqibeleleyo, kuya kufuneka uqale ngesicwangciso, esiya kuphathwa ngokweenkcukacha. Kodwa akukho iya na ingqondo iya kuhlala ingachazwanga.

Ukulungiselela iholide kunokuba ngathi yiyo le nto.

1. Ebengekabikho. Abantwana balinde igama lazo kodwa akukho mntu mdala. Kwaye iinkcukacha zeholide bakhumbula ixesha elide, bevavanya yonke into emangalisayo. Ke ngoko, ukuphindaphindanga ngokuqinisekileyo ayilulo olukhetho olululo. Kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula indlela yokuhlangana kweentsuku zokuzalwa ngaphambili, ezinokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo azikokuphindi. Nokuba okokugqibela yonke into ihamba nge-A "Vireray".
2. Iza kuba phi iholide. Kuyavakala ukuba ubhale kumagqabi lonke ukhetho lokwenyani kunye nokulinganisa iimpembelelo kwaye ziyinto nganye. Ukuba, umzekelo, iholide yonyaka ophelileyo yayikwi-cafe, kwiziko lezemidlalo, i-Isment inokucwangciswa ekhaya- ayisekho njengesiqhelo. Okanye ngokuchaseneyo.
3. Ufuna ntoni umntwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo iqhawe lombhiyozo sele livakalise iminqweno yakhe okanye ithe yalindwa. Ewe, kufuneka babaphulaphule. Imibuzo exhasayo yamkelekile.
4. Zingaphi iindwendwe kunye nokonakaliswa kwabo. Kuya kubakho kuphela iholide yabantwana kuphela, okanye abantu abadala bamenyiwe (rhoqo usuku lokuzalwa lubhiyozelwa kabini - kubantwana nakwabantu abadala, kodwa kuyabiza, kubandakanya ngokwasemzimbeni).
5. Luluphi uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lomsitho. Phuma kuyo, kwaye uyeke le mali. Naxa icetywe ukuchitha kancinci, iholide inokuhamba iyothukile. Kwaye kungcono ukwazi kwangaphambili okuchithileyo abazali bakulungele.
6. Kuyakuba yintoni kumthendeleko, kwaye yintoni kanye kanye ayiyi kuba njalo. Ezinye izimvo ezinkulu kwi-trimory yesiphithiphithi lilityelwe, kwaye uxolo kakhulu ngokuba ziimbono ezingenamsebenzi. Ke ngoko, onke amanqaku abalulekileyo makamiselwe ekuqaleni: umzekelo, ukunika isakhethi sokutya okuphekiweyo kwindwendwe ngasinye ukuze ayifumane ekhaya okanye ayilibali ukwenza ifoto yeencwadana ze-elektroniki kwiholide nganye kwiholide nganye.

Nje ukuba iimpendulo zale mibuzo zinikiwe, unokuqalisa uqeqesho lokwenene.

Ukukhetha indawo kunye nemixholo

Iinketho ezininzi: Ukusuka kwiziko lokudlala labantwana kwiqela lasekhaya. Umbuzo yinto elungile abazali. Ukuba eklasini yabantwana, kulisiko ukubhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa kwiindawo ezikhethekileyo, kwaye umntwana ngokwakhe angala umbono wokubhiyozela ekhaya. Uya koyika nje ukujonga ukuthobeka kakhulu emehlweni abo afunda nabo.

Kodwa esi sisikhundla sokulahleka: Akudingeki ukuba ulungelelanise umhlaba, ukuba ezinye izinto ezinomdla ekuqaleni.

Ngombhiyozo wendlu thetha oku kulandelayo.

• Ungagcina kwizakhiwo zokurenta.
• Kuhlala kukho into entle kakhulu ekhaya, wonke umntu uziva ehlaziyekile.
• Eli lithuba elihle lokubonisa igumbi lakho kubahlobo.
• Abanye abantu babengasoze kwiholide zasekhaya, ke usuku lokuzalwa lunokuba yinto ekhethekileyo.

Ukubhiyozela kwi-cafe / iZiko leMidlalo / ukuThekwa, njl. Njl.

• Akukho sidingo sokukhathazeka malunga nomhlobiso kwindlu kwaye hayi ukulungiswa okutsha kakhulu.
• Indawo yomoya kwiindawo ezinjalo ilawula i-Interli.
• Ungamema iindwendwe ezininzi-kukho indawo eyaneleyo yomntu wonke.
• Emva kweholide yabazali, akukho mhla wokucoca amabhongo.

Phakamisa uyonwabisa naphi na, apho kukho umbutho ocacileyo weholide. Ngenxa yemeko elungileyo okanye yeemeko ezixineneyo, akuyomfuneko ukuba nexhala. Abantwana bayakukhumbula imeko, intuthuzelo, ukubandakanyeka nokuzibandakanya kwabantu kwabadala, hayi umgangatho welifa okanye ukudityaniswa kwemibala kwingaphakathi.

Imixholo-umbuzo ekufuneka uxoxwe naye nomntwana. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukubetha umxholo wabona kwiholide yabahlobo. Kwaye kunokuba lumbono ophumelelayo kunye nokusilela. Abafana banokudlala ukhuphiswano olubiweyo kwaye balandele iskripthi esingasasebenzi.

Kuba ukuba ungabetha into entsha, kufuneka ubambelele.

Ithandwa kwaye ayisekho imihla yoqobo lwabantwana: Iqela lePirate, iholide ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwamaqhawe eekhathuni ezithandayo kunye neefilimu, iqela leentyatyambo, iqela laseHawaii, ihlathi libizwa ngokuba sisikolo se-Wizards. Kwaye yintoni enokubakho kwi-covelty yabafana: Imidlalo emincinci yeOlimpiki, isixeko saseDobyakov, i-botany lab, i-herbaties ye-herbal, imiboniso emibi, amaIndiya akhangela ubuncwane, njl njl.

Ukulungiselela ukhuphiswano kunye nemidlalo

Kolu khetho - izimvo zemidlalo nemisebenzi enokubanjelwa ngeholide ezilungiselelwe ngokupheleleyo. Makhe sinike ukhuphiswano olu-7.

1. Imiyalezo eyimfihlo. Kuyimfuneko ukuza (ukhuphele) i-alfabel yesomfuziselo apho unobumba ngamnye ulingana nophawu oluthile, ukuzoba. Umzekelo, ilanga, i-B-unxantathu, kumgca weWavy, njl njl. Olu alutiwe kufuneka ube ngohlobo lwekhadi elidala, abaya kuyifumana kuye kumthengisi. Kufuneka ibe inkulu. Abantu abadala baqinisa imephu efunyenweyo kwindawo ephambili, basasaza amagqabi amahle nabo bonke abantu kwaye bacele ukuba bashiye umyalezo kwigumbi lokuzalwa, besebenzisa ialfabhethi, kunjalo.
2. Ukuthetha ngeenyawo. Oku akuyonto kangako kukhuphiswano, ukumangala ngeendwendwe kunye negumbi lokuzalwa. Kuya kufuneka wenze isikrini okanye into efana nayo. Ngaphezulu kwesikrini sifihla abanye abantu abadala. Esandleni sakhe ngenye indlela, kuya kuvela igumbi elithandekayo legumbi lokuzalwa liya kuvela. Kuya kufuneka ukubaave kuye kwangaphambili usebenzisa inkqubo yokutshintsha yelizwi (kuyo nayiphi na inkqubo yokunyuka). Egumbini ungacima ukukhanya, ukhanyise amakhandlela kwaye uthi ngoku kwiholide kuya kubakho into eyenzekayo kube kanye ngonyaka - iithoyi eziya ebomini. Ilizwi "libandakanya" omnye umzali okanye umncedisi.
3. Imaski ehlekisayo. Ungazoba, iglu, wakheka okanye wakhela iitemplate kwi-Intanethi yeemaski ezahlukeneyo ezihlekisayo. Umzekelo, iintloko ezinkulu ezinkulu zengonyama kunye nengwenya, amanye amagorha. Ezi ntende zephepha ezinkulu kunye nezilayidi zeliso elingafakwanga kufuneka zilungiswe kwizinti okanye amasebe. Indwendwe nganye liphuma embindini lwegumbi kwaye lithetha inombolo yemaski. Indoda endala ijonge kuluhlu, oboniswa yile nombolo kwaye uthathe imaski. Umntwana uzama kuye, kufuneka athi okanye avuyisile indoda yokuzalwa okanye umbongo. Umntwana akufuneki alibale ukuthatha umfanekiso.
4. Iokhestra. Ukudlala kwintombazana "yezixhobo" - zihlala zimnandi. Umntu othile uza kufumana isixhobo soMculo waBantwana bokwenyani (i-toy), i-saucepan yomntu, umntu wasekhaya. I-orchestra iya kuba ngumqhubi womqhubi wabantu abadala. Okumangalisayo ukuba uyakwazi njani ukucula nokufunda into elula kakhulu nabantwana, i-chiral "elula" ngamaxesha onke.
5. Imvulophu yobuqili. Abantwana bafumana ibhegi ezele ngabaguquleli abaninzi "bobuqili". Kwinye yazo - umsebenzi omelwe kukuba bawenze. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, ezi ziiplanas ezifanayo, kufuneka zidityaniswe nesihloko esiqhelekileyo. Umzekelo, kwiqela le-pirate lenkwenkwe kufuneka uze nolwandle, igama leParat, iresiphi yesolo seSpeen, njl njl kwitheko leentyatyambo, ungakhumbula amagama eentyatyambo Ileta ethile, qamba imvano-siphelo kwigama elithi "iiroses", ukudanisa phantsi kwe-waltz yeentyatyambo kunye nabahlobo. Ukhuphiswano ngalunye lunokuhamba kunye namabhaso abo baphumeleleyo kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba.
6. Ubusuku bam, i-Nightingale. Ukukhetha "i-Nightingale". Kumntwana unganxiba imaski efanelekileyo, ngandlela thile yonyule indima yayo. Umsebenzi wabafana bonke kukuba ibusuku ivutha. Bayambuza (banokuba ngumculo, kwaye), kwaye uyaphendula. Umdala uquka iphonogram, kwaye "iMixdale" kufuneka ifumane ngobuchule kwaye ihlelele umlomo phantsi kwawo. Iphonegram imbalwa iziqwenga ezirekhodiweyo zeengoma ezidumileyo.
7. Fumana iziqwenga zekhadi. Ziya kubonisa apho ubuncwane bugcinwe khona (izipho ezimnandi kuzo zonke iindwendwe). Kwaye kufuneka ukhangele iziqwenga kubo bonke, umzekelo, iindawo eziluhlaza. Oko kukuthi, banokuba ngasemva kwekhuselo, kwi-vatuse ngesityalo, phantsi kweNcwadi eluhlaza, njl njl.

Kodwa kuphela kukhuphiswano olungaphelelanga kukhuphiswano. Onke abantwana bale mihla.

Ukufuna ukhetho

Yena, ngokufanelekileyo, kufanele ukuba ibekisi, oko kukuthi, yonke imisebenzi iphantsi kombono ngokubanzi.

Ngaba luhlobo luni lwezinto ezinokwenziwa?

• Khangela ubuncwane -Bantwana bafuna iziqwenga zamakhadi eziya kubakhokelela kwisifuba sobuncwane. Isahlulo ngasinye asifumanayo (okanye sifumane) somsebenzi owenziwe ngokukodwa: umnqamlezo oconjululwe, u-Remus, iphazili, njl njl.
• Khangela ilitye lefilosofi Ngokucacileyo, uphi esi sihloko. Ke ngoko, yonke into echaphazela umlingo kunye ne-Wizards ezincinci ilungele izabelo zokukhangela. Into ephambili kukuba bonke bathathe inxaxheba ukuthatha inxaxheba kweqela. Ungasebenzisa i-cipheres yokuqonda ukupela, imibuzo yengqondo yeyona ndlela inqabileyo, kunye nomphunga wobugqwirha (phantsi kwe-fuise ye-IT ungapheka i-cocktail yesiqhamo).
• Khangela iAmphora yakudala -Unokwenziwa kwiPapier Masha, umzekelo. Zonke izabelo zokukhangela kufuneka zithobele isihloko sentsomi yamandulo kunye neentsomi. Kwaye ngaphakathi kwi-Amphora efunyenwe, abafana banokufumana ubuncwane ngohlobo lwe-chocolate ye-chocolate.

I-Cest inokungenelela ukhuphiswano oluphambili, kodwa rhoqo le yinkqubo ezimeleyo. Ukhuphiswano olufanayo lunokufakwa kuvavanyo lwezinto ezifuna ukutya, eziphathekayo eziza kunceda ukufumana isiqwenga semephu entsha.

Ungaya njani njani iskripthi?

Mhlawumbi ezi ngcinga zilandelayo ziya kunceda ukwenza iholide zabantwana zingakwazi ukukhululeka ngakumbi.

• Iskripthi siya kuba mnandi ngakumbi ukuba umntu ovela kubantu abadala unokudlala ngesixhobo somculo kwaye uya kulala nabantwana ngengoma ehlekisayo.
• Indwendwe nganye linokucetyiswa ukuba libize ngegama lakho le ndlu, umzekelo, igama lencwadi lendwendwe i-petrova okanye kwikona enegama le-golderava.
• Imenyu yobuqu enemibala iya kuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo kwitafile yomthendeleko ngamagama ahlekisayo yezitya kwiqela (umzekelo, isandwich yolwandle ").
• Ingakumbi kwiindwendwe zokukhupha into njengekhaphethi ebomvu.
• Ukukhutshwa kwemithetho ekhethekileyo yemibhiyozo: umzekelo, ukunxibelelana nanamhlanje ukuya kwikati enye into enjengayindlela yakho, uncumo, nje ukuba uqalise ukuthatha imifanekiso yezinto ezithambileyo Kuphela kwiisokisi ezivela kwiibini ezahlukeneyo, ngokucekeceke bancede i-cocoon ephambili / chef qokelela iipleyiti, njl.

Okukhona abantu abadala bazikhohlisa, bahlekise, bajonga kwisihloko seholide, eyona nto inokwenzeka ukuba abantwana bangathanda ngayo yonke into kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo bayakukhumbula ngeyona nto incinci.

Umnqweno onomdla wokuKhangela kwisipho sokuzalwa ujonge kwividiyo engezantsi.