Wonke umntu kube kanye ebomini bakhe onomona. Abantu banye bamkelwa ngokulula yile mvakalelo, abanye, kukuqhekeka ngaphakathi, kodwa abakulungelanga ukuvuma. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, wonke umzali wabiza umntwana wakhe kubamonela abanye kakubi. Kwinkcazo, bathelekisa le mvakalelo ngombungu oza kuhlala esifubeni kunye nomphefumlo we-erod. Nangona kunjalo, iinkcazo zabazali zilitye ngeminyaka. Kwaye imvakalelo yomona ngamanye amaxesha ivusa kweyona mzuzu ingaxhamli. Ukuphelisa umona omhlophe kunye nomnyama. OKO bahlukeyo phakathi kwabo nendlela abazibonakalisa ngayo, bafunda kwinqaku.
Yintoni?
Kwimisebenzi emininzi yokubhalwa, unokuhlangabezana nembali engalunganga yemvakalelo yomona. Umzekelo, ikhephu elimhlophe kunye nomama wesibini, isikhafu kunye ne-mufs (abalinganiswa bekhathuni "). KwanaseBhayibhileni, imvakalelo yomona phakathi kwawo abazalwana bakaKayin kunye ne-Avele. Ngapha koko, umona yinto enzima kakhulu. Kwaye ukuqonda isiseko salo, kuya kufuneka uqwalasele ukuba yintoni le imvakalelo:
- imbambano;
- ububi;
- intiyo;
- ukungoneliseki;
- Thelekisa.
Le yinxalenye yemithunzi yeemvakalelo enamava ngomona. Kodwa eyona nto inomdla kukuba le mvakalelo ebomini bokwenyani ifumaneka phantsi kwemaski eyahlukeneyo.
Yiva ukuba imvakalelo yomona kuthetha ukuba umntu onomdla ufuna ukuba nenye into eyenye . Umzekelo, umfazi ufuna idyasi yoboya kwindalo. Kodwa iimeko zobomi zamvusa ukuba anxibe ijacket eqhelekileyo okanye idyasi yokufakelwa. Kwaye intombi yakhe ifumana idyasi ye-mink emgangathweni. Ngokuhambelana, umfazi unemvakalelo yokucaphuka, kuba wayefuna kakhulu ukongeza iWarrobe yakhe nento engaphezulu yempahla, kodwa ayinakukuphumelela oku. Inzaliseko yeminqweno yakho evela kwabanye yimvakalelo enganyamezelekiyo. Kwaye njengokuphendula okubizwa ngokuba kukhuselo, umntu onomdla uqala ukumphindezela lowo yonke into ephumayo. Umzekelo womfazi onengubo yoboya, engazange saneliseke bubomi benenekazi iqala ukunyibilikisa intombi yakhe, ukuxelela. Kodwa enyanisweni, imizekelo enjalo ifumaneka kubomi bemihla ngemihla kuwo onke amanqanaba.
Abaphandi baveze oko Abantu abaneminyaka eli-18 ukuya kwengama-30 bayachaphazeleka kwiimvakalelo zomona. Anqabile kakhulu ukubaphikisa abanye abantu bexhego kunye nabantwana. Kwilizwe lanamhlanje, i-phenomenon eyomeleleyo yahlulwe yaba ziindidi ezimhlophe nezimnyama. Kukholelwa ukuba umona omhlophe awulunganga. Nangona kunjalo, enyanisweni, kwanomthunzi omhlophe yimvakalelo engalunganga. Ewe kunjalo, ithambile, iqulethe iimvakalelo ezimbi ezimbi, ide idlale indima engaqhelekanga yokutyhala, ukukhuthaza ukuya phambili.
Isikimu semvakalelo yomona omhlophe: Uye wavela, wagqiba, wahlanganisana kunye namandla, wafumana owufunayo. Phantse, Umona omhlophe ngumoyeni okhuthaze umntu ukuba aphumelele. Umona omnyama ubi kakhulu kunomhlophe. Ubangela ezona mvakalelo zimbi kakhulu kunye nokumoyikisa, kumphakamisa ngomsindo kwaye krwada. Ngamanye amaxesha ifuna ukutshatyalaliswa komntu onomona. Ngesi sizathu, ukuntywila, inkohliso, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukubulala kusoloko kuxhonywa ngomona omnyama. Umona omhlophe usenokubakho ngobubele kwaye ungazi, kwaye umnyama uyacaphukisa ngabom. Kungavavanywa ngenxa yesityebi, entle, enetalente, iphumelele kwaye impilo esempilweni. Ngokwenyani, umntu unokuziva enemvakalelo yomona kuphela kwinto anganayo. Ngapha koko, olu lumbandela onamandla obangela iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo kwishawa.
Indoda enomona ithathelwa ingqalelo yenye yeyona inobungozi, kuba iyakwazi naziphi na isenzo.
YINTONI eyahlukileyo?
Ukuba umntu ufumana umona omnyama emphefumlweni, u-Aura wakhe uthunyelwe ngumsindo kwaye ugcwele, ngenzondelelo nentiyo. Umntu onjalo awuna monakalo kumnini wento elungileyo elungileyo. Umona omnyama unokutyhala umntu kwizenzo ezimbi. Umzekelo, phosa umatshini wepeyinti okanye ubhale i-blister kumqeshwa ophuhlisiweyo. Umntu onamava umona omhlophe akaveli iimvakalelo ezimbi kwishawa. Akafuni kwenzakalisa umntu ophumelele. I-White Deecy Eavy ikuvumela ukuba uphucule, kholwa kuwe namandla akho, emva koko ukufezekisa iindawo eziphakamileyo.
Baninzi abazi ukuba ikhwele imhlophe lahlukile, kodwa alikwazi ukuwadlula amagama. Umahluko ophambili phakathi kwezi mvakalelo yile Umona omhlophe sisikhuthazo kwaye sikhuthazi, kwaye mnyama nomsindo kwaye intiyo. Ngumona omnyama obulala imeko yemvakalelo yomntu. Kwenzeka ukuba indoda ibe nzima kakhulu ukujamelana nemvakalelo yomona. Ekuphela kwesigqibo luncedo logqirha wengqondo ofanelekileyo.
Unobangela weSova
Unobangela wemvakalelo yomona womntu ngamnye uhlukile. Konke kuxhomekeke kubuntu kunye nomlinganiswa. Nangona kunjalo, ngokweengqondo zengqondo, Olona vavanyo lubalulekileyo, uthando lokuqhayisa, umnqweno wokuba nezona zibonelelo zilungileyo, ubuntwana obunzima, imfundo engafanelekanga kunye nobuthathaka boMoya . Uthando ngamandla lunokuchazwa kuluhlu olufanayo. Ngaphandle kokwahluka kwezizathu zomona, zidityaniswa nento ebalulekileyo, ebizwa ngokuba ngumnqweno wokufumana into yokuba kukho omnye umntu.
Ngokuphathelele umona omhlophe nobo mnyama kukho amabali amaninzi awahlukeneyo, amabali amancinci, iintsomi kunye nemifanekiso. Umzekelo, ngenye imini iNdiya yakudala yaxelela umzukulwana wakhe kangangokuba emphefumlweni wonke umntu uhlala enomzabalazo phakathi kweengcuka ezimbini. Irhamncwa lokuqala linomsindo, intiyo kunye nekhwele. Okwesibini kukhathazeka kakuhle, uxolo, uthando kunye nolonwabo. UmIndiya omncinci owamamela ngononophelo kweli bali, wacela utamkhulu wakhe, luluphi uhlobo lwengcuka ewineni, apho i-ODurindi yakudala yaphendula yathi yona yoyiswa.
Iingcali zengqondo ezininzi ziqinisekile ukuba imvakalelo yomona yinto eyosulelekileyo. Ukuba loo mvakalelo wabonakala entloko kumntu omnye, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumbulala ummelwane. Umzekelo, indoda ixesha elide inomdla kwimpumelelo yoogxa, ngenxa yoko kwaqala ukuxoxa neqela lonke lomsebenzi, waqala ukubaxelela ukuba angabizi ngako ukungqubana, eqokelela iqabane lakhe phantsi kwe-punch ngaphambili Incwadana yemigaqo. Emva kokuba beve olu lwazi, yimfuneko kubasebenzi abayi-10 abaya kuwa ecaleni kwendlela enomdla, kwaye imfazwe nxamnye nomntu ophumeleleyo uya kwakhiwa ngamandla amabini.
Iingcali zengqondo ezenziwa ngumntu ngamnye zihlawula ngokwabantu abazithembayo ngenxa yobunzima bentlupheko nobuhlwempu. Bafumana umona wokungabikho kokusesikweni kwezentlalo, ekunzima ngakumbi ukuba boyise. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kunzima ukususa ummona abantu abazigqala njengezilo kwaye bazele lusizi. Bahlala benikwa ukungabikho kobomi obungcono ebomini. Kwangelo xesha, kwanempumelelo, bona boyisa.
Ungalibali loo nto Ngokwakhe onomona, eneemvakalelo zomona, aziphathe kwi-Pormed yeXentle kunye nolwelo lweemvakalelo zakhe . Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo ukuba awunakulahlekisa iimvakalelo ezimbi kumntu ophumeleleyo. Emva koko kuya kufuneka ugcine uvavanyiwe. Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ezisisigxina zibangela izifo ezininzi - kungekuphela kokomoya, kodwa nenyama.
Ngapha koko, ukuba nomona kuhlaselo lobubi obuqinileyo kunokwenza imeko apho kunokuchaphazeleka ngabantu abamsulwa. Eyona nto inomdla yile Nabani na onokuba ngumchasi onzima kakhulu, emva koko kuya kufuneka baqine.
Nditsho nekhwele oluqhelekileyo lihambelana nomona. Zombini ezi mvakalelo zifuna ukuba nento. Kwaye apho kukhona iimvakalelo ezinjalo, isazela, ububele kunye nokunyaniseka akukabikho.
Ingcebiso eluncedo
Ngelishwa, akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlangabezane nawe. Kungenxa yoko le nto umona uze ungalindelekanga kwaye ungayitshiza umntu ngaphakathi kwexesha elide. Ukuze le nto le yenzeki, kuyimfuneko ukufumanisa isizathu esiphambili sokuvela komona kwaye usebenze kunye nogqirha wezengqondo. Kucetyiswa ukuba uzibandakanye ngezinto ezintle, ukutya okumnandi, uhambo kwimisitho enomdla, ukushiya ilizwe, ukutyelela amazwe akude. Ukuphelisa imvakalelo yomona, kuya kufuneka uhlala uzisebenzela. Akukho tyala alinakuthelekiswa nabanye abantu. Ukukhululeka kumona, ubomi bomntu butshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Unezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, umdla, abantu abaziyo. Imvakalelo yemvakalelo iyatshintsha ibe ngcono, kwaye umbuzo "kutheni ungam?" ihamba ngasemva.
Umntu unzima kakhulu ukunqanda ngaphandle, kodwa ngendlela elungileyo unokujika le mvakalelo kwinkuthazo efanelekileyo. Umzekelo, abasetyhini abanqwenela ukunciphisa umzimba banele ukujonga imizimba entle yabameli besini esifanelekileyo kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Abo banqwenela ukuba sisityebi kufuneka basebenze nzima kwaye bajonge injongo yabo. Elinye lawona mabhunga abalulekileyo kwiingcali zengqondo, ukuvumela ukuba ukwazi ukujamelana nemvakalelo yomona-ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho.
Ukuba umntu ngequbuliso unemntu onomona, kufuneka abonelele ngengqondo kubo, enkosi ngayo yonke into kwaye engenamsebenzi kwizenzo zabo.
