Ibhinqa ngalinye okungenani kube kanye ebomini bakhe lube nomona ecaleni kweentombi. Abanye babameli bemigangatho ebuthathaka, baziva besongelwa emva kwexesha, baphazamisa kwangoko bonke abafowunelwa nabantu ababi. Ezi zenzo bazisindisa kunye nokusindisa kwabo kwimiphumo engathandekiyo. Abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bathembela kubachasi abafihliweyo bawa ngamabali angathandekiyo.
Imiqondiso
Umona yinto edibanisa iifom ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha kwezentlalo. Ihlala ibhekiswe komnye umntu ukuya komnye. Le nto yenzeka ngenxa yokuba umntu omnye unezibonelelo ezinjalo ezingafumaneki komnye umntu. Ke ngoko, elinye icala alisebenzi kwelinye icala kwaye ifumana imvakalelo enobutshaba. Mayitshilo ukuba bonke abantu banomona. Nangona kunjalo, abanye banokulwa le mvakalelo, kwaye abanye - hayi. Kwilizwe lanamhlanje, ingxaki ngumona womona wokuqiniswa ngenxa yokhuphiswano lolwalamano lwangaphakathi.
Ngokwesiqhelo, indalo esingqongileyo ifihlile le bonakaliso kwaye, ngaphandle kwayo yonke into, izama ukuxhasa ubuhlobo. Ke ngoko, ngamanye amaxesha umfazi onomona kunzima ukuqonda ukuba usengozini. Nangona kunjalo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba iyakuqonda le nto ngezinto ezithile. Imona yomona ngokumela ubomi bakho. Umzekelo, intombi yakho ngequbuliso iqala ukunxiba njengoko unxiba, okanye uxelisa indlela oziphatha ngayo kunye nokuthetha. Ihlala inomona abantu ukuba benze ngokungaboniyo, kuba bengacingi ngendlela abaziphethe ngayo. Ke ngoko, ukungabi nangqondo kwizenzo kunye nezenzo ezilandelayo uya kuqaphela ngokulula.
Kuyenzeka ukumisela umona kwihleba lokuba umhlobo wakho anyibilikisile. Ukuba uvile ukuphononongwa ngokwakho, emva koko zama ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani na ome ityala. Rhoqo umxokelelwane, kwaye uya kukukhokelela enyanisweni.
Fumanisa ukuba unokuba nomntu ombi nomona ngezenzo ezithile.
- Ihlala inciphisa kwaye ixhase impumelelo yakho kunye nempumelelo. Umzekelo, intombi ngalo lonke ixesha uyenyuka indlela oziphethe ngayo okanye impahla yakho. Kufuneka iqondwe ukuba umfazi oqhelekileyo kunye nobubele (intombazana) ayiyi kwenziwa nangaliphi na icala. Eyona nto iphambili, cwaka ngokuthe cwaka kwinto engalunganga kuwe ayikho ngolungelelwano (ngempahla okanye ngokuziphatha), kwaye uyincede ilungise.
- Bonke abanomona bayavuya kakhulu ukuba ukusilela kubomi bakho. Umzekelo, uphulukene nendawo yomsebenzi, kwaye umhlobo wakho kwiindaba uyonwabisa kwaye uzama ukuhlekisa. Kuphela kumahlaya akhe kuphela ukuba akahlekisi, kodwa lihlazo.
- Kwelinye icala, inkqubela phambili yakho ichaphazela imeko yentombi engalunganga. Emva koloyiso lwakho olulandelayo, kuya kuba nzima kwaye lonke ixesha ungorhabaxa.
- Intombi ibeka phambili izityholo ukuba lonke ixesha uzifumane kwindawo efanelekileyo, ngokungafaniyo naye. Qaphela ukuba zihlala zinjalo abantu abanomona abazibizi ngokuvakalayo, kodwa uziva ngathi kwinqanaba lengqondo.
- Ukuba kukho umntu onekhwele kakhulu ngawe, ngoko uphambili kancinci. Ngenxa yoko, kwanabo bantu bakuhlonipha kakhulu ukuba bangenakufuna ukunxibelelana nawe.
- Uziva ngathi zihlala ziphantsi kwefuthe elibi kwinxalenye yomhlobo wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi ukuba kuye kwakho okunene kuwe "emithanjeni kuya kuba nesithukuthezi." Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuya kufuneka ungazihoyi ezi mvakalelo. Kungenzeka ukuba i-intuition yakho ingakhohlisi.
- Intombazana enomtsalane ihlala icebisa uhlobo oluthile lwento engeyiyo. Umzekelo, uyakumema ukuba uxabane neqabane kuphela kuba akazange anikele iringi ebiza kakhulu. Uyaqonda ukuba iimfuno zayo ziyahlekisa, kwaye azifuni iingxabano.
Izizathu eziphambili
Bonke abantu abakwi-subconsiction banqwenela ukuba njalo kwaye kuyo yonke indawo kuqala. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kubafazi. Ukuba abantu banokugcina iimvakalelo zabo baphantsi kolawulo, emva koko abasetyhini bahlala besenza ngokweemvakalelo. Ngenkangeleko yembangi eqaqambileyo nephumeleleyo, abanye abantu baqala ukuziphathe ngokungafanelekanga kwaye badane. Rhoqo, isini esifanelekileyo sinokuphilisa naziphi na izinto ezincinci, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi kukho oonobangela obukhethekileyo boku. Qwalasela zonke iindlela ngeendlela ngakumbi.
- Umona wesikolo uhlala efunyanwa. I-Itroncnitsa inomdla ofunda naye ngolwazi lwayo namabakala akhe amahle.
- Intombazana enenkangeleko yesiqhelo ihlala ivuza intombi yakhe entle. Akakwazi ukwamkela into yokuba ijongeka ngcono kwaye ifana nomntu wesini esahlukileyo.
- Abanye abantu bamoyikisa intombi yabo elahlekileyo. Inkangeleko entsha yomhlobo ayinikezeli ngokukodwa kubameli bomgangatho omnandi, ohleli ixesha elide ekutyeni.
- Kukho abasetyhini ababangela umona kunye nethamsanqa labo kubomi babo. Umzekelo, abayizi, njengoko bephila kakuhle. Unomona ngabantu abanjalo bathi: Unomyeni osisityebi, igumbi elitsha, oko akusebenzi emva komtshato.
- Kwenzeka ukuba bobabini abafazi banxibelelane novelwano kwindoda enye. Kule meko, enye yeendlela, ezihlala ecaleni, ziyakwazi ukwenza amanyathelo angakhethi. Ngamanye amaxesha iza kwindawo ebilayo, ekhokelela kwintlekele.
- Ukuba intombazana enye itshatile kwaye ikhulelwe ngaphambili, enye, ayingomhlobo onesidima, ngokuqinisekileyo iqala ukubakhulisa ukukhulelwa kunye nomyeni wakhe.
Ke ngoko, akufuneki uthethe ngeendlela ezithile ukhulelwe. Ngaphandle koko, umona unokuzisa imiphumo emibi.
Iziphumo
Nawaphi na amanyathelo awonelanga kwaye ayilunganga nxamnye nawe aya kuhlala ebeka kuwe kwaye enze ubomi bunganyamezeleki. Awunakuyicingela indlela otshintsha ngayo ubomi bakho, ukuba unamanzi amnyama. Umona yeyona mpembelelo imbi kumntu onokubakho. Qwalasela lo mbuzo ngokweenkcukacha ngakumbi.
- Imali yakho inokudinwa ngokukhawuleza. Kuya kwenzeka ngamathuba. Imali ithanda uxolo ne-aura emsulwa. Ukuba i-aura yakho yaphukile, ukuhamba kwequla lempilo luya koma.
- Ithamsanqa, eyayikwicala lakho, iya kumshiya ngokukhawuleza. Amandla amnyama omntu oyintiyo atshatyalalisiwe kwaye lo mfuziselo ulungileyo.
- Ukuba ugcwele amandla othando, ke eli jelo liza kuyeka ukubakho ngenxa yempembelelo kuye umntu ombi. Amagama anomona amnandi onqwenela ithamsanqa lakho kwicala lakho.
- Impilo iya kuhla. Akukho mfihlakalo yokuba umntu anamandla athile. Ukuba loo mntu uya kuqhagamshela nala mandla, anomsindo kuwe, oko kuya kuba yiyo loo nto okanye i-iZilineete ithatha amandla akho asempilweni. Ke ngoko, akufuneki umangaliswe ukuba uziva ukwala amandla kwaye kwanesiquphe.
- Ke, ngenxa yobuhlobo nentombi enomona, unokuphulukana nayo yonke into: umsebenzi, impilo yosapho. Kwaye nokuba umntu ongendawo akanakukuphembelela kwisicwangciso samandla, uya kuba nakho ukukwenzakalisa isenzo esibonakalayo somzimba.
Umzekelo, thetha ngawe zonke iintlobo ezingakhange zibonwe, kwaye oku kuya kuwuchaphazela umsebenzi wakho. Emva koko, oogxa okanye amaqabane osebenza nabo banokuyeka kuwe.
Yintoni omele uyenze ngomona?
Ngomona, obuvela kuye nawuphi na umntu, akukho nto ayinakwenzeka. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uphazaphule unxibelelwano kwaye uguqule ingqalelo yabo kwabanye, ngakumbi abantu abanesidima.Ukuba unekhwele ngentombazana
Okokuqala kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba. Ungayenza njani? Ibhodi i-hard entsha okanye yazise iindaba zakhe ezimnandi kuwe. Ukuba uziva upholile kwaye ungonelanga kwintombazana yakho, emva koko uyakufumana. Qaphela: Isimo sakhe sona sakhona asinakubhideka naziphi na ezinye izinto ezibonakalisayo. Emva kokuba imeko icaca kancinci, khumbula amanye amaxesha: kunokwenzeka ukuba umhlobo wakho akuyiphathe ngendlela engeyiyo, kodwa awufuni ukuyibona le nto.
Emva koko, yonke into ifanelekile kwaye icinge: Uza kulahlekelwa yintoni ukuba uyeke ukunxibelelana nezona zikhethekileyo ezingakuthandiyo? Kungenzeka ukuba ubuhlobo kunye nendoda kudala kukugxotha. Ke obu buhlobo kufuneka buphazamiseke ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba uqhubeka usenza ngathi awuqali kwaphela, emva koko imeko inokuphazamisa. Umona wentombi yakho akayi ndawo, kodwa uya kukhula kuphela.
Ngenxa yoko, iintshukumo ezimbi ezahlukileyo kwinxalenye yomhlobo, njengomsulwa onamandla, ziya kutshabalalisa ubomi bakho. Umntu onikufuna ububi uya kukwenza oko, kamva, kuloo tyala. Ke ngoko, musa ukumangaliswa ukuba uqala unazo iingxaki zempilo. Emva koko isenzo sentombi siya kuchaphazela usapho kwaye emsebenzini. Ngenxa yoko, unokuphulukana nayo yonke into oyibiza kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, izibonelelo zobuxoki ziya konwaba kuphela yintlungu yakho. Ke, ukuba ukrokrela umntu ongathwali, thatha inyathelo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuqala kwelona liphezulu, nciphisa abafowunelwa abanetyhefu kunye nokujongana nemicimbi yakho yobuqu.
Ukuba uyakuvuna
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umona yimvakalelo embi apho kufuneka ulwe. Kuthekani ukuba ayisebenzi kakubi? Kuyimfuneko ukususa ibonakaliso embi enjalo. Kwaye apha kuxhomekeke kuwe.
- Ukuhlalisa kobuntu bakhe kunye neenzuzo zabo kuya kuyeka umona. Kuyenzeka ukuba uphumelele ngakumbi kwaye ubuhle kunentombi yakho. Awufuni nje ukuyiphawula, kwaye bayabandezeleka kuloo nto.
- Unokuloyisa umona ngoncedo lwe "ogada" kwinu "". Nje ukuba iingcinga ezimbi ziqala ukujongana nentloko yakho, zama ukuzithumela kwelinye icala. Umzekelo: Cinga ngenyani yokuba nawe unokufumana ukuphakama ezithile kumcimbi othile.
- Zithande njengoko unjalo: ngazo zonke iintsilelo. Khumbula ukuba naziphi na izibambiso ziguqulwe ngokulula zibe yinzuzo, ukuba wenza umzamo. Umzekelo: Ucinga ukuba imbi. Kulungile, vumelani. Into ephambili ayibubuhle, kodwa ulonwabo lobuqu. Emva koko ubeke isukelo kwaye uzifumane iqabane elinjalo elingenakutsalwa ngaphandle, kodwa iya kuba ngumphefumlo umhle. Kholwa ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha, ubuhle bangaphandle buyaphela, kwaye bangaphakathi, ngokuchaseneyo, kuphuma.
- Ukuba awukwazi ukujamelana nomnqweno wokuphumelela njengomhlobo wakho, emva koko thumela onke amandla akho ukuzalisekisa umnqweno. Yekani ukonakalisa umntu ophumeleleyo, kwaye uqalise ukufunda kuye.
Khumbula ukuba abafundi abaninzi abanetalente ekuhambeni kwexesha bagqithe ootitshala babo. Kuya kuba lo mnqweno kunye nomnqweno onamandla. Kwaye awuyi kuphumelela nantoni na embi, kodwa uzenzakalise.
Iingcebiso ngogqirha wezengqondo
Ukuba unengxaki, ke kwiimeko ezininzi ngokwakho uzibekek 'ityala lento abavela kuyo. Ke ngoko, kuyakufuneka ilungisa iimeko ezinzima. Ukuba ungumntu ongasweleki kwaye uphile ingqondo yakho, ke usenokuba ubone indawo ezikujikelezileyo kuLowo ubungena mncinci, kodwa umona. Kuyenzeka ukuba umona walo mntu udlulela kwaye akanawo umhlaba. Emva koko kuya kufuneka ugxile kolu nyango kunye nolwalamano.
Ukuba uphawula umona omnyama kwinxalenye yentombazana, ke kufuneka ukhuthazwe apha. Okokuqala, yeka ukumthemba umntu ongowe kakubi. Gcina zonke iimfihlo kunye nawe kwaye ungazixeleli iinkcukacha ngobomi bakho bobuqu. Kungenjalo, amazwi akho anokujika. Zama okungenani kancinci, kodwa uvaliwe. Kwinkampani engaqhelekanga, kuyimfuneko ukuba uziphathe ngokwendalo kwaye uthethe kuphela izihloko zoxinzelelo. Yiyo loo nto, uya kuthintela ngaphezulu kwaye ungakhathali kubafana abanomona.
Soloko uncuma kwaye ube nobubele. Nangona kunjalo, gcina umgama waba bantu obajonganga. Umzekelo, uye kwi-cafe kunye nabahlobo bakho. Kwinkampani yamabhinqa angaqhelekanga, bazikhokelele ekuphumleni kwaye bonwabe. Kwaye masiqonde ngokukhawuleza yonke into ongakude ekuhleni.
Khumbula ukuba ukuhleba kunye nokwenza ukuba nomona ukhulile, bafumana oko bakuhlwayelayo. Rhoqo, zizonke ezona zikhetheli ziba sisimo sengqondo esingalunganga kubo.
