Usuku lomtshato kubo bonke abasandul 'ukutshata yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini. Ukugxininisa ukubaluleka komtshato, kwiintsapho ezininzi kulisiko ukubhiyozela isikhumbuzo. Nyamnye unyaka kunye nomyeni wakhe, unyaka unegama layo. Makhe sithethe malunga nendlela ebizwa ngayo isikhumbuzo ezingama-22. Yintoni ekufuneka inikezwe kule holide?
Ngubani igama lesikhumbuzo?
Usuku lomtshato lukhunjulwa ngamaqabane anesisa esikhethekileyo kunye nonkuthalo, ngakumbi xa esi siganeko senzeka kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo. Iinkumbulo ezinjalo zihlala zimnandi, zinika iimvakalelo ezininzi ezintle kunye nobushushu. Emva kokuba amaqabane ehlala kunye iminyaka engama-22, baphawula umtshato wobhedu. Ewe kunjalo, olu ayilomhla ojikelezileyo, kodwa kulisiko ukunikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo.
Okokuqala, ndiza kusiqonda isizathu sokuba iminyaka engama-22 yokuphila kunye yayibizwa ngokuba ngabantu bomtshato wobhedu. Khumbula ubhedu. Esi sisinyithi esomeleleyo nesihle esenziwe ngobhedu kunye ne-tin. Ubhedu unokuthenjwa, uqinile kwaye ungamelanga kwiimpembelelo ezahlukeneyo zangaphandle ezingaphandle. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwezi mpawu, esi sinyithi sibhekisa kwi "Blingle".
Ziziimpawu ezifuzisela ubudlelwane bamaqabane abahlala ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-20 kunye. Ulwalamano lwabo lunokubizwa ngokuba luthembekile kwaye lumelele. Ngeminyaka emide, indoda nomfazi "bathathela ingqalelo omnye komnye, bafunda ukumamela kwaye bevane ngomlomo, bakholwa kwaye bathembe. Ulwalamano lwabo luyafana nobhedu: Ngaphandle kwenqaba yangaphandle, bahlala bhetyebhetye.
Nguwuphi umyeni nenkosikazi?
Kwiminyaka engama-22, umyeni wakhe nomfazi akufuneki balibale omnye komnye. Njengophawu lokunikwa ingqalelo kunye nentlonipho, kufuneka baqhubeke nesiqingatha sabo sentetho engalibalekiyo. Siza kuyibona ukuba ungamnika umfazi wam umyeni kumtshato wobhedu. Njengesipho, unokuthintela oku kulandelayo.
- Ubucwebe obuxhaphakileyo bobhedu. Amacici okanye i-bracelet iyakwazi ukukholisa nawuphi na umfazi. Ubucwebe, esenziwe kwisitayile sobuzwe, sishiywe kwincopho yokuthandwa kumashumi eminyaka. Ukuhonjiswa okunjalo kuya kulunga naziphi na iimpahla. Banokudityaniswa nemifanekiso eyahlukileyo. Bayakuvumela i-anyanisi ibe yeyokuqala kwaye igqityiwe.
- I-bronze ye-bronze okanye ibhokisi yejwabi. Imveliso enjalo iluncedo kuwo onke amabhinqa. Enkosi kuye, umfazi wakhe unokugcina yonke imihlobiso kwindawo enye.
- Isipili nge-rim yobhedu. Isipho esinjalo siya konwaba ngayo nayiphi na ifashoni. Inganikezelwa kwisipili sodonga kunye nedesktop.
- I-bronze "encinci". Inokuba yi-talsmans, amahashe, amahashe ngokuvukela, iikomityi, i-vats, iivard, iimbiza zeentyatyambo kunye nezinye iimveliso.
- Inkosikazi iya kuyikhumbula ikakhulu ukuba kukho nasiphi na izipho ezingasentla ziya koxhaswa Iintyatyambo zakhe ezithandayo.
Ngoku sizakufumanisa ukuba zeziphi izipho ezifanelekileyo kwindoda evela kumfazi wam.
- Ubhedu olo. Imveliso enjalo iya kufaneleka ukuba indoda ine desktop yayo.
- Yima iipeni. Oku kuya kuxabisa amadoda osebenza kumashishini.
- Imeko yecuba.
- I-cufflinks okanye inxilise i-tie.
- Ibhanti.
- Isiphatho esikhethekileyo.
- I-Ashttray.
- Imbasa okanye i-stalpette enomtsalane. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ufake isicelo esibalulekileyo kumaqabane amatsha.
Nokuba sisiphi na isipho esinyuliweyo, kubalulekile ukuba singalibali ubushushu. Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukukhetha amagama afanelekileyo kwaye unqwenela nakuphi na ukuboniswa.
Ukubhiyozela njani?
Iminyaka engama-22 ehlala kunye izakuhlala emva, ke kufuneka ucinge kwangaphambili, phi kwaye ubhiyozela njani umtshato wobhedu. Kuba luhlobo "oluphantsi", akunconyelwanga ukuba ibhiyozele ukuba iqengqele imini yehlabathi liphela. Ukuba isibini singayithandi "ingxolo kunye ne-jama", kungcono ukuchitha olu suku kunye. Ungahamba:
- kwi-cinema yendawo yothando;
- ukuya epakini;
- kwindawo yemidlalo yeqonga;
- Kwindawo yokutyela oyithandayo okanye ikhefu.
Ukongeza, umbhiyozo wesikhumbuzo seNdlu iya kuba ngumbono olungileyo. Ungaququzelela isidlo sangokuhlwa sekhandlela yeCelelelux, cwangcisa "iindibano" zokubukela ii-albhamu zeFoto ezindala okanye iifilimu zakho ozithandayo. Abanye abantu abatshatileyo babhiyozela isikhumbuzo se-22 "esibizwa ngokuba" sisidlo sangokuhlwa. Uninzi lweefowuni zeholide yezihlobo okanye kubahlobo abasondeleyo.
USUKU lomtshato unokuqatshelwa ekhaya, kwindawo yokutyela okanye cafe, kunye nendalo. Inketho yokugqibela iya kuphumelela ukuba unethamsanqa ngemozulu.
Izipho ezivela kubahlobo bosapho
Ukuba ububizelwe kumtshato wobhedu, kufuneka umangaliswe sisibini. Okwangoku kunokuba luyisimboli yokukhumbula okanye imveliso, iluncedo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo kukholelwa ukuba izipho ezahlukeneyo zobhedu, eziboniswe kwisikhumbuzo ezingama-22, ngabandulelanga kwithamsanqa elungileyo nethamsanqa lendoda yakhe kunye nenkosikazi yakhe. Ke ngoko, ukukhetha isipho, kufuneka ukhethe iimveliso zophawu zokomfuziselo.
- I-Souvenir. Kucetyiswa ukuba ukhuthaze ukhetho kwi-statetittes encinci okanye enkulu. Inokuba ziingelosi, iintliziyo ezi-2, isibini eluthandweni. Njengesipho, izilwanyana okanye iintaka ezenziwe ngobhedu ziya kufaneleka.
- I-Bronzey House okanye izinto zokuHlawula igadi. Sebenzisa okanye ukugxothwa iimveliso, ukupeyinta kunye nesakhelo sobhedu okanye ukupheliswa-Isipho esifanelekileyo esivela kubahlobo bosapho unyaka wama-22 unyaka omtshato. Imikhosi yezi zipho iya kuba nakho ukwenza ikhaya labo kwaye lenze ukuba ikhululeke kwaye iphose. Abalimi kunye neegadi zinokunikwa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zentsimbi.
- I-Bronze kitnstols. Isipho esinjalo siya kuba yinto engaqhelekanga kwaye yothuswa sisibini. Uninzi lwabantu alusebenzisi izicelo ezinjalo ngenjongo yazo, kodwa zigcine njenge-talisman.
- Iikhabethe ze-bronzef. Mhle, kodwa kwangaxeshanye imveliso engathethekiyo kwimeko yokwahlukana nokukhanya. Isiphatho sezikhandlela siya kuba sisipho esifanelekileyo kwisibini esitshatileyo, umntu ohlolwe sisitayile seklasi okanye ilizwe. Baza kulunga ngokugqibeleleyo kwingaphakathi kwaye bagxininisa incasa ekwabelwana ngayo kubanini bayo.
- I-Bronzey Amakhonkco aphambili, imbasa ngokuqhutywa, iijele, i-hooks Kunye nenye into emnandi yokomfuziselo.
Ukongeza kwizipho "zobhedu", unokubetha umzobo 22 kwaye ngoku kuyamangalisa. Umzekelo, inokuba ziitshokholethi ezingama-22 okanye iikomityi, iimbasa ezingama-22 okanye iimveliso ezingamashumi amabini anesibini eziqokelelwa kusapho. Ukuze isipho siba sekuqaleni, awukwazi ukuthintela itshokholethi, kodwa ukuze usonge kwangaphambili u-Readve kwiNdlu yokushicilela. Iifoto zomyeni nenkosikazi yakhe zinokubonakaliswa, kunye neesimboli zemifanekiso yomtshato wobhedu. Izipho ezinjalo ziya kukhunjulwa kungekuphela nje kwiqabane, kodwa neendwendwe zeholide.
Ungalibali malunga nezipho ezenziwe ngezandla zakho. Ingaba yi-albhamu yefoto kwisitayile esinxilisayo, i-sweatshi enxulumene nomfanekiso we-Beads, isakhelo. Ii-hluko zininzi. Kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ithuba elinobunzima kwaye wenze into eyiyo, into enikwa abantu abahlonitshwayo nabahlonitshwayo.
Yintoni enokukhethwa kubazali?
Kwisikhumbuzo esingama-22, abantwana kufuneka bakholise abazali babo ngezipho ezingalibalekiyo. Izipho zinokufuzisela lo mhla. Umzekelo, utata nonina banokunikwa umtshato wobhedu:
- Izinto zangaphakathi okanye izitya ezenziwe ngobhedu (i-Samovar, iKetele, i-Clock, iRinder yeKofu, itreyi);
- ibhokisi yokuhombisa;
- Izivungu ezahlukeneyo, ezifuzisela uthando, ukunyaniseka nokuzinikela;
- Ikhuselekile ngobhedu ukugqiba ukugqiba;
- Izipho ezizodwa uku-odola.
Abazali banokutonwa, "baphazamise" izipho ezingahambelani nolwazelelelo bobhedu. Kule meko, njengesipho, iseti esithandwayo yelineni, i-pajamas efudumeleyo, igumbi lokuhlambela, izixhobo zombane zasekhaya, igajethi ziboniswa. Ungalibali malunga nezipho ezenziwe ngezandla zakho. Izipho ezinjalo zixabiseke ngakumbi kunothuselo oluthethiweyo kwiivenkile. Ngaphambi koko, unokwenza ukuba wenze imifanekiso kwiifoto zabazali okanye i-veroeder umfanekiso kwizihloko zothando (amakhonkco, amahashe).
Ukongeza, unokwenza iposikhadi ekhethekileyo, i-albhamu yefoto okanye isakhelo. Kwakhona, kwisikhumbuzo, abantwana banokukholisa abazali ngokubhaka okumnandi. Iikomityi okanye iikeyiki ezihonjisiweyo kumxholo wombhiyozo ziya kuza ngendlela yeqela langokuhlwa.
Abazali baya kukuvuyela kakhulu ukufumana oku kulandelayo kubantwana.
- Amatikiti emfuyini. Ngaphandle kokufikeleleka kwezemali, loo mnikelo uya kuba ngumzali kuba iya kuvumela amaqabane ukuba enze ixesha elihle kakhulu.
- Isatifikethi sokudibana ngokudibeneyo senkqubo ye-cosmetology okanye i-missage. Ngenxa yemikhwa enjalo, abazali baya kuba nakho ukuguqula, bafumane amandla namandla. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ebantwini abalupheleyo.
- I-hike eHamm, i-sauna okanye igumbi lokuhlambela. Ukuba abazali bayayithanda "iinkqubo ezihlawulelweyo, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuxabisa ukumangalisa.
- I-portrait edibeneyo itsalwa ngumculi oqeqeshiweyo.
- Ifoto ye-albhamu.
- Ifoto yokuprinta. Ingasetyenziswa kwi-mugs, i-t-shirts, iitawuli, umqamelo. Iimveliso ezinemifanekiso yendoda yakhe nenkosikazi yayo ingummangaliso omangalisayo nonengqondo olwenziwe luthando kunye nomphefumlo.
- Ukuba iingxowa-mali zivumela, abantwana banokucwangcisa ukuhamba okanye ukuhamba kwabazali elwandle okanye kwi-sanatorium. Ukuhambahamba ekuphumleni kuya kuvumela amaqabane kungekuphela nje ukuze aphumle kwaye akhuphe impilo, kodwa ayonwabele omnye komnye.
Kukhuthaza, kwaye kwangaxeshanye ufumane umbono omtsha wesipho esivela kubazali kwisikhumbuzo, unokusuka kule vidiyo ilandelayo.