Umtshato ngumanyano lwabantu ababini, olusekwe eluthandweni, ukuthobela kunye nokuthembana. Ixesha le-Union alinakuqikelelwa ekuqaleni kobomi bosapho, xa isibini esitshatileyo sitshintshela kwimida yomtshato sinika isifungo. Kuphela kusemva kweminyaka yobomi bosapho kuphela, inokuqondwa ukuba inani leminyaka le lixhomekeke kuwo omabini amaqabane, kulwalamano lwabo omnye komnye, ukusuka kumnqweno wokudibana ngokudibeneyo kunye nendlela ende yobomi .
Rhoqo ngonyaka wobomi bosapho yenye inyathelo kwileli ende yolwalamano lwentsapho kwaye inegama layo loomboli. Isikhumbuzo sesithoba somtshato, mhlawumbi hayi umhla ojikelezileyo, kodwa ngaphandle kwale, ixabiso layo alincitshiswanga phakathi kwenani elikhulu leholide.
Ngubani igama lesikhumbuzo?
Iminyaka engamashumi asithoba yobomi - indlela ende, abatshatileyo badlula kunye. Olu phuculo lubizwa ngokuba yiKedare. Umthi onamandla, onamandla kunye nowomeleleyo ubonakalisa ukuthembeka kobudlelwane, ubulumko, uthando kunye nokuqonda. Kuphela ngenxa yokufumaneka kwezi mpawu, usapho lunokubakho ixesha elide kwaye luloyisa ngokudibeneyo bonke ubunzima obusenzo. Ulwalamano olomeleleyo nolonyusiweyo lwaba sisiseko esithembekileyo sentliziyo ethembekileyo, ekufutshane nabantwana, kwavuka abazukulwana, kwavela into enkulu.
Umthi wemisedare yenye yezona nkuni zichithakeleyo emhlabeni kunye nobudlelwane bentsapho ekumele ukuba banxibelelane nabo ngononophelo kwaye bangavumeli ukuba baphikise. Umthi ohlala uhleli awuyongxaki kuphela nangaliphi na ixesha lonyaka, kodwa unepropathi yokuphilisa. Isityalo sendalo sinomthi ochasene nosulelo, i-antiseptic, ukucocwa kunye nokuphilisa. Ke buyela kwindlu yabazali ukuya kwinkathalo nabalumkileyo kuya kunceda ekusombululeni kwaye woyise iingxaki kunye namandla. Ugxininiso losapho luya kusindisa kwimvakalelo yokoyika kunye nokungaqiniseki. Ngabazali kuphela abanokuvuya ngokunyaniseka emntwaneni wabo.
Ulwalamano oluhambelana lwabazali ngokuqinisekileyo luya kuba ngumzekelo wesizukulwana esitsha kwaye luya kuba ngumzekelo kungekuphela kwabantwana kuphela, kodwa nakwabazukulwana kunye nabazukulwana abaninzi.
Amanqanaba okwenza iintsapho kufana nokukhula kunye nophuhliso lweenkuni. Umthi, njengosapho, ubuthathaka bokuqala kwaye uyahluka, nayiphi na intshukumo engakhathaliyo inokulimaza. Isimo sengqondo sokunonohla kunye nokukhathalelwa Yenza isiseko sokukhula, ukukhula kunye nokomelezwa komthi kunye nosapho. Ngonyaka ngamnye ophilayo, into engentle iya isiba nzima, kwaye emva kwexesha elincinci, amahlumelo amancinci avela, efanekisela ukuqhubeka kohlobo olukhulayo kwaye lufuzisela usapho oluthembekileyo, lufuzisela usapho.
Uyibhiyozele njani imibhiyozo?
Lo mbhiyozo sisiko ukubhiyozela kwisangqa sezihlobo ezisondeleyo kunye nabahlobo. Phambi komhla obalulekileyo, kufuneka ulungiselele indawo yokubhiyozela. I-Lamps ivumba le-Cedar Gcwalisa igumbi elinevumba elimnandi kwaye lenze imvakalelo yeholide. Ukutyala imithi emisedare yoMsedare kufutshane nayo iya kuba sesona senzo soyilo sombhiyozo, kwaye ukhathalelo olulandelayo kubo liyinto entle. Emva kweminyaka emininzi, imithi eyaqingqiweyo kunye nemithi yabantu abadala iya kuhlala ikhumbuza abazukulwana ngobomi bukatat'omkhulu notat'omkhulu, kwaye baya kuba ngumzekelo wokudala usapho olomeleleyo.
Ukuhamba kwibhafu kwisikhumbuzo somtshato kuthathwa njengomnyhadala wokomfuziselo kunye nemveli. Iindwendwe ezimenyiweyo kunye neziqwengana zombhiyozo kunye ziye kulo msitho. Ukuhlamba kwi-Cedar Barrel ngobusi kunye ne-hop kuthathwa njengenkqubo ebalulekileyo yokudibanisa, kunye nokungqubana kunye nokucofa ngokulula kokutshata kuya kuba kukuzonwabisa okumnandi.
Ukuhlamba amaqabane anamanzi kakuhle luphawu lokucoca ubudlelwane obucocekileyo kwiingxabano, iingcinga ezimbi nokukhubekisa, kunye nokuqhubeka nokuhlala zibanjelwe kwindawo yokuzola nokuhlala, kunye nokuvumelana.
Iindwendwe kufuneka zilungise iingoma ezincinci ezihlekisayo okanye iChatshki ezinokufakwa kwizikhumbuzo. Itafile yomthendeleko ilunge ngakumbi ekugubungele i-vizebo ye-gezebo, kwi-Terace yendlu yelizwe okanye kwigumbi lokuhlala lasekhaya.
Ukujonga iifoto zosapho ezindala kunye neevidiyo ziya kukhumbuza izivakalisi zonyaka malunga neminyaka eyonwabisayo yobomi, malunga nokuzalwa kwabantwana kunye nabazukulwana kwaye ziya kunika umzuzu kuphela, kodwa zilusizi.
Izitya zemibhiyozo akufuneki ukuba ziveliswe, zinencasa kwaye ziluncedo kwaye ziluncedo kwaye ziphekwe ngumakhulu nabantwana, kuya kufuneka zivakalise zonke iindwendwe.
Embindini wetafile kufuneka isaladi ngohlobo lwekhodare. Uyilo lobuhle kwesi sitya lunokwenziwa ngokuzimeleyo kwiminqweno nganye.
Yangoku
Isikhumbuzo somtshato seCedar somtshato sibhiyozelwa ngabantu besiqhelo, apho izinto ezixabisekileyo zikhe zaphela khona ukuba zithathe indawo yokuqala ebomini. Ukukhathalela, ukhathalelo kunye nesimo sengqondo-ntlonipho - izinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi ezigcwele imibala eqaqambileyo kwaye zigcwalise intsingiselo yayo. Izipho zokomfuziselo zinokuba ziimveliso ezahlukeneyo ezivela kumthi wemisedare, kunye nobugcisa kwizinto zendalo ezenziwa ngezandla zabazukulwana ziya kuba zizinto ezibizayo nezihonjiswe.
Abazali
Ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke nokukhetha isipho, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ngononophelo malunga neminqweno ebalulekileyo yabazali, ukuze isipho singabi yinto engathandekiyo okanye isithuthi esingafunekiyo. Ukulungiselela umbhiyozo, kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo into yokuba amandla kunye nezempilo zabazali sele bekude kakhulu kulutsha, kunye neengxaki zokugcina ekhaya kunye neengxaki zasekhaya zithatha ixesha elixabisekileyo, nto leyo engcono ukuyisebenzisa Abantu ababathandayo. Izixhobo zekhaya, ukuphuculwa kwezobugcisa zale mihla kuya kuba ngabancedisi bomihla ngemihla. Ukufundisisa izixhobo ezintsha kunye nemisebenzi yazo zingaguqulwa kube kukuzonwabisa okudibeneyo kuzo zonke izizukulwane zosapho.
Enkosi abazali ngenxa yothando, ingqwalaselo kunye nenkathalo inokusetyenziswa ngokuphucula iimeko zezindlu. Iingxaki, ukusebenza kunye neengxaki zabantwana zihlala zihleli kwintsapho nganye, kwaye zihlala zingamandla aneleyo kunye nexesha lokwenza ifanitshala, zicwangcisa imifanekiso, hang kunye nezinye izinto zokuhombisa ezizalisa ubomi ngovuyo kunye intuthuzelo.
Abantwana abadala basenokuba sele bethathile ukwenziwa kwalo msebenzi, kunye nabazukulwana abancinci kwaye baya kuba benobubele kuya kwenza amandla kunye nolutsha lube ngaphakathi kwindlu ehlaziyiweyo.
Ukuvuyisana umama uneminyaka engama-49 ubudala, ungamisa ingqalelo yakho kwezi zipho zilandelayo:
- Ukuhonjiswa kunye nokucwebeka ngemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yomsedare;
- Ukucheba okwenziwe ngomthi, ii-mugs zokuhombisa kwaye izitya aziyi kudumisa itafile yomthendeleko, kodwa nazo zigcwalise indlu ngevumba leenaliti zehlathi;
- Amaplanga omfuziselo kunye neengoma zokuhombisa;
- Inkqubo-sikhokelo yefoto yosapho;
- iibhokisi eziqingqiweyo;
- Izixhobo ze-cosmetics kunye nezixhobo zococeko kunye neoli yecodar.
Utata ngokungathandabuzekiyo uya konwaba ekunikezeleni izixhobo ezinikezelweyo kwiibhafu kunye ne-saunas, ii-oils ezivuthiweyo kunye nezinto ezinzima eziza kunceda ukubuyisela amandla, amandla kunye nokuphucula impilo.
Iilekese kunye neelekese ezahlukeneyo ze-culliaties ezine-Cenar Mauts ziya kuba yinto eyongeziweyo kwiqela langokuhlwa, apho onke amalungu osapho aya kuqhutywa, nokuba kungaphantsi kweminyaka.
Izixhobo zonyango, zivumela ukubeka esweni imeko yezempilo kunye nexesha lokuthatha amanyathelo oxinzelelo oluqhelekileyo, ipulse kunye neswekile nje elungileyo ayisosipho nje esihle, kodwa esiya kunceda sandisa ubomi bamaqabane abakhulileyo. Gcina kwesi sipho yinto engenakwenzeka ngokuthe ngqo, kuyimfuneko ukufumana kuphela izixhobo ezisemgangathweni eziphezulu zabavelisi abaziwayo.
Ngaphambi kokukhetha isipho esinjalo, abantwana kufuneka bakhumbule ukuba abazali baye babanika konke okuhle kwaye bengazisoli kwimikhosi okanye iindleko ezibonakalayo.
Umzuzu ochukumisayo nongalibalekiyo uya kuba ngumyalezo womtshato kubazali njengophawu lothando nokunyaniseka, imbiza enqwenelekayo ngesityalo esincinci asiyi kuba ngumhlobiso wendlu, kodwa nesikhumbuzo sothando kunye nokukhathalela izalamane.
Isipho sokomoya asinakunceda ungaphantsi kwesixhobo. Amatikiti e-cinema okanye i-theattha, umbutho welizwe okanye uhambo lokuya kwi-sanatorium enempilo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo iya kukwamkelwa. Ingxelo yeqonga eliqinisekisiweyo kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwamalungu osapho amancinci aya kuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwiholide yonke. Ividiyo yekhaya iya konwaba kakhulu koomakhulu bakatatomkhulu.
Abahlobo
Ukumema abahlobo kumbhiyozo womthendeleko wonyaka wama-49 wokuphila kunye ayisiyonto imnandi kwaye ihlonitshwayo, kodwa ikwabonisa ukuba abantu abasondeleyo bahlukanisa iminyaka emininzi kwaye bahlulahlula imizuzu kunye nemizuzu ebisayo. Nasiphi na isipho esithengwe ngeholide kufuneka siphathe umthwalo we-semantic. Akukho sidingo sokuthenga izinto ezixabisa kakhulu, kwanele ukuthenga izipho eziyimfuneko kunye nezinqwenelekayo.
Kubahlobo abalupheleyo, unokukhetha izinto zangaphakathi zaseziplanga, izitulo zokuhombisa kunye nezitulo zokuhamba. Iibhloko zetafile ezintle, ii-napkins kunye nemicamelo ethambileyo iya kuvuya umhlobi ekhaya. Yima iincwadi, isibane sokuhombisa kwaye itafile yeti iya kuba yeyona nto iyimfuneko yokuhlwa ebusika.
Iisaladi eziphekiweyo, amadlelo amnandi kunye nezinye izinto ezifunwa aziyi kunandipha kuphela iindwendwe kunye nabanini bendlu, kodwa zenze kube lula ukujongana nethuba lombhiyozo.
Ukuze isipho samkelekile, siyimfuneko ukutyala isuntswana lomphefumlo wakhe, kwaye akukhathaleki nokuba iya kubiza malini.
Ubomi bosapho yinto emide abadlulileyo kunye. Ngaphambi kokuqala kombutho weholide, kunyanzelekile ukuba uqonde ukuba izikhumbuzo ngabantu abalupheleyo abanamandla amakhulu kunye nempilo yeenkampani ezinengxolo. Inkathalo, ingqalelo, intuthuzelo yasekhaya kunye nezithandwa zakho yinyani yokuba iyimfuneko kwizikhumbuzo. Uncumo kunye nokunyaniseka kwabantwana kunye nabazukulwana sesona sipho sibalaseleyo. Usuku olufudumeleyo nolusu luza kubhabha ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kwindlu yomzali kufuneka ihlale yonwabile kwaye incumile.
Owona msebenzi uphambili weSizukulwana esitsha ukhathalele abantwana ngexesha. Utatomkhulu woogogo onobudala-uphawu lweempawu zangaphakathi zabathandekayo babo.
Iimveliso ze-cedar zezipho zeminyaka engama-49 yokuphila kunye Jonga le vidiyo ilandelayo.