Ukupeyinta kwi-ofisi yeRegistry ngokusemthethweni i-Internance yaBantu abaBini ethathe isigqibo sokudala usapho. Umtshato lunxibelelwano lokomoya lwentliziyo onothando afumene intsikelelo kaThixo. Ifashoni okanye imeko yabazali akufuneki ibe yinqobo yokukhetha isiko: Kuphela kukuqonda kokomoya kuphela okwenzeka kunye nokulungela umanyano oluzinzileyo.
Yintoni ekufuneka itshayelwe?
Umtshato yenye yeesakhelo ezisixhenxe ezinikezwe nguMoya oyiNgcwele. Abantu baseOthodoni, bengena emtshatweni, bafumana intsikelelo engaphezu kokuyilwa kosapho olomeleleyo, ngokuzalwa nokukhulisa abantwana. Kubalulekile ukuthatha i-rite ukuba ibaluleke kakhulu, iqonde eyona nto iphambili kuyo ngokomoya, igxile kusapho ngobomi obulungileyo ukuze abantwana abazalwe kwibhlobe, kodwa beza emhlabeni kwintsapho yomtshato.
Thanda abantu kufuneka banyangwe ubomi obude "kwisikhephe esifanayo" , kumsebenzi wokwakha ubudlelwane, uthando, ukuthembana kunye nokujonga, imbeko kunye nesimo sengqondo sokucela omnye komnye. Kwaye entabeni kwaye ngovuyo ukuba kunye, ukugcina nokungashiyi 'i-halves' yabo, ngenxa yokuba inyani, okwesihlandlo sesithathu le nto singaweli Isono esikhulu ngakumbi, esihlala kwiintsapho ezintsha.
Ukuba umnqweno wokutshata uvela entliziyweni kwaye ulutsha luzithembile omnye komnye, kuya kufuneka uziqhelanise nemithetho yecawa ukuze uqonde ukuba akukho miqobo ingekhoyo. Umtshato awuzukwenzeka ukuba:
- Ulutsha oluselula (lunezinye iintsapho);
- Akukho satifiketi somtshato esibonelelwa yi-ofisi yeRejista;
- Umntu omnye okanye omabini naye akazange abhaptizwe eOrithodoxy;
- zizalamane zegazi;
- Kubandakanya ubudlelwane bokomoya (umzekelo, kunye namaNgqina amiselweyo kumtshato wabahlobo babo);
- omnye okanye omabini umtshato ungengo-Orthodox okanye akakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo;
- Akunakwenzeka ukutshata amantombazana ukuya kuthi ga kwi-16, kunye nabafana ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eli-18 ubudala;
- Ishumi leminyaka le nqanaba lezempilo elingenampilo abangakwaziyo ukuqaphela okukwenzekayo.
Ukuba akukho miqobo ikwisiko lomtshato, amanye amaxwebhu kunye neempawu zenkozo kufuneka zilungiswe.
Amaxwebhu afunekayo kunye nezixhobo
Amaxwebhu
Kwinguqu yangaphambi kweRussia, umtshato yayikuphela kwentshukumo esemthethweni eqinisekisa ukwenziwa kosapho olutsha. Iirekhodi zomtshato kwiincwadi zecawa zagcinwa kangangeenkulungwane. Kule mihla, kuphela isatifikethi somtshato nesitampu kwipasipoti ngamandla asemthethweni, kwaye kufuneka kubonelelwe kwiCawe. Phambi kweRite, umbingeleli kufuneka aqinisekise ukuba abasanda kutshata abanayo eminye imitshato.
Iseti yomtshato
Yintoni ekufuneka uyithenga kwangaphambili ngenxa yomtshato:Icons
Kuya kufuneka ukuba uthathe nam ii-icon zoMsindisi nakumama kaKazan kaThixo, ziyafuneka ngexesha lecawa yecawa. Imifanekiso yekhaya ilungele umtshato, okanye oboniswa ngabazali babo. Kodwa ungazithenga, kwivenkile yecawa: bayayithengisa i-icon shons apho, ngakumbi umtshato, owenziwe ngendlela efanayo yobugcisa, kwaye bajongeka ngathi linani elipheleleyo. Emva kokuba isiko lomfanekiso, senza indawo ebekekileyo, baya kugcina uxolo lwentsapho, kwaye kwixesha elizayo, baya kuba nabantwana kunye nabazukulwana.
Amakhandlela omtshato
Zithengiswa ebandleni, zibukeka zintle kwaye ziyinto entle. Amakhandlela aya kutshisa inxenye yomsitho.
Ke ukuba i-wax eshushu ayizizo iiglasi kwi-Arms kunye nempahla, kufuneka uthenge i-hadhendes emhlophe, usongele isiseko sekhandlela ekufuneka lihlale.
Shawls emhlophe
I-harketchings ziyafuneka kwisithsaba somtshato. Ngoncedo lwabo, amaNgqina aya kuhlala efumana impumelelo ngaphezulu kweentloko zabantu abasandul 'ukutshata.
I-rusnik enkulu kwaye imhlophe
Ngokutsho komnye umthombo wobomi, kwaye ubonakalisa indlela yobomi obude, kwaye kwelinye - ilifu, libakhulise ezulwini ukuba bagqibe umtshato. KuMthethenik, abaselula baba ngexesha lesiko, emva komsitho abamshiya etempileni.
Amakhonkco
Amakhonkco agudileyo, ngaphandle kokukrola kunye namatye, kuthetha indlela egudileyo yobomi. Icala elingaphakathi le-ring linokuhonjiswa ngesicatshulwa-linokuba ngamazwi omthandazo wokukhusela, amagama, umhla womtshato. Abo bangazinamathisi intsingiselo yeesimboli, bafumane ubucwebe ngokubhabha, kodwa kufanele ukuba babe ngamakhonkco, hayi kumakhonkco ngamatye amakhulu. Ngexesha lomsitho, izihlandlo ezithathu zitshintshiselana: Ngenxa yoko, uMtshakazi uhlala engqinile yendoda yakhe, kwaye umyeni wayengumsesane womfazi wakhe.
Umnqamlezo
Umnqamlezo, wafumana ubhaptizo, kufuneka luhlale lukhona indoda yobuOthodoki, kokukhona iyimfuneko xa ungena etempileni.
I-cigorm
I-CAHORS yecawe iya kufuneka kumsitho.
Isonka
Ayisiyo uphawu lomtshato olunyanzelekileyo. Ngokucacileyo, abazali badibana abancinci emva kwetempile.
Ungayilungiselela njani isakramente?
Umtshato ngumanyano olukhulu wokomoya kwimiphefumlo emibini ezimeleyo kwindawo enye. Ukuba ubuphembeleli ukubaluleka kwalo mzuzu, ke abantwana abazalwa besikelelwe ngomtshato kulula ukudlulisela isikhundla sokomoya. Ngamafutshane, ujonge kwimilinganiselo yokomoya, kulula ukukhulisa abantwana abalungileyo, abanesidima kwaye bakhusele ubudala obukhuselekileyo.
Kulapho, kuyacaca ukuba i-rite ayikho lula kwaye iyimfuneko ukulungiselela. Ukongeza kumaxwebhu kunye neempawu zomtshato, kufuneka ukuqiniseka ukuba akukho zithintelo kwi-Orthodox Rite (uluhlu lunikiwe kwisicatshulwa esingasentla).
Ukuba kukho ithuba, kufuneka bapheliswe, umzekelo, umsitho wobhaptizo.
Sisiceli
Ngokufanelekileyo, kungenzeka ukuba ube yintsikelelo kubazali. Ngabantu abasondeleyo, iintliziyo zabo ezithembisa ziya kuba yintsapho yokholo. Kodwa ngelishwa, kuyenzeka ukuba abazali abasekho ngexesha lemitshato, kule meko umbingeleli inika umtshato.
Ukukhetha icawe
Oyena mncinci, owagqiba kwelokuba kwenzeke, kufuneka akhethe itempile eya kubakho umsitho. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe nkulu kwaye ixineneyo, uninzi lukhetha ukwenza umthendeleko kwindawo encinci, yokuzola. Ukukhetha itempile, kuya kufuneka uphulaphule intliziyo yakho. Kwenzeka, ngolunye uhlobo lwecawe, uziva ukhululekile, umphefumlo uyavuya, andifuni ukuhamba-le yindawo leyo.
Kubantu beecawa, ukhetho lwetempile luhlala lungafanelekanga, balulumkile kuloo Cabhu apho bangamarhamente. Lo asingoMthetho: nje ezi koodo ziqhelene nezihlobo, kwaye ababingeleli bangabathandayo nabathembekileyo nabathembekileyo nabathembekileyo.
Incoko zokomoya
Emva kokukhetha icawe, yiya kuMbingeleli kwaye uxoxe ngenqanaba lokulungiselela ukuya kwinqanaba. Abo bafuna ukungena, bafunde ngakumbi kwaye baqonde imfihlakalo yomtshato, yiza kwiincoko zokomoya. Ukunxibelelana nabantu abasandul 'ukutshata, umbingeleli wazifumanisa iinjongo abazisukelayo ngokulungiselela isiko. Akusoloko kusoloko kukho ukholo olunyanisekileyo, lwenzeka, ukuba ifashoni, kuba yaba mhle, abazali bekholisa. Ababingeleli bacacisa ixabiso lomtshato, imbono yecawe yesimo sengqondo ngomtshato. Umsitho ngokwawo uyaqondakala ngakumbi, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ubaluleke kakhulu kwaye unoxanduva. Kwincoko ezinje, iBatushka inokubuza inkxalabo ngomtshato, usapho, abantwana bexesha elizayo.
Ukukhetha umhla
I-Orthodox ukholo yakhiwa ngemfesane yomoya oyingcwele (ukuqokelelwa kobabalo oluphezulu), olungenakwenzeka ukwenza ngaphandle komsebenzi wokomoya - iposi kunye nomthandazo. Ezi ziintsuku xa ungazithobeliyo iiholide, ungahambi imitshato. Ngexesha leposi, imitshato ayenziwa. Kodwa kukho imihla ethile yeveki nganye, xa le nto ingaqhutywa: NgoLwesibini, ngoLwesine nangoMgqibelo.
I-Orthodox iya kukhawuleza rhoqo ngolwesiThathu, ikhumbula usuku, xa uYuda wayengcatshe uKrestu noLwesihlanu, xa uMsindisi ebekelwe emnqamlezweni. Rhoqo ngeCawa kuqwalasela i-Ista encinci, uvuko lweNkosi. Ngokuqonda icawa, usuku luqalisa uqala ngokomzuzu wokuqala wobusuku kwaye ihlale ukuya kwiiyure ezingama-24 ukuya kwi-24 ukuya kumthandazo wangokuhlwa ukuya kumthandazo wangokuhlwa. Kuyavela ukuba icawe ihlonipha zonke iziganeko ezintathu veki nganye ukusuka ngokuhlwa kwangoLwesibini, ngoLwesine nangoMgqibelo, ubusuku bomtshato akuvumelekanga kweli xesha lingcwele, ngoko ke umsitho womtshato awuzange ugcinwe.
Ngenxa yemithetho yecawa yobomi, akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhethe umhla we-rite xa sifuna ukuvumelana nombingeleli. Kunyaka oneminyaka emine kunye nabanye babo bahlala phantse iinyanga ezimbini, ke kufuneka ube nomonde. Ukuba injongo isetiwe, itheko kwi-ofisi yerejista kwaye kwicawa yokuchitha usuku olunye, emva koko kungcono ukuba uthethathethwano necawe kuqala.
Xa ukhetha umhla, uMtshakazi kufuneka athathele ingqalelo amanye amaxesha obomi bobugcisa kwaye bakhumbule ukuba ngexesha lokuya esikhathini akunakwenzeka ukuba batyelele itempile.
AmaNgqina
Ukukhethwa kwamaNgqina kufanele kuthathelwe ingqalelo ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ngexesha lomtshato, ayinguye wonke umntu oya kuhambelana nendima.
Awungekhe uthathe amangqina:
- abantu bolunye ukholo;
- akabhaptizwanga eOrithodoxy;
- abangakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo;
- uqhawule umtshato;
- Umtshato waseburhulumenteni;
- Bazali bomntu osandul 'ukutshata.
Ngcono kumaNgqina ukuba ameme abo banamava kwintlonelo enzulu, abanokuthi bathathe umzekelo, kuba baba zizihlobo zokomoya zabaselula. Ngendlela, malunga ne-kinrige: Ukuba umema isibini esingesosibini, soze sikwazi ukuziphathela, kuba zizizalamane zethu.
Kufanele ukuba ukhunjulwe ukuba uninzi lwamangqina ocociwo kuya kufuneka agcine izithsaba zakhe zomlomo kwiintloko zabantu abancinci, kwaye abalumkise ngayo kwangaphambili. Intombazana ephantsi ephantsi enomsebenzi onjalo awunakuhlangabezana, kungcono ukukhetha isibini esiqinileyo, ukwanda kwi-Intanethi entsha. AmaNgqina avumela abahlobo, izalamane nabantu abahlonitshwayo.
Ukuziphatha etempileni
Ukulungiselela umtshato, kuya kufuneka uqonde ngemithetho yokuhlala etempileni. Isiphelo somtshato esihle siya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide kwaye akufuneki sisonakalise ukuba singamkeleki, endaweni yomthandazo, indlela yokuziphatha. Iingcebiso azikhathaleli kungekuphela nje ekutshanjeni, kodwa neendwendwe.
Masizame ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni onokuyenza kunye nento engenakwenziwa etempileni.
- Akunakwenzeka ukuba ubuye emva kwexesha lomtshato wakho. Iindwendwe kufuneka zibe ziphambili kwaye zize ngexesha.
- Ukungena kwiCawe, ukunxiba abafazi, kunye nabantu basusa iminqwanqwa.
- Kuya kufuneka ucime iifowuni eziphathwayo ukuze ungaphazanyiswa kumsitho womtshato.
- Inkangeleko ayifanele ukuba ibangele, sifuna ukuthozama kwiimpahla nakwindlela yokwenza.
- Akunakwenzeka ukuphazamisa ii-Rites ezinencoko enkulu kunye nokuziphatha kwe-fussy.
Abancinci akufuneki bajonge emva kwiindwendwe okanye baqwalasele umhombiso weCawe. Kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba umthendeleko omkhulu awungomdlalo, kwaye ugxile kwimitshato, mamela into ethethwa ngumbingeleli kwaye aphendule imibuzo.
- Kufuneka ubhaptizwe ngesandla sakho sasekunene: ukusuka phezulu kuye ezantsi, ngasekhohlo.
- Etempileni, ababambanga izandla kwaye abazithobenga izandla zabo ezipokothweni zakhe.
- Abancinci kufuneka baqhelene namagama abamele babize ngexesha lomtshato.
- Malunga nevidiyo kufuneka kuvunyelwene kwangaphambili. Abaphathiswa beCawe banokucebisa ingcali eyaziyo indlela yokukhulula isiko. Kwikhefu lakhe akuyi kubakho kuphela iintsana kunye neendwendwe, uya kuba nakho ukuguqulela ikhamera kwi icon, isibingelelo, itawuli yesiko kunye namanye amaxesha amdaka. Iya kudubula isiko lomtshato, hayi iqela labantu kwisakhelo.
Imigaqo yendawo etempileni ijongeka kuphela, eneneni, akukho nto ingaqhelekanga. Ngokoyikhulisa, inkcubeko-yiyinto eqhelekileyo yobomi.
Ngoku siya kwindawo ephambili yokulungiselela - ukucocwa ngokomoya. Kuya kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba kwisakramente omkhulu ngomphefumlo ococekileyo kunye neengcinga eziqaqambileyo. Ukucocwa, abancinci babamba iposi yeentsuku ezintathu, bavuma kwaye budlelane.
Ngokukhawuleza
Ngexesha lesithuba, akunakwenzeka ukuba utye ukutya kwemvelaphi yezilwanyana: inyama, ubisi, amaqanda. Inceda umzimba ukuthintela ubushushu kwaye usebenze kwakhona amandla kumsebenzi wokomoya. Ngamaxesha okulungiselela ubudlelane abaphili ubomi obusondeleyo, musa ukuba nenxaxheba kwiminyhadala yokuzonwabisa. Ngemihla enje, cinga ngezenzo zokomoya.
Uvumo
Ukuvuma, oko kufanele koyike ukuxela yonke into ekhathazayo, uBawo akangoMgwebi, kodwa umlamli phakathi kwethu noThixo. Emva kokufumana uxolelo, ukucoca umphefumlo, ungangena kwinqanaba elitsha lobomi bakho.
Inxaxheba
Phambi komthendeleko awukwazi kudla kwaye usele. Umbingeleli wamnika iqhekeza lesonka, Etyhidiwe eKagora, efanekisela igazi nenyama yoMsindisi. Kukholelwa ukuba le rite izisa ubabalo olukhethekileyo kumphefumlo nomzimba.
Amalungelo Imigaqo
I-Rite iqala ngothethathethwano kunye neziphelo ngomtshato. Idlula ngolu hlobo lulandelayo.
- Ukujonga. Umbingeleli ufikisa ukutshata kunye nokuhambisa izandla.
- Umthandazo wokutshata uvakaliswa, ngokusindisa imiphefumlo yawo kunye neentsikelelo kwinzala esempilweni.
- Emva koko utata ubeka amakhonkco ngomntwana oselula kwaye akwindla umnqamlezo.
- Kwakulo mzuzu ukuba abatsha batshintshiselana amakhonkco amathathu. Kwinqanaba lokugqibela ukubandakanyeka, umthandazo wokugqibela ufundwa.
- Umtshato. Izibini ezinamakhamesi ezandleni zazo, zilandele uYise ngeCaadyl. Ubakhokelela embindini wetempile.
- Umtshakazi nomyeni babe ziithayile ezingasekekiyo, phambi kwe-analog.
- Kumbuzo wokutshata ngokuzithandela, basabela kwi-charmarimiate, ukusuka ngoku ekubeni bathathwa njengomyeni nenkosikazi yakhe.
- Amanqanaba abelwe abantu abancinci, kaninzi, amangqina abo abanjwa. Umfundisi funda eyona mithandazo ibaluleke kakhulu kuMsindisi abuze yona uMsindisi ngoMtshato wasemazulwini wezandul 'ukutshata.
- Emva kokufunda izicatshulwa ezingcwele, umncinci uzisa isitya kwaye unikele ukungcamla iwayini ukusuka kwinqanawa enye.
- Umbingeleli uhlanganisa kunye namaqabane, esonga izandla zabo.
- Iitropiki zicula etempileni, nomyeni onomfazi onomfazi, uyise ukhokelela eAalo. Ukuhamba kuyenzeka kathathu.
- Okwangoku, izithsaba ziyasuswa kwaye imithandazo yokugqibela ifundwa, abasanda kutshata bavunyelwa ukuba baqabule.
- Esibingelelweni, isibini esinembeko sisebenza kwimifanekiso eqingqiweyo yoMsindisi kunye nentombi.
- Intshayelelo yanga umnqamlezo. Umbingeleli ikhupha imifanekiso eya kulinda usapho kwimikhondo yobomi.
Amaxesha omtshato aya kukhunjulwa ngonaphakade. Kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula nje isiko elihle, kodwa ukuthwala intsikelelo kaThixo, ngaphandle kwendlela yokomoya.
Indlela yokulungiselela umtshato ecaweni, jonga ividiyo elandelayo.