Umtshato linyathelo elinoxanduva kakhulu kunye nenqanaba elibi kakhulu. Ukukhankanywa kokuqala ukubamba isiko lomtshato yeyomsi NS. I-Cakraning Lengqungqwitha yayikwi-IV kwintengiso.
Ixabiso lomtshato
Umtshato udibanisa kanye indoda nebhinqa, icutha imiphefumlo yabo kwaye iyicawa "encinci." Zonke ikamva elilandelayo leentliziyo zabathandi abasikelelayo, liba lichumile ukuzalwa kwabantwana kunye nokulima abantwana.
Isiko liqhutywa kube kanye (kukho izinto ezinqabileyo), ke eli nyathelo kufuneka ngabom kwaye ngokuzithandela.
Ngaphambi kokwenza i-rite, kuyimfuneko ukuba ulungiselele ngokucokisekileyo oquka le mihlathana ilandelayo:
- Ndwendwela kwimisebenzi ekhethekileyo yokuncamathela;
- Imithandazo yokufunda;
- Uthintelo lokutya;
- uvumo;
- Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwi-Ekrisarist.
Kukho izithintelo ezahlukeneyo zokwenza umsitho womtshato. Ngokukodwa, i-rite ayinakwenziwa phakathi kwezalamane kwiSigaba se-IV: abazala, okwesibini, abazalwana noodade abasishwankathelo, uKuman, oothixo noothixo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba wonakalise ngaphezulu kwamaxesha ama-3, angabhaptizwanga, abameli baholo olwahlukileyo kwaye ngaphandle kwentsikelelo yabazali. Awunakho ukuthatha amaNgqina angasonjululwanga.
Icawe ayivumeli umtshato wamaqabane, ukuba umahluko ophakathi phakathi kwabo ungaphezulu kweminyaka eli-15. Imitshato enjalo ithathwa njengento engenakwenzeka kwaye iphinda inyamalale ngokukhawuleza.
Akukho mfuneko yokutshata kwangoko emva komsitho osemthethweni. Le nkqubo inokwenzeka ekudaleni, nasebudaleni. Kuluhlu lokugqibela kwabantu, isiko liya kuncitshiswa, kuba bekungasafuneki ukuba bathandaze ngokudideka.
Isibini esiselula emva kwengxoxo umfundisi unokuncomela ukuba ahlehlise isiko lomtshato ukuba uziva ngokomoya abangakulungelanga eli nyathelo.
Unokwenza i-rite yomtshato kuphela ngentembelo epheleleyo kwisiqingatha sayo sesibini. Ukuba lo msitho ubaluleke kakhulu kuba mncinci, ke akufuneki ukuba ungxame ukuyisebenzisa. Emva kwexesha elithile lobomi obuhlanganisiweyo, kuya kuba nakho ukubhekisa kwinqaba yolwalamano lomtshato kwaye emva koko uthathe isigqibo ngemfuno yomtshato. Kwelinye icala, icawe icebisa ukuba ingahlehli umtshato ixesha elide emva komsitho osemthethweni kwi-ofisi yobhaliso.
Isimo secawa kumtshato waseburhulumenteni
Izibini eziselula ezizibhalisa ngokusemthethweni i-ofisi yobhaliso, zenza inyathelo elibalulekileyo elibonisa ubunzulu beenjongo zabo. Ayinakuthethwa malunga nobuso abahlala kumtshato waseburhulumenteni, abaxhaswanga ngamaxwebhu asemthethweni.
Icawe iyayihlonipha imithetho karhulumente kwaye ive ubomi kumtshato ongabhaliswanga kwisono. Ezo zibini azinalo ilungelo lokuba nguKumkani, kuba ubomi babo buyekile kukuhlekisa kwaye bubethelelwe emnqamlezweni, kwaye ke abayi kuba nakho ukwenza uThixo ngokufanelekileyo ngokomoya nokuziphatha kaThixo. Kwanabantu abahlala kumtshato ongabhaliswanga, kuyavunywa ukuba banomdla kwizikhokelo zobomi babo kwaye baya kuphinda baphinde baphinde baqwalasele.
Ukulandelelana komtshato osemthethweni kunye nomtshato namhlanje kuhleliwe: kuqala i-ofisi yerejista, emva koko watshata. Kukho okwahlukileyo, kodwa zenziwa kunqabile ukuba kukho izizathu ezifanelekileyo.
Naziphi na izizathu eziselula kwinto yokuba umtshato wasemthethweni ungumzekelo, ukhokelela abefundisi ukuba isigqibo siya kuba simnandi kakhulu. Enye ingxoxo yokuba abancinci, ngokutsho, kodwa bathandwa kakhulu omnye komnye, kodwa abakafiki imali ngomtshato, oko akubangeli intembelo kwisigqibo sesibini ukuba sibambe isiko. Kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo umfundisi uyabuza ukuba abantu abaselula baya kuphulisa njani abantwana ukuba bakhulise abantwana, ukuba abanakuqokelela i-ruble i-350 i-ruble i-350 kumsitho osemthethweni ongenakwenzeka.
Kwimithetho ye-Rite yomtshato emva komsitho osemthethweni kukho okwahlukileyo. Kodwa oku kubaluleke kakhulu, njengoko oko kungathatyathwa kungekuphela kombingeleli othile, kodwa kunye ne-diocean bishop nganye. Imvume enjalo kumtshato ngaphandle kwamaxwebhu avela kwi-ofisi yerejista inokuphela.
Kukho amaqela amathathu ezizathu zokungafani kwenziwe ukuqhuba umsitho womtshato.
- Zombini iziganeko ziya kubanjwa ngamini-nye. Ukuba ubonisa umfundisi kwirisithi kwi-ofisi yeRegistry ngomhla kunye nexesha lobhaliso, luvunyelwe kuqala ukuba kwenzeke, emva koko ufumane isatifikethi somtshato esisemthethweni.
- Ukuba kukho izizathu ezisongela impilo kunye nobomi belinye lamaqabane elizayo. Izizathu ezinjalo yimisebenzi enzulu, inkonzo kwimimandla eshushu.
- Ukuthobela icawe kunye nobukho bexesha elide rhoqo kwiinkonzo zabo abasandul 'ukutshata. Kule meko, ibbot inokuqiniseka ngesibini ngokunyaniseka kwaye sithathe uxanduva kwimanyano yabo yokomoya.
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba icawe ihlonipha imithetho yentetho, kukholelwa ukuba ngaphandle komsitho womtshato, emva komsitho osemthethweni, imanyano ayinakubizwa igqityiwe.
Ngaba ubhaliso olufunekayo?
Ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane yamashumi amabini, ngokuchanekileyo, ngaphambi kokhuphiswano phakathi kukaRhulumente kunye necawe ayengekho, ngoko ke umanyano lwalubambekile kwiindonga zeCawa yeOrthodox. Ngexesha le-USSR, i-Taboo yayiyinto engaphezulu kokuzibamba kwezithethe zecawa. Namhlanje kunokwenzeka ukuba utshate kuphela emva kovavanyo olusemthethweni lweManyano eNtsha kwi-ofisi yobhaliso.
Amakholwa ecawe athobela imithetho karhulumente kwaye aqokele ukugcinwa kwabo komnye wezinto ezintle. Umtshato ngaphandle koxwebhu lwaseburhulumenteni awubonakalisi ubunzulu beenjongo zaloo tye zine-qabane, kuba le rite inokubonwa njengezithokulo zosapho okanye inyathelo elinye liqinisekile ngesigqibo sakhe, kwaye okwesibini Esathandabuza.
Uxwebhu ngomtshato, ukusuka kwindawo yecawa, ngaphandle kwemeko yamaqabane anengqondo emaninzi, ukudalwa komanyano phakathi kwezalamane ezisondeleyo. I-RITE yomtshato yisakramente engenakuphephelwa njengomtshato ohonjisiweyo kwi-ofisi yobhaliso.
Izibini ezazihlala kumtshato ongabhaliswanga ixesha elide azinakuthembeka kumtshato odlula kwimithetho esemgangathweni. Ngokuchasene noko, kuya kufuneka baye kwelinye inkqubo yecawa (inguquko, umthendeleko) ukuze kuvunyelwe ukuba bavunyelwe.
Icawe iqonda kuphela umanyano, ifakwe kwi-ofisi yobhaliso. Abantwana abadibeneyo, uqoqosho kunye nendawo yokuhlala ngaphandle kokuqinisekiswa kwamaxwebhu kuthathwa njengendawo yolawulo - enye yezono zokufa.
Icawe ayibuvumeli ubomi kumtshato waseburhulumenteni, ukukholelwa ukuba kule meko abatshatileyo abanaxanduva omnye komnye, abanazo iimbophelelo, abanakuthembana, nothando sisiseko sobuKristu. Ukongeza, ukungafuni ukwenza ubudlelwane kuqwalaselwa yicawa, njengokutyeshela icawe kunye nemithetho yecawa.
Ukuba kusekho izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokugcina amaqabane ekuphenduleni ukuphelisa umtshato wokomoya kunye nokusesikweni, kufuneka uthethe ngokunyaniseka abefundisi bendawo kwaye ukuba ubona ezi mpikiswano ezanele, i-rite yomtshato inokwenziwa.
Yintoni efunekayo?
Ukuze i-versike iphosakele, kufuneka uhambe ngendlela ende. Okokuqala, esi sibini simele ukuza ecaweni kwincoko. Le nkqubo iya kucacisa yonke imiba yendalo, kunye nokufumana iimpendulo kwimibuzo malunga nobudlelwane bosapho kwimbono yenkolo.
Ngaphakathi kwesakhelo sencoko, inani lemibuzo eligunyazisiweyo linikiwe malunga nokuba loluphi uxwebhu lwaseburhulumenteni oluvela kwi-ofisi yerejista okanye bazozinxibelelanisa nje ekuziphatheni. Ukuba isibini sifuna ukutshata kuphela, kodwa asifuni ukubeka isitampu kwincwadana yokundwendwela, abefundisi banokuwujonga njengokungakhathali kwindalo yosapho olutsha. Ukuba mncinci ufuna ukuqinisekisa ngenye imini ngobhaliso, ummeli weCawe wabasikelela kwisakramente engcwele.
Ukutshata kuya kufuneka kuphendule ngokunyaniseka ukuba banqwenela ukuba bobabini batshatele kwaye benze oku kunyanzelwe. Ukuba ukusuka kwincoko iqala ukuba omnye wabatshati akafuni kutshata, kodwa weza etempileni ngenxa yomnqweno wesiqingatha sesibini, umthendeleko uya kuvunyelwa.
I-Abbot inokubuza umntu oselula kwiqela lemicimbi yobuqu:
- Nokuba baceba ukuqalisa abantwana;
- Nokuba bayakhulisa kwaye bafundise ngokweLizwi likaThixo;
- Indlela yokuqonda ngayo uqhawulo mtshato, ukuvukela;
- Buyintoni ubudlelwane babo kumtshato wangaphambili (ukuba kunjalo) kwaye kutheni le nto umanyano luye lwahlukana.
Ewe, yonke le mibuzo ibuzwa ngumbingeleli ongamthandiyo ongento, kufuneka azithembe ngokwakuqonda ukuba asandul 'ukutshata ukuba abambe isiko lomtshato. Emva koko, abantu abancinci banokuzilungiselela imibuzo abamele icawe ukuze bacacisa amanqaku athile. Oku kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nokubuza imibuzo malunga nomxholo we-Rite, inani eliya kufuneka lilibale, nokuba linxibe, kunokwenzeka ukuba lithathe imifanekiso kwaye lithathe ividiyo yevidiyo.
Emva kokumisela inani nexesha lomtshato, kubalulekile ukulungiselela zonke iimpawu:
- isatifikethi esisemthethweni kwi-ofisi yobhaliso;
- amakhonkco;
- amakhandlela;
- umnqamlezo;
- Itawuli enkulu emhlophe;
- icon zoMsindisi nenekazi lethu;
- Rusnin.
Kwakufutshane nje ngaphambi komsitho womtshato, amancinci afanele athobele isithuba, azivuma kwaye eze kujoyina umtshato wokomoya, efuna ukuthetha kwinto yonke embi. Emini ngaphambi kwesakramente, awunakutya ukutya, umsi, usele iziselo ezinamandla, ukungena kubudlelwane bezesondo.
Umfanekiso womtshakazi kumsitho womtshato kufuneka ube ukuthobeka. Isinxibo esimhlophe esimhlophe esilula, i-harkerchief, izihlangu ezikhululekile, ukunqongophala kwevenkile.
Umtshato ngokwawo wahlulahlulwe ngokwamanqanaba ama-2: ukuzibandakanya kunye nesiko. Ngaphambili, la manqanaba ayeqhutywa ngeentsuku ezahlukeneyo, kodwa namhlanje baba ngamalungu omsitho omnye. Okokuqala, asandul 'ukutshata akwindawo. Kwisitya esikhethekileyo, umbingeleli uzisa amakhonkco omtshato. Izikhanyiso zombingeleli ziphekiwe ngamakhandlela kwaye ziphakame phambi kwabaselula.
Amaqabane kufuneka atshintshe amakhonkco kathathu. Emva koko, isiko kukunxiba okwakho. Abefundisi, abambe isithsaba somyeni ezandleni, ekwindla inkonzo yokugqibela, emva koko umyeni aqabule umfanekiso womsindisi kwisithsaba sakhe. Isithsaba esithunyelwe entlokweni yakhe. Inkqubo efanayo iqhutywa kunye noMtshakazi, kuphela ngokomfanekiso kumtshato womtshakazi - intombi enyulu.
I-Winstoni kulo lonke umsitho babamba amaNgqina. Nangona ezi mpawu zingcwele kukukhanya, izandla ngokukhawuleza.
Umbingeleli, iphakamisa isitya esitsha esine wayini, yangcwaliswa nguThixo. Umtshakazi nomyeni bawa kuye kathathu. Eyokuqala iyenza i-room yomyeni. Isitya esipheleleyo sisimboli sexesha leyunifomu.
Umbingeleli uthatha amaqabane egusha aze adibanise, badlula kwi-AALIA izihlandlo ezithathu. Ukufika kwakhe kumasango asebukhosini, imizobo emincinci: Umyeni wanga umfanekiso kaYesu Krestu, iqabane lakhe - umama kaThixo, ke abantu abaselula betshintsha iindawo. Ngaphezulunye emva kokuncama umnqamlezo, wandisiwe ngumbingeleli. Abaselula banikwa imifanekiso kaYesu Krestu kunye nentombi enyulu, ekufuneka ixhonywe phezu kwebhedi.
Umbingeleli uphinda athethe ngakumbi. Hambisa ukuvuyisana.
Emva kokuphela kwesiko, amaqabane afumana ubungqina becawe. Amandla asemthethweni akanalo olu xwebhu.
Imfazwe idiniwe yiNkosi ngoThixo ngokwakhe, ke imizamo yabantu yangaphandle itshabalalisa umtshato iya kuba ngumsindo, kwaye abantu ngokwabo baya kuthotywa.
Malunga nokutshata ngaphandle kobhaliso lomtshato kwi-ofisi yeRegistry, jonga le vidiyo ilandelayo.