Ukubonakala komntwana kusapho sisiganeko esikhokelela ekonwabisayo, sibangela ukuvuyisa kungekuphela nje phakathi kwamalungu osapho, kodwa nakwindawo ekufutshane. Rhoqo, usapho kunye nabahlobo bayazihoya: Wonke umntu ufuna ukusivuyela ngokusondeleyo nesiganeko esonwabisayo. Umbuzo yindlela yokuvuyisana? Yintoni ekhoyo, ukuba, umzekelo, kwazalwa intombazana kwintsapho?
Ukukhetha imigaqo
Ngaba kukho i-Etiquette kule meko, iseti yemithetho yethoni elungileyo? Yena, endaweni yoko, ukubanjwa kwento ebaluleke kawonke-wonke yezipho, imbeko, njl njl. Okokuqala kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo malunga nentombazana ngoku, okanye wenze into entle ngayo ngelixa elizayo. Zombini iinketho zilungele ukuqwalaselwa.
Iphambi kokuqiqa ngakumbi. Umbuzo: Mhlawumbi bacele ngqo abazali bakho, umntwana ufuna ntoni? Okanye, endaweni yoko, yintoni oyifunayo ukuze ufumane ntoni? Ukuba intombi yazalwa evela kumntu osondeleyo, umbuzo onjalo kufanelekile kwaye ulungele. Kodwa, kufanele kuqatshelwe, ngakumbi ngakumbi, nabazali abancinci bakhetha ukumangalisa.
Kwangelo xesha, kuhlewe: Umzekelo, wenza i-vaiber xoxo sabo bonke bamenywe ukuba bandwendwele kumnyhadala wokuzalwa komntwana kwaye baxelele ukuba sele bethenge.
Ukoyika ukuba isipho siya kuphinda siphindwe, abaninzi kwaye sigqibe kwelokuba sinike ikamva lisengqiqweni. Zonke izixhobo ezivela kuthotho "okokuqala" ziyafuneka kangangeenyanga ezininzi, zihlala zihamba ngeenyawo, ii-cradles, ukukhulisa iirubhu ziye kubazali abancinci zizuze njengelifa kwiRodney kunye nabahlobo.
Ke ngoko, i-algorithm injalo.
- Ukuba ufunde ngokuzalwa komntwana kufutshane nomntwana xa umntwana ephethe isibhedlele sokwamaso, iya kuba yinto engenamsebenzi ukuba idluliselwe apho ibhegi encinci kunye nekhadi elihle lemveliso. Okwangoku, lo mqondiso wanele.
- Xa abazali abancinci babonisa umnqweno wabo wokukubona ukuba utyelela, qhelise i-niece entsha (i-chanic, intombazana nje yokubuza- indlela ekulungeni ngayo ukuvuyisa ngayo usapho.
- Ukuba abazali baboniswe ubungqina kwimpendulo, unezinto ezimbini zokhetho lwesenzo esingaphezulu. Ungasebenzisana nabanye abamenyiweyo, thenga isipho esikhulu esikhulu. Ukuba bonke bagqiba kwelokuba esona sipho sibalaseleyo yimali, kulungile. Ukutyelela iibhola (ezingayi kuba kwigumbi lomntwana, kunjalo), kwiintyatyambo zomama nemvulophu - imeko entle kakhulu.
Umbuzo ongaphezulu yindleko yesipho. Akukho ziBhunga zeHlabathi liphela apha. Ngokwesiqhelo, ukuba uya kudadewethu, umzalwana (izalamane ezisondeleyo), isixa singaphezulu kokuba uvuyisana nomhlobo.
Izipho zoqobo
Ngaba awufuni kunika into eyamkelweyo ngokubanzi, esemgangathweni? Ewe, musa ukwenza, cinga ngokumangalisa ngenxa yosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Yile nto inokwenzeka izipho zoqobo.
- Ubucwebe ngememori. Ewe kunjalo, esi sisipho sekamva, waba ngowasemva kweminyaka yakutshanje. Nje ukuba ibe yintshukumo yemveli- ukunika imveliso esandul 'ukuzalwa. Amacici amancinci egolide okanye umnqamlezo (ngesivumelwano nabazali), ipendant ingaphezulu kwesipho esifanelekileyo. Ngendlela, ukuba umama kamama usondele kuwe, ubucwebe bunokongeza kuye. Umzekelo, ukumiswa kwi-braceler okanye i-chain enegama elithi "umama" luphawu olumangalisayo lokuqwalaselwa komkhulu.
- I-ballet, i-gimnastic swimsuit, i-racket, njl. Ukuba intombi izelwe kubadanisi okanye iimbaleki, bahlala bebathanda abantu abazama isipho esisandul 'ukunambuza. Kuyachukumisa, okomfuziselo kwaye kuhlala kubangela iinyembezi ukuba zifele kumanina oselula. Ewe kunjalo, inokuba yiZihlangu zeBallept ze-Ballet okanye i-racket.
- Ukuhanjiswa kweepasile zomhla wokuzalwa. Ungathetha-thethana nenkampani eyenza i-t-shirts okanye i-bodi, ukuba kusuku oluthile lwenyanga nganye ukuhanjiswa kwabo kuya kuthunyelwa kuMama we-T-shirt esandul 'ukuzalwa kuka "i-1 inyanga ezi-2 ubudala ", njalo njalo-unyaka. Kuyathandeka, ngokungaqhelekanga, kwaye kufanelekile ukuba kutshone ifoto: Kunyaka wokuqala, umntwana odla ngokuthatha imifanekiso yonke imihla yokuzalwa kwakhe. Ngendlela, umbono ngokuhanjiswa kwee-pastes kunokuba lula.
Thenga iimpahla zobukhulu obahlukeneyo (ukuze ukonakaliswa kwaba enyakeni), kuthatha iworkshop yoshicilelo, baya kwenza iprinta. Ewe, ungabahlangula ngeposi nokuba ngoncedo lwabahambisi.
- Isatifikethi seseshoni ye-Newborgy . Namhlanje kukho iifoto ezininzi zoochwephesha abanemifanekiso kwiseshoni yefoto kunye nesanduls. Basusa abantwana abangazange bajike iintsuku ezingama-28, ngelixa imifanekiso ichukumisa kakhulu.
Khumbula ukuba ukusebenziseka kwesipho asiloxabiso eliphambili lexabiso layo. Unokufuna kwaye ufuna ukunika imbonakalo kunye neemvakalelo. Kuxabiseke kakhulu, ixesha elihamba ngokukhawuleza, elinengqondo ukuyila, qaphela ngezipho ezingalindelekanga nezemvakalelo.
Izipho ezilungileyo
Asingabo bonke abazali abancinci abalungiselelwe izipho zokomfuziselo: Umntu othile ufuna ukusebenzisa kakuhle. Ewe, akukho nto iphosakeleyo kuloo nto. Eyona nto ibonakalayo yibhokisi yesipho. Le yibhokisi enkulu (ibhasikithi, isakhelo), apho uyongeza khona yonke into oyifunayo ngoku: iibhotile, i-pismetics, i-picis, ikhithi yoncedo, ukubulela yonke le ndawo yokuhlamba , tower abe yiribhoni kwaye wazisa. Yintoni enye onokuyinika:
- phawula -Into iyimfuneko, ifashoni, iluncedo kakhulu ukuba umama umiliselwe kwikhefu lokuya kubeleka;
- Izitya zabantwana - kwisiqingatha sonyaka uyakufuna umntwana, iingxowa zenkuku, kunye namathemba aya kuba njalo.
- iithoyi - ngaphandle kwazo kunzima ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wokuphuhliswa komntwana wale mihla, uphuhliso olukhuselekileyo "olukhuselekileyo";
- iimpahla -Akufunekanga ukuba uyenze, kodwa xa usesifubeni sedrawer, kukho izinto ezabelwa izakhiwo, iifayile, xhuma, iminqwazi;
- amakhonkco Nokuba abazali sele beyikhathalele, akuyi kubakho seti engenanto;
- Manezh - apho ngaphandle kwayo, khetha imodeli efanelekileyo;
- I-elektrocacles - Kodwa kufanelekile ekuvunyelwene ngentswelo yabo kunye nabazali (abathenga nje abahambi kwaye abatshatileyo ngaphandle kwembono yabazali malunga nemfuno yabo).
Iluncedo kakhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umama angayifumana. Le crudle kwivili, isetyenziselwa kuphela de umntwana afunde ukuhlala. Funa i-cradle kwisiqingatha nje konyaka, kodwa njengelitye, hambisa le bhedi phezu kwamavili ngokwayo, unyamezele kwi-balcony, njl njl.
Isipho esiluncedo siya kuba I-radionan, kunye nesixhobo se-interlication yeebhotile, kunye ne-autolo . Ukuba abazali abancinci abakafiki intshi yokutya Yinike-isipho siya kuba siyimfuneko kanye kwaye sifunwa ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo. Phakathi kwezipho eziluncedo kwaye Isangqa sokuqala sokuqubha, kunye neseti ye-diaper yokufuma kwi-crib, kunye nesitokhwe esikhulu seDiapers.
Yintoni enokwenziwa ngezandla zakho?
Ukuba ucinga ukuba abazali abancinci baya kusixabisa isipho semithunzi, sigqibelele - into elungileyo yokukhunjulwa, ibangela ukuba ubudlelwane obumnandi. Yintoni enokwenziwa ngezandla zakho?
- I-casket "i-mamina ubuncwane" . Le yibhokisi ye-Reeedy, apho umama aya kugcina i-tags kwisibhedlele sokwamama, iinwele zokuqala zenkqantosi, izinyo lokuqala, njl. Njl. Ewe, njl. nazo zahlukile, enye yezona zinto zifunwayo - i-shebbidi chic.
- I-albhamu "i rasta". Kunzima ngakumbi ukuyenza, kodwa ukuba usebenza kakuhle kwimizobo eyahlukeneyo kunye nefoto ye-dep, ungacinga ngokupheleleyo ubume, kwaye i-typographs yengcali iya kuprinta i-albhamu.
- Ikhekhe ukusuka kwiidayisi . I-classic yohlobo, ewe, inokunxibelelana naye.
- Ilineni yebhedi yomntwana . Yazi indlela yokuthunga, uku-odola ilaphu elinepateni yabantwana emnandi kunye neesampulu kwi-Intanethi, ikhithi yokuqala yentombazana. Yenza i-toy ye-ingaphakathi yebhonasi emnandi.
- I-knon . Kwaye ukuba ungenayo, emva koko i-intanethi inye ikwakubonelela ngolwandle lweembono ze-spidi ezimangalisayo zeentsana-zibalulekile xa zihamba.
- Ifoto . Ukuba wena womelele kwifoto, cela abazali abancinci ukuba benze iSeshini yokuqala yefoto kunye nomntwana. Emva koko shicilela iifoto, faka imvulophu entle yomthendeleko kwaye unike i-MINE ye-Mini-Delid Mini (okanye enye imini).
- Iseti yeehektare ezithotyiweyo. Namhlanje, iminqwazi enxulumene nesitayile se "Gnome ezincinci" zithandwa kakhulu. Ukuba uKhumba, emva koko faka le modeli ilula. Yenza iminqwazi ezimbalwa-4-5, imibala eyahlukeneyo.
- Ubuhlalu bepacifier. Iyimfuneko neyimfuneko: Ukuba i-dummy ilahlekile, ngumdlalo wosapho lonke. Ubuhlalu buya kumnceda umntwana ukuba agcine "i-sedative" kunye nawe.
Kodwa kuqala, uqhelane nendlela yokhuseleko - apho kufuneka enze ukuba umntwana akwenze ukuze umntwana angonakalisi.
- Ibhegi yokuhamba. Unokwenza ibhegi okanye ibhegi kamama wakho, apho yonke into inokulingana ngokuzolileyo, loo nto ingena ngokuhamba ngenyameko.
- I-Ocpied e-Occepies. Isipho sifanelekile kwabo bazali bakoweleyo bazalelwa. Kwaye eso sipho ungasivayo, ngaphandle kokulinda isimemo sokundwendwela (ngelixa umntwana esibhedlele, ogqirha bahlala becela ukuzisa iithoyi ezikwi-Wightn). Iithoyi ezinjalo zinceda umntwana, nantoni na eza kulala ngokuqinileyo (eyingozi ekuqaleni).
Into ephambili iyaqonda ukuba zonke ezi ngxaki zinezipho zesiphiwo ezisandul'yo zimnandi kakhulu, zichukumisa, ziyimfuneko . Ungalibali ukwaba umama omncinci, qiniseka ukuba uza kunika iintyatyambo, kuyayixhasa, kwaye uyonwabile, kwaye unomdla kwisenzo esinye esilula.
Ngendlela yokwenza ikhekhe ukusuka kwiidayiri, kuxela le vidiyo ilandelayo.