Yintoni onokuyinika umfazi ngeminyaka engama-31-32-33? Iingcamango ezinomdla zezipho zenkosikazi yakhe, intombi kunye noodade bomhla wokuzalwa

Abafazi abaninzi bazalisekisa iminyaka engama-30 ubudala, bakholelwa ukuba amaxesha osapho lwabo asondela esiphelweni. Isiphelo esisidenge nesihlekisayo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kweli nqanaba lobomi, umfazi sele uzixabisa ngokwane kwaye uyazi ukuba ufuna ntoni, nendlela yokufezekisa. Ke ngoko, xa ixesha lokuvala kunye nabahlobo besiza khetha isipho somhla wokuzalwa kwentombazana, oneminyaka engama-31 ukuya kweyeminyaka emibini (ngokubanzi, bajongana nombuzo), luhlobo luni lwesipho esifanele silungiswe .

Ikhuthazi

Kuthekani ngeminyaka engama-20, ukuba kwiminyaka engama-32 ubudala, nayiphi na imeko yobuthathaka yesondo iyazigxininisa izipho zokugxininisa ubuhle bakhe - Kuyinto efihlakeleyo, izixhobo ezikumgangatho ophezulu, izixhobo ezahlukeneyo kunye nempahla.

Isipho akufuneki sibe ngandlel 'ithile kwi-Age, ngakumbi emva kweminyaka engama-30.

Kuyimfuneko ukusondela ngengqondo nokuba ulungiselela izipho ezihlekisayo, kuba ayizizo zonke iintombazana ezinokuhleka. Kwaye ukucaphukisa usuku lokuzalwa ngomhla wakhe wokuzalwa ayisiyeyona nto iphumelelayo.

Ukukhetha kwesipho kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lobudlelwane phakathi kwalowo unomhla wokuzalwa nomntu obonisa okwangoku. Akunakulindeleka ukuba iholide kumsitho wama-33 wexesha le-qabane yakho iya kufanele ukuba ikunike, umzekelo, ikhekhe elinomfanekiso weenkomo ezingamashumi amathathu anesithathu okanye umbhalo onesithathu okanye umbhalo othunyiweyo. Kodwa ukuba ikhekhe elinje liya kuziswa nomhlobo walo osenyongweni, ipesenti yento ayithandayo intombazana yosuku iphakame kakhulu.

Intanda

Xa ulungiselela ukumangalisa usuku lokuzalwa kwesiqingatha sakhe sesibini, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ibeka amathemba amanqam okufumana ingqalelo kunye nesisa.

Ke ngoko, kungcono ukuthatha ithuba lokukhetha okuphezulu kokukhetha, umzekelo, kangangeminyaka engama-33 umfazi othandekayo.

Isenokuba ziinketho ezininzi.

• Ukuthenga isatifikethi seMassage okanye nayiphi na inkqubo kwi-salon yentsebenzo. Nabani na umntu emnandi ukuba kufutshane nebhinqa elihlala libanjwa yedwa. Kanye njengokuba nayiphi na intombazana ithanda ukunika ixesha ngokwazo, edibanisa imnandi ngokuluncedo.
• I-Bouquet yeRoses, Inani lee-buds ziya kulingana nenani leminyaka ephumezayo. Oku kuqinisekisa kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, kuhlala kunjalo. Kodwa yedwa, abayi kudanisa apha. Ukuvulwa okufanelekileyo kuyo kuya kuba yeyona bhokisi ithandayo.
• Incwadi enomdla . Olu khetho lulungele abo bafazi bakhe okanye amantombazana athandekayo athanda ukufunda. Ikopi elungileyo, uya kunika ithuba elipheleleyo lixesha lokuphazamisa i-hassle yemihla ngemihla.
• Ukuba unepati yomhla wokuzalwa into, unokuthenga into engaqhelekanga kwaye inqabile kuyo.
• Iseti yezitya. Ukugcwaliswa kwekhitshi yasekhitshini kuhlala kungovuyo lomfazi. Kubomi obuqhelekileyo, onokwenzeka, uya kuzisola ngokuchitha imali kwinkonzo yakwamkelekile kubantu abayi-12. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka uhlale unengqondo kwintombazana yakho ukuba uyazi ukuba unqwenela ntoni.
• Ukuhambahamba ukuya kwiklabhu kunye namaqela kwiminyaka engama-30 akusekho izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, kukhethwa kuqala kwidlelo elihle kwisangqa sosapho. Ukukhwela kwindalo yenye yezi ndlela, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukukhetha ukukhetha I-Picnic Set.
• Isakhelo sefoto yedijithali Ngeefoto ezidibeneyo - ukhetho oluhle kwabo bafuna ukugxininisa ukubaluleka kobudlelwane kunye nesiqingatha sesibini kunye nendlela iindlela ezihlanganisiweyo ngayo.
• Isatifikethi sesipho seseshoni yefoto. Oku kunokuba kukudubula kwe-shootic, okanye ukukhetha umxholo kunye neendawo zokuhlala zisemva kwentombazana yokuzalwa.
• Ngoku uninzi lunomdla wokufota, ke ukuba ngequbuliso uyakhetha abakhethileyo kwabo bantu, ke musa ukufaka isicelo sokuthenga into eyimfuneko kwizinto ozithandayo, umzekelo, entsha Ilensi, iilensi, i-tripod okanye ibhegi yecompact.

Intombazana nganye enothando iyathanda ukugxininisa ubuhle bawo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ezinjengobukhulu bezenzi Isipho esinjalo siya kunyanzeleka ukuba senze nantoni na kubo nawuphi na ummeli otyhafileyo.

Izipho ezivela kwizalamane

Izipho ezithandekayo zentliziyo ziya kuhlala zingoyena mntu unikelwa ngabantu abasondeleyo - abazali, oodade, nabantakwabo. Khetha isidima, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, isipho esipholileyo sentombi okanye udadewethu ohlala uguquka ukuba ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu. I-goorionaby toy, njengasebuntwaneni, musa ukwenza apha.

Ke ngoko, oomama nootata kufuneka baphule intloko ixesha elide xa bekhetha "eyona nto ibalulekileyo, eya kuyenza ukopha kwegazi.

Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zokukhetha ziya kukukholisa.

• Emphefumlweni wayo yonke intombazana yabantu abadala ihlala inkosazana encinci ethanda ukumkhathalela kwaye ikhuselwe. Abazali basenokuba kude, kodwa into eya kukhumbuza malunga nenkathalo yabo inokuba kufutshane, umzekelo, I-plush enkulu ye-plush.
• Kuphela ngabantu abasondeleyo bayazi kakuhle imeko yezempilo yezihlobo. Ke ngoko, ayiyi kumelwa ekuthengeni okuthile Iyimfuneko yempilo.
• Ngoku ithandwa kakhulu iimveliso zensimbi ezenziwe ngomthi- Isitshixo, ikhithi yoncedo njl.
• Ungahlawula iphulo elidibeneyo lokuhlambela okanye lokuthambisa. Ngamaxesha anje, uMama neentombi zakhe zinokuzola ngemiphefumlo, enokunganeli kwisingqisho sobomi obuhleliweyo.
• Amatikiti ekonsathi okanye ummeli wethiyetha. Kuxhomekeka kwizinto zokuzonwabisa ze-ntlokoile, unokuthenga amatikiti kwiqela okanye umculi owuthanda kakhulu. Kwaye kunokuba ngamatikiti okusebenza okumelwe kukude ukuya, kodwa ixesha lihlala liswele.
• Unokuqokelela ibhokisi yezipho, Apho ubeka yonke into oyifunayo. Inokubandakanya: ibhotile encinci yemimoya oyithandayo, amakhandlela aneenwele ezininzi, izinto ezininzi ze-cosmetics.
• Nantoni na enxulumene ne-hobby yentombazana yosuku lokuzalwa. Ukuba sithetha ngomculo - incwadi yencwadana entle, i-web, itikiti lekonsathi yomculo weklasikhi. Amantombazana ezemidlalo anokunika isuti yezemidlalo, i-ragi yeyoga, ii-Dumbbells, izixhobo ze-dumbbells okanye into enxulumene nomdlalo othile. Abo bathanda ukungena okanye ababunjiweyo banokunikwa uluhlu olukhethekileyo, lusongela kwisakhelo esinomdla, esinokuthi sikwazi ukufaka umsebenzi ogqityiweyo.

Izinto eziluncedo

Amantombazana athanda izipho ezisebenzayo, unganikezela Ubunzima bezinto eziyimfuneko.

• Idayari . Ukuba umhlobo wakho yindoda yeshishini, eso sipho siyimfuneko kuye. Inokuba ngumququzeleli oqaqambileyo nowokuqala, owenziwe kwi-ofisi ye-alfabhethi engqongqo kwisikhumba.
• Uninzi lwamantombazana luthanda ukuchitha ixesha ekhitshini ukulungiselela izitya ezinomdla. Kodwa oku kufuna ixesha elininzi kunye namandla, ke nasiphi na isixhobo sasemakhitshini esinokumnceda kangangexesha elincinci lokupheka, ayiyi kumshiya ngokungakhathali. Inokuba njalo I-grinder yenyama yombane, i-blender, umxube, iprosesa yokutya -Khetha inani elikhulu.
• Iambrela entle - Kubalulekile apha ukwazi isitayile sentombazana yosuku lokuzalwa esinamathela kwiimpahla. Kubafazi abathanda isitayile seklasikhi kwimpahla yokunxiba, kufuneka ukhethe ianophonic umbherha othintelayo okanye unepateni engeyombulelo. Isitayile esifana nolutsha unokuthenga iambrela eqaqambileyo yombala omnye okanye ipripti engaqhelekanga.
• Iseti yeeglasi okanye iseti yeti -Inketho elungileyo yamantombazana athanda ukuqokelela iindwendwe. Apha kufuneka ukhethe ngokusekelwe kwizinto ozithandayo ngentlokoma. Inokuba yinkonzo ye-feede, eyenziwe kwisitayile se-baroque, okanye iseti yanamhlanje kwisitayile seTekhnoloji ephezulu.
• Iseti yelinen yelinen. Ilandela ukusuka ngaphakathi kwigumbi lokulala kunye nokuncancisa kwe-hostess. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokukhetha, ungacela iBhunga kwindoda okanye kwintombi kadade.

Izipho ezingaqhelekanga

Abo bangathandi ukungcungcutheka xa bekhetha isipho, unokuhlala uthenga into eyimfuneko ekhaya okanye ekukhathaleni. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uziva ngabantu abathanda ukukhetha izipho eziya kwahluka kwezinye kwaye ziya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide, zonke ezi ndlela zilandelayo zikhethwe.

• Ukutsalwa kwi-odolo Okanye yenziwe usebenzisa ikhathuni yekhompyuter yekhompyuter. Olu khetho lwesipho somhlobo wakho olithandayo awuyi kuba yintombazana yosuku lokuzalwa, kodwa iya kuhonjiswa phakathi kwendlu yakhe.
• Abo bathanda iziselo ezinotywala obuphezulu , Ungayithenga iwayini entle, esiyisikhumbuzo sesikhumbuzo kwi-arerpt yayo.
• Kwitekhnoloji emnandi Unokuqokelela isipho esimnandi esiya kuba yindawo yokugcina impahla entle. Isenokuba yekhekhe eqokelelwe kwimivalo eyahlukeneyo kunye nezandiso ezimangalisayo. Ibhokisi yemozulu entle, enokugcwaliswa ziindidi zeelekese - itshokholethi, ipipi, i-chups, i-gingerbreas, i-gingerbread, kwanokuhamba. Ungatyala amakhadi amancinci aliqela ngokudibeneyo.
• Intombi ethanda ukuqokelela iipuzzle , Unga-odola ifoto enkulu pephazl okanye ukhethe ukukhetha nawuphi na umfanekiso kuwo. Inomdla, kunjalo, ijongeka ngathi yifoto, enokuthi emva koko ixhonywe eludongeni kwigumbi.
• Isatifikethi sesipho Kwivenkile yakho oyithandayo okanye izixhobo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uyithanda ibhegi yakho ye-Hand njengomhlobo wakho, nokuba akukho bhetele ukuba uzikhethele yena okanye mhlawumbi akunjalo.
• Isatifikethi kwi-salon yobuhle. Oku kunokuba sisiqinisekiso senkqubo ethile - i-mani, i-pedicure, i-ettoo, inyibilikisi okanye isatifikethi senani elithile, kwaye ukhetho lweenkonzo luza kuhlala lusemva kwentombazana yokuzalwa.
• Unokwenza iseti ye-odolo ye-gingerbread okanye iikomityi, onokuthi ukhethe imifanekiso kunye nemibhalo. Ijongeka ingaqhelekanga, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, imbi kakhulu.

Umtsalane womfazi kukuba kwisikhumbuzo seminyaka engama-18, ubuncinci kwisikhumbuzo esingama-33, ukuba umnika into yokudlala ethambileyo okanye umhombiso omnandi, uya konwaba.

Ukuba awuyazi into engcono ukunika umntu obhinqileyo wokuzalwa, ukubona ukhetho lwezimvo kwividiyo elandelayo.